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toba, o n ko orin ote. i donno ote in english but i just told him he has been singing ote songs. the type u sing against your enemies.

Heres another song that describes my mood in relation to whats happening on this thread

singing.

beni kan wo sokoto, to tun wo gidigba, Toba- if anyone wears trousers, and also gidigba(ddonno wat dat means)

agbada nla ni mo da.- I av worn agbada(meaning he is wearing something better)

Moo n se egbe won, mo ju won looo- am not their mate. am more than them(or greater)
egbe baba won ni mo un se.- am their father's mate(now u can c he is going overboard)

Iri te ri gun, te fi n ta gun loofa,  baba won- (donno wat ds means but dr's a mention of father)if only dr is ami(signs) maybe i'd know dat.


Mo ti goke odo, ki afara to ja- i  crossed over the river b4 the bridge collapsed

Mo ti goke odo, ki afara to ja[b]
care to interpret them?
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hehehe,

Deols, care to translate for us again?,


Sorry i don turn you to translator, can't understand his yourba!!

i just did  . are u yoruba?

Evil Brain:
@OP
I agree that Frosbel is an annoying bigot and a frequent troll but this thread is as bad as anything he's ever done on this site.
In trying to fight a dark lord, you have become one yourself.

are u for real? I wonder why u all are not talking about what he said. frosbel gave a wrong interpretation to a verse of the Quran(note dat am aMuslim) and I have a right to make that known. Many people believe all he says thinking they are from the right sources.

I only wonder why he has to lie against the words of God for that matter to prove a point. he could have proven them without that. Imagine claiming homosexuality is in paradise? that is grave and you should give that a thought to understand my position here!

Please explain the below :

Qur'an 56:13 ", Round about them will (serve) boys of perpetual (freshness), of never ending bloom, "

ثُلَّةٌ مِّنَ الاٌّوَّلِينَ

56:13 A multitude of those will be from the first ones. .
u gave the wrong quotation. Again I say, always verify those things before u post them. Go and check and then re quote the verse u meant.

Qur'an 76:19 "And round them shall serve immortal boys of perpetual freshness, never altering in age. If you saw them, you would think they were scattered pearls."

*young boys from the boys of Paradise will go around serving the people of Paradise.
*everlasting youth means, in one state forever which they will be never changing from, they will not increase in age.

*If you see them, you would think them scattered pearls means when you see them dispersing to fulfill the needs of their masters, their great number, their beautiful faces, handsome colors, fine clothing and ornaments, you would think that they were scattered pearls. There is no better quality than this, nor is there anything nicer to look at than scattered pearls in a beautiful place.
*And when you look means `when you see it, O Muhammad.'  

Qur'an 76:21 "Upon them will be green garments of fine green silk and heavy gold brocade. They will be adorned with bracelets of silver;, "

meaning, among the garments of the people of Paradise is silk and Sundus, which is a high quality silk. These garments will be shirts and similar clothing from the undergarments.

Concerning Istabraq (velvet), from it there is that which has a glitter and shimmer to it, and it is that which is worn as outer clothes, just as is well-known in clothing.



They will be adorned with bracelets of silver-

This is a description of the righteous.

In reference to those who will be near to Allah, then their description is as Allah says,


Wherein they will be adorned with bracelets of gold and pearls and their garments therein will be of silk. (22:23)

After Allah mentions the outward beautification with silk and ornaments, He then says,


and their Lord will give them a purifying drink.

meaning, it will purify their insides of envy, despise, hatred, harm and the other reprehensible character traits.

This is just as we have recorded from the Commander of the believers, `Ali bin Abi Talib, that he said,

"When the people of Paradise come to the Gate of Paradise, they will find two springs there. Then it will be as if they were inspired with what to do, so they will drink from one of them and Allah will remove whatever harmfulness there may be within them. Then they will bathe in the other spring and a glow of delight will run all over them. Thus, Allah informs of their outward condition and their inner beauty.''

the above is the interpretation of the verses u provided. I wonder how those justify your lies, frosbel

back! brb

Pastor Kun:
@deols
On the contrary I think Frosbel is doing a great Job on this forum, he only needs to be a bit less confrontational.

can u stay on point pls. I ddnt open this thread to discuss the next poster of the year. frosbel is different thing to different people.

He told a lie on what the Qur'an says and is what am here to discuss at d mo. when you open a thread for d oda one, I might av a reason to recommend joagbaje rather than frosbel

But until then, let us stay on topic pls

frosbel:
Deols has run away

Maybe her brother Sweetnecta , the off-topic king can help her

i dont ever quit man! and I av a life outside of here. Do I av to stay put to prove a point? *smh

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Re: Muslim Women & Polygamy: Would You Tolerate A 2nd Wife?
« #218 on: Today at 00:53:48 »

Quote from: Keemie on Yesterday at 23:57:44
So far my husband follows the rules of polygamy as written in the Quran and Sunnah, I'll accept it.

Which rules besides the fact that he is tired of your old behind and has a passionate desire for a younger behind. Is that the rule you are talking about?. If that is okay by you, then you need your head seriously examined.

oh! so u as a woman thinks a man naturally gets tired of his wife when she gets old?

learn of the other rules. I posted them above

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Re: Muslim Women & Polygamy: Would You Tolerate A 2nd Wife?
« #214 on: Today at 00:26:57 »

God, who created us wit our best interests @ heart has said 'One man, One wife'. Every oda option is 2nd best, choice is urs. And to d polygamy and adultery issues, a man or woman cheating in a marriage doesnt do his/her spouse any harm, but hurts himself. Every one is answerable for their own sins, c'est plus simple.

where did he say that

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Re: Muslim Women & Polygamy: Would You Tolerate A 2nd Wife?
« #202 on: Yesterday at 22:35:46 »

Beta or whatever you call yourself. Thanks for proving my point

Who else can answr the question other than Muslim women? Instead of butting in, let them say their own thoughts on the issue but they cant because they know you and the other fiends will come and silence them. Rubbish

the rate at which these people can lie just to prove their points

the 1st two people to reply this thread are Muslim women for G!sake

frosbel, address your misinterpreted verse and save us the unnecessarily long write up

u must be falling the hands of so many christian faithfuls. they are probably expecting you to prove me wrong and prove your deductions right.

we are bored of all of the above. u av repeated them times without number.

stop spamming pls and answer clearly and briefly(preferably in your own words  )

the above is also filled with such lies. But, because I dont want to derail ds thread, I wont reply them. If u open another thread for that, I will show the ignorance of the writer and that of u.

Da Doctor:
COME. MUMU!! WETIN DEY EVEN WORRY U SEF? NA ME SAY MAKE U MARRY POLYGAMIST? ABEG WAKA JARE.
U ARE BEING SHOWN THE LIGHT YET U DECIDE TO REMAIN IN DARK AND SUBTANTIATE SAME WITH FAKE CLAIMS LIKE A CHILD.

IF ME AND U BEGIN CHALLENGE FOR EDUCATION U NO EVEN REACH ME QUARTER SFE. U DEY HERER DEY TALK STATISTICS WEY U NO UNDERSTAND.

SEE, U CAN DEDUCE OR INDUCE IN your REASONING SO GO SIDON. SMALL TIME NOW U GO SAY BOKO HARAM GET REASON TO STORM US BLA BLA BLA.

U ARE REALLY LOST OH! DYING IN IGNORANCE

hahhahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh! i could only laff @ ds. da doctor indeed  

okay o.i dey

i am very much here o

i just av bn going up nd down with different threads but am following u

Da Doctor:
[b]to further substantiate my claims as per kano and save you the rot of ignorance. see the post below from NL FRONT PAGE FEW MINUTES AGO.[/b]KANO DESTROYS 42000 BOTTLES OF ALCHOHOL
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-792728.0.html

u must think urself as smart o. who says dat doesnt happen. and how does that make dem a good representation of Muslims ??

put in mind- Muslim doesnt= Islam.

and Muslims are of different nationalities and av different cultures dat influence their lives

there are also d socioeconomic factors to look into

wv d above, are the people of kano a representation of an average Muslim??

when u answer ds, i will understand if u need lessons on statistics nd find a way of giving that to u

frosbel:
Help me tell her oo, my wife has never visited Nairaland , why drag her into it

e ma binu. sorry about dat. now, reply. .

coogar:
errrrrr, but is this really necessary?

attack the issue, leave the personality out of it.
frosbel copies n pastes. . . .deal with that, leave frosbel n his wife out of it.

sorry if u dont like dat part. d reason i asked u to ignore it. I made it clear his copy nd paste stopped bothering me. nd  is dat all u c to d post  

Da Doctor:
Dumb one.KANO IS ONE OF THE CORE MUSLIM STATES. in stats we take a rep figure and make postulates not so? KANO? Yes kano is a seat in islam a known one in nigeria. the freedom here isnt there and sharia is clear cut. you dont drink beer any how or move it. i have seen them burn NB trailer conveying same late in the night(in a bid to avoid the extremists). in kano you dont wear anything to anywhere or play any kind of music anywhere not sabon gari. except this has changed now. i was there late 2008.

i wonder where and from whom  u learnt statistics. do u know of bias in statistics. dat is all ur kind of statistics wld give.

everything u wrote says a lot. They are forced to live certain lives and not out of free will- and that makes them d perfect representation? and u were there in 2008- wat a statistics

frosbel:
I hope Jarus will put this down in the front page so that we can take this down to the wire 

Even after I left the ISLAM section , deols and sweetnectra are dragging me back 

reply ASAP or wats taking your time. are u looking for where to copy from??

[quote author=aloy/emeka link=topic=792568.msg9457716#msg9457716 date=1320146086]You are a product of polygamous home and there is no doubt that the major players can work amicably and make life easy for all the members but what you fail to address is the emotional impact of polygamy on the women involved. How did wife no 1 feel about her husband bringing in wife no 2 and so on?. I am sure you don't have the answer because you can't speak for them but I assure you that one must be disgruntled by that arrangement at a point in her marital life.

Are muslim women wired different emotionally from Christian, Hindu, pagan, etc women?. Where is the jealousy ratio?. How about finances because majority of the polygamist men in Nigeria are in financial comatose but they manage to "herd" their harem. As a matter of fact, it is the women who toil to provide food for them. Which makes me wonder whether these muslim men marry multiple wives to insure they will always have food on their table till the end of time.

He will be getting nicer things, quality food, etc from the richer wife while the broke wives live in penury with their children.[/quote]this is what ignornce does to the thinking capability. You started the thread well. and u cld just av continued asking questions. by now, u would av bn enlightened enough.

There is a difference between what Islam stipulates and what people practice. In fact, yoruba Muslims are polygamous due to cultural influence more than religious. Polygamy should be very hard to practice, if according to Islam.


[size=20pt]*In Islam, a polygamous man must share his resources equally among the wives
*His time must be shared too- a timetable for the nights he spends wv dem(call dat wat u may)
*A man is not to marry at all, if he wldnt be able to provide sustenance for himself and his family
*when the children reach the age of seven, boys are to be separated from girls- now, dat makes at least three rooms for a monogamous man to provide.
*If he is thinking of anoda wife, he must av had double dat resource to provide for them.
*Now, add d economic situation of d world- good schools, good nutrition and all of that
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These only call attention to the fact that, if Muslim men practice it well,, and Muslim women follow Islam well(total submission to the will of Allah), all d problems u attribute to polygamy would not be there. In fact, others would be willing to be Muslims.

Muslims themselves need Islamic education. How many pple even go to ile keu anymore?

Have it, man- https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-794208.0.html#msg9458353

Frosbel is a bigot, no doubt! I have no problem with that. But now that he has started to spread lies, I need to call every1's attention to it.

u can ignore ds paragraph
Frosbel copies nd pastes the things he posts without verifying them.probably because he has so much trust in the people he copies from. U can there by understand why he doesnt read replies and if he does, doesnt assimilate them. If he wouldnt read replies for understanding, he cannot have a change in mind. So, he keeps working hard without any development to himself. DO u ever wonder why he has certain lines that he uses over and over again??- He simply cant reason beyond those. I was surprised to learn yeserday that he is married- what a poor woman dealing with frosbel!

He started a thread, https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-793306.0.html where he quoted the QUr'an. but d quotes were deliberately tuned to favor frosbel and his masters' description of Islam.the following is what he wrote-

Not only are there virgins in multiplied numbers, but, also, dashing and handsome young boys ready to be devoured in Same-sex activities. [/b]The Islam pornographic brothel includes the darkest possible sin of men Desecrating innocent young boys. These quotes from the Koran document these horrible acts:

“Round about them will serve, to them, boys (handsome) as pearls well-guarded.” (Koran 52:24)

but the verse reads as follows-

[b] وَيَطُوفُ عَلَيْهِمْ غِلْمَانٌ لَّهُمْ كَأَنَّهُمْ لُؤْلُؤٌ مَّكْنُونٌ 52:24 And there will go round boy-servants of theirs, to serve them as if they were preserved pearls.

Ibn Kathir explained it this way-

This is a description of the servants and aids, the believers will have in Paradise. Their servants will be beautiful, graceful in appearance, clean and neat as well-preserved pearls,

from another verse of the QUr'an, Allah says-
Immortal boys will go around them with cups, and jugs, and a glass of flowing wine. (56:17-18)

LESSON- Always be sure of what you say before saying them. Ask questions from knowledgeable Muslims about their religion
Read to understand and not to criticise. if need be, do it politely.

Frosbel and his cronies will do anything so u can think they are on point, not necessarily because they are good christians.

Frosbel is a LIAR. I will open a thread to disprove ur lies soon.

U all should look out for it.

frosbel:
Researching the religions of the world for a view of their “eternal heavens” is a hopeless venture. If these religions are judged by the futures they offer, they are a sad spectacle. Christianity is the one and only faith that promises a simple and beautiful life in a glorious setting worthy of human existence. All the rest of the world’s religions show signs of being created by a fallen mind or minds with no concept of a meaningful eternal life.

The saddest of all these religions is the Islamic faith. While many politicians and religious leaders claim that the Islam god, Allah, is the same god as the Judeo-Christian God, the facts confirm that this is a false claim. Nothing proves this more absolutely than the different theologies of heaven.

First, let’s look at the Islamic theology of heaven. Their heaven is a sex brothel, where women will spend eternity as sex slaves. Any woman that would ever embrace Islam must be ignorant of this fact. What woman would want to be one of the many wives, along with seventy-two virgins, that serve one man with sex for eternity?

The prophet Mohammed described his view with the following words, “The smallest reward for the people of paradise is an abode where there are 80,000 servants and 72 wives, over which stands a dome decorated with pearls, aquamarine, and ruby, as wide as the distance from Al-Jabiyyah [a Damascus suburb] to Sana’a .” (Surah Al-Rahman 55, 72, as interpreted by Ibn Kathir, who died in 1373 CE).

Here are quotes directly from the Koran:

“As for the righteous, they shall surely triumph. Theirs shall be gardens and vineyards, and high-bosomed virgins for companions: a truly overflowing cup.” (Koran 78:31)

“, They will sit with bashful, dark-eyed virgins, as chaste as the sheltered eggs of ostriches.” (Koran 37:40-48)

“, Yes and We shall wed them to dark-eyed houris (beautiful virgins).” (Koran 44:51-55)

“, They shall recline on couches ranged in rows. To dark-eyed houris (virgins) we shall wed them, ” (Koran 52:17-20)

“In them will be bashful virgins neither man nor Jinn will have touched before. Then which of the favours of your Lord will you deny?" (Koran 55:56-57)

“Virgins as fair as corals and rubies. Then which of the favours of your Lord will you deny?" (Koran 55:57-58)

“, We created the houris (the beautiful women) and made them virgins, loving companions for those on the right hand, ” (Koran 56:7-40)

"In each there shall be virgins chaste and fair, Dark eyed virgins sheltered in their tents whom neither man nor Jinn will have touched before, ” (Koran 55:70-77)

Not only are there virgins in multiplied numbers, but, also, dashing and handsome young boys ready to be devoured in Same-sex activities. The Islam pornographic brothel includes the darkest possible sin of men Desecrating innocent young boys. These quotes from the Koran document these horrible acts:

“Round about them will serve, to them, boys (handsome) as pearls well-guarded.” (Koran 52:24)

“Round about them will serve boys of perpetual freshness.” (Koran 56:17)

“And round about them will serve boys of perpetual freshness: if thou seest them, thou wouldst think them scattered pearls.” (Koran 76:19)

While I try to spare you the descriptive and vulgar language that extends far beyond what I am writing, I must mention the sex market promised by Prophet Mohammed. In the Hadiths, Mohammed extends the talk of virgins and boys to promise a free sex market, where there is no end of choices for additional sex beyond the wives, 72 virgins, and young boys. “Ali reported that the Apostle of Allah said, ‘There is in Paradise a market wherein there will be no buying or selling, but will consist of men and women. When a man desires a beauty, he will have intercourse with them.’” (Al Hadis, Vol. 4, p. 172, No. 34)

The only possible creator of this debauchery is the Prince of Darkness, the fallen malevolent, the blasphemer of the Father – Lucifer himself. This fallen prince and all his discontented angels and men are on a subway to Hell. This subway is gaining speed and is soon to arrive at the depot of darkness.

When we stop to compare the Christian Heaven that fills the Bible from Genesis to Revelation with the Islamic heaven ( Paradise ), we are left with nothing to compare. The Islamic heaven is not a heaven after all, but a brothel where sick men indulge in lustful activities uninhibited by moral restraints. I cannot find one promise to the Islamic women except the task of watching the men live out the wildest description of sex SinParties ever recorded. There is doubtless no pornographic book more vulgar and debauched than the Islamic theology of their heaven. A sex market that men can visit and choose a woman at will with which to have open sex has to be at the very bottom of the depravity of fallen mankind.

The Heaven promised in the Holy Bible is rich, pure, God-centered, and reserved for the pure saints that have turned from the filthy world of lust. Our glorified bodies will exemplify the highest morality possible. This glorious life is so far removed from the base appetite of sex that the thought of such will not even come to mind. The joy of our Father and our Savior, Jesus Christ, will be the highest expression of eternal life. The New Heaven and the New Earth will be centered round a New Jerusalem so spectacular that our imagination can only see the blinding light of it all.

The city of twelve levels will be surrounded by jasper walls and pearly gates. Each of the twelve foundations will be enhanced by priceless jewels from pure sapphires to the royal purple amethysts. Streets will be paved with gold and the Light of the city will be the Lord Jesus Christ – the Light of the world. Angels will welcome the saints as they exit and/or enter the city. The River of Life will flow out of God’s throne and the Tree of Life will line its banks.

Our Bible is filled with the way that leads to this eternal reward. Jesus Christ paid the debt of sin for all that choose to surrender to His eternal will. The Heaven of our Holy Bible is a pure place; purchased by His pure blood and offered to every soul that will turn from the lust of life to the “Way, the Truth, and the Life” -- Jesus Christ.

Joseph R. Chambers

Da Doctor:
LEGALISE P/RO/S/T/ITUTION AND THIS WILL REDUCE. GASKIA.


I LOST CONFIDENCE IN THESE HIJAB AND SHORT TROUSER WEARING PUNDITS WEN I WORKED A MONTH IN KANO FROM MY HOTEL ROOM BEFORE EVENTUALLY MOVING TO THE STAFF QUARTERS.

and all pastors must be bad cos a few are bad then. U worked in kano and kano=islam?

I wonder how many of u are educated without sounding so. that some Muslims u met in d city of kano are bad makes d generality of 1.5 billion muslims same?

am a Muslim and I am chaste. does that change ur opinin of all Muslims? definitely not.

i can only speak for myself.
and i was particularly speaking about the discussion we both had.
did i ever insult you? did i ever claim my faith is better than yours?

of course we had a good discussion wv no insults but that reply is to d reply u gave betathings. U said he started d war but I think thiefofhearts did. And he sounded d way he did as a response to her.

mukina2:
Yes English please

there u av it sweery

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=793403.msg9456434#msg9456434 date=1320131843]Heeheheee!!

Question 1: Yes I indeed do believe in God, but not the christian or muslim God.

Question 2: NO!! I was actually in the middle of an incantation when that photo was taken. [/quote]were u born into your religion? Is it one at all/ what is it called?

incantation for real. that thing u were holding looks like some weed. and u looked like u were avn d effects of something high. is that part of your
religious process? did u feel high? and what is dat thing?

jay bee:
english pls  

are u not yoruba? or u just cant read it?
translation

toba:
hmm
singing
won ni awon fe gbaya wo wa- they say they want to take my(our) wife
ejo won ko- it is not their fault

ejo wo ko won ti lo ya wo eele- it is not their fault cos they av collected usury(loan)

ojoo esin maa lo su yi o, oun ti won ra wo le- it is a shameful deed; to backfire soon

ti won le ba logun odun, -it can take up to twenty years

Abuku reee o emo repete - this is shameful and very surprising (amazing)

deols:
ah ah. interesting. your yoruba writing is baaaaaaaaaaaad. I had to read it again to understand.lemme answer you in yoruba.

iyawo wo o. se eyi ti o ti fe, abi ewo?- which wife are u talking about. the one you already have or who?

owo ele ke? musulumi o ki n ya owo ele. boya toba lo ya owo ele.- usury? Muslims dont get that.toba  Probably did

se ori beyen nkan ti mo n so nipa owo ele. o le to ogun odun ko to ri san pada. o dara ki o ma ya rara.- exactly wat i say of usury.it can take up to twenty yrs before u can pay it bak.

Abuku nla ni o. ati pe ta lo n bawi gan an? - it is a shame for real. and who exactly were u talking to

[quote author=D-mouthed link=topic=774757.msg9457550#msg9457550 date=1320144339]God is faithful sha, the people that have contacted this stuff are not any worse than we are, some off them was not even through sex so?

I think runing to christ is the anwer now so meet me there--------[/quote]Now i understand d reason for ur post. What a good way to God. You didnt know of God before you did the do? lol. .anyways, did u test positive or negative?

And u dont go to a doctor to be diagnosed. U go to him to b tested. dats a better word to use

toba:
hmm
singing
won ni awon fe gbaya wo wa
ejo won ko

ejo wo ko won ti lo ya wo eele

ojoo esin maa lo su yi o, oun ti won ra wo le

ti won le ba logun odun,

Abuku reee o emo repete

ah ah. interesting. your yoruba writing is baaaaaaaaaaaad. I had to read it again to understand.lemme answer you in yoruba.

iyawo wo o. se eyi ti o ti fe, abi ewo?

owo ele ke? musulumi o ki n ya owo ele. boya toba lo ya owo ele.

se ori beyen nkan ti mo n so nipa owo ele. o le to ogun odun ko to ri san pada. o dara ki o ma ya rara.

Abuku nla ni o. ati pe ta lo n bawi gan an?

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Re: Muslim Women & Polygamy: Would You Tolerate A 2nd Wife?
« #201 on: Yesterday at 22:33:43 »


I trust you to always come here fighting the religious war.

Look man the op is just asking a rational question."Muslim Women & Polygamy: Would You Tolerate A 2nd Wife?"

Because must Muslim women including deols are not willing to enter a Polygamous relationship.

So just chill and enjoy the trill.

unfortunately that is d only thing u learnt from my post?? *smh

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Re: Muslim Women & Polygamy: Would You Tolerate A 2nd Wife?
« #199 on: Yesterday at 22:21:16 »

Unfortunately, in Islam, women have NO such choice and lack the intelligence to make such choice. Muhammed said in one of his many teachings," I HAVE NOT SEEN ANY ONE MORE DEFICIENT IN INTELLIGENCE THAN WOMEN"- Surah 2:228. Islam sees their wives as their possession,- Surah2:214. Isalam considers their wives as sex objects."YOUR WIVES ARE AS TILTH UNTO YOU, SO APPROACH YOUR TILTH WHEN OR HOW YE WILL"- Surah 2:223. Muhammed said women are BAD OMEN -Bukhary Vol. 7:33 and told men to BEAT THEM (their wives)- Surah4:34. Any challenge?, I have the Coran with me

the problem with many of u is dat u quote the Qur'an without avn an understanding of it. I told coogar yesterday to get tafsir ibn kathir. reading that would give u an interpretation to what you take of the Qur'an. Many of you only copy and paste from certain sites but u wld be responsible for urself on d day of judgement.

BTW, av u heard that the prophet would help his wives with their house chores?

and dat he asked that you give more respect to your mother even than your father

and that he said d best of men are those who are best to their wives?

He also said the paradise of a child lies at the feet of his mother

He used to spend so much time playing with his family

these are a few of the good things I can remeber now. . If your aim is forever to criticise, you will never c d light of God.