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Take this from a married man, what's happening is the classical control mind games that many wives/women with insecurity issues play. You're not the cause of her insecurities, its in most young ladies of today and especially those raised by single mothers who never married and who raised their daughter directly or indirectly to hate men. Now, having her single mom living with you is a bad idea. You may have done it in good faith but your wife and her mom will exploit it to the maxi to put you on your knees and take control of your life and marriage. Forget all that apologise and cheating accusations it's part of the game and your family centredness is being used to blackmail you and until you call it bluff you're done for, it will never end. This is classical dilemma of nice guys/husbands... Rash and bruth guys don't get this from their wives for long... |
Gentle0wavez:If you're married then, you have a point rightfully so. If you're just BF and GF. You ain't got no rights sir. Married women use it all the time and its humiliting for a married man as well as stupid on the part of wives. It's worse for faithful and homely husbands because their knows they won't go out to get it. However, the repeated use of it to settle scores push many husbands who have been enduring temptations outside from ladies all the while and it takes just one day of frustration and attention from an opportunist tempter to get him down and it's all over. An unintended away match has been played, coincidence becomes a habit and... |
Klass99:blamed wife because the process that led to Adam falling is still alive today. Abraham also did same and I'll say it here. Every man is wired to, desires, is expected and want to make his wife happy by providing for her and protecting her. But once a wife or girlfriend in a man's wants or desires something to be done for her and she has requested it from her man. Until the man does her request his life is going to be miserable because, she nag him, torment him till life becomes unbearable for him. At the end of the day he can only have peace when he does his wife's bidding but there's a negative consequence for doing it he takes the blame because wifes don't take responsibility or blame for anything that goes wrong from their behind the scenes persuasions and promptings. Adam was nagged to the point of obeying his wife's request that he eventually disobeyed God. Abraham was nagged by Sarah to take her maid to have children for her stead as the cultural belief accepted it but in wading the constant nagging he doubted God's promise to have a child by an old Sarah... John the Baptist was beheaded by king Herod to please his stepdaughter by the manipulation of his wife because she was tired John the Baptist preaching against her being snatched from her poor husband by the king... If woman never mean you for anything, your life is peace but once one woman, be it wife or girlfriend enter you if you no gree am wetin she want, bro, you're in soup.... Only married men can testify... |
Mayng01:Bad mouth ![]() |
Damidave1124:In addition, give your life to Christ, go to church regularly, study the lives of young bible characters like a young David. Don't dress tooshed up, wear same clothes for a long time like repeating trousers and shirts, wear same shoes if comfortable all week and months. No perfumes or occasionally wear a cheap one. Don't be quick to buy a girl any gifts, don't spend too much time in company of girls alone except as a group and group activity is over, walk away. Pursue your goals in life, act like a bookwarm uninterested in girls and you'll be free of girlfriends. I did these mostly because I was shy and broke all through secondary school to university. I didn't have a girlfriend until I was sure I needed a companion and serious relationship that led to marriage in my late 30s after achieving some of my significant goals. Be very nice but no attached to female friends or church sisters too. |
snitchbitch:That defines a gold digger... |
PattyMike:You're well informed bro. They're also very good in nursing, customer service and secretarial service due to their generally soft nature... Poverty in their country na seleke... |
This is one of the numerous evil ways that our people have used to bastadize the reputation of Nigeria and Nigerians globally. |
Dansuqi:This Kangaroo primaries with cooked up results? There's a order against it today and the right faction (whose court action chained of Oshiomhole) didn't organise this. Exercise in futility |
BlessedBoss:Unless you're an Agbero or those who wanted to have access to the treasury otherwise, the statement you made about Obaseki not having a good record is a slip of a drunkard's tongue. |
All na part of political negotiations and stock elevation for significance if and when the party wins the elections. Obaseki's the only chance PDP has to win in Edo and PDP can only ride in his waves of popularity from fall out with APC, his performance, anti-Oshiomhole sentiment that's very huge in Edo. |
Born2Breed:Rightly spoken |
Rozz:What about slay queens who deliberately seduce men at any opportunity? Married or single matured rich women who seduce young vulnerable men as toy boys? |
babyfaceafrica:You forget that contracts and appointments are now in their favour? If Oshiomhole had not been made, Obaseki was guaranteed a 2nd because the people love him and all contracts and appointments would have remained in APC. But PDP gets compaign funds, contracts and appointments now if they help Obaseki to won which is very high probability |
Why do people exhibit ignorance with relish online or social media like this? In the entire Edo land, there's one and only one Oba. Politicians go and come, Oba is Oba and no rival. All other traditional rulers in other parts of Edo are under the Oba, they bear the titles of their tribe and land and they see and take the Oba as their Royal father and they're loyal W author=omorttee4u post=90840865][/b] If you call that ignorant, I agree. Please note : the law/constitution of Nigeria supersede anything traditional. If we want the effect of traditional ruler, there shouldn't be local government chairman here and there. Except you want to tell me, the whole of Benin has just one Oba as a whole. That will make him equivalent to no.1 citizen of the state. So, if any sitting Govern. Want to make any Oba reckless, brother he will and walk freely. How many demon and Orisha you striked on white colonials ,when they came to your city and governed you for years.[/quote] |
This is fake news, the Oba of Benin does not make public utterances in political matters except to resolve conflicts which he did by visiting the President and asking Buhari to intervene last year. So, this publication is false. |
Pavillon:Keep quiet and leave Edo people alone... |
IAIASICLAIA:Non of the other parties have capacity to proper a candidate at this short notice. Maybe after this term, before 2024, another party can grow from disgruntled members of the 2 big ones to join them to have bigger capacity. |
FuckTheWorld:Sorry to disappoint you, Obaseki's popularity is because he's people centred and humble and Edo are united for once on his side to rid Edo of Agbero gang and Agberocracy by Oshiomhole. Oshiomhole is the greedy one and Edo will disgrace him.... |
1000 likes for your analysis and delivery. These are among our copy and paste Professors that sell their conscience to thugs of politics for a few wads of Naira. [b] quote author=Cantonese post=90794855]Simply put a lot of our professors in this country have ended up making mockery of themselves. With what we see at election centers, with professors as returning officers, they should bow their faces in shame. This man probably thought it was business as usual when Obaseki became governor. Oshiomole was given a dose of the same pill he gave Anenih when he single handedly brought Obaseki. To fight Anenih, one leg of Oshiomole's stool was corruption. Can he tell any reasonable person that what sustains his party people in Edo state is not corruption? When he deceptively introduced Obaseki as a technocrat, what played behind the scenes we did not hear. But going by the Nigerian politicians that we know one of the conditions would have been regular supply of public funds. The governor failed that agreement and that simply is the no. 1 reason for the battles. This professor also did not get free funds. Oshiomole late last year in the incident in Iyamho when he was attacked by thugs said that he did not teach Obaseki/Shuaibu what they did. So we could deduce that he taught them certain things, one of which was how to end godfatherism. He taught them all how he resisted and defeated the late Tony Anenih. Today they applied the same instrument against him. How would the professor talk about thuggery and breaking down people's properties? Oshiomole did worse things. Remember Bob Izua? What about the widow? We need good professionals in politics and not professional politicians. If it takes men with the will like Obaseki to make our states and nation better let's support them. People like this hypocritical professor should bow their faces in shame. The governor has found a party. If he does not return as governor he has at least opened the eyes of Edo people more to the destruction of their state by some greedy people.[/quote][/b] |
1000 likes for your analysis and delivery. These are among our copy and paste Professors that sell their conscience to thugs of politics for a few wads of Naira. [b] quote author=Cantonese post=90794855]Simply put a lot of our professors in this country have ended up making mockery of themselves. With what we see at election centers, with professors as returning officers, they should bow their faces in shame. This man probably thought it was business as usual when Obaseki became governor. Oshiomole was given a dose of the same pill he gave Anenih when he single handedly brought Obaseki. To fight Anenih, one leg of Oshiomole's stool was corruption. Can he tell any reasonable person that what sustains his party people in Edo state is not corruption? When he deceptively introduced Obaseki as a technocrat, what played behind the scenes we did not hear. But going by the Nigerian politicians that we know one of the conditions would have been regular supply of public funds. The governor failed that agreement and that simply is the no. 1 reason for the battles. This professor also did not get free funds. Oshiomole late last year in the incident in Iyamho when he was attacked by thugs said that he did not teach Obaseki/Shuaibu what they did. So we could deduce that he taught them certain things, one of which was how to end godfatherism. He taught them all how he resisted and defeated the late Tony Anenih. Today they applied the same instrument against him. How would the professor talk about thuggery and breaking down people's properties? Oshiomole did worse things. Remember Bob Izua? What about the widow? We need good professionals in politics and not professional politicians. If it takes men with the will like Obaseki to make our states and nation better let's support them. People like this hypocritical professor should bow their faces in shame. The governor has found a party. If he does not return as governor he has at least opened the eyes of Edo people more to the destruction of their state by some greedy people.[/quote][/b] |
This is what happens whenever Nigerian politicians and their feel secured after staying in power for some yrs, they become lawless, arrogant and wreckless.. When PDP had been in power for 12yrs, they were dreaming of ruling for 60yrs and through caution to the wind unless they slipped. Now APC have just reached in less than 10ys in power federal and some state except Lagos. |
omofranyoung: |
Born2Breed:Na word you talk my dear |
Gforce2015:Illiterates are always first to call others illiterate... |
ariefadenco:You see why it was a kangaroo committee? |
Bighead9:My dear, he has only spent 3yrs in office, one more year to go. don't be too much in hurry to say what you don't know. |
Wiseandtrue:Gbosaaa. Thank you |
Sheggy13:That's up to UI to explain because the system was stricter then than now. I never collected my primary school certificate before entering secondary school, I only had my primary school testimonial which wasn't the certificate at all and before I collect it though reluctantly after many years, the school's Headteacher's office caught fire and got burnt down. Secondly, if he didn't have any proof of it then, he should have been rusticated in final year for failure to meet the requirements for direct entry then. He did beat UI or UI was negligent? His only sin is not having any proof to show for his Hsc or A level now. It's up to UI to explain how he met their requirements and graduated because his name is also in the graduands list for the year he graduated. |
pfadom:What forgery Sir? Did university of Ibadan deny that he didn't get his degree there? The only problem he's stock with is he's not being able to provide his A/level HSC certificate(the only missing link) which he like many students do often, failed to collect once he gained university admission. |
Gforce2015:Stupidity and ignorance dey worry you. Since when did Obaseki family become politicians or had say in Edo politics? Where did you see his family involved in the political atmosphere of Edo that empowered him into political office? Una go just yarn kpoa kpoa like corn wey dey roast for fire. No dey talk wetin you no know ... ![]() |
SpecialAdviser:You dey mind them, these same people will run to Canada or U.S if they get a needle-hole opportunity yet, they clap for the same depots that are making the country unlivable. They want angels to come and liberate the country when they support demons in govt |
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when the earth was less complicated and populated.

