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FamilyRe: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by DeRay98(m): 5:29am On Jun 24, 2020
Take this from a married man, what's happening is the classical control mind games that many wives/women with insecurity issues play.
You're not the cause of her insecurities, its in most young ladies of today and especially those raised by single mothers who never married and who raised their daughter directly or indirectly to hate men.
Now, having her single mom living with you is a bad idea. You may have done it in good faith but your wife and her mom will exploit it to the maxi to put you on your knees and take control of your life and marriage.
Forget all that apologise and cheating accusations it's part of the game and your family centredness is being used to blackmail you and until you call it bluff you're done for, it will never end.
This is classical dilemma of nice guys/husbands...
Rash and bruth guys don't get this from their wives for long...
RomanceRe: Weaponizing Sex, What Should Be Done?? by DeRay98(m): 10:54am On Jun 23, 2020
Gentle0wavez:
Please how can you deal with a situation where your partner is hell bent on using sex as a weapon. That's when you don't live up to her expectations, she feels like you don't deserve sex. I know that there are many fishes in the river but I don't feel good or even safe going outside and I'm not ready to rape someone's daughter neither am I ready to easily bend to her will or go back to my Masturbating ways bcoz of nonsense. The rejection dey pain sha, esp when you know that nothing is wrong with her, she just wants to leverage power over you. Other aspects of the relationship dey OK oh, but this flaw is really tempting me to push the quit button.
If you're married then, you have a point rightfully so. If you're just BF and GF.
You ain't got no rights sir.
Married women use it all the time and its humiliting for a married man as well as stupid on the part of wives.
It's worse for faithful and homely husbands because their knows they won't go out to get it.
However, the repeated use of it to settle scores push many husbands who have been enduring temptations outside from ladies all the while and it takes just one day of frustration and attention from an opportunist tempter to get him down and it's all over. An unintended away match has been played, coincidence becomes a habit and...
FamilyRe: Why Blame Women For Everything?? by DeRay98(m): 10:34am On Jun 23, 2020
Klass99:
This blame game started in the garden of Eden na! cheesy when the earth was less complicated and populated.

I don't see how that's going to change now, that the earth is more populated and complicated.

As a married man, I can see why Adam
blamed wife because the process that led to Adam falling is still alive today.
Abraham also did same and I'll say it here.
Every man is wired to, desires, is expected and want to make his wife happy by providing for her and protecting her.
But once a wife or girlfriend in a man's wants or desires something to be done for her and she has requested it from her man. Until the man does her request his life is going to be miserable because, she nag him, torment him till life becomes unbearable for him.
At the end of the day he can only have peace when he does his wife's bidding but there's a negative consequence for doing it he takes the blame because wifes don't take responsibility or blame for anything that goes wrong from their behind the scenes persuasions and promptings.
Adam was nagged to the point of obeying his wife's request that he eventually disobeyed God.
Abraham was nagged by Sarah to take her maid to have children for her stead as the cultural belief accepted it but in wading the constant nagging he doubted God's promise to have a child by an old Sarah...
John the Baptist was beheaded by king Herod to please his stepdaughter by the manipulation of his wife because she was tired John the Baptist preaching against her being snatched from her poor husband by the king...
If woman never mean you for anything, your life is peace but once one woman, be it wife or girlfriend enter you if you no gree am wetin she want, bro, you're in soup....
Only married men can testify...
RomanceRe: Boobs Gang: If You Have A Gf And This Girl Offers You Free Sex, Would You Cheat? by DeRay98(m): 7:05am On Jun 23, 2020
Mayng01:
Those boobs are like wombolombo!
Bad mouth grin
RomanceRe: How Can I Avoid Having A Girlfriend? by DeRay98(m): 6:54am On Jun 23, 2020
Damidave1124:
Pretend as if you're broke all the time, my brother, they will avoid you like Corona virus patient
In addition, give your life to Christ, go to church regularly, study the lives of young bible characters like a young David.
Don't dress tooshed up, wear same clothes for a long time like repeating trousers and shirts, wear same shoes if comfortable all week and months.
No perfumes or occasionally wear a cheap one.
Don't be quick to buy a girl any gifts, don't spend too much time in company of girls alone except as a group and group activity is over, walk away.
Pursue your goals in life, act like a bookwarm uninterested in girls and you'll be free of girlfriends.
I did these mostly because I was shy and broke all through secondary school to university.
I didn't have a girlfriend until I was sure I needed a companion and serious relationship that led to marriage in my late 30s after achieving some of my significant goals.
Be very nice but no attached to female friends or church sisters too.
RomanceRe: Guys Are Always Too Quick To Assume That We Ladies Are Crazy! by DeRay98(m): 6:33am On Jun 23, 2020
snitchbitch:
Nigerian girls are not crazy. They are smart and they always go for the best.

You don't have money and you are toasting a girl, what will you give to her? The more money you have the more she loves you.
That defines a gold digger...
CrimeRe: Police Rescue Kidnapped Philippino Lady Lured To Nigeria By Supposed Lover by DeRay98(m): 6:26am On Jun 23, 2020
PattyMike:
Filipino, the worst kind of people to try to take money from, they simply don't have it. They're poor there and thier own Lagos is Manila, Manila is like the metropolis where majority of rich people live. The only thing they can offer you is unconditional love, no kpekem. Unless those ones working in Dubai, those ones can help you out financially if she doesn't have too many mouths to feed back in Philippines. Go Chevron estate, most of them are working in Nigeria too as nannies and domestic worker. I heard they're good nannies.
You're well informed bro.
They're also very good in nursing, customer service and secretarial service due to their generally soft nature...
Poverty in their country na seleke...
CrimeRe: Police Rescue Kidnapped Philippino Lady Lured To Nigeria By Supposed Lover by DeRay98(m): 6:22am On Jun 23, 2020
This is one of the numerous evil ways that our people have used to bastadize the reputation of Nigeria and Nigerians globally.
PoliticsRe: Results Of APC Primaries In Edo 2020 by DeRay98(m): 6:45pm On Jun 22, 2020
Dansuqi:
Very clean and transparent primaries.pdp will be jealous and regret why they didn't adopt this method.up apc
This Kangaroo primaries with cooked up results?
There's a order against it today and the right faction (whose court action chained of Oshiomhole) didn't organise this.
Exercise in futility
PoliticsRe: Three PDP Aspirants Refuse To Step Down For Obaseki by DeRay98(m): 11:27am On Jun 22, 2020
BlessedBoss:
Good decision. PDP should conduct a free and fair primary election, that's their only chance of winning this election. Obaseki doesn't particularly have a good record in Edo state.

Good people, please go through this thread. I need your advice/suggestions.

https://www.nairaland.com/5942073/how-sort-life-out
Unless you're an Agbero or those who wanted to have access to the treasury otherwise, the statement you made about Obaseki not having a good record is a slip of a drunkard's tongue.
PoliticsRe: Three PDP Aspirants Refuse To Step Down For Obaseki by DeRay98(m): 11:18am On Jun 22, 2020
All na part of political negotiations and stock elevation for significance if and when the party wins the elections.
Obaseki's the only chance PDP has to win in Edo and PDP can only ride in his waves of popularity from fall out with APC, his performance, anti-Oshiomhole sentiment that's very huge in Edo.
PoliticsRe: Edo PDP Risks Implosion Over Obaseki by DeRay98(m): 8:53am On Jun 22, 2020
Born2Breed:
PDP thinks they would have fared better without APC crisis.

Those aggrieved members better thermocool or port.

Rice man better collect SSG or CoS. All these gragra nor go work for am.
Rightly spoken
Christianity EtcRe: When You Keep Meeting Men That Only Want Sex by DeRay98(m): 1:28pm On Jun 21, 2020
Rozz:
Some ladies will not listen, not all men that approach you likes you, most are just after your body but it's painful how some ladies do get easily played by these randy men with herbally energized organs looking for people's daughter to devour, very painful.
What about slay queens who deliberately seduce men at any opportunity?
Married or single matured rich women who seduce young vulnerable men as toy boys?
PoliticsRe: How PDP Governors, Chieftains Endorsed Obaseki, Shaibu Ticket by DeRay98(m): 9:58am On Jun 20, 2020
babyfaceafrica:
Lolz.. So those that labored for pdp for years will wait another turn.. Which type of nansense is this?.. No loyalty is rewarded... So all those pdp governorship aspirant come count bridge.. Very unfair arrangement.. At least a core pdp man should have been gov or deputy aspirant
You forget that contracts and appointments are now in their favour?
If Oshiomhole had not been made, Obaseki was guaranteed a 2nd because the people love him and all contracts and appointments would have remained in APC.
But PDP gets compaign funds, contracts and appointments now if they help Obaseki to won which is very high probability
PoliticsRe: 'Godfatherism Must End’ — Ewuare, Oba Of Benin Speaks On Edo Election by DeRay98(m): 2:43pm On Jun 19, 2020
Why do people exhibit ignorance with relish online or social media like this?
In the entire Edo land, there's one and only one Oba.
Politicians go and come, Oba is Oba and no rival.
All other traditional rulers in other parts of Edo are under the Oba, they bear the titles of their tribe and land and they see and take the Oba as their Royal father and they're loyal

W author=omorttee4u post=90840865][/b]

If you call that ignorant, I agree. Please note : the law/constitution of Nigeria supersede anything traditional. If we want the effect of traditional ruler, there shouldn't be local government chairman here and there.

Except you want to tell me, the whole of Benin has just one Oba as a whole. That will make him equivalent to no.1 citizen of the state. So, if any sitting Govern. Want to make any Oba reckless, brother he will and walk freely.

How many demon and Orisha you striked on white colonials ,when they came to your city and governed you for years.[/quote]
PoliticsRe: 'Godfatherism Must End’ — Ewuare, Oba Of Benin Speaks On Edo Election by DeRay98(m): 2:36pm On Jun 19, 2020
This is fake news, the Oba of Benin does not make public utterances in political matters except to resolve conflicts which he did by visiting the President and asking Buhari to intervene last year.
So, this publication is false.
PoliticsRe: PDP Postpones Edo Gubernatorial Election Primary Election Until June 23 by DeRay98(m): 6:22pm On Jun 18, 2020
Pavillon:
But painfully, they are not wise
Keep quiet and leave Edo people alone...
PoliticsRe: PDP Postpones Edo Gubernatorial Election Primary Election Until June 23 by DeRay98(m): 6:21pm On Jun 18, 2020
IAIASICLAIA:
Only if EDO people are wise.
They will not vote for any of the two party again.

Well,you all should check my signature
Non of the other parties have capacity to proper a candidate at this short notice.
Maybe after this term, before 2024, another party can grow from disgruntled members of the 2 big ones to join them to have bigger capacity.
PoliticsRe: PDP Postpones Edo Gubernatorial Election Primary Election Until June 23 by DeRay98(m): 6:18pm On Jun 18, 2020
FuckTheWorld:
grin

Obaseki will definitely be disgraced.

Oshiomole will eventually be completely relegated and rendered useless politically.


Two useless GREEDY old fools.
Sorry to disappoint you, Obaseki's popularity is because he's people centred and humble and Edo are united for once on his side to rid Edo of Agbero gang and Agberocracy by Oshiomhole.
Oshiomhole is the greedy one and Edo will disgrace him....
PoliticsRe: Now That Obaseki Is Partyless - By Prof. Idemudia Oviosun by DeRay98(m): 12:18pm On Jun 18, 2020
1000 likes for your analysis and delivery.
These are among our copy and paste Professors that sell their conscience to thugs of politics for a few wads of Naira.
[b]
quote author=Cantonese post=90794855]Simply put a lot of our professors in this country have ended up making mockery of themselves. With what we see at election centers, with professors as returning officers, they should bow their faces in shame.

This man probably thought it was business as usual when Obaseki became governor. Oshiomole was given a dose of the same pill he gave Anenih when he single handedly brought Obaseki.

To fight Anenih, one leg of Oshiomole's stool was corruption. Can he tell any reasonable person that what sustains his party people in Edo state is not corruption? When he deceptively introduced Obaseki as a technocrat, what played behind the scenes we did not hear. But going by the Nigerian politicians that we know one of the conditions would have been regular supply of public funds. The governor failed that agreement and that simply is the no. 1 reason for the battles. This professor also did not get free funds.

Oshiomole late last year in the incident in Iyamho when he was attacked by thugs said that he did not teach Obaseki/Shuaibu what they did. So we could deduce that he taught them certain things, one of which was how to end godfatherism. He taught them all how he resisted and defeated the late Tony Anenih. Today they applied the same instrument against him.

How would the professor talk about thuggery and breaking down people's properties? Oshiomole did worse things. Remember Bob Izua? What about the widow?

We need good professionals in politics and not professional politicians. If it takes men with the will like Obaseki to make our states and nation better let's support them.

People like this hypocritical professor should bow their faces in shame. The governor has found a party. If he does not return as governor he has at least opened the eyes of Edo people more to the destruction of their state by some greedy people.[/quote][/b]
PoliticsRe: Now That Obaseki Is Partyless - By Prof. Idemudia Oviosun by DeRay98(m): 12:17pm On Jun 18, 2020
1000 likes for your analysis and delivery.
These are among our copy and paste Professors that sell their conscience to thugs of politics for a few wads of Naira.
[b]
quote author=Cantonese post=90794855]Simply put a lot of our professors in this country have ended up making mockery of themselves. With what we see at election centers, with professors as returning officers, they should bow their faces in shame.

This man probably thought it was business as usual when Obaseki became governor. Oshiomole was given a dose of the same pill he gave Anenih when he single handedly brought Obaseki.

To fight Anenih, one leg of Oshiomole's stool was corruption. Can he tell any reasonable person that what sustains his party people in Edo state is not corruption? When he deceptively introduced Obaseki as a technocrat, what played behind the scenes we did not hear. But going by the Nigerian politicians that we know one of the conditions would have been regular supply of public funds. The governor failed that agreement and that simply is the no. 1 reason for the battles. This professor also did not get free funds.

Oshiomole late last year in the incident in Iyamho when he was attacked by thugs said that he did not teach Obaseki/Shuaibu what they did. So we could deduce that he taught them certain things, one of which was how to end godfatherism. He taught them all how he resisted and defeated the late Tony Anenih. Today they applied the same instrument against him.

How would the professor talk about thuggery and breaking down people's properties? Oshiomole did worse things. Remember Bob Izua? What about the widow?

We need good professionals in politics and not professional politicians. If it takes men with the will like Obaseki to make our states and nation better let's support them.

People like this hypocritical professor should bow their faces in shame. The governor has found a party. If he does not return as governor he has at least opened the eyes of Edo people more to the destruction of their state by some greedy people.[/quote][/b]
PoliticsRe: APC In Disarray As 3 Acting Chairmen Emerge In 3 Hrs by DeRay98(m): 9:27am On Jun 18, 2020
This is what happens whenever Nigerian politicians and their feel secured after staying in power for some yrs, they become lawless, arrogant and wreckless..

When PDP had been in power for 12yrs, they were dreaming of ruling for 60yrs and through caution to the wind unless they slipped.
Now APC have just reached in less than 10ys in power federal and some state except Lagos.
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole: We Won’t Lose Edo State If Obaseki Leaves APC by DeRay98(m): 10:50am On Jun 16, 2020
omofranyoung:
Arrangement have been made with the arm forces..

To rig the election at all cost

Exactly...
Oshiomhole is going to be bleeped up by angry Edo people he has no idea how Edo people can when they're pushed to wall and insulted like he has done.
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole: We Won’t Lose Edo State If Obaseki Leaves APC by DeRay98(m): 10:44am On Jun 16, 2020
Born2Breed:
We shall see.

Dem nor say make small pikin nor get BIG teeth, but must get BIGGER lips to cover am.
Na word you talk my dear
PoliticsRe: Real Reason Governor Obaseki Was Disqualified - Sahara Reporters by DeRay98(m): 3:35pm On Jun 14, 2020
Gforce2015:
Uneducated graduate. ... I don't need to waste my precious time with Buffon like you...because your response is contrary to my post.
But Lemme give you this assignment: go and check the word "Influence" in the dictionary or you google it....read and understand the word...
Illiterates are always first to call others illiterate...
PoliticsRe: APC Governors Seek Soft Landing For Obaseki by DeRay98(m): 3:29pm On Jun 14, 2020
ariefadenco:
We also find it difficult to vouch for the authenticity of his NYSC certificate, there is no indication as to where he served”, the committee held.

I have not seen any NYSC certificate that states where the person served.
You see why it was a kangaroo committee?
PoliticsRe: APC Governors Seek Soft Landing For Obaseki by DeRay98(m): 3:25pm On Jun 14, 2020
Bighead9:
E pain this man well. grin grin grin grin

Obaseki is presently an ex Governor and he must go to jail.
My dear, he has only spent 3yrs in office, one more year to go.
don't be too much in hurry to say what you don't know.
PoliticsRe: APC Governors Seek Soft Landing For Obaseki by DeRay98(m): 3:23pm On Jun 14, 2020
Wiseandtrue:
All these because Obaseki refused to inaugurate 14 members-elect appointed of the State House of Assemblyhuh

[b]Which would have rendered Obaseki a puppet thereby reducing his performance to the people
!!!

These aftermath only shows that Oshiomole is hell bent on being the godfather in Edo

His ego will be the downfall of APC in Edo State!!![/b]
Gbosaaa. Thank you
PoliticsRe: Real Reason Governor Obaseki Was Disqualified - Sahara Reporters by DeRay98(m): 12:55pm On Jun 14, 2020
Sheggy13:
What then did he use to get admission and finish in 3 years instead of the normal 4 years if he didn't collect the A'Level certificate and present to UI as a requirement for Direct entry admission?
That's up to UI to explain because the system was stricter then than now.
I never collected my primary school certificate before entering secondary school, I only had my primary school testimonial which wasn't the certificate at all and before I collect it though reluctantly after many years, the school's Headteacher's office caught fire and got burnt down.
Secondly, if he didn't have any proof of it then, he should have been rusticated in final year for failure to meet the requirements for direct entry then.
He did beat UI or UI was negligent?
His only sin is not having any proof to show for his Hsc or A level now.
It's up to UI to explain how he met their requirements and graduated because his name is also in the graduands list for the year he graduated.
PoliticsRe: Real Reason Governor Obaseki Was Disqualified - Sahara Reporters by DeRay98(m): 12:30pm On Jun 14, 2020
pfadom:
Why make unnecessary notice when you have a questionable profile? Obaseki has lost it all and I see him being prosecuted for forgery at the end of his tenure.
What forgery Sir?
Did university of Ibadan deny that he didn't get his degree there?
The only problem he's stock with is he's not being able to provide his A/level HSC certificate(the only missing link) which he like many students do often, failed to collect once he gained university admission.
PoliticsRe: Real Reason Governor Obaseki Was Disqualified - Sahara Reporters by DeRay98(m): 12:23pm On Jun 14, 2020
Gforce2015:
Can you imagine how Nigeria usually placed mediocre ahead of intelligent students....
Obaseki is a poor student in school but because of his family influence, he piloted to the top of the political ladder in his state.
Just imagine if all what we do in Nigeria is based on merit, Nigeria could have been better than what it's today. It is only in Nigeria that all our political leaders will always certificate issues...i haven't heard this before in another country.
Not.until we do it right, we will always be turning around at the spot and we will be thinking we are making progress.
Edo State is full of intelligent people with a proven track record and good grades in school throughout their career life..why can they call one of them to be the governor? Instead of this 3 credits certificated governor...what a shame to the people of Edo State!/
Stupidity and ignorance dey worry you.
Since when did Obaseki family become politicians or had say in Edo politics?
Where did you see his family involved in the political atmosphere of Edo that empowered him into political office?
Una go just yarn kpoa kpoa like corn wey dey roast for fire.
No dey talk wetin you no know ... angry
PoliticsRe: Oshiomhole Once Wanted Building Named After Obaseki For ‘selfless Service’ by DeRay98(m): 7:53pm On Jun 13, 2020
SpecialAdviser:
Read the statement carefully and you will understand why Nigeria is where it is today.

Politicians and leaders are not the problems. It is we supporters. Except we change our behaviour, we can never be taken serious.

If Obaseki also failed. Is it not time we vote any other candidate? Must it be Ize Iyamu? Is it not time to tell Oshiomole we are not F.O.O.L's?

Why people still listen to Oshomole kind of politician beats my imagination.
You dey mind them, these same people will run to Canada or U.S if they get a needle-hole opportunity yet, they clap for the same depots that are making the country unlivable. They want angels to come and liberate the country when they support demons in govt

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