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CareerRe: Maritime Workers Threaten Strike Over Arrest Of 20 Dockworkers In Rivers by DeRay98(m): 7:34am On May 11, 2020
Wike knows he's on his 2nd term hence, no elections for him.
But so is the fact that he'll be out of power soon unless his high Court Judge of a wife has assured him of legal loopholes to escape prosecution like Odili did.
However, he should realise that when the gods are about destroy someone, they allow him to become stupid and then he's crushed without remedy.
Wike's excesses will hunt him soon or later...
Christianity EtcRe: Tunde Bakare Donates Church Halls To Lagos, Ogun As Isolation Centres by DeRay98(m): 6:19am On May 11, 2020
NnaEnh:
It has now become a thing of Super Star.

Most of them are using it to do "Spiritual Sacrifice".

If you know, you know.
This your stupid post deserves a back-hand slap to reset your brain
AgricultureRe: Imo Government To Revive ADAPALM Plantation (photos) by DeRay98(m): 5:07pm On May 09, 2020
[quote author=SLAP44 post=89355258]I will be selling barrels of palm oil to you at our Biafran/Nigerian border at Ore cheesy[/quote

Which Biafra border at Ore?]
Which Ore?
You don smoke kanuweed finish abi?
RomanceRe: 99 Year Old Man Divorces 96 Years Old Wife After Finding Out She Cheated 60 Year by DeRay98(op): 8:01pm On May 07, 2020
Romance99 Year Old Man Divorces 96 Years Old Wife After Finding Out She Cheated 60 Year by DeRay98(op): 7:53pm On May 07, 2020
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99 Year Old Man Divorces 96 Years Old Wife After Finding Out She Cheated 60 Years Ago
By Bliss - May 6, 2020



A 99-year-old Italian man called Antonio is divorcing his wife Rosa of 77 years after he came across letters she had written to a secret lover in the 1940s which was about 60years old

The 96-year-old woman, identified in court papers as Rosa , reportedly confessed to having an affair 60 years ago, and then tried desperately to persuade her hubby to stay.

Antonio refused and filed for divorce giving up on nearly eight decades of marriage.



During their marriage the couple gave birth to five children three boys and two girls , a dozen grandchildren and one great-grandchild.

The uncovering of the letters inside an old chest of drawers was the final straw for a relationship that had already been rocky: 10 years ago, the husband moved out to live with one of the sons, but returned weeks later.

The Italian press attributed the bitter break-up to the couple’s southern roots – he is originally from Olbia in Sardinia, while his wife was born in Naples.

The former lovebirds met in the 1930s when Antontio was a military officer based in Naples.

Once the divorce is finalized, the pair could take the record for world’s oldest divorcees
https://swagonnews.com/99-year-old-man-divorces-96-years-old-wife-after-finding-out-she-cheated-60-years-ago/#respond
SportsRe: Sikiratu, Rashidi Yekini's Mother Placed On Monthly Stipend By Sports Ministry by DeRay98(m): 7:58pm On May 06, 2020
engroyekan:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/sports-ministry-places-late-rashidi-yekinis-mother-on-monthly-stipend/
This is a good gesture anyhow, but his mum and siblings were responsible for Yekini's untimely death now, they are suffering as none of his other siblings amounted to anything substantial in life.
PropertiesRe: Lockdown: Lekki Residents Sue Kayode Otitoju Over Influx Of "Miscreants" by DeRay98(m): 5:44am On May 06, 2020
[quote author=mosho2good post=89236274]*_I haven't watched football in a long time oo. Please is Undertaker still playing for Manchester United??
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No, he now plays for ACB of Lagos...he scored 5 goals this weekend huh
HealthRe: Chinese Doctors Have Started Working In Isolation Centres –Lai Mohammed by DeRay98(m): 10:11pm On May 05, 2020
clevvermind:
The Chinese should not be trusted. They are very wicked.
They're most likely spies, to collect samples from our people for their own research on how the virus affects us and how some of our are resistant to it.
The Chinese government is not short sighted like ours
SportsRe: Chidi Ofor Okenwa Is Dead by DeRay98(m): 6:49pm On May 05, 2020
LoySupremo:
Hon. Chidi Ofor Okenwa of Enugu is Dead. He was the former FA Chairman of Enugu state and former NFL board member.

He recently celebrated his birthday and was highly celebrated within his State (Enugu state)

The cause of his death is still unknown.

May his Soul rest in Peace.

From the 2nd pic, if thats him, he was already looking sick..."Corona doesn't pity" people with underlining health issues.
May his soul rest in peace.

https://bsnsports.com.ng/breaking-enugu-fa-chairman-chidi-ofor-okenwa-is-dead/?fbclid=IwAR0qUq5K2taKDxhA1cnKe-sZ9_queIdVG2l7DFxdRp5eKjeR5nCYGMnVm_Y
HealthRe: COVID-19: Sulaiman Adamu Treated ‘Malaria’ In 3 Hospitals Before Death by DeRay98(m): 9:48am On May 04, 2020
Nbote:
Public health workers are greatly exposed and at risk during dis period..
If indeed, health workers in those hospitals didn't wear PPE while seeing him, they and their mgt are to blame...
Not since 2 months of Corona global crisis that some health care workers still remain ignorant
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by DeRay98(m): 7:52am On May 03, 2020
landmark86:
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic, Iree.
She also graduated from Babcock University.

We both met in 2015 during our NYSC at River State. We serve in the same PPA. She is good, lovely and caring. And to crown it all she is beautiful. I mean so beautiful.

It all started with friendship which later led to relationship. We share so many things together during our time in River State as per what the future holds.

After our NYSC, we both went back to our various base. She is based in Lagos while I reside in Osun. Immediate I finished my NYSC, I got a job with a private organisation as a factory supervisor. But she went further for her Masters in Covenant University, Otta. Despite the distance we still communicate from time to time and at times I do find time to check on her in Otta, while she also do check on me in Osogbo.

After her M.sc, her dad got her a job with a big company in Lagos.



Last year December she came to Osogbo as usual to check on me but fortunately she met my parents and my siblings at my place. They all love and accept her. When she was leaving the next day she told me that her parents told her that they want to meet her fiancé.

12th January, 2020 I travelled down to Lagos to meet her parents. When getting there I met her parents with her only sister. Her dad ask of my parents, state, my qualification and what I do for a living. I told him and immediately he stood up and told me he will never allow his daughter to marry an HND holder.

He said he can't send his daughter to a university & end up marry an HND holder. Never!!! Though my gal is not in support of that, even ever since that time till now she's not her self in that house.
I truly love her and I know she truly love me too. But her parents is the major concern.
Should I call it quit?

Please your advise is needed, what should I do?
With your HND you can apply for a Masters degree to "equalise" so that you're eligible for a bigger job and better pay along the way.
Don't blame him, his daughter's education in top Private universities cost both of them a fortune because he wants her to be a top earner and have a quality life. Your present qualification means you can't reach her level of earnings, sooner or later when she mets bigger boys than you even you both got married she might reach a point where she 'll start looking down on you.
If your are not up to 30yrs old yet, you can still upgrade your qualification now whether for her or for someone else later and you'll be the better for it.
RomanceRe: Every Woman Is Born With This Talent Of Looking At Phone Of Partner by DeRay98(m): 7:25am On May 02, 2020
xendra:
When a woman does that you know that man has proven to be a cheat, she just wants to confirm
It's always the case, jealousy is the prime reason then insecurity.
Lots of girls of nowadays are insecure whether or not their man cheats.
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu: Dangote Became A Billionaire Because FG Gave Him Monopoly by DeRay98(m): 4:15pm On May 01, 2020
festacman:
My problem with Mazi Nnamdi Kanu is that he talks about too many irrelevant things without saying anything of value to the cause of Ndi Igbo. He talks like like a thug.

He needs to talk intellectually about critical developmental issues. He needs to focus more on the key policy ideas, initiatives, programs and strategy that IPOB intends to implement differently to make South East economically prosperous and politically stable as opposed from what current set of governors are doing. That's what is relevant now if he is serious about getting widespread support.

He should quit engaging in unnecessary attacks on personalities including those who has nothing against his IPOB goals.
Because he has nothing to sell than hate, he can't give what he doesn't have.
He appeals only to street people and thugs and they believe he's capable of leading because they don't what a capable leader looks or talk like.
PoliticsRe: DSS Storms Residence Of Taiwo Akerele, Former Obaseki’s Chief Of Staff by DeRay98(m): 8:23am On Apr 28, 2020
Avalancheman:
Shut up and learn! Not everybody from Edo state is Edo by tribe... cool
Ignoramus, Edo is not a tribe but a collection of tribes...
FamilyRe: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by DeRay98(m): 8:20am On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Is it not too early to take alcohol this morning? Filthy disgusting thing. You lack comprehension, otherwise you would have known I was not referring to anyone, i only gave an example, blindd bat.
This is how you know those broken, loveless ghetto girls.
They take every opportunity to spew trash at any one because that's all they got....
You need a psychological rehab to fit into society and think better without frustration
FamilyRe: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by DeRay98(m): 8:15am On Apr 28, 2020
bukatyne:
I don't understand.

If the husband is boring, is the wife not supposed to spice up things or show the husband what she wants?
If it was the other way round would you have advised the husband to do same?
FamilyRe: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by DeRay98(m): 8:02am On Apr 28, 2020
Ingredient88:
To my own understanding, Ma, you are so lucky to have that kind of husband at your disposal..... So many marriages end up just because their husband can't just make it up to their wife...... Ma pls you have married for 2years now and you are enjoying it pls don't do what will make an end come to that happiness, talk to your man as a wife make him understand your pains, apart from sex some many things you pple can do to be satisfied, pls be wise and think on how to go about it, is your home, don't make your husband lost interest in having sex with you, coz if he do sister your marriage is going little by little, pls express your mind to him in a lovely way......pls don't let him go outside to look for it, coz ladies outthere will not complain and they will give it to him in full, 92.5 percent of woman love to have husband that can deliver very well. Pls be wise.
THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE AND THE MOST MATURE HERE.
OP, TAKE THIS ADVICE SERIOUSLY.
FamilyRe: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by DeRay98(m): 8:00am On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Welcome to Africa means what? A wife married to an uglyyy beefy Nigerian man is expected to be faithful and still find such a man attractive, yet men cannot stick to their wife. Is it a curse or something? Because I don't believe that it means Africn men have a higher libido, or special libido huh
That's how you know them, unmarried, men hating and frustrated.
This Op didn't insult or describe her husband with any of the fowl words your imaginations is spitting out now.
Neither did she accuse him of unfaithfulness or unkind, why are you taking it personal, na your own?
If you are so frustrated with other's opinion leave the thread and read another one.
All these "feminists" sef...
FamilyRe: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by DeRay98(m): 7:46am On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh! sad
That's not the issue raised by the OP,
A wife is not finding it easy coping with her marital duty to her husband who's exercising his marital obligations.
What other people say is irrelevant so leave them alone...neither these comments or the "busy" husband is the issue.
PoliticsRe: DSS Storms Residence Of Taiwo Akerele, Former Obaseki’s Chief Of Staff by DeRay98(m): 10:08am On Apr 27, 2020
Avalancheman:
Shut up! They are not just speaking. They are Yorubas!! They bear Yoruba names!!!

They have been part of Edo/Ondo state during several state creation exercises.

Stop claiming everybody from Edo state as Edo tribe!!! angry
So you have you won a lottery now?
Mr Yoruba, pls don't hang yourself because your frustration levels is too glaring for all to see...
PoliticsRe: DSS Storms Residence Of Taiwo Akerele, Former Obaseki’s Chief Of Staff by DeRay98(m): 10:02am On Apr 27, 2020
Avalancheman:
Sure there are. But tribal Edos like to lump everybody from Edo as Edo by tribe even when facts say otherwise like the case in question.

Taiwo Akerele is a pure Yoruba name... smiley Hence, he is Yoruba... smiley
You don't know anything about Edo hence, you ask relevant questions or keep quiet.
Edo is state of diverse languages and cultures but all working together.
There's a local govt in Edo (Akoko Edo) where lots of the people are yoruba speaking.
They have been there for centuries and assimilated into Edo as Edos.
PoliticsRe: DSS Storms Residence Of Taiwo Akerele, Former Obaseki’s Chief Of Staff by DeRay98(m): 9:53am On Apr 27, 2020
TheGodlessGod:
that's why obaseki needs to go fast, he has lost my support.
Keep quiet...
Does the state govt control DSS?
RomanceRe: Why Do I Keep Meeting Girls From Troubled Families? by DeRay98(m): 7:20am On Apr 27, 2020
creolehunt:
Do you think a girl's background doesn't matter?

Lalasticlala
It matters a whole lot...
I have been married twice not because I chose to but that's how things turned out because I overlooked the broken background of my ex-wife and even their over 30yrs old family issues and breakage surfaced as we were getting married I felt I shouldn't use her background to judge or abandone her but stick with her since she wasn't responsible for what happened when she was an infant.
It turned out to be my biggest error ever, she is broken vessle without capacity to love or receive love.
Her emotional development stalled at early teens and she never matured emotionally nor reason maturedly even though she was 30 when we married.
I could later trace it all to her upbringing and single mom brainwash and unfortunately she worshipped her and followed her mom's footstep that initiated the process that culminated in our break up for 5 before I sued for divorce.
Background of anyone goes a long way to decide their mentality, attitudes and lots and it marred the life of lots ladies and their marital life.
It takes concerted personal efforts of anyone concerned to alter their mindset and eventual life outcome
HealthRe: Why A Strike By Resident Doctors In ESUT, Enugu Is Illegal by DeRay98(m): 7:54am On Apr 26, 2020
Tinyemeka:
Stupid hypocrites.

See how they took out time to blow grammar here and there, without a single utterance about the reasons why the doctors are protesting.

Early this month, nurses protested lack of PPE available to protect them from Covid-19 and the CMD had the temerity to say it was just a handful nurses who were causing trouble.

Now it's resident doctors and the response is to rush to court and produce documents to show that they are essential workers of which they mustn't strike. Have their grievances been addressed? What do I know? undecided
This is why I said before that the CMDs of many of our hospitals are incompetent for the job just like Ngige.
They use their political influence to get these positions and all they do is run down the hospitals and embezzle funds with impunity and they can't be held accountable because NMA will play politics with it.

They keep claiming that govt is funding the health care system enough but we never see the impact of the the little they are given and the politicians have come realise that they can't deal these CMD to account for the funds hence they excuse themselves and seek treatment abroad.
Foreign AffairsRe: Armed Protesters In Camo Demonstrate Against Stay-At-Home Orders In Kansas, US by DeRay98(m): 1:20pm On Apr 24, 2020
Corona go soon disarm them one by one...na so Americans dey do till corona land for their control and began to run like Olympics across the states.
PoliticsRe: Richard Akinjide Is Dead by DeRay98(m): 9:08am On Apr 21, 2020
GamalNasser:
Are you sure Nigeria has ever had good electricity?
Pls, don't continue with this argument it only reveals that you're a sub 30yrs old if not sub 25...
HealthRe: Coronavirus: 2 Vedic Lifecare Hospital Workers Test Positive In Lagos by DeRay98(m): 4:23pm On Apr 20, 2020
CallMeDrino:
https://globaltimesng.com/two-hospital-workers-test-positive-for-coronavirus/
In my health centre of 110 staff in UAE, 24 staff and cleaners tested positive last week. All of us had to be tested and our Health Centre was closed for decontamination.
After 2 tests in 4days, the rest of us were negative but we were placed on isolation for week with constant monitoring.
We have resumed after one week while monitoring continues.
We'll overcome whether Coro likes it or not
HealthRe: COVID-19: Despite Lockdown, Lagos, Ogun Cases Rise By 100% In 11 Days; Abuja 150 by DeRay98(m): 8:53am On Apr 12, 2020
Nbote:
D lockdown wasnt supposed to cure ppl of d disease, it was supposed to help ppl already exposed tons virus to self isolate and to reduce spreading to others while contact tracing is ongoing. By showing symptoms dey can be easily identified and tested. But d only problem with dat is d number of ppl dey would have com in contact with within those period.
Thank you for your comprehension of the true purpose and process of the lock down...
Our clueless yet, loud mouthed and frustrated youths here don't read informed post like us to comprehend before typing rubbish as if there's a reward to earned from just typing anything.
RomanceRe: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by DeRay98(m): 1:44pm On Apr 09, 2020
princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE
A family Friends of mine in Canada told me same about Nigerian and other African women/wives in Canada. How they adapt to life there, see the power the law gave women over their husbands and marriage.
Once they settle down they mingle with single divorcee women who teach them how to get rid of husbands and take over their property anytime they quarrel.
They begin to lead wayward life of freedom after sending their husbands to jail or homelessness.
Some bring back the offence their husbands committed against them (way in Nigeria) as if it's recent and report to police. The man can only be overwhelmed by the plot as it hits him below the belt.
By the time the children reach teenage and adolescent years, the absence of their father in the life becomes a major cause of lack of control as they rebel against their mums.
AgricultureRe: Just Killed This Animal But Don't Know It's Name. by DeRay98(m): 9:45pm On Apr 06, 2020
I don't what it's called in English but I know it.
It backed at night like "kwa gha gha"..
They live in groups in tree holes..
PhonesRe: MTN Already Tested 5G In Nigeria (Screenshot) by DeRay98(m): 7:12pm On Apr 06, 2020
EMMNIG:
The useless IMAM come minister was quick to release statement denying the aligation. If it were a country where things work, the Imam should have resigned or been fired. What a failed nation with half dead president.
To test a system for its feasibility is not same as have been licensed to operate...
The license for commercial operations is to be issued after the test is concluded and satisfactory and approved...which is yet to be approved...
You people learn to comprehend before running your blood pressure needlessly.
RomanceRe: Sisi Mi, Before You Say That Bobo Is Boring by DeRay98(m): 5:02pm On Apr 06, 2020
You described me 99%...fun seeking ladies took me for a boring person who is too serious with everything I did or do...


[quote author=bukatyne post=88098164]Good evening my people, how quarantine? sad

This thread is primarily for young ladies in their late teens to early twenties who are in serious relationships.

Disclaimer:
1. This thread is suited for ladies who want to date/sleep with as little men as possible before marriage. If you are in a relationship for a 'good' or 'fun' time, you don't need this thread as you will naturally gravitate towards men/boys who can provide the 'excitement.'

2. This thread is not claiming that serious minded guys/men are not 'exciting.' They can and do provide excitement in their own way.

3. I am a firm believer of young girls finding a young husband material as quickly as possible. I call it investing your youth in a husband material. I am not a fan of huge age gaps; I rather the young catch the young. cool. Bar exceptions, I not think building a career and a relationship/marriage cannot go hand in hand.

To the thread proper:

I see a number of young ladies call a serious young man 'boring' because he is not into the fast life. He is more grounded, focused on things that betters the future of you too such as education, mental capacity, emotional development etc. He is that guy that would invite you for a career fair or marriage seminar. He doesn't care about the 'get together' happening in the house of the Yahoo guy that just hammered nor is he interested in clubbing everyday.

He is not seeking for a girl he just wants to sleep with; he has seen you as a wife material he wants to groom to be the best version of yourself. He is the guy that would rather help you with your coursework.

He is seen as boring because he is principled and expects same from you. He is not going to give you drama and would not expect drama from you either. Cheating, collecting contacts from guys, double-dating, hanging out with questionable friends, claiming bestie with guys etc. He expects loyalty and faithfulness. He is not a 'I am just passing or marking my own' guy so he needs you really invested in the relationship. This characteristic of principle is sometimes mistaken for 'strictness' or 'rigidity.'

He would most likely not be the fun seeking type. This doesn't mean you both cannot create the type of entertainment suited to you. He might suggest going for a book fair or GT Bank Food Fair over visiting the new club opening. If you want to dance, get music and dance together. His priorities would also be different; he would pick an future enhancing activity over fluff if he has to choose.

And nope, he is not going to accept the version of yourself you bring to the table just like that. He will encourage and require you to finetune it. He might point out some stuffs about you he doesn't like; your dressing, makeup, hair do, carriage, attitude to classes, interests,friends etc. He is not the anything goes guy because he is invested in your future and naturally wants to protect his interests.

He would be protective of you so don't be surprised if he doesn't want you mixing with a particular crowd or wearing certain clothes or conducting yourself in a certain way. He is not trying to stifle you or keep you from enjoying life; he just wants his woman to be the best version of herself for him.

Hmmmmmmm, sex; he might have enough self-control to abstain, he might not. If it happens, the sex is going to be with care. Even if he wants to be a ruff rider, it would still be with the consciousness that this is my baby till the end. The way you use aso ebi for one time is different from the way you use lace kept at the bottom of the box.


Jara:

Any man who is fine with everything you do or doesn't have a contrary opinion is either with you for the short term therefore not willing to invest in you OR pretending and waiting till after marriage to show his true colours.

Hence the popular 'men change in marriage'.

I hope this would be very useful to a baby girl about to 'end' that relationship because the bobo is boring or 'not a happening guy.'[/quote]

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