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This is classical toxic wife. Once she's done frustrating your folks, you're isolated, you will be the target.
She's going to deal so badly with you and no one outside will know and care is not taken, eliminating you with slow poisons is within her plans especially once you have a good savings in your bank account or landed property.
She's seen your weekness and she'll exploit it to the fullest.
The rude shocker awaiting your is a dirty slap on the day you'll make her family unwelcome in your house.

kenzysmith:
Oshimen for ur own gud no allow any nigerian doctor near u they no sabi anything They might worsen your condition, dont say we didnt warn u!

See your ignorance dey smell, Nigeria can boast of having some of the best doctors in the world.

ifytrik:
Is that not 04 corolla? Dam! Most naija celebrities are not as rich as we think after all, when I saw the headline I was expecting to see either a range rover sport 2020 version or Lexus Gx470 2020 version but to my greatest surprise, I saw a 04 corolla.
Hmmm I wish him quick recovery anyway

The guys live according to the true situation of things, na only the "A" list runs babes dey live unreal lives with displays of buying and exotic cars supplemented by zaddies, they want everyone to believe they're making it.

Are they just waking up? Now that Christmas is near and the weather in UAE is very comfortable they're planning on going to Dubai for Christmas holidays. So, they 've decided to act quickly to restore direct flights with UAE.
Yeye people

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=107228417]What fantastic response to this one-sided victims-playing write-up.
Kudos to...
If everyone starts to do things only when they're in the mood or only when it's owed. How do you think the world would be like.

What do you think will play out in the family if the man wakes up one morning and decides he's not funding the house for a whole month because he doesn't feel like, or not in the mood. Or decides that he needs to quit his job and get a break because he's depressed and stressed out.
He's been doing like 3 side hustles, plus his main job. Things he entirely doesn't feel like doing. He needs a break, but he's not taking it.

If a woman naturally turns cold. A reasonable man would understand. But most times women just use it to show defiance.
The same woman that has 3kids and now cold, is the same woman that will go and be feeling kinky with a colleague in the office. Even when the said colleague is not doing anything to attract her.

Have sex with your partner is one of the simple things someone would do if there's still a tiny bit of attraction left in the union.

Men do a lot of things that is actually against their will. They go through biological changes too. All those stuffs you wrote up there has a masculine version of it. But if everyone starts making a long case out of simple things just like you did. Then nothing will ever work out and happiness will elude everyone at the end.

I wonder how people think like this sef. Simple something

A married woman with 2kids from this nairaland once told me that her husband is not giving her enough sex. That she wants it more now, than when she was without child. And she is a busy woman.
How come she's not cold?[/quote]

silvoclaira:
Go and get this product. Same thing happened to me

Eye drop

Na so una take dey help people blind themselves.
The fact that you may have had symptoms doesn't necessarily mean that the problem is the same or the eyedrops you recommended will solve it.
If his eyes gets worse and suffers irreversible damage tomorrow, una go say na village people cause am.
Instead of tell him to go see an eye doctor for a proper assessment and appropriate treatment you dey play doctor...

davillian:
Avoid people that are over jealous
Once I perceive it like this everybody don go thier separate ways....

Many of such women pretend not to be when there's no commitment yet.
Once they reach a stage where they feel they are secured or married to you, that demon will be unleashed in full force. Even your family members are not left out of her jealousy.

A boy wants to marry a woman...
She's ready but you're not. You still have a lot of growing up to do before taking this assignment otherwise, when responsibility exposes your immaturity, you'll feel trapped and price of breakup will costlier.
Only immature people believe that love is all you need to marry, when situation and responsibilities tightens, love is the first to crack as you'll realise that for women romantic love is conditional and not free.

Racoon:
The girls hopefully should do us proud again today. They should consolidate on the first leg advantage.
Meanwhile, why is the Ghanian FA victimising the poor Elizabeth for stating the obvious?

Why are we always aversed to the truth? Same thing that happened to the Falcons that they stayed for a long time without any warm up friendly games.

Super Falcons are playing like pregnant women, Ghana is a goal up and pressing Super Falcons are uninspiring. If they qualify I will be surprised, unless the Ghanaians do not take their chances or tire out early

seanfer:
He’s grandfather was the architect of how the British invade Benin and send the Oba then to exile. Betrayal is in their blood. Now his grandson make sure that the artifacts stolen during that period did not return to Oba’s palace. I wonder how many Edo sons forget history and fight to make this man second term Governor.

Bunch of lies from party gods who no longer gets stipends from sharing of state resources.
Who taught you that history of lies?
Same kind of lies you people tried to use to blackmail him during his 1st term but it didn't work.
Did his grandfather bring the British to the Benin Kingdom?
Ignorant liars everywhere.

Terrence99:
Obaseki is a curse to PDP and to Edo state. The guy is punishing Edo people and he's making it obvious that they made a mistake voting him.
His continuous foolishness, treachery and cantankerous nature has vindicated Oshiomhole.

Another political party wailer, no more shouting of "Chair, Chair" to collect stipends from party officials who share state resources.

This forum have become a playground for indolent youths, itchy fingers typing trash.
The land in question was given to the Army and used as Barack many decades ago(probably during the civil war) but the army have since moved the Baracks out for a while though the land still has some army properties.

Numerouno94:
Delta state nd Edo state hv both turned into the capital of internet bombers in Africa.

Buh isn't this an infringement on the student's fundamental human right?

Their "fundamental rights to kill" their mates and other people on campus?
When you abuse your rights, the law takes it from you.

pepperdemzombie:
Why are you always wailing on behalf of Tonto anytime Churchill is mentioned? She paid you to wail or what?
Tonto say na 40secs man and she no want again, wetin be your own?
Shebi she left 40secs man for 24hrs Kponkpon {baton}, how far?

Don't mind all these sabi sabi wailers that cry more than the bereaved.
As if Churchill doesn't have a right to live his life after drama queen tried all she could to destroy him.
These Tonto wailers are sad to see their goddess suffering while Churchill is living fine.
Women that enjoy too much artificial life more and discard the true life they had will always live in sorry always blame others for their own stupidity.
These wailers all wished Tonto was the one happy now while Churchill in pains.

How come nobody saw where he said she abandoned him and their children for 10yrs and only returned in 2020?
A husband left with 7 children for 10yrs,
where was she,
what was she doing?
Who was she sleeping with for 10yrs...
Was her husband supposed to "hold body" for 10yrs?
Never just take every and anything women say hook line sinker...

WoundedLamb:
Even without opening this thread, I already knew people would still side the man. These guys above didn't deem it necessary to even admonish the man who broke his marriage vows. Regardless of the story, the default reaction is to blame the woman. Somebody said "but your sister gave it to him nah" as if that automatically justifies the married man who vowed to stick to his wife. Did she tell she's happy with the sister? What was shared with us what she told the court and that's apparently because there's no legal case against the woman the man slept with. Isn't this obvious? Reverse this case and all you'd be seeing here is "fear women". Even tribalists are more logical than sexists. Sexism makes even the most intelligent minds seem dumb.

crossfm:
Bringing in Bongos to me was the magic. Will never forget his songs. It brings a lot of nostalgia.

2-face is going to be only true legend of his generation.
He did collaborate with Victor Olaiya, with Lt Sir Victor Uwaifo, that's how you get annointed to step into their shoes.

UGLYSALT:
So i was at somewhere yesterday , and few Top People are discussing the IPOB Sit at Home.

Some are making Good Points , until one man said something that shocked me !!! , Below is what he said !!!

He asked all the people around there !!! , These Guys or Group of men called IPOB or ESN , That Ordered the Sit at Home .... How many of una Don See Them

And Nobody talked !!! - He asked , Where is there Office Located !!! ...... "No Response"

Do they have a Medium where you can communicate with them and ask them Questions ? .... "No Response"

How Many IPOB Youths was arrested , and why did they not Put Sit at Home Order for them Until They were Released .... "No Response"

The Man Continued ........

The ESN or IPOB Started with Burning and Attacking Police Stations - Killing Police Men and Military Men ....... What are there reasons for doing these ? - Remember that when they started this .... The Nigeria Government Never Arrest Nnamdi Kanu .... So why exactly are they doing that !!!

The First Day ..... SIT At Home Order Was Observed - People Who don't Abide by the Rules where beaten and some of their Shops Destroyed
- So for what intention are they doing that

Across The IGBO States - None of the Government Officials Challenged the Order , Banks were closed , School , Markets , Churches .... Even The Governors Obeyed the rules !!!

Coming to Anambra State -November 6th 2021 is the Forth Coming Election .... If ESN Place an Order of Sit at Home That Day , How many of Anambra People will come out and Vote !!!

Since They Started With Burning Of Police Station , Burning of INEC Offices , Killing Of Police and Military Men .... This is a Clear Evidence That These Group Of People wants to Take Over Power , In a very Deadly way !!!

This man Added That ......

A Time will come when ..... IF You are a Very Rich Man in Igbo Land .... and You don't Physically Support The IPOB or ESN ..... They will send you a letter .... which they will use the order you to Close down your business ..... and you know you can't say NO.

What This man is telling the IGBO's is that they should wake up now .... before this Sit at Home rule .... will turn to what Taliban are Doing to Afghanistan.

Oga, if you're not an Igbo please this matter for them because na insult you go get...

There's one critical area of this crisis people are not looking into, the notorious Chief Medical Director of the hospitals who themselves are Professors of medicine but most of them are incompetent, arrogant and fraudulent.
Even if govt pumps much money into the health sector, the corrupt CMDs will embezzle the funds, make budget for new equipment but they'll refurbished ones that will malfunction soonest and other conduit pipes to syphon funds for hospital management.
They don't maintain equipment but keep shifting all blames to govt, unfortunately and sadly, they're unaccountable, untouchables because heavy politicking and influence.

Abalado:
See her expired breast self,, after breast feeding more than 600 guys,now turning to motivational speaker,breast feed kee u there

Chai! Nna, why na? Pls be calming down.

Oluwapresley:
Only Nuhu Ribadu went down for fighting against corruption. The rest, corruption personified! Especially Tafa Balogun.

True, but Oyakhilomeh was not proven to have ordered the collection of the money as claimed by Jennifer Madike, he was only removed for the intergrity of the Agency.

GOTVee:
As a born again Christian who is meant to speak the truth at all times, any Christian who eats Bush meat will end up in hell fire and will never rest in peace. This is the commandments of our lord in the Bible

Mr Burn again, which gospel said so?

Redman44:
D'tigers Squad that won Silver at the 2017 Afrobasket for Men was also like this Squad. They were new basketball players apart from Ike Diogu and one other player. Most of the 2015 Gold winning squad were not in the 2017 D'tigers Squad. Ike Iroegbu, Ike Nwamu, Obi Emegano, Daniel Ochefu etc were in the 2017 squad and they won Silver though they were also untested. Alex Nwora barely had 2 weeks to put the 2017 team together. Cheers.

Good observation, it was obvious in 2017 and that's why I'm worried now.

Redman44:
The Olympic guys are mostly NBA players. The NBA rules concerning participation in competitions 60 days before the NBA League kicks off is what they are respecting. I believe the list of players that has been released is not bad. This squad might win a Silver or Bronze Medal. If they can get past Senegal and Tunisia, then Nigeria can win this year's Afrobasket for Men. Cheers.

Sorry to say, this team is so new and untested that I don't see them going past Senegal and Tunisia.
Most of the guys in the team since 2015 are not here. I don't expect much.

MrBrownJay1:
i dont think anything changes between dating and marriage (especially financially), but pls do tell us what changes, apart from that signed piece of paper?

again: a dating couple shouldnt have kids before they are financially/emotionally/physically ready to have one together.... same with married couple, and that doesnt mean they cant be together, it just mean they have to be careful as to not have kids they cant take care of.

sadly, due to the African belief that as soon as one get married, they need to have children to showcase their "happy family" and/or ego of men to show that their tool is working, many foolish broke people have kids that they cant take care of

A lot can change btw dating and marriage unless you dated for long and both of were sincere otherwise, the pretenders btw you will reveal his/her true colours after marriage and the other half will see fire and pain.

Let the Igbos debate their issues among themselves, anybody that gets involved gets insulted.
I mind my business o

jesusjnr2020:
Who Is The Head Of A Christian Home? Christ Or The Husband?

There cannot be two heads of a Christian home, for a man cannot serve two masters. Matthew 6:24

Therefore It has to be one or the other, so which is it?

I have heard some say or seen a written message in some homes, "Christ is the head of this house." On the other hand, i have also heard some claim that the husband is the head of the home or marriage, therefore I would like to know which is really true, since both cannot be right at the same time.

If Christ is the head of the home, then both the husband and wife ought to submit themselves to the authority of Christ. But if it's the husband instead, then the woman has to submit herself to the authority of the husband.

My own belief is that Christ ought to be the head of every Christian home, so both the husband and wife ought to submit themselves to His own authority.

Anything contrary to that is not of God, but of men or the devil, hence it would only lead to dangerous repercussions in the home, as it was in the beginning when the husband and wife both rejected the authority of Christ, even the Word of God that was in the beginning, and chose to listen and heed the voice of someone else.

Although the marriage didn't end up in a divorce as a result, and they wear yet able to bear children, it became a total failure as the purpose for which God made the marriage, which was to multiply sinless children (those born in obedience), was not achieved.

It also led to hostility in the marriage, because the same man who loved his wife and called her "the bone of my bones" and "flesh of my flesh", now saw her as an enemy or a stranger called "the woman you gave me". Genesis 2:23; 3:12

So the authority and head of a Christian home, as God made it to be in the beginning, ought to be the Word of God which Christ is, and that's one of things which was in the beginning that Christ came to restore. Therefore taking that authority from Him and giving it to someone else, including the husband, would only prevent the purpose of God concerning the marriage from being fulfilled, and could also lead to hostility among the married couples.

That's what would have happened in the marriage of Smith Wigglesworth, as the husband thought he was the head of their home, and had authority over his wife, hence tried to use it against her and to prevent her from serving God as she ought to, when he derailed from the faith.

But thank God he had a wife who knew that he was just her husband, not her Head or Head of their marriage, but Jesus, as she'd let Him know. So he couldn't make her do things contrary to what Christ demands of her, because she was meant to be under Christ's authority, not his.

This eventually led to her husband's restoration to the faith, and for this reason he loved appreciated his wife much more than he'd ever done beforehand, because what he learnt from the wife in the process was an invaluable lesson, which had not only helped to restore him, but also made him to be a better vessel for God's use, and better husband for his wife and marriage.

That's what many Christian' marriage stands to lose whenever someone else is put in the placed of Christ as the Head of a Christian home. It ends up more or less as the marriage in the beginning, when God's purpose for the marriage was not achieved.

And once that purpose is not achieved, the marriage become a total failure even if it doesn't end in divorce and they're yet having children as Adam and Eve, because God purpose for a Christian marriage that determines the success of a marriage, not that of man.

So it's up to choose who will be the head of your home, but if it's not Christ, do not expect Him to also act as the Head, because He cannot share His position or authority in any marriage or home with anyone. It's either Him in charge or not Him.

God bless.

Long but misleading sermon like this is the reason many church women disrespect their husbands and place Pastors over their husbands.
Christ is the head of the church, husband is the head of the home whether he's a Christian or not, full stop.

Ceenachi:
For some of you here who may not understand clearly, he said "countries you can VACATION at" not where you go to hustle o
Everybody want to leave this Jaga-Jaga country �� by all means nah...
Make una be calming down o!
Oga Reno Omokri enjoy!
For me I'll stay around and build BIAFRA land

Hustlers will soon invade those countries and mess the places up with their "spoil spoil" vibes that create bad name for other law abiding Nigerians

This evil woman and her mum used jazz to remote her ex husband, took over all his properties, drained, destroyed and abandoned him but went public with fake stories of domestic violence.
The guy never recovered, slumped into depression, mental health crisis and died recently.
Beware of these yeyebrities and their fake accomplishments...

Shayron:
I have been on this forum for quite sometime, I have been a guest all this while but my friend is in desperate need of help so I figure out it would be better if I seek you guys opinion.

I have a friend who's uncle is a well to do man works in a big organization and can use is influence to secure jobs or loans for my freind.

My freind has been at his Mercy for quite some time now, she is very hard-working though but she has witnessed the man help those who ain't even family members secure jobs in great places.

This is someone she calls family and uncle. This is not the first time of seeing this, I have seen this quite a lot it's very common amongst our people here in the south.

My question is why do family members turn your backs on you even though they have the power to help you out of your current situation. Blood they say is Thicke than water if I can't help my cousin or nephew then why are we family. She has been begging this man, and this man clearly can work things out.
She has a work herself but it's not self sustaining coupled with the act that she has younger ones to look after.

I have told her to look elsewhere that sometimes our helpers are not close as we think? What kinda advie would you give her

Calm down, don't swallow panadol for your friend's headache. You don't know their family history.
You don't the rich relative got to where he is, if your friend's were once in a position to help but failed to do same, if he's source of wealth is not clean and he doesn't want the curse to remain his family except him alone etc.
Let your friend hustle for herself and break through without the rich relative then in the future she'll be grateful to God and not "Uncle", then she'll be in a better position to judge later.
Cool down friend.

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Exactly what we talk about concerning Nigerian girls in our thread.. they always want to reap where they didn't sow whilst offering nothing ..

Louder please

I've a strong suspicion that this is not herdsmen killing but aggrieved extended family relatives or business partner/client hiding under the guise of herdsment to avenge a grief.
Lots of local criminals are having a field day committing crimes why the local community look elsewhere and the usual suspects.