seangy4konji:
girls with this type of behaviour are a no for me.. I distant myself4totally.. I hate the ceec with passion also.. Not because she is rude or sort but a manipulator... The way she manipulated Tobi that time could make me commit murder. I v sisters.you her ones but so so pleasant to be with. Hardly disgrace.,abuse or make another human being feel used on lesser. When you are nowwbdoibg it purposely makess my head feel like its about to burst. If an ur brother ceec do that nonsense to. U go like am? I go Don chase am away.. U don't go back for any reason .same blood run in veins MA.female or male.

I don't like either of them. However, hypocrites are those who liked ceec but hate tacha. I say this because I don't see any difference between the two. People who like ceece but dislike tacha only do because she's rich or from a rich family. That is to say, nigerians are petty and vain.

Divay22:

No. But at least ceec is brilliant and didn't push housemate unnecessarily

I don't like either of them. However, hypocrites are those who liked ceec but hate tacha. I say this because I don't see any difference between the two. People who like ceece but dislike tacha only do because she's rich or from a rich family. That is to say, nigerians are petty. Petty and vain.

seangy4konji:
Good riddance.

Very uncouth girl...

People with PhD in life self are not that disrespectful...what has she achieved in life to see everyone as an enemy and just talk anyhow?

Tueh

Lol, would you objectively say ceec is better?

GrabHisBalls:
Stop pushing blames. She didn't force you into marriage. This is why I dislike getting pregnant out of wedlock and suddenly getting the man marry you. Most men who marry in such conditions only do so for the child, not for the woman. Davido impregnated 2, didn't marry any and wasn't forced. Even the Chioma he claims to have so much affection for is pregnant just like the other ladies. Question is, would he have married her if not for the pregnancy? Wizkid has his and wasn't forced. At least, not yet. Own up to your mistakes 'cause you could've said 'No' and nothing would have happened.

What happened to having your medical records before marriage? How insensitive were you that your wife was taking a particular drug for 5 good years under your nose and you had no idea? Just thank God you and your son's are immune to the virus.

Shut up.

pocohantas:


You are in luck sis. It is very real

Thanks but I don't think I'm lucky in anyway. Haven't you heard the gist that girls who are "out there" are the most sought after or at least easily get married. I have friends who used to date sugar daddies. ALL of them are married now.

pocohantas:


They are words guys use here na. I had to help to use it, because I know they would soon arrive.

Nevertheless, the hoe-phase is that phase where the girl wants to explore and all. Some men think all women want to do is marry and birth, they don't know we want to have some fun too. Probably this girl used her own time in that stage being committed to him and a child. Now, she wants to get it back.
It is a pity it has to be at the detriment of their marriage, but such is life.

Never had a hoe-phase. Never will.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Hush dear. It's deeper than you know.

Shush too.

Christopherrrr sorry to say this but you're a coward. Either that or you're not ripe for marriage. Go and grow up first.

Christopherrrr you're not in love. You're in lust. Love makes us take the right decisions. The fact that you're here asking questions about what shouldn't be an issue already reveals your stance.

Christopherrrr:
Hello Nairalanders, greetings. My name is Christopher (pseudonym) from the Eastern part of the country, Imo State to be precise. I'm a man in his early 30's. I have an active account here but I had to sign-up for another account for this thread.
Please pardon my grammatical errors and blunders. MOD please help move to FP.

Kindly introduce your gf to Jombom. What a man doesn't appreciate, there are a hundred other men who will.

Jombom:
Pls provide me with her phone # if she's truly interested in a serious n sincere relationship that can lead to marriage. I am Yoruba Osu matter no concern me, in fact God punish the system self.

I could like this comment 1k times.

ibkgab001:
Bitter truth is that ; I would have stopped to use my MTN if not because Osinbajo also have a share in it

Lol.

One thing I have learnt in life. A secret should remain so.

OKOATA:
No he shouldn't reconcile with his ex, worst decision ever. A lot of married men die these days due to HPB, many married men are going through hell in marriages. I was at a Hotel in Lekki and this sexy lady came into the bar. My friend told me she's a married woman and almost all the guys at the bar have smarched her. The husband lives around the bar already accepted his fate and living with the wife. What kills a man faster than living with a wayward woman. An adulterous woman is more dangerous than the Queen cobra. They kill faster than bullet

Some women can't help it. I heard girls from a certain state are usually wayward. That they can bed anything at any point in time. Now the reason I responded to your comment is because I met someone of recent who ticks all the boxes that matter most to me except that he's from that state. I want to get married, he wants marriage too but I'm skeptical cos I don't want to have a daughter who can't control her urges cos it's who she is. I don't want to have a girl who would turn out a hoe cos whoring is in her DNA.

I read a story on NL this morning about a foreigner who caught his wife in their bed with another man. He posted pic evidence.

My point really is some women are oversexed and can't help it. The op's ex sister inlaw will cheat on her 2nd husband cos it's who she is.

Cantonese:
Prevention is better than cure as they say. The person when snake bite before if e see worm e must run. Since South Africans declared Nigerians as their enemies let the man go away with his hypocritical friendship. Would he have watched the match with a Nigerian in South Africa? Nonsense.

You raised a valid point.

"Oshoala just doing Oshoala things" looks like what a nigerian would say.

pansophist:
I hate injustice with the last drop of my blood. Named bookmarked, will never patronize that firm, including any of associates.

Me too! This is me.

lonzo:


If you type this way on the company page I'll fire you myself.

Nobody is disputing that. She still deserves to be paid.

glorybasseymma:
I was employed by Mrs. Jola Otedola. to work as a social media person. My duties were to open all the social media pages, create awareness, runs Ads and promote the company online and bring people to books ticket etc. and I can also assist others in ticketing and reservation, attend to client's travel needs.
Quite

glorybasseymma your courage is greatly admired. I've read stories of people here who have problems similar to yours. They come online, share their predicaments with their employer without revealing details.

Like someone has advised, you can use social media to bring her down. Nobody deserves to be treated unfairly. You have rights to your salary or renumeration.

Okoroawusa:
The era of free education is gone. No developed country offers free education to its citizens

What are you saying nooow? UK offers free education up to secondary level. I know cos my nieces are beneficiaries.

Nels55:
Igbo boys blowing hot on SW matter..
Who said these guys don't mean well for southerners ...

Then let's break the wall between us, unite and conquer our real enemy.

Bawizzo:
Up till this moment I have not seen a single family member speaking up or demanding Sowore's release. Is he a monk?

His wife.

This thread was interesting to read. Lifted my mood.

tayooluwole:
omo if everybody decides to commit suicide based on life challenges like all these coward perhaps only 15% Nigerians will remain...

The only reason I haven't committed suicide is because I'm a coward.

We went from 23hrs to 8hrs. We've been having on average 8 hrs of electricity for the past 2 months now.

ianq:


It sounds like your dad and mom live seperately?(i wouldnt presume to think they are divorced) If that is the case, i would frankly suggest(and in a measure of love) that you go and live with him in the meantime while you prepare for your exams.

You have kind words and are discerning. Yes a family member had suggested staying with dad but he lives outside the state. They aren't divorced, but live separately cos of their jobs.

don4real18:

There's a big difference between being smart and deceptive. Your sister is deceptive and it will do you a whole lot of good if you don't follow in her footsteps. Yes, the money might be there but do you seriously think she's happy? She might be able to mask her feeling from you guys but years from now, if she remains in the same state, depression sets in. Your mum is wrong to treat you that way and I believe that this requires your Dad to step in and put a stop to it. I don't understand something though, when you say that you try not to eat her food, does it mean that you let your mum do the cooking when she comes back from work?

Thanks. Not exactly. It isn't a black and white issue.

I love dogs. Their intelligence level is out of this world

It's the most amazing thing I've seen in years. She even stopped the ball in her own time. With swag, I believe she said, "it's enough".

WORDWORLD:


There are lots of factors involved. Its not just about Jane's calendar being different from Juliet's. ITS VERY MUCH ABOUT SYSTEMS WHICH PROPELS OUR SOCIETY.

.

This is apt!

ubunja:
if a woman marries at 30 the big question is WHAT THE HELL WAS SHE DOING ALL HER 20s??

Valid question. I don't know the number of times I've asked myself this. At some point, I wanted to be well established. You see, marriage never was a safety net for me, I wanted marriage for the right reasons and if those weren't present, I wouldn't get married. At least, that was what my naive mind deceived me to believe. Looking back, I regret how idealistic I was. I'm now trying to pull out of that mindset. Life is about opportunities.

Yet, the thought of marriage without being first financially independent makes me cringe.

LordKO:


There's nothing smart about your sister's evil act - disingenuousness shouldn't be mistaken for smartness. She's a typical egotist - self-centered and heartless idiot. I hope she and her supporters will not cry murder when the estranged husband gives her a dose of her own medicine in any best way he may deem fit.

I wanted to ask if you were a psychologist. You're spot on on one or two things. My sister is actually the apple of my mother's eyes. She can do no wrong in her eyes.

However, my mum isn't egotistical, savage or demanding. She just has expectations as any nigerian mother will have. Traditional and narrow minded indeed. Despite being highly religious, I sometimes wonder where she puts her faith seeing that she's completely written me off on this marriage matter. My younger sister is married and the one after her had her introduction last December.

My mum isn't a bad person at all. Only lacks good parenting skills. Like the rest of us, she has flaws. Most of her utterances come from a very negative mindset, like, if you aren't giving her results, she'll think the worst of you and essentially keep you on the back burner. She's one of my motivations for success. Also, I sometimes think about the possibility of dating discreetly and shocking my family with introduction and wedding simultaneously.

My dad, on the other hand, is the best thing that ever happened to me. Too kind, never criticizes, very liberal and all of that.

Beyond all that, my sister does have a good heart and I'm saying this honestly.