Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 2:28am On Jun 29, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: And you are perfect? 
Perfection is illusory. EVERYONE, and I mean EVERYONE have flaws. I don't know what you mean by “significantly flawed” but it's illusive to think there's a perfect woman out there for you. Funny how people who critique other people's flaws are usually the most flawed people.  Thanks my sister. There's no perfect woman elsewhere. Neither perfect man.We are product of imperfections. From the fall of Adams and Eve,all men have come Short of God's Glory.Perfection come, when Christ becomes your partner in life's journey. If you're searching for a perfect woman under the circumstances, its like making a research about God or trying the impossible. |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 2:17am On Jun 29, 2023 |
Princeton92: That I didn't join the army or do my mechanical engineering I had in mind... Most times I regret it with heart break cause my commandant was ready to push me into NDA  Imagine,l joined Airforce,trained as engineer,wasted my precious years in service,sent to London and Holland and at the end has nothing to show for it.Aside from my uncompleted building,begging for attention without help from no one. |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 2:10am On Jun 29, 2023 |
Yungmil: You got it wrong here!!!! You don't need to go to university to do all what you just wrote above.once you can read and write then you are educated.
University only gives you further specialization on a particular field, but not even as deep as practically learn a skill. You think so?
Once you can read and write( highest secondary education) then you are educated. Gbam |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 2:08am On Jun 29, 2023 |
mywells: My regrets was being in a relationship for 10yrs without a child. God can do all things. Take your destiny into God's hand.l have seen people who waited on God till 19 years and they have twins, a boy and girl.God will rewrite your story beloved. Get in touch with any Bible believing church. |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 1:52am On Jun 29, 2023 |
ufotty2001: even me am going through the same thing. Am close to 40! I have all the money now but have not seen a girl I want to marry to.. And you people think its ordinary? Find a Bible believing church or a praying aggressive group, and pray out all the enemies have deposited in your life.The enemy just use a veil to cover your face that you hardly see anyone to marry. We are living in a demon controlled world, except your spiritual eyes are opened.Take this action and thank me later. |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 1:35am On Jun 29, 2023 |
Cassandraloius: Well after 5 years one strange number called me, and was saying, it's me pls I'm sorry for everything I have done to you, I didn't hesitate to block him. Why would you blocked him,his reconciliation with you may restored all things you have lost,now that you're wise up. Life is full of mystery. |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 1:07am On Jun 29, 2023 |
CalmElder: I regret snubbing a very attractive 42 year old American lady because of 10 years difference in age.
I didn't know how to pretend. Same thing happened to me in 1986.l was sent by my company to London. A British lady l met, was asking for my friendship then, l snubbed her because l saw her as ordinary shop attendance.l regret my decision later. |
Music/Radio › Re: 21savage Vows Not To Feature African Artist Again Days After Featuring Burnaboy by Desusi: 8:51pm On Jun 28, 2023 |
Sitwalkstand: How does this ameliorate the suffering of Nigerians.
Shift Abi o,has it reduced subsidy or 40% increment in NEPA bill from July? Whether she used African artists again or not Tinubu has come to rule. |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 9:57am On Jun 28, 2023 |
nedekid: But you know it happens more on the female side. Husband will give wify money, she will give it to one small boy shining her Kongo. Ladies will date a guy, be chopping his money. Some will even go as, deceiving him there is a future, yet milking him and diverting the owo to the real niggar she loves, wen you even see the fellow, you will just be shaking head in disgust. Anyway, don't use my post as a benchmark, I was young then, over 30 years ago. Hmmm,such is life. Your argument is as a nail fasted on a master piece,women too, are another creature,entirely. |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 7:39am On Jun 28, 2023 |
nedekid: Kai, big mistake, never give out money valuable to you ie money meant for a purpose. My gf then in Ui saw I was broke. She had some dollars. Gave me $100. Omo, that night I drove to Sabo, changed the money. 100 dollars was 5000 naira then. I used the cash to carry another babe for goodtime. It shows truly how unreliable men are.As a man sometimes l wonder why behave like this? |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 7:31am On Jun 28, 2023 |
thaoriginator: You can't regret that, you have no will or power over that. You don't choose where you get borne Nigeria problem, is everybody problems. |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 7:02am On Jun 28, 2023 |
Likoya: My biggest regret in life is following the advice of my parents instead of my passion. Now wey everything don burst, it's my fault and I just hope I don't commit suicide soon. No my friend, suicide is not the best option. There's more to life.if you died life continues and you might be more regretting , if you find youself eventually in hell fire. |
Nairaland General › Re: At Your Age, What's Your Biggest Regret In Life by Desusi: 6:54am On Jun 28, 2023 |
donbachi: Not breaking one of my uncles head with bottle 10 years ago What happened? |
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Education › Re: What Does Bsc. (hons) Means? by Desusi: 4:50am On Jun 28, 2023 |
Buharidgeneral: this epistle is not necessary. Just one sentence is ok Some will still write volume 1,2,3 books on this issue. Why are we like this? Even what you have gathered are gone already. |
Education › Re: What Does Bsc. (hons) Means? by Desusi: 4:37am On Jun 28, 2023 |
Omihanifa: You mean you are a graduate and you don't know the meaning of bsc hons. Serious question! Iam shocked too brother, this shows the levels our educational standard has gone.Half- baked graduate everywhere. Some of them cannot reply ordinary query in their PPA while serving in NYSC. |
Family › Re: Wife Sister Naming Her Baby After My Wife Ex Boyfriend by Desusi: 4:29am On Jun 28, 2023 |
Foodqueen: Na junior she name her pikin so.
Her baby daddy is your wife's ex.
Fear all these women that claim, their boyfriend is abroad.
Na lie, they are just ashamed to come out with the truth , hence the abroad cover-up.
Between,it's non of your business.provided it wasn't your wife that named your child that.
Una can Sabi worry for where trouble no de. I hail my brother, that's why bastards filled everywhere. |
Family › Re: Wife Sister Naming Her Baby After My Wife Ex Boyfriend by Desusi: 4:27am On Jun 28, 2023 |
Beremx: Majesty is a beautiful name. Why is the name giving you nightmares? Your wife has moved on from her ex, you don't want to move on yourself? Oh boy,men jealousy past women by Miles. |
Family › Re: Wife Sister Naming Her Baby After My Wife Ex Boyfriend by Desusi: 4:25am On Jun 28, 2023 |
PrincessofDSS: Do you feel inferior to wife’s ex boyfriend
What’s your business with the name your wife’s sister gave to her baby?
Are you saying that your wife impregnated her sister and asked her to name the baby after her ex boyfriend
Men like you are inexperienced and seriously dangerous to theirselves
Watch it Dude be4 you loose it
Incase you don’t know, once you start having this kinda mindset; frm that point henceforth, everyone and everything around your wife becomes a suspect and suspicious to you!!!
Sorry; there’s no need of being economical with the truth here!!!!!
I have to give it to you straight up be4 you increase the number of broken homes that we already have in Nigeria
Damn ur swag!!! You're miss Franks! |
Politics › Re: “I Don’t Want To Be Disturbed With Any Probe”, Buhari Tells Tinubu In London by Desusi: 4:13am On Jun 28, 2023 |
slawomir: Damnnn niggar
Electricity tariff on the high
Tertiary institution fee on the high
Price of fuel on the high
114 percent increase in the salary of elected politicians waiting to be approved by tinubu
Guess what POC every year have been introduced right about now....poc is proof of car ownership certificate of 1000 naira every year And yet no protest in Nigeria No problem the politics of tribalism We all playing is obvious let play it together and see how it gonna end No be somebody wey belleful dey use car and proof ownership  |
Family › Re: Is 6 Months Enough Or Too Early For A Widow To Start Dating? by Desusi: 1:45am On Jun 27, 2023 |
larrypourl: I'm currently in such situation. It's such an horrible experience I don't even wish on my enemies. I lost her May 6th in auto crash and it's not been easy. Nothing in life matters again at the moment. I don't see myself remarrying in 2years except God gives me a replica of her in looks, character and actions. I've lost interest in life, just masking depression with smiles. I cry almost everyday when I find myself doing things we do together all alone now. I can't even stay in our apartment, her print is allover the house, is it her side of the bed, her favorite spot in the living room, how we eat on the dining from the same plate, how she prepared our meal while I sit or assist in the kitchen cos she always wanted me around, the guest room is filled with her cloths, bed and wardrobe, I can't stand seeing those things. We had plans, all shattered now. Life is vague. Take it easy my dear,hmmm,"he who Wears crown, they say, feels it " or rather "uneasy lies on the head that Wear crown " It's such a horrific situation.May God Himself console you.l Wonder how this world could be that wicked? Many questions will be agitating your mind over the incident,nonetheless, you have got to cheer up and be man.The one funniest things is, even if you remarry, it cannot be like the first that started life's journey with you.My brother, if you're a Christian, take your hold, on the lord and the scripture for comfort. The Bible says," man that is born of woman is of few days, and full of troubles ".....,......Job 14:1-3.read further. For the first few days, l could not stand to walk until a woman who had a similar experience paid me a visit and told me " why are you behaving like a woman? Stand up joor.!Come out, don't stay alone or ponder on it otherwise you would do yourself further harms" l was almost burnt down our house why cooking and lost in thoughts.The Lord who comforted me will visit you too.What else can l tell you my brother, be courageous. There are some people with extreme cases who would not be comforted. Like a friend whose wife died suddenly, for more than 18 years, after her death, he left her wardrobe as it was,her shoes in her place and all her undies wherever she placed them before her death.That's foolishness and unbelieving! May God help you my friend, take good care of the children she left behind and prepare to meet her in heavens, if she was a believer before her death. Bye for now.Be free to ask questions. |
Politics › Re: Biafran Fighters Threaten President Tinubu And Lagos State Governemnt by Desusi: 9:31pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
[quote author=leanonme82 post=124053415]Omo igbo. Keep deceiving urselves. [/qu Ojulowo ogidi omo Yoruba ponbele ni mi.Ninu isokan ati igbe aye alafia ni sise rere wa. The Bible says "follow peace with all men and holiness without which no man shall the Lord" Emaa lepa alafia pelu eniyan gbogbo ati iwa mimo...,...... |
Family › Re: Is 6 Months Enough Or Too Early For A Widow To Start Dating? by Desusi: 1:54pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
Ashley86400: Let’s hear it? Do men wait 1 year to sleep with another woman after their wife dies? Pls enlighten us. Why not? Where there's serious love, husband can wait till five years before engaging with another woman. Iam speaking from experience. It took me 5yrs before l remarried after the demise of my wife.For the first one year, l was in delirium and nightmare whether it was true or not.Sometimes when l saw someone that resemble her,l ran after her. At a point, l started seeing her in my dreams and sometimes sleeping by my side.After much persuasions from friends and relatives l decided to remarry. |
Education › Re: Why Do Most Private Primary & Secondary Schools Add "International" To Its Name? by Desusi: 1:03pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
Some indeed are international because foreign languages are in their curriculum. To further popularized them they add international even some churches do add int. |
Politics › Re: Usman Ododo Says He Is A Married Woman (Video) by Desusi: 12:32pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
talented321: The manchi is on colos. Nigerians too like vawulence. People cannot do mistake in peace again. The other when Biden fell like a child, america was peaceful. If it were Nigeria, hell would be let loss Many would concluded Biden must be epilepsy patient. |
Family › Re: People Are Suffering. by Desusi: 12:17pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
isArray: Ahh, you've a very huge advantage 🙌🏿 I'd move to a suburb once my German is solid That's it! How can you be living with them without speaking their mother tongue? They will hate you like shit.You will be hearing " hier ist Deutschland, auslander raus!" |
Politics › Re: Biafran Fighters Threaten President Tinubu And Lagos State Governemnt by Desusi: 4:44am On Jun 26, 2023 |
Chinjo2: These ones are just seeking attention and trying to cause more division between the Yorubas and the Igbos who have coexisted for several years. Besides, na this one them wan take fight war? The kind of hatred between Igbos and Yorubas cannot be described. In fact l find it difficult to express it.The one funny thing with these two tribes is that they are so mingled in intermarriage, religion, politics, socially and in almost everything. Its as if they cannot do without each other.l personally will feel more at home with IBO than Fulani in the core north.what's the basis of hate speech and horrific hatred? A kingdom divided against itself cannot stand. From middle belt to core north, they are so united. What is the issue with southern Nigeria? Could it be immaturity or enemies at work? |
Politics › Re: Breaking: Tinubu Was Scheduled To Speak At France Summit But He Ran Away [photo] by Desusi: 3:30am On Jun 26, 2023 |
Zxcvbnmghtr: Tinubu is very, very good at his game. Bluntguy imagine if Tinubu had been making speeches exactly the way he did on his inaugural. It would not have come as a surprise. Tinubu will delay such as this until the right time it will really count. Tinubu is very good at mind games. He played my mind so well that I thought he was empty. Bluntguy has Atiku or Obi been able to achieve anything worthy at the court? They both have wasted their time and money. That's the blunt truth none of them was able to proof anything substancial. I give it to Tinubu who knows when to talk and how to talk.
[b] Atiku and Peter Obi have both closed their respective cases without proving how they won the election. So, the idea of the court declaring any of them the winner of the election is out of the equation.
The second part of their plea is to get Tinubu disqualified on three grounds. Shettima’s so called double nomination that has now been thrashed by the Supreme Court. 25% of FCT that the two parties seems to have abandoned as they didn’t push this argument seriously. Even if they’ve pushed it, section 299 already made it clear FCT should be treated like a state so it won’t even matter.
The third argument is to get him disqualified by a combination of certificate forgery, dual citizenship and drug conviction.
The certificate forgery is of two nature. Chicago state university and NYSC. As regards Chicago state university, the University already issued a public statement that Bola Tinubu graduated from the University. That alone is enough to settle the matter. All the gymnastic about the color or font of certificate is nonsense.
On NYSC, I would have expected Atiku’s legal team to subpoena NYSC to prove the authenticity of the certificate submitted by Tinubu but they failed to do that. So, how did they arrive at the conclusion that the certificate was forged? NYSC is the only authority that can confirm the authenticity or otherwise of an NYSC certificate.
On the drug conviction issue, it is as empty as the lawyer PDP brought to as witness to prove the case. The witness simply helped PDP to ruin a case that was faulty right from the start. There was no criminal conviction or indictment in the forfeiture. The communication from the US government to the IGP already cleared him of all allegation.
Overall, Atiku and Peter Obi simply wasted everyone’s time. They had no case of rigging so they had to throw in a lot of allegations hoping one will stick. Sadly, they proved none. The two cases will be dismissed with heavy cost to the petitioners.
Copied [/b] Honestly, its a whole lot's colossal waste of time, money and energy. |
Education › Re: Man Learns Admission Was Fake 7yrs After Graduating, Starts All Over, Graduates by Desusi: 3:11am On Jun 26, 2023 |
stanvesco: Motivational gbogbo...
I know one doctor oh Thats how he graduated from university,served and worked for a big hospital. It was now when he was going abroad for a presentation.
Who now found out that he cheated during his jamb examination...
Kai
Naso d man sweeeer.....go back university
And graduated again
Now he is d only one doing head transplantation. Head transplant? Well-done! E Ku use,Daalu!Ranks deidei! |
Family › Re: People Are Suffering. by Desusi: 3:01am On Jun 26, 2023 |
sukkot: yeah life was tough for all the Africans I saw back then. They housed them in make shift tents with Turks while waiting for their aduro papers . Tough life. But yeah life is a journey through the underworld. You need grace . Wishing you all the best too brother. I would definitely link up with you sometime You're welcomed. You truly had the experience. Germans don't mixed with others,they would isolate foreigners even their closed neighbours Belgians,Russians, dutches.All the best. |
Family › Re: People Are Suffering. by Desusi: 2:50am On Jun 26, 2023 |
isArray: My take: if you don't understand German and you are living outside the main cities: Berlin, Munich, Hamburg you would struggle to get by with other people Speaking German? I was a domeltscher for polizie.l can speak excellent German language, l would go with Nigerian to courts,police stations to defend them,particularly those with issues. Even when l arrived Nigeria, l would go to marriage registry and translated marriage divorce letters for money.Sometimes, l prepare Nigerians preparing for A1,2,3_ German language in gothe schools in V/ISLAND personally at home.Many of them indeed are making it and are checking out. |
Family › Re: People Are Suffering. by Desusi: 9:24pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
sukkot: you know what's funny ? I have lived in Aachen before. For 2 months. A street called zeppelin strasse . Wow. Small world. Well I am back in Nigeria too and ermm it's not perfect but if you know how to package your life it's actuality not too bad. Am loving it so far but only because I don't have a job here. I reckon it would be hell if I had a job. I try to hustle online remotely Yeah,Aachener Mensch! One of the most toughest city for foreigners when you're planning to stay.l was first in Duren,then,Alsdorf and Aachen.Certainly, the best thing to do, is to have a business of your own when you arrive here never plan to be employed by anyone, you would be frustrated.Wishing you all the best. You can connect me if you're able to take the bull by the head. Life is a journey. |