₦airaland Forum

Emilo:
I see people making this mistake all the time but I think it’s greed (maybe wrong). if u had done just 2 self contained you will be earning some cash today. But u can still sell it and use the money to invest on something else.

Prenonjebose:
Not able to push for the career path I wanted at point of gaining admission to uni. Then, also not being sensitive enough to stop the chain of events that led to my sister's death, that's quite painful

UyaiIncomparabl:
Actually, parents are the ones to blame. They procreated and made you. Not God. We didn't ask to be birthed, they choose to do so out of our free will. Sucks.

But, I agree with you. Taking one's life will always be an option. How long exactly should someone keep hoping for?

Precious101c:
Spending my life savings of almost 35million to build 10self contain apartment for rent, now my money has finished and I haven't completed the house. Am even struggling to eat now meanwhile I have 35million worth of uncompleted building , not rentable.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Club Cubana is the answer. I worked there. If you have ever been there or clubbed there, then you'd understand how making thousands could be easy peasy in one night. I could make as much as 500k on a weekend. Then, I was like LAPO to family and friends. If you met me then to borrow you 1M, it would be readily available.

I was a teenage girl, naive and impressionable. I felt everyone had a good heart — like me. I would always help anyone who came to me having money problems. Anyone. I'd make sure you live la Vida loca as far as you came to me for help and I know you.

I had an admission to study in Finland, and then I got duped of over 5Ms by an agent. Sadly, this person was introduced to me by family. Till now, I don't know her whereabouts. I doled out uncountable monies doing giveaways without plans because I felt it would always be there. Even my parents were no good.

Do you know what it feels like to have over 9M in one minute and be stark broke in another? Sometimes, I sit and stare forlornly and just think I have nothing else to live for. When I tell people I'm depressed, they laugh at me and call me bipolar or make jest of me about being depressed. You don't understand it, mate. Like another Nairalander said, maybe I'm just still very weak and playing cowardice to snuff life out of me. Or maybe, I'm still very undecided. Time will tell.

Mind you, I have things going on for me but I can't forking move on. I hate everyone who I ever was there for. I hate them. I regret every forking thing I ever did for them. 😭. Maybe, I just had too many expectations. Just maybe. But, why should I not? I forking cared for them. Why shouldn't I?

I'm sorry about the epistle.

UyaiIncomparabl:
And you are perfect?

Perfection is illusory. EVERYONE, and I mean EVERYONE have flaws. I don't know what you mean by “significantly flawed” but it's illusive to think there's a perfect woman out there for you. Funny how people who critique other people's flaws are usually the most flawed people.

Princeton92:
That I didn't join the army or do my mechanical engineering I had in mind...
Most times I regret it with heart break cause my commandant was ready to push me into NDA

Yungmil:
You got it wrong here!!!! You don't need to go to university to do all what you just wrote above.once you can read and write then you are educated.

University only gives you further specialization on a particular field, but not even as deep as practically learn a skill.
You think so?

Once you can read and write( highest secondary education) then you are educated. Gbam

mywells:
My regrets was being in a relationship for 10yrs without a child.

ufotty2001:
even me am going through the same thing. Am close to 40! I have all the money now but have not seen a girl I want to marry to..

Cassandraloius:
Well after 5 years one strange number called me, and was saying, it's me pls I'm sorry for everything I have done to you, I didn't hesitate to block him.

CalmElder:
I regret snubbing a very attractive 42 year old American lady because of 10 years difference in age.

I didn't know how to pretend.

Sitwalkstand:
How does this ameliorate the suffering of Nigerians.

Shift

nedekid:
But you know it happens more on the female side. Husband will give wify money, she will give it to one small boy shining her Kongo. Ladies will date a guy, be chopping his money. Some will even go as, deceiving him there is a future, yet milking him and diverting the owo to the real niggar she loves, wen you even see the fellow, you will just be shaking head in disgust.
Anyway, don't use my post as a benchmark, I was young then, over 30 years ago.

nedekid:
Kai, big mistake, never give out money valuable to you ie money meant for a purpose.
My gf then in Ui saw I was broke. She had some dollars. Gave me $100. Omo, that night I drove to Sabo, changed the money. 100 dollars was 5000 naira then. I used the cash to carry another babe for goodtime.

thaoriginator:
You can't regret that, you have no will or power over that. You don't choose where you get borne

Likoya:
My biggest regret in life is following the advice of my parents instead of my passion. Now wey everything don burst, it's my fault and I just hope I don't commit suicide soon.

donbachi:
Not breaking one of my uncles head with bottle 10 years ago

Buharidgeneral:
this epistle is not necessary. Just one sentence is ok

Omihanifa:
You mean you are a graduate and you don't know the meaning of bsc hons.

Foodqueen:
Na junior she name her pikin so.

Her baby daddy is your wife's ex.

Fear all these women that claim, their boyfriend is abroad.

Na lie, they are just ashamed to come out with the truth , hence the abroad cover-up.

Between,it's non of your business.provided it wasn't your wife that named your child that.

Una can Sabi worry for where trouble no de.

Beremx:
Majesty is a beautiful name. Why is the name giving you nightmares? Your wife has moved on from her ex, you don't want to move on yourself?

PrincessofDSS:
Do you feel inferior to wife’s ex boyfriend

What’s your business with the name your wife’s sister gave to her baby?

Are you saying that your wife impregnated her sister and asked her to name the baby after her ex boyfriend



Men like you are inexperienced and seriously dangerous to theirselves

Watch it Dude be4 you loose it

Incase you don’t know, once you start having this kinda mindset; frm that point henceforth, everyone and everything around your wife becomes a suspect and suspicious to you!!!

Sorry; there’s no need of being economical with the truth here!!!!!

I have to give it to you straight up be4 you increase the number of broken homes that we already have in Nigeria

Damn ur swag!!!

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Electricity tariff on the high

Tertiary institution fee on the high

Price of fuel on the high

114 percent increase in the salary of elected politicians waiting to be approved by tinubu

Guess what POC every year have been introduced right about now....poc is proof of car ownership certificate of 1000 naira every year
And yet no protest in Nigeria
No problem the politics of tribalism We all playing is obvious
let play it together and see how it gonna end

larrypourl:
I'm currently in such situation. It's such an horrible experience I don't even wish on my enemies. I lost her May 6th in auto crash and it's not been easy. Nothing in life matters again at the moment. I don't see myself remarrying in 2years except God gives me a replica of her in looks, character and actions. I've lost interest in life, just masking depression with smiles. I cry almost everyday when I find myself doing things we do together all alone now. I can't even stay in our apartment, her print is allover the house, is it her side of the bed, her favorite spot in the living room, how we eat on the dining from the same plate, how she prepared our meal while I sit or assist in the kitchen cos she always wanted me around, the guest room is filled with her cloths, bed and wardrobe, I can't stand seeing those things. We had plans, all shattered now. Life is vague.

Ashley86400:
Let’s hear it?
Do men wait 1 year to sleep with another woman after their wife dies?
Pls enlighten us.

talented321:
The manchi is on colos.
Nigerians too like vawulence.
People cannot do mistake in peace again.
The other when Biden fell like a child, america was peaceful.

isArray:
Ahh, you've a very huge advantage 🙌🏿 I'd move to a suburb once my German is solid

Chinjo2:
These ones are just seeking attention and trying to cause more division between the Yorubas and the Igbos who have coexisted for several years.
Besides, na this one them wan take fight war?