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Igbofam:
USA are the master strategists and negotiators.

Russia is about to experience hell and the death of their air superiority

So US gave Slovakia her Patriot Missile batteries in exchange for their S-300 given to Ukraine.

I love the United States.

My question is. instead of sending weapons, why can't these countries help negotiate so the war can end?

Fuckyoumod:
no worry I go finish the story.

Ok. I dey wait. I dey interested in the story

Fuckyoumod:
yes ooh ...
Normally her husband goes out early to work, a manager in a bank.

So I decided to play around with her, I loved her like mad, I treated and pampered her like a baby, I knew what she was lacking from her husband.

At some point she wished I was her hus., She get husband but I was her command in chief.
So that day we were supposed to meet around 10 a:m at my place. Hotel was too risky...

She called to know the Items we needed to keep ourselves ok without any interference.
This is our routine, we made sure there is food, fruits, drinks, wines and other edibles.

I won't lie, at some point she became madly in love with me, gave me everything I needed. Kinda busy now.

To be continued...,....

Guy! I still dey wait for the conclusion of this your story naw!
Since morning, I don check taya

This guy funny sha!

So wetin you wan do now?

Bros, don't keep it too long in heart. Confront her as quick as possible, cos you don't it will hunt you down in long run.
Her response will open your eyes to your next move.

Like someone said on this tread, she knows she's done something wrong, but she's observing you, to know if you're a weakling or not.
What kind of stupid play is that, for me it's downgrading to you for your wife to display such act in public or even private. And am sure people around knows you with your wife o.
Don't take it likely. Investigate the matter and do the needful, I don hear and see things, these married ladies no wan free again o

Romanoff:
If I'm not pokenosing into my son's home, why will I care how they choose to live their lives?

Like I've said, I know couples who it works for.

The wife is the account manager and she holds the ATMs.

Different house expenses comes from different accounts.

These marriages are over 10 years old.

If it doesn't work, e for done pack up like una modern three months marriages.

Stay out of people's businesses.

10/years no mean say dem dey happy o.

OP abed investigate, ask the man, find why his wife holds his ATM and why she receives the alert?
Please I want to know and I know most people here will like to know

Na so I pack my car oooo. Nobody tell me when I sell am

When will this man learn that he's dealing with a green snake who won't hesitate to bite him in the ass at the slightest opportunity



Am sure he has learnt is lessons, and he knows the people he's dealing with.

With the Intel baba dey get, him no understand buhari again

Onyiiobi7735:
True talk.This war could have been avoided in the first place,but the foolish Ukraine president allowed himself to be manipulated by the West.

You're correct!
Another thing is, why are the west not talking about peace and resolution. Why can't they mediate for peace instead, instead they are talking of sending more weapons

Lol funny experience I must say.
One early morning I and some colleagues was at the bus stop waiting for company's staff bus.
Suddenly I noticed 2 young guys walking towards us like they want to pass. At that point i was not looking at them cos i thought they are going their own way, but as they got close to us I just heard "Oya How far" only for me to raise my head and saw someone holding a gun. Omo na so my eye clear, this boy started searching us with confidence, collecting our phones and any valuable.
One funny thing that makes me laugh whenever I remember that incident, was how I called them bros come take even before they got to me.
And another funny thing was how we all struggled to pass one narrow road as they ordered us run!

Behold! One bike guy was waiting for them

Totilopussylick:
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Am interested. Am a forklift operator, I learnt it's lucrative over there

Truvelisback:
For the sake of ur 4 children and their well being, u should leave the Shop for her, otherwise, i would have advise u to take the Shop.

She threatened that if am leaving, I should make sure I go with the kids.
My plan is if truly she's serious about that, then am not leaving the shop for her

Truvelisback:
Has she bore u Children?

Yes, four kids

ambient:
Can you honestly point out what you think are your red flags she has been managing in the name of love too? So we can see it from her own perspective.

I thnk she alone can point it out, but only think I know complained about was a particular friend I have. And I made sure I reduced my movement with this particular friend and when I have to change apartment i moved far away to another location, but things still got worse

eyinjuege:
You sef you get your own for body.
You asked her if she wants to end things, she replied and said you should do what you want.
You've come before the world to say she asked for a divorce when she obviously didn't, even from your own write up.
It seems you're one of those people that will twist things to favour their own narrative.
If you're tired of your wife and want a divorce, just say so with your full chest and stop cutting corners

I understand what you're talking about. But I wish you know me personally, I would have introduced you to people that knows about us, so you could ask them yourself.
Make e no be like say I dey talk to look innocent

Writerz:
If you know how to keep malice very well, do as if she doesn't exist for at least one month. Only speak to your kids, go to work, come back home and then sleep. On no occasion should you eat her food or talk to her. Don't even greet. If she asks for things in the house, do it as a responsible husband. But don't ask her questions. Just ghost her.

Then watch for her behavior within this time span. If she doesn't change, ask her directly if she wants divorce. Tell her it's because youre tired of her behavior. A reasonable woman should be able to detect your behavioral change during this time and try to adjust, if not you're only living with a roommate not wife.

Op, I think it's the little money she's getting from her business that contributed to your woes. But she no try at all.

If you do this for one month and she doesn't change, chances are she wants out of the relationship, ask her, n give it to her if that's what she want. By the time she goes out there, she'll know that one with a husband has some sort of protection. Good luck. Cheers

I no sabi keep malice my brother.

I did ask her, that's when the recent issue triggered. I called her some days back talk to her about her attitude. Then I told her to go think about everything I said.
Only for to call her after 3day, and she said she doesn't remember we had any discussion, that she has other important thing to think about. That really got me pissed

ambient:
This her attitude is not because of the buisness but what she has endured for 14years,how where you during her house wife and stay at home days,does she have to grovel and beg for things? She has smell financial freedom and it is intoxicating,she knows she doesn't have to be a mumu or humble to get what she wants.
Oga you need to talk to your wife and have a deep discussion,alot of men keep maltreating women then become surprise when the woman change.

Well, this is the reason I don't always talk when she's not around. Though most times she denies when the issue goes out.
Like I said before, I saw the red flag even when we are dating

tommy589:
It is good to empower your wife and give her the necessary support to flourish in her business. But some her better left alone, or they turnaround to bite the fingers that fed them

I walked this path before, so I know your pain. If she is not the one providing your upkeep let her go, or can you continue with this daily torture?

I am working.
My brother, am tired I no go lie

Kobojunkie:
I don't know about you but when I am depressed I need people to stay the fk away from me at that point.... I will be having none of their cares-shmare. So here again you are saying things that don't compute... be honest with us. What did you do to your wife to change the rhythm that used to exist between you two?,

Like I said on the post, she's been like that. Bad attitude, stubbornness, keeping malice. All these she did while we were dating but because I loved her I went ahead with the relationship.

Klass99:
There are too many threads authored by men, with a similar theme/story. The wife is disrespectful, doesn't listen to hubby and often denies him sex.

Is it copy and paste, or are most men really going through the same issues? I don't doubt that it's the latter.

How times have changed on Nairaland, it is used to be that, women were the ones always creating threads with a theme of cheating husbands, domestic violence or being taken for granted.

This 21st century women are not joking or smiling any longer.

Well, this is my true story. I purposely didn't include cheating part, or msgs I stumbled on her phone. Cause I no want nairaland trashing

immortalcrown:
Your caption says she wants a divorce. No sentence in the post supports the caption. Therefore, you are just assuming she wants a divorce. She has not said she wants a divorce.

You said you saw all the attitudes before you married her. This means she has always been who she is and you are the one trying to change who you are. Therefore, you are the one causing problems in your home. Keep forming loving and caring so there will be peace in your home. Had it been her attitude changed, I would have joined you to say she wants a divorce. Her attitude remains the same according to you.

As for her, she does not know the meaning of marriage but I will not say much about her since this post is not by her.

Now let me tell you something important. You are not giving her orgasm and she does not want to help or teach you how to do it for her. That is why she denies you sex.

OK, we've been on this divorce/separation issues for sometime now. Truth be told you made some point here when you talked about attitude.
I didn't elaborate on the divorce issue cause I thought my write up was getting too long

Kobojunkie:
Because you are marriage you are meant to become one. What disturbs the one partner ought rightly to disturb the other, unless ofcourse you are simply roommates with separate lives.

Thanks for this reply. I notice that whenever am disturbed or depressed, she doesn't really care

Kobojunkie:
From the bold, it seems you were also tired of the marriage, so why act surprised here or am I missing something?

You no tell us what transpired and how you all went from being lovey dovey to where you are now. Make we at least get an idea of how she has been fairing in her marriage to you.

Sure I am tired and depressed and to your second question, she's the kind that take your love and caring for an advantage to ride you. Bad attitude if you ask me

Bluntguy:
You yourself should also say the things you have done against her, let us then begin to advise you from there.

You've said well. The only thing I would say I did was being nice and loving to her. She's the kind of person that if you show too much softness, she would want to be in control

Early this year my wife started doing business and to our surprise the business picked up fast, sale was good.

The Idea for the business came up last year when my sister called my wife and asked her what would she like to do, since she was just a full time house wife and all responsibility was been taken care of by me and support from my sister.

My sister made this call because of the various quarrel and misunderstanding between me and my wife almost every time.
My wife is the kind of person that doesn't take advice and doesn't respect me, she fast to answer my questions with question, always ready to keep malice with me for as long as possible.

Yes, I saw all this bad attribute when we were dating, but I was forming loving and caring guy and still went ahead with the relationship. We'av been together now for 14 years now and I must say here that it has been hell for me, at times I almost want to beg for sex.
If I start mentioning everything here, you guys won't believe.

To cut the story short, now that the shop business is going well, her attitude is worse more than before. Anytime she goes to market and when she returns if I ask her what and what she bought, she will reply violently, that I should not be asking her. That, don't I have eyes., she talks to me violently in presence of her younger once
So I called her some day back, spoke to her that I don't like her attitude. That she should tell me if she wants to continue or not. After some days I call her, her reply was she didn't even remember we had any discussion. So I told her that her attitude shows she doesn't want to continue the relationship, that's where she started shouting that I should do whatever I want, I should go if I want, that she doesn't care.

N.B
The funny part is if she needs anything from the shop, she will ask me to buy for her.
Some days back I got back from work and immediately told me gas has finished. How of curiosity I asked why didn't she fill it, her response was (from which money)

Well, I don't even know what to say. Cos am in the process of divorcing too.

ABIODUN105:
Russia and Ukraine please put a stop to this war we beg you please

I wonder why the west can't push for resolution and peace.

OK! But why are the west not pushing for peace?

Bahamas95:
9months in detention and she came out with flat tommy.


What a lucky girl.

Condom dey prison naw.

Noooo

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