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pocohantas:
Now I have confirmed understanding isn't your forte.

Simple question: Does keeping your virginity till marriage make you a better person. Answer: NO!

The question wasn't, are you a virgin?
Or, do you support girls keeping their virginity till marriage?

Damn! I hate to explain basic comprehension to people!!!

Keeping virginity till marriage makes people better.
That was explained when I quoted you the 1st time.

Last Bullet
You are the one with little understanding.
You get replies based on what you post.

pocohantas:
So many people lost theirs in different ways, so many people have been unfortunate.

If at all I have lost mine, you don't know how lost it.

So, shut the fukc up and stop making this about me and my hymen. The OP asked a general question which I answered. There are guys that also said same thing, why are you on my matter?

Chastity is for both men and women.
Till you start telling men to drill each other asses.
Then tell women to abstain. There would be more hymen for you to worship. Till then, back off.

This is the second post where you v replied as if you are angry.
I m not here for you, or to condemn you as a non virgin.
I only told you my perception from the way you replied.
I m not shielding any man from losing his virginity & loss of virginity has not turned people to condemned creatures. Don't feel like am attacking you.
You sounded so feminine like a defender of girls that were condemned for losing their virginity. That's cool. I m neutral here. Not to criticize, don't frown at me. I even overlooked your first post of calling most guys on this thread unintelligent. Its funny you know.

Last Bullet
And you claiming guys should start fuc king each other is out of point.
Their are virgin gays, lesbians etc. We talking virginity here girl!

YelloweWest:
OK so let's agree that what u just described is African culture not Christianity.

No... Christianity ke! Its not just a church thing.
Islam & some African Traditional Religion also forbids sexual immorality.

The issue of virginity is not religion based alone.

YelloweWest:
I'm not saying women should be promiscuous.
But why is the emphasis of infidelity always laid on the woman when men are the overwhelming majority of cheats?

Why?

It's the unfortunate unwritten culture of the world. Especially in African & the Middle East.
It's favorable to men than woman.
A man that v sex with multiple women is regarded as a sharp shooter but a woman with multiple men as sex partner is known as a slut.
That's why I feel sorry for these feminists. They are in the wrong part of the world �.

Last Bullet
But let's keep telling the young ones What's right, virginity, chastity etc.
Btw, are you a female?

YelloweWest:
LOL.
Lie of the century. Virgin man would definitely want to explore and test the waters.
It is only the fear of God that can keep a man from infidelity. Yet 99% of Nigerian men still cheat.
I'm yet to see a nigerian man married for upto 30years without cheating.

You are right.
But some men still try to keep themselves. So also some ladies.
You cant say because guys are promiscuous girls too should be like that.

NorthSide:
At least she is far better than the bum short wearing slay corpers

She dressed decently but has violated NYSC dress code.
This girl n others that wear bum short NYSC khaki should be arrested for questioning

YelloweWest:
That's not what u said about women. What does the research say about a virgin girl man wanting to explore?

Research says a man that have sex with a virgin lady ll get used to the puss y of that virgin lady.

Eyan Mayweather...will win.
Conor Mcgregor only has initial gra gra.
He ll lose the fight via dis qualification. During the match, he ll get carried away & kick Mayweather
thinking its UCF

YelloweWest:
What does that research say about virgin men?

The same.
A man that once had sex will want more. Staying a virgin or going secondary virgin is good

pocohantas:
Next.
https://www.nairaland.com/4006735/landlord-tenant-arrested-turning-13-year-old

Come and help us restore that girl's virginity.

The girl was just unfortunate.
We not talking about this kinda case.
Mind you, am not here to side men.
If I v my way, I ll declare that Landlord's dic k should be removed & so for other molesters & rapists.
Last Bullet
I see you don't want cheating. A virgin man for a virgin lady & vice versa.
Its cool, but the World is unfair, so I tell you again, still advocate for virginity even if you ain't one anymore.
Tell that to everyone that haven't lost theirs.

pocohantas:
Some of you men here are not very smart, so you don't know how to separate a post from its owner. Are you a virgin? Except you wanna start drilling asses of your fellow men, then tone down on the hypocrisy.

Tell your sons and fellow men to stop the sexual molestations too, it will also help in this matter.

Show me what is unintelligent in my post & I ll keep quiet!
I just told you in a raw & blunt way the need to be a virgin.
Yes, some guys v missed it just like girls by exploring sex at the wrong time.
Its good to be virgin till marriage, it improves ones self determination. I m not going to preach or talk sex education.
But fact.
Its obvious you are no longer a virgin.
You feel guys that once had sex also doesn't deserve virgins. Yes, as human you may feel like that. All these can lead to cheating.
Though cheating occurs in diff forms.
Last Bullet
Research tells that a virgin girl gets used to the penni s that fuc ks it at first.
When she taste another dic k, she may want to explore.

YelloweWest:
Will marrying a virgin guarantee the man won't cheat and bring home std hpv HIV etc?
U that is saying she is not a virgin, are u a virgin yourself?
You guys are just full of hypocrisy.

Yes, I m till I got married.
Research tells that a virgin girl gets used to the penni s that fuc ks it at first.
When she taste another dic k, she may want to explore.

pocohantas:
NO, it doesn't entirely make you a better person.

Yea, nothing wrong with men being virgins.
Men wear rings too, or don't they wear in your neighbourhood?

You think it's right for a lady to keep her pussie for years...only to donate it to a guy who can be recognised by over 100 ladies with his prick picture alone?

Guess you are no longer a virgin.
But you can try to tell your daughter to be a virgin at least till she's engaged.
Fuckin g a virgin puss y is cool.
You v got to enlarge the coast by yourself as a man.
More so, it combats std, promiscuity & unwanted babies.

webincomeplus:
He forgot the fact that being an actor/comedian made him popular, and that popularity was the foundation he built his newfound mentorship career on. Who patronizes an unknown mentor?

Well, since he said he wasted 10 years of his life, I can't but agree with him. What's my own? It's his life, not mine.

well said

OoduaLeke:
lol wetin concern Ijebus with them, Ijebus only reply to serious issues, not fabus.
the article is not new, he just copied and pasted it directly from Joshua project, which in turn quoted a very old literature by itegboje the etsakor man.

Don't mind the Binis. They are confused history twisters

KingOvoramwen1:

I dey wait them..... Before there was Ijebu there were Edo's!!

Nobody is CLAIMING oldest except you.
It's common among Binis that they are the oldest kingdom in the Southern Nigeria.
They tell their history to the extent that it twist that of the Yorubas.

KingOvoramwen1:
Must you yorubers cry over everything

It was even started in that Article the origin of the Uneme people ... They are Edo's who descended from Edo's!

Where did you see Yoruba origin there??

They have no connection to yoruberr watsover

Damn you people really have Inferiority complex

You could v answered scholes0 maturely without insulting Yorubas. You said they v inferiority complex.

The man only questioned where he saw Igbo Orunmila as present day Ijebu-Ode. And truly, no Awujale bears Ogiedo
Anyways, just wait as Ijebus will use Benins to shine shoe in few days.
They are among the Yorubas with the sharpest tongue, alongside Ibadans

MarieSucre:
Honest question bro, where you a virgin when you married her?

yes.

DebbyChris:
Don't you know that a man who fears God won't beat his wife, cheat, misbehave etc.

This kinda man is the Pastor type or morally upright man.
A regular Nigerian chic that has sampled at least 4 guys before marriage doesn't deserve this kind of man.

If you don't know, we guys v our priorities well defined. My fiance was attracted to me cos of her long gown. She appeared beautiful but not sexy or sultry.
Cos you can't determine the sexyness of a lady through revealing cloth but by having sex with her. We don't live in deceit.
Any girl that wear revealing cloth is advertising sex, not love.

QueenSekxy:
the second to comment have already shouted olosho...they see no problem slut shaming girls. .but see it as a big problem when they are called broke

Is cheating the right solution to broke guys.
Why not quit the relationship instead of possibly giving the guy std via cheating.
Ashleycoco made no sense.

And back to you, are you richer than your husband, fiance or boyfriend?
If not, you are a broke girl.

NwaAmaikpe:

Every billionaire has more than 3 sources of income. No wiseman puts all his eggs in one basket.
Likewise, a greatman should not have all his children from only one woman.
Nice one Odunlade. This is the first step to greatness.

receive brain

Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.

No.
Guys are not sex starved cos they could have payed prostitutes.
What the op is saying is a relationship without sex is not romantic.
If a girl can allow a guy to kiss her & suck her breas t but deny sex, that's foul play.
Especially the one that has eaten the guy's money.
If any girl does that to me, she ll pay with her vagin a & anus.
I m so savaged that when I m hurt, I strike back like scorpion.

StephDamielola:
It's the rule of the game so let us be ok... At least we are better than Arsenal FC

seems u didn't know dat Arsenal now has 3points over Chelsea

MhizzAJ:
What's happening in Ogun state

She said she's ready to join the movie industry if only someone can help her..She probably knows how to act

Lmao.
No mind those criminals spoiling Ogun State's name.
Its my state.
Why you get negative news mostly from there is cos of the high rate of civilization of the state.

alcmene:
That's the food Afonjas can afford for the meantime.

Passed through Ilaro, Ita-Ogbolu and other remote areas of Ondo state and had pity on those guys.

Pity every region in Nigeria.

The protesters ran away cos they dont v complete papers. About the lone protester, he s lucky he s doing it in London and not Lagos. Nigeria, Africa is a place of torture. I m just managing
.

haykinzz:
She is just 16years old going to SS3 now. She is so pretty that every guy wants to date her even some of my mates do admire her but I know the mind of guys, she is too young they just want to have their way with her.
I used to be strict with her before, seize her phone, beats her up whenever she talks with any guy but my friends told me I don't need to do that, they adviced me to sit her down and talk with her.
Now I don't even know where to start with her, what kind of advice to give.

Should I tell her not to date or have any boyfriend??

Should I tell her not to have sex with her boyfriend or go visit any male friends??.

Our parents are old and too busy to look after her, its all down to me to do the job.


I need help please, how can I advice her

Don't mind my English oo, I be youruba boy.

Yoruba ni won fi tor mi dagba

No dating till 18, no sex at all.
No sultry dress .
Those guys ll just make her to be an insatiable lady if they start tasting her.

Mynd44:
Savagery everywhere.

When Fayose becomes Vice President, the person handling that handle is done for

That's PDP's plan. Peering him wt Atiku Lol

Man dey suffer

NwaAmaikpe:


Great guy,
This is one of the bravest Nigerian ever and undoubtedly the bravest Yoruba man ever.

It's sad all his offsprings are unfortunate mediocres who didn't fit into Abami Eda's shoes

Soon, you ll see how brave Yorubas are.

Divay22:
Bitter but true
If you keep waiting for money, even if you've gotten it you'll still not know you've got it.

a reasonable guy knows the right time.
its girls that loves comfort in marriage.
they are the first to complain about anything.