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During the Lockdown in 2020, I happened on a misandrists-masking-as-feminists thread on Twitter. In the nested comments, I found a book being shared authored by an anonymous person called DAMN. DAMN is the acronym for "Destroy A Man Now".

In the book when I downloaded, it shares tips on how to destroy a man. The first chapter focused on the weaponisation of false accusations, and employing tools of tears and threats of mental health. I've reread the book almost twice a year since then.

Theflint1:
If Olukoya starts to move funny the way Akpabio did, as though he's trying to oppress his accuser I'd call for a transparent process.

Olukoya is an upstanding citizen, Akpabio is whoever we know him to be, of course I'd give Olukoya the benefit of doubt when such accusations are made against him. I gave Akpabio neutrality ( unlike Disstroy who sided with him from the jump) and only called for transparency which I think is fair still when he used his authority as senate leader to get Natasha punished.

Rubbish! My post history and antecedence on and off this platform prove I have ALWAYS sided with any man accused by a woman of sexual assault, harassment or molestation WITHOUT PROOF.

If a woman accuses you this minute, TheFlint, without proof, I'd take your side a 100%, no questions asked.

Theflint1:


James McIntyre submitted himself to a transparent legal process and he can hold his head high knowing he triumphed and a simple Google search would provide evidence of his innocence.

Akapbio however can't do same because he was wrongly advised, and when people Google his name, all they'd see was he was accused of sexual harassment and chose instead to use his power as Senate president to get his accuser suspended.

However much you and I might think he's innocent, we might never know the truth of things because of how he handled things... and whoever won the battle of shaping the narrative (Natasha) would determine how he's forever perceived.

Stop being naive! In any sexual-hued or assault accusation, a man never wins. Whatever victory he gets at the court or legally - even if the accusing woman does confess to her falsehood - is pyrrhic: it comes at the the cost of his reputation being forever charred.

- Greenwood recently got called a ràpist by Bellingham despite Greenwood's accuser admitting she blew her accusations out of proportion, and he's still with the woman who accused him; even had a child with her.

- Johnny Depp is still forever branded an abuser despite the public revelations of him being the real victim of his accuser, Amber Heard.

- Ronaldo is still being taunted as a ràpist.

- UcheMandyMUFC who was falsely accused by B_moree had to change his username because feminists continued to insist he raped her, despite the evidence to the contrary and B_Moree recanting her insinuation.

- Ese Oniru and Bukola Dakolo had no evidence or people corroborating their stories but the clergymen they accused have been forever branded.

The day MFM's Dr. Olukoya becomes very opinionated about Nigerian sociopolitics, the false accusations yesterday would be used against him.

As a man, the moment a woman accuses you - falsely even, the world forever puts an asterisk on your name. You know this, I know this, we know this.

Breaking News!

Federal Prosecutors drop charges against man falsely accused by Rep. Nancy Mace in Chicago: https://thechicagolandjournal.com/statement-federal-prosecutors-drop-charges-against-chicago-man-rep-nancy-mace-falsely-accused-of-assault/ .
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Guess what?
1. Rep. Nancy Mace isn't going to face any jail term for falsely accusing the man of rape.
2. The man has been forever branded as a ràpist by the internet and feminists aka misandrists would continue to tag him a ràpist regardless.

Like I opined days ago, if Akpabio were a regular man on the street, jail would have been a kinder fate for him.

Like Rep. Nancy Mace, a bulk of those who presumed Natasha was stating the truth and/or had a case - the lack of evidence regardless, were... You guessed right: men; men like TheFlint1.

Anyway, let's continue to believe any woman accusing without evidence. It will go round.

Theflint1:
So you now agree that you've been lying abi?

You're very good at digging post histories, and you won't have to dig far sef to get my posts in the Akpabio situation. Can you provide any quote where I said Akpabio was guilty of the crimes Natasha accused him of, or that he should step down as senate president.

You're so pressed that I'm not jumping on the bandwagon of "declaring Akpabio innocent" that you can't differentiate between a call for transparency and me saying he's guilty. I told you that you've become the very evil you sought out to fight against...a false male accuser, dangerous to men especially, and society in general.

Admit I am lying? You've been insisting Natasha has a case, over and over like a one-track cassette. Every logical person who isn't marinated in the pool of his own hatred knows only evidence or the promise of it makes a case.

You insisted Natasha had a case because you hate Akpabio. In the same format, another woman accused Dr. Olukoya, but because you have nothing against him as a non-member of the ruling adminstration you so despise, you insisted Olukoya is innocent and his accuser lying.

Pray tell, how does Natasha have a case which must be "investigated with transparency" but Olukoya's accuser's doesn't merit the same transparent investigation? Why? Easy answer: You hate one and are indifferent about the other.

You had your hatred lead you the whole time. A sentimental man is a dangerous. The Heavens save the next falsely accused man from you and your gang.

Theflint1:
If you like repeat this lie 500 times, it won't make it true.

Oh! So, essentially, we, your accusers, need to provide evidence to corroborate our accusations against you before it's valid but same you didn't insist on Natasha providing evidence to backup her accusations as the accuser of Akpabio?

You want to remain innocent until proven guilty but Akpabio and other men so accused shouldn't partake of the legality of culpability?

Do you realise how cognitively dissonant your stance is being as contradictory as logic goes?
If you do a Jamie Foxx and blame it on the alcohol, we'd understand knowing in retrospect you were inebriated.

On the Australian Government's House of Parliament's website, there's an extensive research showing the gender bias and how society immediately tries and condemns a man in the court of public opinion even when he is accused by a woman without evidence.

it goes on to list certain organisations like White Ribbon dedicated to crucifying and campaigning against men falsely accused and never expends the same energy when the accusing woman is found out to be a liar.
Organisations championed by and sponsored in part by men. Ihttps://www.aph.gov.au/DocumentStore.ashx?id=abfe0359-439f-4af7-884a-c8584e816843&subId=695558

Rings a bell? Familiar? Kind of how TheFlint1 campaigned hard insisting Femme Fatale Natasha had a case and Akpabio should step aside to face the law but TheFlint played bk when Natasha yesterday admitted he suspension had nothing to do with sexual harassment.

False allegations are so commonplace and destructive, there's an organisation set up to help people (men) whose reputations are being ruined by false allegations.

And it's not a mushroom run-off-the-men group of rednecks but a respective organisation which would be holding its 2025 AGM this month at.. Pause to guess where... Cardiff University Law School.

https://false-allegations.org.uk/

Neither Akpabio nor Olukoya has been accused of rápe by any woman so nobody is defending any alleged or evidenced rapist on this thread.

But here's is ShinaHansel aka Incel0001 defending a ràpist sacked employee of Linda Ikeji and squaring up against any Nairaland female or male who insists the accused is guilt of the said crime: https://www.nairaland.com/4704215/linda-ikeji-sacks-theo-ukpaa/1#70738731. The rape apologist is the one accusing everyone on this thread of seeking evidence before judging an accused man.

Mountain of Fire Ministries' G.O. Olukoya has now been accused of harassment and hypnotism by one of his former female ministers despite her remaining and pastoring in the Church for 20 years and enjoying all of the benefits. https://www.nairaland.com/8387274/funke-ashekun-olukoya-grabbed-me
Erm, she's also a YouTuber whose social proof is gauged by the engagement metrics she can garner.

Also, she has no evidence or anyone to corroborate her story. But who cares about evidence?


TheFlint1, it's your lucky day. Here's another highly-placed man whose reputation you can wreck justified only by the unfounded accusations of one of his scorned former female associates. Please get to work. Contact your team on Facebook and X while you head the Nairaland division. Ruin his reputation. Spread it all over the internet. Post anecdotes which are as true as unicorns. It doesn't matter - just forever digitally brand him as a molester and hypnotist of women.

He's guilty until he proves otherwise, no?

Hurry up. Before April runs out, there'd be more high profile men you can further try to wreck with false accusations.

Theflint1:
It's not impossible.

I hope you'd learn from this saga. The Jezebel has been consistent in her inconsistency. From insisting Reno harassed her then shying away from his challenge to suing her Uduaghan for harassment to then marrying him and taking on his first name. And on to accusing Sen. Opeyemi Bamidele of harassment in the the Senate then playing blind when the man begged the DSS to investigate and listen to his call logs to exonerate him.

Now she's admitted her suspension had nothing to do with harassment but LNG deal. To top it, she's making a fresh accusation of purported assassination.

If Akpabio were a regular nobody on the street and Natasha who she is, we know, given your reaction here, you'd have beaten him to a pulp or you'd go pyromaniac setting him ablaze. Languishing in jail would have been a kinder fate with your kind involved.

Now you understand why so many innocent men are wasting away in jails. Now we understand how Greenwood's life got ruined for years and he's still attempting to piece it together.

Men like you, driven by hátred or the potential reward of sex with the accuser, are the reason other men get crucified based on unfounded accusations by women seeking to get even with them.
As long as there are men like you out there egging these vile women on, no man is safe. We are one false accusation away from being destroyed. You are the real danger to men world over.

raumdeuter:
Theflint1

Can your gf get her story straight

https://www.nairaland.com/8386565/removed-over-lng-plants-not

Like Spy360 admitted days ago, it has little to do with Natasha and more of hatréd for Akpabio as a key associate of Tinubu.

None of them believed the sexual harassment accusations but partook of the e-lynching of a man falsely accused of it. It's destruction regardless of the facts.

They knew she was economical with the truth from the get-go based on antecedence, but what's a counter evidence to a mob determined to crucify?

ShaqFu:
Disst.roy ma main man. What do you have to say about Lezz' insight to Natasha's shananingans?

I've always known it's prudent never to trust a female, especially one who thinks she's way too pretty and the world should bow at her feet.

The person I pity the most is her husband, one false move from that man, and he's a gunner.

Chevk the frontpage. The femme fatake has eventually admitted her suspension had nothing to do with her false allegations.

The men I pity most those crucify the men she has accused. So many are doing so on social media. Mstk those seeking engagements and following fron gulllible womn they can inbox for sex later. It's all optics.

princeabdul:
Despite all the education and exposure, the kind of thoughts some of you put out is disgraceful.


What's the essence of your education if you're a bigot??

Really?

princeabdul:
There's no state in Nigeria that's as backward as the southeast, how will you not want your people to live in peace??

https://www.nairaland.com/8111177/tension-soldiers-lay-siege-aba/4#130247252

princeabdul:
Despite all the education and exposure, the kind of thoughts some of you put out is disgraceful.


What's the essence of your education if you're a bigot??

Funny coming from you considering how you proclaimed the whole of the Niger Delta is a backward insecure region because Wike was squabbling with Fubara.

princeabdul:
The most backward region in Nigeria, everyone lives in fear and sorrow.

More people testifying against ShinaHansel aka Incel0001 as an obsessive stalking weakling and serial sexual harasser. He couldn't deny it. They all dared him to.

https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/ashawo-beer-parlor/102#75661232

There's a predator on the loose and he's on this thread. Protect your daughters, sisters, wives, and nieces. Apparently no doesn't mean no to our resident soup bandit.

After the public ridiculing and public call-out of Incel0001 aka ShinaHansel by Ishîlöve and Pôcohantas for his obsessive sexual harassment, the thief went full on offensive alternating between slutshaming and trying to get into their good books throughout 2019 and beyond.

You want corroborated evidence of sexual harassment? He's the numero uno on any such list. A predator stalking women who don't give a hoot about him. Ishîlöve dared you to deny so she'd post more evidence.

This is the fôöl who wants another man crucified WITHOUT evidence by a woman who was until that point frolicking with him in intimate private spaces.

Cursed be the minute the ovum which formed you got fertilized! Eugenics would have saved the world the anguish of watching you waste away.

OasisX:


.......TemporaryHansel did alll these holyshìt.

ShinaHansel the soup thief is a Nairaland-infamous clown everyone mops the digital floor of this corner of the cyberspace with.

Here's Îshilove exposing Incel0001: https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/ashawo-beer-parlor/101#75659680 .

Another thing: today is Salah - hide your pot of ram.

Yeah, that's why I have been relentlessly attacking all my state government adminstrations, including Akpabio's, and yesterday with my full details and in groups peopled by government apologists and serving senators I hold a privileged position in.

That's why I spent most of yesterday till late at night anchoring an event attended by a serving Senator reiterating these things to the faces of the political elite with a report to booth I've already begun preparing.

It's not to run your fingers across your keyboard cloaked in the seeming anonymity of Nairaland, can you say it to the faces of these people?
I have, with audiovisual, pictorial, and textual evidence for years (including last night), at my own personal risk. Same DissTrôy was in the same group insisting on evidence if Akpabio is to be treated as such.

If you can prove yourself telling these people these things to their faces and in close quarters, I'd deactivate right now. You'd never be man enough to man up to your oppressors because you're a weakling.

Anyway, you had your time, TemporaryIncel. Far be it from me to engage a dunderheaded simpleton whose self esteem is at the very nadir he had to steal food pictures on the internet to impress strangers and cry over the phone debasing himself for a random woman to give him attention.

Cursed be you a gazillion quintillion times and over!

This was the Ogbono thief Elder001 aka TemporaryIncel defending and fighting a random man accused of rápe from faraway even after many women came forward to accuse him. He cursed out at women on the thread for days insisting on evidence and the principle of innocent until proven guilty. As it should be. https://www.nairaland.com/4704215/linda-ikeji-sacks-theo-ukpaa/1#70738731

The worthléss fool today wants another man taken down for unfounded harassment (not rape) allegations and he's insisting anyone insisting on evidence is bankrolled by Akpabio.

May the spirit of Anini continue to dwell in you!

TemporaryHansel:
Akpabio funds doing wonders.

Akpabio, Wike, OUK, Theodore, Ibori, Chimaroke etc: budgeted sums thieves.

TemporaryHansel aka Elder0001: Ogbono thief and sexual harasser of Pocôhantas while crying like a dying ràt begging Ishîlove on the phone to plead on his behalf till both had to publicly warn him to stay off or face legal consequences right on the pages of Nairaland.

Yep! It's O.T. in the building, gentlemen.

raumdeuter:
Will you in your 30s have sexual relationship and marriage with a 17yr old

Yes or No and why

raumdeuter:
Its a very simple question

Will you as a man over 30yrs marry a 17yr old

YES or NO. If no then WHY

Obi married a child, I am asking will you marry a 17yr old Child

This question was asked twice on the same page of this same thread to Spy360 but he played blind. Twice!

raumdeuter:
Then wait for the court to decide on Natashas evidence presented

How did Akpabio not allow a fair hearing. A fair hearing should be held in court not on the senate floor. Which injustice did he mete on her?

The only offense of Akpabio to you is being in APC and allied to Tinubu.

Anyone in APC is guilty in your books you don't care about the truth just to punish him whether fairly or not
Just to want everything evil happen to him for his political alignment
That is diabolical and if you be woman na pathway to witchcraft.

This is Spy360 defending alleged paedophilia because Peter Obi was accused of it. (Peter Obi didn't marry his wife underaged, by the way.) But Spy360 was making a case for paedophilia generally just to explain away the potentiality of the accusations being true.

Spy360:
How does marrying a 17year amount to pedophilia?

What's the age of consent in Nigeria?

There is a senator and former governor who got married to two girls 13 and 15 respectively.

He has broken no laws.

Same Spy360 wants Akpabio crucified without evidence for allegedly wooing a grown woman.

These people are driven by hátred. There social justice activism is a cover for their vicious campaign of calumny.

Theflint1:
You most likely set on this path for noble reasons, but it seems like you've stared too long in that abyss.

LOL!

We have amala turners then we have you who turns starch to fufu.

Reminds of your stooge and entrenched stooge defence days ago.

TheFlint1, my campaign against believing any woman accusing a man without evidence on and off-Nairaland didn't start today or last month.

I've been invested in it for years: https://www.nairaland.com/4587974/false-rape-allegations-how-men . Here's a now-dormant moniker of mine creating a thread about it 7 years ago.

Theflint1:
You've said on more than one occasion that Akpabio can't be involved in the sort of thing Natasha accused him of...that's quite different from asking for evidence. You've clearly taken a pro-Akpabio position, regardless of what the truth of the situation might be and while I get why you'd take that position, understand that people asking for transparency and due process in the matter don't necessarily mean they support Natasha.

All I've asked for is due process, and not the Kangaroo affair Akpabio has presided over in the senate.

Natasha isn't the first person to accuse Akpabio of these sort of things...in fact Akpabio is the only senator I've seen getting accused of these sort of things (and repeatedly too, I must remind you), so you should understand why I'd want due process followed.

Yes, I have. Also, until there's evidence to the contrary, I don't believe you harass women, even if a random moniker turns up accusing you of same.

Same way I didn't believe Dani Alves was a sexual offender because there was no prior experience proving so, the false accusations regardless.

Unlike you, I refuse to believe all men are monsters by default; until each man is evidently proven to be so.

Nobody stands up for men. I'd stand up for me. Maybe if more men do, we'd have our prisons decongested of innocent men falsely accused waiting for trials that would never come.

Theflint1:
Diss.troy is too emotionally invested in the situation to see things for what they are.

No, I'm not. Emotionality is a weakness. I've stated this a thousand times. Instead, I'm one of the few logical ones on this issue insisting on evidence.

If I were emotionally invested in Akpabio, I won't go on unprovoked unrelated tirades on this thread for years every other week terming him a crook and corrupt even when the topic being discussed is Portable or Mayor of Ekiti. You'd admit I insult him every other day.

By agreeing with Spy360's stance, you've unwittingly corroborated the accusations of you wanting Akpabio or any person linked to the FG taken down even if it's on falsehood.

Akpabio isn't the first person I've defended accused without evidence of sexual harassment. I've created threads on it. I've gone back-and-forth for years since 2016. I can even share WhatsApp group screenshots of me defending him and insisting on evidence while women in the group try to gaslight me. And it's with my full details so I know the consequences.

If you were accused without evidence, I'd defend you. My like, dislike or indifference to you matters little then.

Theflint1:
True, the loss that comes from false accusations, not just rape, is often devastating to the victims of the false accusation.

See? I've always insisted, your jaundiced takes on the Natasha issue regardless, you know the truth.

You know how damaging sexual harrassment allegations are.

Diddy moved in high circles regardless for decades even with the 2Pac murder accusation, but as soon as he was accused of sexual molestations, the world turned on him.

Everything pointed to Natasha's accusations being false, but you'd insist a man goes down for it because you don't like the man in question.

What's that saying Oasis uses again?

raumdeuter:
disstroyy have you seen the below?

Oya come and school them

Former Barcelona and Brazil defender Dani Alves has had a rape conviction overturned on appeal by a Spanish court.

The appeals division of Catalonia's High Court of Justice unanimously upheld the appeal by the 41-year-old and acquitted him, saying the case against him had "inconsistencies and contradictions".

"The complainant's account, which should have been subjected to greater scrutiny, has not been compared with the fingerprint and biological evidence, which support the defence's argument."

Further, the court ruled that the complainant's argument that she went with Alves into the bathroom for fear that his friends might follow them did not appear reasonable.

It concluded that the alleged victim instead "voluntarily went to the bathroom area for the purpose of being with the defendant in a more intimate space".

The Catalan court also lifted all restrictions on Alves, including a travel ban and restraining order. However, the decision can still be appealed to the Supreme Court.

"Alves is very happy. He is innocent, that is demonstrated. Justice has spoken," his lawyer Ines Guardiola told RAC1 radio.

Alves had trophy-laden spells with Sevilla, Barcelona, Juventus and Paris St-Germain and also helped Brazil win two Copa Americas and an Olympic gold medal at the age of 38.

https://www.bbc.com/sport/football/articles/c8rkrgx3x11o#:~:text=Former%20Barcelona%20and%20Brazil%20defender,had%20%22inconsistencies%20and%20contradictions%22.

I am Disstroy. No "yy", just "y". That's why I miss your mentions.
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See? I don't know if you remember, Memphis Depay was the only member of the football community who stood up for Dani Alves. He kept saying "Dani is my friend, and I won't abandon my friend". That's when they both played for Barça.

Online, Depay was branded a rápe apologist and misogynist. Think of the worst names. For fear of being canceled, no other player stood up for Alves. He was presumed guilty.

I hope the men here learn a thing or two. No matter what society has conditioned you to believe, you aren't a vile predator endangering women. Society is safer and better with you in it. You're not a callous brute. Stand up for yourself and other men. Nobody else will.

pkasso:
Hi Dis.stroy. It's been a while. Can i shoot you a mail?

Hello
I don't have access to my account-synced email so mail via this address instead:
realdisstroy@gmail.com .

Do let me know when you see this so I can edit out my mail.

OasisX:


......get yourself sweet popcorn and ice cream first, then find somewhere cool and calm to relax!

Enjoy the show to the fullest. LOL!

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Any smart person knows if you build your social proof templated on pandering to a mob, the maddening crowd owns you entirely. And they would someday turn on you. Populism is difficult to sustain.

David Hundeyin, while a tenacious investigative journalist, lost himself to the cheers of the 'blood-craving' digital mob. Egged on by the traction and engagement metrics he was getting, he went in deeper, and was no longer David the human but a mouthpiece to speak ill about the privileged. Anything else and he's an antihero. Heck! A villian.

Reno rode on the mob appeal too until he decided to veer off. Now some hate him even more than the politicians who have looted our common patrimony. He's more hated than Yahya Bello, even.

Peter Obi is definitely realising the same thing - that he's caged by the mob. Atiku can say something good about Tinubu and get away with it. Kwankwaso can have a dinner with OUK and nobody would bat an eyelid. But Obi can't.

The few times he's said anything nice about non-LP folks, he's been criticised by Obidients. Knowing him, he'd have likely commended Tinubu for eventually paying Corpers what was promised them but if he dares, the mob would turn on him.

I understand the reason for the angst. I understand why people are angry. And it's deservedly so. But real or faux, you can't live your life being outraged constantly because you didn't get what you want.

It's probably why I abhor the Obidient tag even when I'm still rooting for Peter Obi in lieu of a better choice: It's because "Obidients", good-intentioned as some of the criticisms are, is synonymous with "mob". It's either you appeal to them everyday and time and see nothing good in other people outside of the Obi camp or you are a corrupt person who has been compromised.

raumdeuter:
Policy announcement and implementation date

The same way you celebrate a marriage proposal which is a decision to marry someone and you also celebrate the marriage day which is the implementation of the initial proposal

Now this holds somewhat, and is a tenable defence even as it is contestable.

Maybe you should coach Bayo Onanuga and other appointed image makers when responding to critics instead of threatening them to "watch your mouth".