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APC is one party that is always disorganized. Just like they have disorganized and failed Nigerians. Smh!

Kibbs:
A little backstory of how I got here :

Right from sec school, I'd always thought I'd be an arts student. I always topped the class in English and Literature scoring 100% in tests and exams in the junior classes so I was confident in my choice of discipline. However, my principal and parents didn't agree with me. When we got to SS class, my principal came to take me away from art to science class on the first day, asking me what I was doing there. When I had the discussion with my parents too, they were adamant my future lied in the sciences cus "There are better paying jobs there than in the arts" and "I'm too brilliant to be in arts". Unfortunately, my principal shared the same sentiment about the latter. Omo, not like I'm a straight A student o (currently on 2-1) small book wey person know, dem pressure me.

I didn't think I knew better than them all so I accepted. Even if I didn't, I wasn't going to win that battle, I was just 13 or so. Fast forward to when I was about to choose my course of study in uni, I opted for computer science but my mom wouldn't have any of it cus the person who helps her repair her phone in Ikeja studied the same course and laments how he turned to the profession cus he couldn't get a job. I even suggested Computer Engineering but she said I should choose Elect Elect instead cus "it covers all the parts of engineering, computer included". When a parent wants you to do something, there's not much you can do really.

I became so determined to study the course and it was part of the reason I didn't get admitted on time cus each year, the cut offs kept increasing and I wouldn't budge, trying and trying again when I could've opted for another course. Now I'm in school studying the course and not only is it nothing like she said it was gonna be, I absolutely despise it. If only I could turn back time sha.

This is quite sad to read. I don't think it's too late to do what you want to do. Even if you graduate and get a job that has to do with Elect Eng, you will hate the job as well.
What is the essence of life if you aren't happy in it. Do what makes you happy.
Go for the IT you love, now that you still have the time. I have an aunt who changed career at age 45. You still have time on your hands, trust me.

Congratulations beautiful people.

Poor and miserable Nairaland men with no money to marry will come and call you a simp now.

Your uncle should manage. He is the HEAD of the house. The CAPTAIN of the ship. HE IS THE ALPHA MALE. THE ONE WHO MUST BE SUBMITTED TO. The LION of the tribe of Judah. The one with the PHALLUS.

She is a mere woman and should focus on the Kitchen. Next thing now, she will say her husband should HELP her go to the market and cook ofe nsala for them to eat before she comes back from work. Tufiakwa!!!! THAT WILL BE A SACRILEGE THAT THE GODS OF THE LAND FORBIDS. THAT WILL BE AN ABOMINATION. We alpha males will never take that. We are traditional men. Who needs her money to care for the family.

Nigerian women are all useless and do not have money. We are the only ones who make money. We are the greeat red okpillas! We are the ODOGWUS. We will provide cos we are not useless. We only call Nigerian woman useless. She should face the kitchen along with all her numerous house duties. That we expect all this from this women and also expect them to drop thier salaries doesn't mean she and that land she bought for your uncle's kids to inherit aren't all useless.

USELESS!

Dino is right about the Pa Bubu's blunder but all that "we will defend blablabla..." bullsheet at the end of his speech is unnecessary cos everyone and thier pet monkeys knows Dino and his ilk are no DIFFERENT from all the other rigging polithiefcians. All of you should sha just getat!

Anyway, Vote PeterObi!

Unshackled:
Wnere in the article did she write that she came from work and headed straight to the kitchen and sweated to cook for the husband?

She said her husband came from work by 7 and SHE SERVED HIM FOOD

See as you dey exaggerate and add curry and sugar on top of the matter.

Are you a pussy?

All this demonic men on nairaland. God punish you ten times. So what if I am a "pussy". If by pussy you mean feminine, is there anywhere it is written that being a pussy is a sin?

You are too steeeewpid to comprehend that she wrote that she just came back from work and was tired yet you have the audacity to carry your spaghetti-for-brains to come reply your demented mother.

Wicked soul. If your sister just returned from working all day, went to cook for her despicable cheating husband and serve him yet the nincompoop demand he wants a different meal there and then and when she tells him she is exhausted he calls his side chic and leaves the house, I am sure you will clap for your in-law.

You can even do such a thing I am sure. Wickedd devilish twaaat like you.

InoGetJoy:
Same ESN you've been shouting your government to kill?
You guys are despicable

If they are killing and beheading INNOCENT Igbo citizens, then they deserve to be KILLED as well...
You are the despicable bunkum who isn't saying the truth.


If they were protecting the Igbo people by going after this evil kidnappers, everyone will support them and that's the POINT I am making. They are instead focused on killing fellow Igbo brothers and you expect them to be supported by everyone. It's only despicable goats like you that will support such evil.

Useless country with useless leaders.

Instead of ESN to pursue this Fulani devils, they will instead be removing the heads of thier fellow Igbos brothers. Smh..

I don't even see him.

I only see the Labour Party, I only see Peter Obi.

What am I reading? You said you came back from WORK and went straight to the Kitchen to sweat and cook for your cheating husband, yet #*F*&U!£C"*#K ?

This is how much Nigerian women have lost thier self esteem and value marrying idi#otic Nigerian men who treat them like they are subhumans and lesser beings with no feelings.

How da fuuk do you come on social media after such callousness by your so called husband asking if you did wrong? What nonsense wrong are you asking about?
You did wrong and your husband did amazingly right. Is that answer okay?

May I not raise a stewpid daughter with the self worth of a castrated millipede.

APC always backwards, unorganized and dragging just like Nigeria has been dragging backwards since they came into power! SMH.

To see a decent Nigerian boy who isn't a Yahoo thief nowadays is scarce.

This menance will come biting hard at Nigerians when almost every update go don cast and people eye go don open. Then they will kuku start carrying gun cos stealing is all they have known all thier lives. The future is Nigerian male indeed.

Nazgul:
I'm afraid that your observations are on point cos I have the same observations as well.

The most recent was my cousin brother who got married in 2020 before the lockdown, as I'm writing this we barely talk these days, even to reply WhatsApp messages na war. And when he does it's one complain or the other, ranging from how things are hard and since I'm single and an only child, I should assist him financially, to how his wife has changed, to how their one year old child consumes food like an adult... etc.

To understand him much better, I decided to put myself in his shoes. I'm a single guy, I renewed my rent last month (April) and I sat down to calculate all my monthly expenses. Data, fuel, gotv/Netflix, electricity, security, LAWMA, feeding, gas, miscellaneous...etc.

My point is if a woman comes on board that budget would tripple cos kids would be expected, she might want you to open a business for her, courtesy of your pocket, she might come with her younger sister to help out whose training and welfare would be on you, she would sometimes want you to assist her family eg, parents, siblings writing exams, school fees, rent...etc.

Now while your expenses has tripled, your income most times remains the same or even lower, you would resort to borrowing just to sustain your home, of which she won't even appreciate cos according to her, it's not enough, other men out there like you are performing much better for their families. You would live all your life working to finance the home, even your own kids would be strangers to you and love her more when she buys them Christmas clothes from the money you gave to her. They would grow up loving her as a sweet mom and vow never to see her suffer. forgetting all the sacrifices and dreams you gave up just to give them a better life. After pondering through all these, I understood my cousin's situation much better.

If I'm to be honest there's nothing special about marriage, it's more or less like bondage for men. And benefits only the women. Marriages if you have noticed have have reduced greatly, there are so many guys in their 30s and even 40s who aren't even talking about settling down. Would you blame them....of course not.

Women these days aren't helping matters. They dump the larger chunk of the financial responsibility on the man in the name of men are the head so it's his responsibility to cater for the home. But what they don't understand is God created women as a helpmeet, meaning they're there to lessen the budern of the man and not to add to it.

Open any topic here on Nairaland and talk about responsibilities in the home. More than 99% of the female replies would be that it's the job of the man and the man alone.

Women need to change such mindset, cos it has killed and drained the honey of millions of marriages.

Yet, you men are the ones who hate feminist and bash them and wish they die.

Isn't this what feminist preach?

That a woman should focus on being financially independent and have thier own money.

Gender roles like men being in charge of the finance and women being in charge of the kitchen and homefront is not ideal in this modern day where the men are crying like little babies everywhere cos they can't handle the financial responsibility of a traditional family man.

Women should use that energy they use in praying that God should take them to thier husband's house to focus on making money...

May Atiku not happen to Nigeria.
I prefer Jagaban, yet I don't even like him.

Peter Obi is the man.

Most Nigerian boys are into fraud aka Yahoo.

A Yahoo boy who steals from people's sweat will rush to buy expensive cars just so he can pose for his mates cos he has no responsibilities and no plans to build a future for his children...

Compare that with a lecturer who has paid his dues and has a wife and kids to cater to and at the same time trying to save for his kids future.

If he was alone, like the yahoo thief, he could have saved to buy himself a better car as well.

I will however chose the rickety cars in the Lecturers park over the nicer car sought from the pain and tears of another human. Tufiakwa!

I have no comment. Since the people are stewpidly supporting their own killing and maiming under the guise of "fighting" for them. Who am I to say otherwise?
If they are too unintelligent to realize that this unknown gun men are the ENEMY then na dem sabi.

This gender and evil ehn! Tufiakwa!

When the ungrateful and poverty stricken boyfriend who can't afford an apartment brought his girlfriend, what did you think will happen? That they will be holding hands and saying the rosary?

But, how can you the OP carry your property to go live in a ONE bedroom apartment with a married couple?

How can your brother in-law come and join you to squat in a one bedroom apartment with a married couple?

How can the stewpid brother in-law now add his girlfriend to live with you and a married couple in a fkuking one bedroom apartment?

All of you are sha mad. The only sane person here is the husband but for allowing this madness, he too is mad!

Finally, those blaming ONLY the girlfriend and not the ungrateful goat who brought his girlfriend to live with those he is squatting with inside one room, are also mad.

Hahahaha! David oooo!

Not a fan but, where is the lie?

Get your PVC and VOTE!!!

This mummy too gbaski! Correct mama!

MITCHELL96:
Yeah, So Many Times, But this particular one was a chat



Y'all know all these Binomo scammers


The dude messaged me on Facebook that there's an ongoing investment that if you put 20k, you get 40k, 30K to get 60k and so on

So, as a sharp person, I knew it was a scam and I wanted to have some fun

I told him that I'm so broke, that I'd love to do the 50K own, Dude was so happy, dude even prayed for me, he said "I PRAY ALMIGHTY GOD REFILLS & RESTORES WHEREVER THIS MONEY IS COMING FROM WITH PLENTY MONEY" (See as Scammer oo dey whine me with fake prayers)

Omo, naso I laugh for my mind oo as I continue chatting with him, I told him that he should give me small time, (This was to make everything look real to him)

So like after 1-2 hours, I Messaged him that I've sent 50K, he said I should give him few minutes maybe network is delaying it from arriving in his phone, dude waited and didn't see anything

He asked me to send screenshot, I told him "OK" that he should wait, I quickly tore a shit of paper from my hard cover note book and wrote and all those stuffs that usually appear on a debit/credit alerts messages even drew something like UBA bank's LEO and snapped it with my phone and sent it to him, Omo my nigga para oo I just sent him "TFU" meaning Thunder Fire You and Blocked him immediately, the thing pain am ehnn

Till today, I still have that paper incase I encounter same scam format but it seems the format is no more Paying because dem never reach my side again

This happened in 2020 April

Hahahaha!!!!

irunoko:
let them not run o.shebi when the going was good they were collecting money and things from their cultist son and brother without asking questions.even yorubas say when you have a family member misbehaving, when E sup even the family members too wey no follow am commit crime go collect.thats why I pity all those skinny little girls running after cultist because of money

Lmao! Which money?! Cultist dey automatically get money?! Yeye dey smell.

Liar. SEDI DG murder that happened since July last year.

This Reno that I used to think was a better person only to realize FFK is even better than him. Manipulative scheming two-faced, friend-for-food, deceptive yeye fowl!

PO, the man of the people.

drlateef:
Wailer spotted!!!

Your fellow slimy, hungry, conscienceless, paid BMC nattering nitwits have since stopped using the term "wailers" cos even them are now wailing more than everyone else as the peanut and breadcrumbs they are paid to sell thier souls to the devil can barely pay for the data to do their "devil's advocate job" under this useless administration....

So find another word! Shameless zombie!

drlateef:
Economy was run down by Jonathan. And oil prices plummeted under Buhari, yet he completed many projects. Jonathan did nothing about infrastructure.

SHUT UP!

I SAY, SHUUUUT UPPPP!!!