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Unnecessary bragging. Maybe because he's from Biafra land

So only Igbos insult? Igbos are not insulted?

Deceitful people!

Timnico:
When your likes were on the internet insulting everyone we told you but you refused and called us Uzodinma boys or Afonja, a bi e never clear for ur eyes? No blame anybody blames your politics of emotions and noise, ka chukwu cozies gi, at least Tinubu is not as tribalistic as Buhari so we go lick oil small and Kanu might be released and he'll discuss with our people if you don't continue making noising and giving threats

Its not a documentary, its more like a campaign or comparison to Obi esp as Obi remained uninvited or untouched by antigraft agencies.

I guess its driven by his EFCC invites.

Chikeluba25:
I can't remember where (Vote Obiano) is written in the post.
This is a documentary of a job well done.

You're mixing tribalism with racism and that's where you're wrong. Racism is done to people of other race or country, tribalism is done to people within same country.

Japanese will not be tribal against themselves! South Africa was developed by white South Africans, the blacks are very lazy, i have people there.

Tribalism is the biggest challenge to Nigeria
development. Even within the same nationality, there's clanishness! Even within same clan, there's still small forms of nepotism

BSdetective:
This is false......as racist and tribal as aparthied south Africa was it was still fairly developed, the Japanese are also very tribal and are actually thriving.... Tribalism doesn't limit development because it's the same as nationalism and Nationalism doesn't limit development instead it encourages it. The problem in Nigeria is that the tribal identity is more stronger than the national identity because the national identity is more of an artificial one created by the colonists and now the tribal identity is now the national identity of groups in Nigeria......if these tribal groups form their own respective countries the issue of tribalism won't exist anymore because it would subsequent be transformed into nationalism.....this is were meritocracy can now come in. But a reasonable and beneficial option would be a restructured country into regional governments.... that's a practical solution.

Na their way

You cannot eat your cake and have it. Its either you want one Nigeria and its baggage or yiu want Yoruba nation, no middle ground

Dapinski:
Attention-seeker, I am not interested in your thoughts or opinion . Scram !!!!

Unless the Yoruba nation and Ijaw nation are simultaneously agitating, if any Igbo political leader bring it before the national assembly,
that person or group of persons would be singled out.

If Yoruba nation, Biafra, Ijaw nation declare independence within 3 days, it would be successful without violence because the army would be overwhelmed. That's exactly what happened to Yugoslavia, it broke up without a single shot being fired. Same with USSR because a lot of countries left at the same time

Donshegxy10:
the truth is that violent breakaway cant work, it must start with the leaders by dialogue.

The question is that ARE IGBO POLITICAL LEADERS AND ELITE READY TO BREAK AWAY?

Your answer is as good as mine.

Truth is we're not matured enough for democracy. We're not enlightened to appreciate the fact that we cannot enter an airplane we know the pilot is incompetent because he is our brother.

A country is also analogous to a plane, if we use nepotism to select the pilot, the tendency to crash is very high

No country develops with the twin problems of tribalism and religion! Even with restructuring, they'd go into clans and dialets or communities.

If the mindset doesn't change to appreciate the fact that democracy should be run on the basis of meritocracy, then there's no advantage of democracy interms of development!

BSdetective:
Op sounds smart but is quite ignorant..... tribalism in politics or identity politics is a global issue in countries with multiple races or ethnic groups(multi-ethnic societies)... The average redneck in the southern part of America will hardly vote a black man except it's going to push the interest of his fellow rednecks and identity politics is part and parcel of American politics. The solution for Nigeria's own is simply restructuring that would give equal power to every ethnic group in the country and responsibility over their domain.

The honest truth of the matter is that is counter productive to tell people not to be tribalistic or identify with their group, pseudo intellectuals always try to do this.

Igbos and Yorubas are over 50 million people each which is far far more than the population of most European and African countries so why is it difficult to negotiate their own countries and control their destiny? Canada is just 36 million.

The Yorubas have a common agenda so why dilute it and make it unachievable by being within the agenda of 150 million of other people?

NIGilliterate:
I know a lot of people will not like to hear the truth

You have to understand the Arab mentality including the North African mentality. These Arabs know the black man can achieve nothing only thing he can do is to destroy his own people and his own community including the Chiefs and leaders. What did Arabs are North Africans do they just wait 30 to 40 years for the African man to destroy everything and they go in and take over. The problem is not only with Nigeria Mozambique Democratic Republic of Congo southern Tanzania Burundi Ethiopia Mali northern Zambia it is all the same thing.. Just look what happened to yoruba in kwara state and the house is in hausa Land. The destroy the people why they were hungry and installation so when the fuller needs came to take over the people why even happy to become slaves

Biafra agitators are doing enough, its the Oodua agitators and Niger Delta agitators that are pretending to want out but opposes Biafra and Igbos for wanting to leave Nigeria

Donshegxy10:
WHO WILL BELL THE CAT?

When people resort to insults it means you've hit the home truth!

Yorubas would loose Lagos in due time as long
as one Nigeria remains.

I have never seen people who are over 40million but afraid to exist on the own when over 80% of European countries are less than 40 million

Dapinski:
Abeg shut up and get out of this thread. Are you Yoruba? Attention-seeking Suwegbe.

How about we break this country up? We are divided but pretending to be one country

Donshegxy10:
South/south ticket can not fly.

Make an imtelligent argument why you think Obi and Fasola are not fit to be president and why you prefer someone new?

Who is this someone? We have gone beyond that era of , anybody but GEJ...thats how we got the monumental failure Bubu so we should learn from history

bibianna:
None!

I want Nigerians to give chance to a brand new candidate and political party!

We've had enough!!

Nigerians had it coming alright!

The SW is not agitating for restrucrtuing,
they only pretend to want restrucrtuing when they're in opposition. The SW boycotted the 2014 confab, they went mute throughout Bubu's presidency so far, so tell me how they're pushing for restrucrtuing?

See how deceitful you guys are! You want Niger Delta oil without interference! As long as Nigeria remains, there's nothing like Yoruba land, the only advantage you have in SW is that Yorubas are the majority in SW so would keep winning elections but the dynamics are changing.

If you want autonomy, you better push for Yoruba nation just as Igbos are pushing for Biafra!

Dapinski:
We don't need Yoruba nation per se because the monumental effort to gain that may be very costly and an unproductive waste of time.

What we must seek for, and can gain relatively soon, is restructuring that will allow all Nigerians to shape their region of origin as they wish without the hindrance of 'one Nigeria' .

It can be done but never under a Northerner or a weak Southern stooge like GEJ.

Restructuring Nigeria is inevitable because we must now adapt or die due to a lot of universal changes beyond the control of Nigeria and Nigerians.

That is why the SW is agitating heavily for restructuring that will lead to regionalism and abolition of our States.

We know what is coming while others continue to sleep (North) and obsess about infantile issues (Igbos).

Obiano finished 2 terms and handed over to Soludo. Why are you still campaigning for him? Is he going to senate? Last i checked, he wants to go back to US!

Chikeluba25:
Granted, Peter left N75 billion in the Coffers with N127 billion debt. Perhaps that’s his forte. He had No idea on what to do with those Billions. He was scared to sanction big projects that will bring Anambra to limelight. All he did in eight ( years of Oil boom and strong economy was save money in the Bank. When he left, he had no much project to his name aside money in the Bank. Perhaps, that wasn’t the reason he became Governor.

In eight ( years, Willie Obiano changed the narratives. He acknowledged that his predecessor left money in the State coffers. Obiano wasn’t an expert when it comes to saving money in the Bank. Instead, a project driven and resulted oriented Governor.

In just 4 years, Nigerian economy went on decline, dollar surged, FAAC and JAAC dropped. While many other State Governors trooped to Abuja for bailout funds and trimmed their wage Bill and workers who they described as redundant. Willie Obiano employed more ndi Anambra into the civil and public service and never owed anyone their salary. While the state of the Nation’s economy was in comatose, Willie Obiano didn’t stop constructing projects and providing succor for the ordinary.

He may not have done so well in urban roads, but he was discerning enough when it comes to rural roads. Many communities never knew what road constructions were prior to Willie Obiano administration, but today, the story has changed. Aside rural roads, He rehabilitated PHCs across Anambra State. He came up with community choose your project initiative and operation light up Anambra State which impacted the entire 180 communities in the State.

In the eight ( years of Peter Obi, he struggled with insecurity, we remember him for the innocent lives of ndi Anambra he ordered Csp James Nwafor to dispatch to their ancestors in his bid to fight insecurity. The dead bodies of Anambra and ala Igbo young youths were thrown into Ezu River and Amansea River, yet the insecurity didn’t stop. Dr. Willie Obiano took the reigns and restored the hope of the ordinary man and would go on to make Anambra the safest State in West Africa for a long period before the recent collapse as a result of IPOB agitation and #EndSARS infractions.

And just like Soludo who said his administration will take off from Okpoko, Willie Obiano did start from Upper Iweka and till date, the effects are still visible in Onitsha and its environs.

In 2014, Anambra had a population below four (4) Million people, but in less than four (4) years, the population surged. There were influx of people into the State as a result of the opportunities that was made available by Willie Obiano administration. Today, Anambra is the second most densely populated State in Nigeria after Lagos state yet with the lowest unemployment figures. You obviously didn’t ask how Willie Obiano did the magic and sustained it for a period of eight ( years.

Anambra IGR was a mess when Obiano took over from Obi. In just two years, Willie Obiano performed the magic and would benefit from the ease of doing business and safe environment he created in the State; Anambra became a leading pack in Internally Generated Revenue. I will still blame the Governor for not being in charge and would only trust a few men with the State Revenue who created windows and would pocket Anambra money; the EFCC must not spare these guys. They were the real virus in Obiano administration.

Willie Obiano sustained the legacy of Peter Obi in Education and even did more. For eight ( years, the standard set by Obi didn’t drop. Money were constantly allocated to Missions to manage schools under their care. This act alone, reduced Private school dominance in Anambra State and returned the glory of public schools.

While you still feel bitter and would want the world to know that Willie Obiano had over 2000 aides; don’t forget to add that thousands won the fight and battle against poverty through that singular initiative. Graduates and bright young population who would have added to the long list of criminals and syndicates in our society were instead absorbed into governance to add their quota to the development of our dear State and in so doing earned values that would last them a lifetime. Many of those are today CEOs, Business developers, political leaders and lots more. Willie Obiano understood so well that in mixed economy and in a society where there are no much opportunities, the Government steps in to shoulder responsibilities. This he did without noise. You may choose to disagree that appointments are not for charity, but let it be on record that the human capital development is not defined by your school of thought alone.

In as much as Governor Soludo wasn’t clear about what he met in the coffer, let it be on record that Willie Obiano left many projects in place that will account for the moneys Obi left for him and these projects when utilized, would yield immediate returns to the State.

Anambra is today an Oil producing State and due for the 13% Oil Derivation entitlement. All were made possible by Dr. Willie Obiano.

While Soludo is declaring the liability he inherited, let him also declare assets he equally inherited. Let the discerning public juxtapose the Assets and Liabilities and be the judge themselves.

The EFCC ordeal of Willie Obiano is a political issue with those he stepped on their toes while in line of service and governance of our dear Anambra State.

Dr. Willie Obiano was rather an introvert who seldom discuss issues and challenges in public media. He would instead take the blames of another’s wrong and shortcoming. If he was an extrovert and microphone friendly, the narratives wouldn’t have been the same, but then, I won’t blame him for things he had no control over.

Willie Obiano deserves commendation not condemnation.

APC has been beating Nigerians since 2015 and when we tell the international community, they don't seems to appreciate our struggles.

Now they've been beaten, experience is the best teacher

Its necessary to state so it can be understood that she's not stressed and how ungrateful she is. Besides, is that the only thing you saw, looking for fault like the man's wife?

Candidlady:
Was the bolded necessary

Pretty sure you would have rubbed this same sentence all over her face...


You are not complaining but yet you stated it in your post


Because of the bolded some won't even give you the advice you seek, they will end up insulting your wife


Good luck finding solution to your problem

The government is gotten from among the people. Terrible people eventually leads to terrible government.

It is what it is!

We know!

Nigerian men in general cannot take such public humiliation without kicking your ass out the house! Nonsense!

More like regretted sex!

Why some women make pregnancy the most difficult thing on earth yet they'd do it again

SandraIkuboR:
yeah it's very possible to not know you are pregnant

In general, stability, support, companionship, love, societal respect.

This is only if you marry a decent spouse otherwise being single is better!

You mean this case is still on?

The last PDP president was from the South so technically, it's is still being zoned to the North so as to implement the last zoning which still stands

It was actually Westerners that was calling Obi to declare. I'll only call on Obi if presidency is zoned to the SE in both APC and PDP

Nonpartisan1:
But they have been crying for Peter Obi to declare..I think they may support him this time and not treat him like they did to Ekwueme.

Lazy man. A married man needs sex two to three times per week minimum how much more a single young man like yourself.

Do your research, frequent sex reduces the tendency for prostrate cancer.

What about Muslims with four wives?

Videour:
Actually she's a good girl in all aspects. We have been dating for 3year now, she's all I want in a woman, her smile gives me joy every time with dimples.

I am 35 years she should be going to 25 this year. A career lady that has this hustle spirit in her but my problem is that she's obsessed with sex.

Imagine a man at my age having 2 to three times a week, which I know if I don't put in work she's definitely going to get it else where.

Psychologically, it's affecting me.
Please what is the best way to handle this?
My Nairaland family.

Just tell him you're offended by what he says anytime you watch your car or clean your house. Period!

POSmecrhant:
I have this new neighbor that packed in last three months, that talk to people anyhow. But he feels it's a normal conversation.

Over the weekend I was cleaning my house and my car, only for him to tell me I clean my car too much. And was saying other nasty things and was laughing thinking is a normal thing.

There's no single day that i will wash my car that this guy will not say this to me, how I valued my car more than my life.

Normally, this guy can not look me with straight face and be telling me this kind of nonsense if I didn't create this kind of familiarity with him in the first place.

How can i avoid this guy in a matured manner so that he won't even decode I'm avoiding him?

For a long time i felt touched because I could genuinely feel your pain. So sorry you had to go through this, God almighty will compensate you with a better man.

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����