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@ OP, penis size is like every other body parts, big head, small head, big hands, small hands, big bweast, small bweast, big ass, small ass, big lips, small lips, big gbola, small gbola...what will be will be. The size is coded in the gene and at the right time it will attain that gene size, nothing mucg can be done about it as all these artificial measures will do a little!

Masturbation actually increases penis size. You know nothing, Jack Snow. Do your research!

chuxy12:
stay away from masturbation. it hampers penile growth and devt

They took my resources during colonialism and left by setting up the country in an imbalanced manner so it's now free for all

kaykay100:
When you dey apply for visa with your last kobo to go to their country. Did they invite you.

When they came to colonize us by force, did we invite them?

kaykay100:
The way people congratulate Nigerians abroad for winning seats as a government official abroad OFF ME.

Hope we all as Nigerians are prepared and absolutely Okay for foreigners to start running for Offices in Nigeria and winning elections. They don't need any Nigerian blood in them as long as they can do the job.

No problem right?Just asking for a friend

Trump...the father of modern American nationalism!

This regime or the next administration? Major general that was campaigning with fixing the refineries is now telling his zombies that he will not be able to do it in 8yrs!
Some nitwits were telling us how he built the refineries in 1978 when he was petroleum minister as if Obasanjo was not the head of state then. Now that he is currently the head of state, even palm oil mill, e nor fit do jack! Breeze don blow, fowl yansh don open!

They will learn. Looking for husband, dont worry, God go do am soon.

pocohantas:
So, after all their talk online, they can't apply it offline ehn? I am fine, looking for husband.

Check the age range of girls giving them wahala 19-22yrs. They have themselves to blame.
Leave matter for Mathias! How you dey my personal person?

pocohantas:
A woman has a wider sample space. Except she is locked up in solitude. She would be approached by way more men than a man can. I don't even know why you people claim to call all the shots, but everyday there is wailing thread from your younger brothers who just got dumped. So much for technically being unlimited.

A man can increase his sample space to get more possible outcomes. Comparing the average man with the average woman with regards to marriage options is ludicrous!

pocohantas:
You didn't. This is romance section, they always deflect. You begin to wonder what exactly is their problem. They whine all day about broke women, you advise women to get up and work, they will say it is character. Talk about character, they will move on to spirituality... There is no satisfying them.

That said, money doesn't equal respect, but it sure makes like easier and refines your choices. If you have a good head on your shoulder.



Same way your choice as a man is limited to the women that want you. After all, it is not every woman that wants to marry you too, even when you come to them. Get over yourselves please.

She should look for and demand respect no doubt but thinking the liberty of range of choices men have when it comes to marriage is same as women is a great fallacy. Her option is technically limited to the men that comes for her or that wants to marry her!

Ryan03:
so because you are marrying her so she have no right to look for qualities she want in a man or demand respect from him? Do you even understand the word "respect"?

Blood is thicker than water. You dont expect your kids to hate their father forever as a way of solidarity. It's a burden to them too and they cant live their lives like that. If you cannot forgive the father of your children, then deal with it!

TheArchangel:
This guy was single handedly raised by his mother while his father was wallowing in wealth. Now he is demonising his mother for the neglect he suffered from his father. I don't get it.

Most Nigerian women will most certainly prefer to cry in Benz than to wallow in poverty but your mother choose the safe option for her sanity and kid's sake. If you want to make peace with your father, kindly go ahead but do not belittle the sufferings of your mother to appease your conscience.


Imagine after the marital abandonment, I risked being demonised by the kids I suffered for

I hate abortion but this thread is making me to lean towards pro-choice.
Ladies beware . If you have had the babies already, start keeping tabs, school fees receipts, messages sent to him for assistances, your child's memorable moments on videos, the time he was contacted for his helps and the excuses he gave. Whether justifiable or not, put it down somewhere.
Keep a ledger of the financial helps you received from him.
Let your evidence fight for you before they use your sufferings to demonize you.

You're overreacting! Enmity is not inheritance! Your kids are not supposed to fight your war. Do you know how it feels to be fatherless when your father is alive? Perhaps he can reconcile the dad and the mum...who knows!

dominique:
Deadbeat dads will be dancing with joy on seeing this thread. Now they can continue being irresponsible because the kids they never cared for will grow up one day and reward them with gifts.

Your dad abandoned your mum to singlehandedly raise you but somehow it's your mum's fault and his irresponsible act is justified. If I were your mum, I'll curse you and disown you for life. The moment you go and build a relationship with a man that never cared about your existence while you were growing, you become dead to me.

What if it's the other way round that the mum has been exaggerating and pushed him away?

Fountainofyouth:
Good for you Op, next thing to do is ask your Dad why he was heartless to your mum, try and confirm what your mother told you about him, and if she has been saying the truth, tell him to go and apologize to her in front of you and your siblings, if he shows no remorse or is still trying to prove right after all your mother has done, he deserves ONLY forgiveness, nothing else, I dey hate nonsense, no one should give excuse or tolerate a deadbeat dad when he's not dead.

Why are you crying more than the bereaved? Are you trying to make him feel guilty for reconciling with his dad? Is he supposed to keep enmity with his dad forever because two adults had misunderstanding? Was he there during their courtship? Allow him take his decision without you pressuring him!

BRATISLAVA:
So now that you heard his side it has justified the cruel treatment to your mother that you said made her to suffer? What do your unborn children have to do with his unkindness to your mother?. Problem is that many men do evil to their wives not knowing that the people who will never forgive them are the children. The way your unborn children will have nothing to do with this is if you treat your future wife well. I have no pity for men who do evil and get abandoned by their kids. This is why abuse in any form is foolishness, because it is the children who will suffer it not even the spouse you want to hurt. His side means nothing. The oppressors do not need sympathy except from fellow oppressors. And yes, it will be taken as a pat on the back. Loyal or disloyal, nobody deserves to be abused . Just divorce. Don't torture yourself and kids.

Major general Bubu dictator

You dont seem to realize men and women dont have same liberties! Who marries who?

nanauju:
Yeah same goes for men. You should know that financially independent women also look out for character in men.. The only thing that blinds a woman's eyes to his thrash character can be his money. But when she has hers, she looks beyond the money and searches for other behaviors she can be compatible with

Even Tinubu did not say it wasnt money in the bullion Vans, I dont know why you want everybody to believe is not money. In an interview Tinubu agreed it was money but he said he is a private citizen and can do whatever he likes with his money including giving it out to his people. The video is online, stop defending an easy case. The only thing saving him is that he is Bubu's ally

Habakus:
How can he pay for a crime he didn't commit?
We are not talking about future slip-ups,are we?
Because even you who maybe carried a nylon bag from your room to the sitting room on the eve of the election day is owing a debt that might be used against you in the future.

That action is a debt he already owed, it will be used against him in the future. No matter how smart someone is, he will eventually slip up some day. You know the truth but in denial!

Habakus:
If you were following my discussion with the Op,you'd know that we've touched on several issues including the 'bullion van' issue.
Tinubu,more or less, has absolutely no case to answer regarding the bullion van issue; except if the law in Nigeria concerning that scenario is tweaked and backdated.
As much as you may love to hate Tinubu, he's very smart at what he did on the eve of election.
You can only speculate,wish for him to go in for it or wail over it as much as you want.

This thread isnt about Tinubu and bullion van! If you wanna absolve him of any allegation, do it somewhere else but mark it somewhere, Tinubu made a gross mistake with that act and he will pay for it. It's a matter of time.

Habakus:
No bro. Tinubu has absolutely no case to answer...Except if you can prove that there was money inside the bullion van. Even at that,you'd have to prove that he broke a law by bringing money into his compound using bullion van.

You see how difficult it is?

Yeye dey smell. Why does the Geneva convention protect civilians esp women and children in wars? Supporting Bubu shouldn't make you a zombie!

fykes:
I will answer u.
First, "politics is war, by other means"
Then, "all is fair in love and war"
Finally, "in times of war, moral obligations takes d back seat"
Do the math and get ur answer.

Display of cowardice! You know it's the truth but twisting to run away

Commentor:
We never had a conversation.

Does it mean because Punch rose up for Sowore you start asking where they where when other atrocities were committed? Does this make sense to you? Are they the only one? Why are others not challenging those cases as well? Should they react to every vices in the society? Bubu is a quota system general, deal with it!

reality1010:
OP,the problem and mistakes with your post is that you lumped PDP 16 years rule to compare Buhari administration. The fact is that Obasanjo's administration was military in civilian uniform but Jonathan's was too democratic and far better that what we r experiencing today. However,Punch totally guffed by saying it would no longer call President Buhari but Major general Buhari and that his democratic administration would hence be called regime.Punch has no constitutional right to do that in an official capacity but it can be done in its writeup. Also,no sane man will call PMB president and allow Punch to change it to Major general or administration to regime. If after interviewing me and in the story my reference to PMB is changed I will sue Punch.
Punch is rising up too late. Why was it voice unavailable when the military was busy committing havoc on IPOB and the Shites? What about the the herdmen killings in Benue, Adamawa,plateau etc.Where was Punch? How come Sowore's case has suddenly awaken Punch? There is freedom of speech but there is no right or freedom to disregard constitutional matters. Try attend official event, climb the stage and refer to PMB as Major General or the democratic administration as regime? I bet you your freedom of speech will be hailed.

The Southern and Northern Protectorates shouldn't have been amalgamated. It's like joining a Ferrari with a 911 truck. The Ferrari becomes useless as the truck determines everything!

Thank God this was positive. I was scared of another Prof falling again. E don do abeg. I really dont want to see another prof biting the dust so soon else the panic in the system will be too much!

What should we do with this info?

The suicide bomber from Yola

Aisha's outburst reconfirmed Bubu's incompetence. He is the undisputed heavyweight champion of incompetence!

Warsaw saw war Senator

See charlatans Nigerians handed their country to for the second time. If a dog bites you the first time, that dog is mad. But if same dog bites you again then you're mad!

Sapiosexual ladies are interesting to be with if you're an intelligent guy.

She gave her condition not to give why is she expecting to receive? Is action and reaction not equal and opposite?

Ariza:
What stopped you from stating your own conditions when she gave hers?

Dont be daft! Delta is not a tribe! Dont you have Kogi Yorubas? Or are there no Ondo Ijaws?

T9ksy:
No, he's not.

Anyway, wetin koncern the albino coward with who should be yoruba leader.

The same mo.ron who instructed his dumb and emotionally barren minions to slaughter any yoruba pastor they see now wants to tell us who how leader should be.


Oh btw, even though you claimed to have a yoruba mother but unfortunately as your father is ibo then you are also ibo. End of story.

Although your folks are fond of chanting "Delta-ibo, we do not have yoruba- ibo in our land. It either one or the other.