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It has nothing to do with mind being made up. It was wacked probably because no romance,
they were in an environment where they could
be caught, they don't know how or expected much pleasure after watch too much mojo.
Besides, it cant be great all the time even for professionals

chigoziri2403:
Because your mind is made up that its only masturbation can give you pleasure

If two couples must be in the mood all the time before sex can happen then it might be once in 2 months for most men to have sex. Sex in marriage is a duty and not something done out of chance. Perhaps, the OP should get a second wife so the wife is not stressed but sexual satisfaction just like normal food is not negotiable

hammerU:
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The problem is never the woman.

The problem is the passion.

Do u know women actually make time to have sex wen they know u are going to be around.

Men, dont make time for sex, we want it anytime.

Just like OP!

Wat if she is overworked and tired? U want to climb her like dat?

If she married u, she will Bleep u, no two ways about dat but is it done wen she is not in the mood? hahaha!

Hahaha...dm me if you're interested in the description

AwkaetitiBabe:
Kindly do

These lamentations will empower the daughters of Eve to cause more lamentations because they now know whatever they're doing is working

moscow406:

Abeg, they shouldn't stop. How will romance section be fun if we don't encounter people with romantic problems?

100%

AwkaetitiBabe:
You can describe yours?

Most women can describe their orgasm but men can. Why is this? But they can describe labour pains!

AwkaetitiBabe:
It cannot be described with any known language.

Only few women can match their husbands sex drive. During courtship they tend to match it by doing overdrive on themselves to appear compatible.
Some women will ask probably he is not satisfying her well. The truth is women determines to a large extent if they will be satisfied in a sexual act or not.
You know your pleasure points, if you can't actively participate but just lie down like wood, there's not much the man can do

Biglittlelois:
Wife not girlfriend, resolve not conflict or revenge.

Op, marry a second wife

Story for the gods. There's no excuse for cheating because you're a woman. You are asking how well he is treating her as if he should be petting her all the time because of sex.

If a woman cannot repeatedly fulfill her marital obligation then the man has no option than to cheat or better still marry a second wife to avoid it being called cheating

Katier00:
there is more to every story. Op painted himself as a saint here. Do you carry your wife along during love making or are you the open your legs let me enter man. How do you treat her? Yes you provide upkeep but what about respect? Is she your partner or just sex mate. There is no excuse for cheating. It is wrong in every ramifications. So don't crate a crack on the wall of your home

Imagine saying I caught my gf cheating on me, what should I do?

Imagine such foolish question! You replace her immediately.

Some will say I spend millions on my gf but when I was broke I asked for 10k from her, she refused. They will now ask if they should marry this lady. Imagine pure nonsense! Guys dey fall my hand!

wordbank:
Man no be robot
Even brigadier general dey cry come remain

Our forefathers married many wives and coped very well..nowadays men are struggling with 1 or 2 ladies. Men becoming cry babies

Davash222:
My brother, the thing taya me pass you.
Seems we’re loosing more men to Eve’s daughters recently.
The one wey pain me pass na, the guy that was complaining that ‘His girlfriend zoomed off with his car and left him stranded at the airport’.
such leverage!!

If she's buoyant, you could borrow money from her to start a small business. If you think your gf will not respect you without money then there is a problem. Even a man with money may fall due to problems so what will happen? If she's willing to help, let her help. The days of men taking on all the financial responsibilities is over

Twyse:
Thank you sir for the advice but sir I hope you understand many Nigerian girls don't see wisdom and leadership as a criteria for respect.... You know it's only money. The day you stop or unable to provide, there is a problem. It's not about ego trust me....

Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

She doesn't like you enough

LoveElfrida:
Hello, I'm not like the regular guys you see on the street that lack morals and values(no disrespect to anyone). I'm also an ambitious young man, we both graduated few days ago in a federal uni, though different faculty entirely.

I already have a biz of mine as an undergraduate, and currently working on a project that's gonna be employed by people all over the world (and, especially Nigeria).

Her reason is very simple, career first, relationship later.

You're confused. Marry your gf if you consider her a wife material and drop this ego of not asking her for support. You gf's respect for you should come from your leadership and wisdom and not only true money. Na who wan suffer go dey inside motor carry load for head!

Stop being clever by half. Bubu is accountable for the actions of his appointees. A president
doesn't work directly. You accuse GEJ of corruption, was he seen collecting money? Yeye dey smell!

sapele914:
What Court order, the President can't be summoned to any court, let alone violate an order?

Is his statement true or lie? Why not react to the message without sentiments?

oyebanji44:
Baba has a deep sense of grievance against tinubu ever since 2015 presidential election.

I agree, the father in the house should protect everybody under his roof including maids. He should take accountability and responsibility!Men are naturally accommodating towards other people's children so they should utilize this attribute in situations like this!

pocohantas:
I do wonder how the head of the house watches an evil wife inflict such pain on a child. If the wife has decided to be useless, can't the husband step in?

This whole house help thing needs to be looked into. Children shouldn't be slaves. If you want to help a child; it is not until they come serve your household that you will help. Gosh!

Look at my comments and know I have no poverty mentality besides I'm highly bucked up!

healthserve:
See why I say Delta needs to up its game. How much does Akwa ibom, Rivers, Lagos earn yetmake some exceptional use of. Now you're talking Kylie jenner. Poverty no dey tire you?

What is 20 to 30 billion naira? When Kylie Jenner is worth 360 billion naira! The reason we see 30 billion as big money enough to progress is because of the handout system we're running! Go and check how much they build those factories and you see they are around $200 million. Now convert it to naira! 30 billion naira cant do much but when we restructure, Delta will be earning about 100 billion naira per month!

healthserve:
My boy wee you sit down and take notes. Delta has been raking 20 to 30 billion besides IGR since 15years plus, yes the only thing I admire is the states civil service, besides that the rural health care network. How has Delta positioned itself for success. Even Ogun is doing better. Oyo is doing well. Name it. Akwa I om is beginning to look up. Rivers don't even compare. What's wrong with you guys and embracing mediocrity. Poverty no dey tire una?



If poverty no ture una una suppose tire for am. Delta should create a road map before restructuring and start been more serious

Let us restructure the country and our electoral system so that there is healthy competition among states and our elections give the people the power to hire and fire when necessary

healthserve:
Na so. I traveled across delta for years, road has not been an issue since Ibori. When will you Delta s wake up and leave this analogue thinking. When. How about jobs creation. Industries. Massive housing for low medium and high earners. How about proper sports development and edifices and infrastructuees to make the state beuaitfuk. How about water ways and ensuring all water communities without good roads are connected to the states.


When will Delta wake up for goodness sake. Which one be road. I go vex for you o


How about proper medical care


All delta s have access to medical insurance


Proper transportation system not just blue and white buses but organized system. Food production nko. Waste management too.


I'm angry with you



Delta matter tire me. Brilliant intellectuals but mediocre state. From ahaka to ozoro to asaba to sapele to efurrun nothing. Tueh


Warri no dey carryast Warri no dey carry last. Yet the whole delta na last
Over 13 trillion since 1999 yet I can't see anything to talk about on Delta. Nothing

Access is extremely important. Ibori focused on certain areas but neglected Delta North. Okowa is fixing across!

healthserve:
Guy Park well. Delta has been the king of roads since Ibori, make una try do another thing make we hear word. Road road. Na only road be work

You dont know what you're saying. He is performing well.

ikevin:
I'm deltan and Okowa is not performing at all, this isn't partisan but the truth. Sample current opinion in the state.

Road has been one of Olowa's biggest achievement. So if your road is not done then it will eventually. But I can attest to the fact that he has tarred a lot of roads

sexiestharam:
Shut up! I am a Deltan. Stop shouting rubbish as if you own the state. I am a deltan who knows Okowa is not working. Out of all the monthly allocations, what does Delta have to show for it? See Isoko roads!!! That's my opinion. Shove your silly opinion down your ass!!!

If you're not a Deltan then keep quiet! Okowa is performing and Deltans know this!

sexiestharam:
Two governors that have absolutely nothing to show for their years of governance. I don't even know who is worse between the two.

Are his sisters not women like the wife? Why do women hate themselves and make men's lives miserable?

ImaIma1:
Your husband is the problem. He cannot throw you to the dogs (his sisters). He needs to protect you from their fangs. If he cannot condition how they treat you with the way he himself treats you, there's really nothing you can do.

It's pure political deceit. How can Cross River that's more eastern than Imo be South South? There's no location like South South! Do we have North North? This is clearly divide and rule!

azimo:
Only in Nigeria some body that is learned will say south south. Like south of South, black people

Who is feeding you this beer parlour gossips? Bubu and Tinubu were working to make 2011 a reality but couldn't agree on certain terms of sharing positions before Tinubu abandoned the whole thing. It was Hell Rufai and Bakare that made the coalition possible and successful for 2015!

Seetto:
Blame gej for conspicuously marginalizing southwest, despite huge support they gave him in 2011 election, buhari approached tinubu to form alliance, tinubu declined instead presented a weak candidate nuhu ribadu as ACN candidate to pave way for gej to win election, this works out perfectly with gej winning all southwest states except osun, instead he preferred to form government with the north and sidelined southwest.

PDP policies are aligned with Igbo way of politics and as such we will support PDP to return to power irrespective of who they pick as presidential candidate. The only exception is if APC picks an Igbo candidate

Area4Area:
Get this into your skull and stop deceiving yourself, the PDP and APC are not giving the SE anything, any Igbo who wants to contest should look for other parties.

Op, stop being a joker! The Republican majority in the Senate wont allow trump to be removed!
He can be impeached by the lower house but the Senate will prevent his removal

There has to be a catch else guys no send!

frozen70:
You have just sold yourself out by mentioning the Canada stuff

All Dick and Harry will flood you

A whole prince ? Lagos and thuggery! They've been throwing people in lagoon since 1900! No wonder a certain Oba wanted to throw people in the lagoon!