All this talk about a child must look for his father is not true, My cousin is a man now and when he was younger his Dad abandoned him with his mother because he had a new wife. Till date my cousin no send the papa. His Dad is late now, he was telling me today that he doesnt even know where his fathers house is till today. His Uncle that trained him is who he calls father so we should stop all this stupidity. Let the woman do the best she can for her son to be somebody tomorrow. The Father most of us are here defending doesnt have sense, why call two of your sons same name? you are just setting two of your sons against each other, thats the father he should go and look for?

thesicilian:
When your son grows up the first thing he's going to do is search for his father.

I believe you do not have a kid, kids believe what they see more than what you tell them, The Father married his mothers friend, his step brother which is almost his age is named King too.... he will not search for him. The woman is trying to give her son the best she can. Let her be. Let your wife cheat on you with your best friend lets see your reaction....

I see people saying "LET SLEEPING DOG LIE", "LET THE PARENTS MOVE ON"... i guess you don't have children... you can only understand the true meaning of love when you have a child. If someone or some people kill my son, i will go to any length even if it means seen God himself to get Justice for my son.

Above here is the dream of every marriage, but it takes hard work... its not easy at all. I have been married for just 2 years and its be a fun ride with its challenges, we need more examples like this to learn from as young people because there are so many bad examples around... Especially from young celebrities and role models....

Even a country ruled by Talibans Have steady power... lolzzz Nigeria can't have 5hrs of steady power per day.... wow

kereman1:
Niger delta!!!
Same niger delta that fg pays it's indigenes monthly stipends but those in Rivers, and bayelsa state still resort to kidnappings.

Same niger delta that, edo, delta, rivers and awka ibom youth prefers cultism to education.
Same niger delta that Imo state girls objectified themselves as sex toll.

Same niger delta that ogun state made ritual and skull mining their favourite occupation.

The 2 most dread cult group are birthed in niger delta.
Nbm- edo
Vicking- rivers.

Abeg talk another thing.

This Oil has been sheared by different tribes in Nigeria since 1960, and for the first time its coming to the Niger Delta... All this things you mentioned as vices is happening all over Nigeria... Thats how you ppl spread fake news about Rivers state and other states in the Niger Delta that they are no safe... but they are safe enough to get Oil and Gas to fuel the economy... But you tell all the investors to go and invest in Lagos.. well the truth will be exposed....

phantom24:
That jeep is over 25million.

That SUV is more than 50m oooo if its 2020 model

I was wondering why will a man want to molest his 9months old son...women!!! what a strong damage control...

PatriotExact:
Abasi mbok!

Dear Ibomites, you see the insult you can bring on yourself and your (our) promised land by marrying those children of dishonour who have no value or respect for their elders or leaders. They are busy, beating up their leaders in Germany, chasing their fathers in the US, and insulting their parents back home in Nigeria.

Since you decided to go and marry this kind of thing, this sister of Nnamdi Kanu, then we deserve the insult she is bringing to our land.


Moreover, please someone should help me tell her that "shi shi, she no go get!" Let her go work for her money ���

If it was your sons Anus that was molested or your Daughter that was molested will you be able to type this nonsense?Most times in Nigeria when things happen to others we tend to talk rubbish but when it happens to us we want help.....

NextD18:
Nigerians are too careless and ignorant towards this Covid issues.

This is just a show Joor, why dint they go to Quilox? they are looking for soft targets...

Wiifesnatcher:
£5,000? thunder where are you


I sincerely have no pity for those that go under the knife except CS though


you know how much is £5,000? might be small but would have turned some entrepreneurs into a big men with a little beginning


nonsense

I hate it when people talk like this, so because there are poor people i should not enjoy my life again, How many ppl have you helped in your capacity? so because there are poor ppl in the world i should not drive a good car or reside in a good house.... same poor ppl that will say i did rituals to get money if i go broke tomorrow...give as much as is in your power but don't tell ppl how to spend their hard earn money because there are poor ppl... its wrong... if you want money go and look for it your self...

sisisioge:


So she had no right to choose what she wanted because she might die? Thus she should have been contented?

Please preach to mothers who risk their lives to get pregnant in the first place as they might have died. They ought to have been contented with womanhood alone.

Preach to those who risk their lives by leaving their houses every day in search of daily bread cos they might have been hit by a bus. They should be contented.

Preach to those who risk their fortune investing as they might have lost their money so they should be contented.

Or to all that sleep every night cos tomorrow has never been promised. We should be contented with today, right?

Get real, life is all about risk...she unfortunately took one and lost. I pray we never lose the ultimate battle as we keep fighting battles that have been won by so many every day of our lives. Perspective!

Well said, MY wife just had our first son, i see the way she looks at the stretch marks and the flappy tommy (she was a photo model before we got married) and i know it makes her uncomfortable sometimes... most time i have to tell her it doesn't mater that its what child bearing brings... But By God after my last child if i have the means am taking all those flappy shit out...The confidence of a woman is tied to how she looks in her skin... You may have a woman that has a pot belly and feel good about it but if you don't feel good about it take it out...Its not an issue of been content or not its an issue of confidence in yourself... its that feeling you get when your wearing a good outfit and you know you look good... That feeling of been on top of the world...

Omihanifa:
Etinosa the shameless prostitute and a serial nudist

Only God knows what she will tell her unborn child when he/she sees and hears about all these her atrocities

She even went as far as using some pages of Bible to smoke weed

"THE INTERNET NEVER FORGETS" that's what i tell everyone.... just be careful what you do online in the name of fame.... cos it will come hunting you real hard...

emmy512:
Alex don get double for fp today, expect more.
A beautiful queen, looks like an imo state girl

She is a Bayelsan, i think she is married.. last time i checked anyways...

Jack005:
Madam mind your business.. Everybody with their lives.

Bro na minding our business nah make things go da spoil we go da over look am.... Its just the truth, the more we have children not growing under proper parental guidance and Love (FROM BOTH PARENTS IN THE SAME HOUSE), The more we have an unsafe Society which will in turn affect folks like you who will see something bad happening and mind your business or should i say turn a blind eye....

wisdomiskey:


Keep it that way bros and avoid getting married at all costs..

but if you do fall victim to the scam that marriage is, make sure your wife is solely responsible for providing feeding allowance.
That way, you are free to handle the rent and other bills.

Marriage is not a scam na.. lolls...And why will your wife be solely involved in feeding the house? to me it doesn't sound right

hakeem4:
Good day guys, I am actually taking a survey and I’m using Nairaland since it represents the view of the average Nigerian.

As for me I spend 30-25% of my monthly income on feeding only; maybe because I’m a bachelor and I do not cook.


How many percent of your income do you allocate for feeding in a month

I spend 30% on feeding for a family of 3..

emmaodet:
Less than 5% for a family of 4

Dat means your salary is huge...

Esseite:


https://punchng.com/consider-underage-married-girls-as-voters-nassembly-tells-inec/?amp=1

Anytime i read things like this i feel really bad for this country...How a lawmaker be defending child marriage and child voting, its just disheartening

Daniwak:
Workers under the SEEFOR road construction project in Foropa kingdom caught this mighty sea turtle after the day's work. Foropa kibgdom is in Bayelsa state. THE BEAUTY OF THE COAST. See pictures below

How painful it is that such creature will be killed, mind you that Turtle may be more that 200 years old..... what an unfortunate sight...

Makanjuola89:
PMB cleaning GEJ's mess

DID YOU READ THE POST AT ALL?

fyneguy:
N800B owed by Jonathan

DID YOU READ THE POST AT ALL?

Friend01:
I don't know from what moralistic point of view these twerps complaining about.
The girl married to the man is not complaining and there is nothing to suggest this is a pedophile or pedophilia.

Islām can not be crucified becauase some pained idiots don't know that meaning of pedophile and marrying a young bride is.

Most of your grand parents married approximately at the age of 13 to 14 years, and some over night moralist complaining as if what they say would change anything.

I can't believe we are from the same country, its really painful!!!

RighteousI:


you are the biggest liar here. ain't no Nigerian company will pay 1.5 million per month to an entry staff and this means you never worked in such a company, you only wished you did. even regional manager of first bank and access bank don't make that much. if she makes that much it means she is gold digging those Arabs.

My brother Bank manager earn peanuts if you don't know, there are ppl that are paid 10M per month in this country just say u don't knw!!

contigiency:


Jonathan Projects always begins and ends on paper for you haters of progress. one day I won't be surprised to hear that Jonathan Initiated the pregnancy any of you gave to his wife.

Yea like TSA,LOCAL CONTENT,BVN,ELECTRONIC VOTING,TRAINS FROM ABUJA TO KADUNA ETC!!! ODE

Bigtotoboi:
I'm only interested in the whereabouts of our BBQ man. Has anyone seen him?

LOLZ!!! my brother i have been looking for him too oo, i can't find him!!

ebby9z:
Oya scheming has started
This Obasanjo sef no dey rest.
And why is Jonathan's stomach that big? He won't stop this kainkain before it becomes the death of him.
I'm looking forward to where Obasanjo will swing in this whole thing.
Seems he's hell-bent on removing Bubu

Thunder fire u der!! shabi na u give am kaikai drink? person wen da drink kaikai da fat? sense u no go gree get na to talk rubbish u sabi!!!

Abdulgorozo:
PROGRESSIVELY APC STAND

I feel for this country, after all that is happening in this country youths like me could collect money and vote out there country, hmmm let me quote my lord Jesus Christ #IT IS FINISHED#
Its to look for money and relocate that is left!!

sarrki:
Adeosun is a million times better than ngozi

on wat grounds na? you know the problem of Nigeria are youths like me and you. Somebody that is handling a sensitive position in our government is accused of forging her NYSC certificate and all i hear young ppl say is pushing blames to IPOB and all the rest.

With attitudes like this how can our country grow? how can corruption stop? Just because u support a party should not blind you to the truth.
The thing is most of us don't travel out of this country, cos if u do the moment you land at Lagos airport you will understand that we are finished.
pls stop supporting ppl blindly if not our children will still suffer the same faith as we are suffering nw.
Mind you am Not Igbo.

MrOwonikoko:
Werin concern me

it should concern you cos its ur money too!!

EzendiEgo1:




Stop confusing yourself and stop giving fear a chance in your life.

I have been Maturbating for 6 good years now never for one day have I blamed myself or have I giving fear a chance.

Maturbation can never make you not to last long while having sex.

Mehn Bro!! you need an award!! some one please give this guy some Accolades!! His gone world wide!!!

englishmart:
Na wa o. I honestly frown at married men who find it difficult to control themselves. What is the point getting married then?

Get married first b4 you castigate and crucify dem, if you don't cheat wen you get married den u can. pls no body should quote me oo!! cos i don't intend to cheat wen am married!!