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ME:

Got two job offers.

Am now a dad. I have a very lovely and wonderful son.

Got a nice car.

Moved into a nice apartment.

Am now more responsible.

Am more prudent and accountable.

My priorities shifted.


MY LOVELY SPOUSE:

Her surname changed.

She's now a blessed mum of a smart handsome young son.

She's on the verge of being chartered (ICAN).

She became very tolerant and calm.

Her love for God sky rocketed.

etc.


Honestly, there's abundant blessing in Marriage. especially when you get married to the right person. There are lots of unusual breakthroughs that accompanies a Godly marriage.

And again, Prayer/genuine personal relationship with God is "key".

There are many things Nigerians know slayqueens for. One thing all slay queens can be associated with is their lust for money or material things from men. Dating one of these women needs you to have just enough money to waste. However, don’t waste your time thinking you can marry her, just enjoy with her and leave to save yourself from a lot of relationship dramas. Here are five things no slay queen wants to hear from you:


You don’t drive

Every slay queen wants a man who drives. She wants to be driven from expensive dates to her home or your home. When you date her and you don’t drive, you will always have to pay for Uber since she will complicate the story and tell you how she doesn’t use PSV vehicles for her travels.


You live in a cheap house

Never attempt to take her to your home if you live in some cheap house. She will insult your house from the place you to live, the building itself and all things inside. She wants to be taken to expensive houses even when she lives in a one-bedroom or bedsitter somewhere.


You earn less than she does

If she is doing some work, she expects you to be earning triple that she earns. Otherwise you are no match for her. Slay queens want men who earn a lot that can accommodate her expensive dates.


You wear cheap clothes

Slay queens don’t fancy men who wear cheap clothes. Even if you have more money than she does, she will always despise you with how you have dressed. She wants to be around a classy looking man.


You don’t like expensive restaurants

Every slay queen wants to be taken to expensive restaurants and hotels. Some men are satisfied with food from cheap hotels. If you take her to a cheap hotel, you will never again agree on terms with her.


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How sad.
I suppose that was the reason why he was in tears that time.
Quite unfortunate.

thesicilian:
Hugging your own wife has become news.

I wonder.

And what is so special about this?


This is just a natural phenomenon with respect to every blessed, wonderful and loving union/marriage.

BTW, the love of a family is one of God's greatest blessings. I can attest to that.

United fans attacked Jose Mourinho and his family so much after yesterday’s FA Cup defeat that he deactivated his Instagram account. Disgraceful from our fans. #MUFC



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Hello nairalanders,
The subject matter demands your attention.

SacredMustang:



4: Fridays are always the best. Because the thought of work free Saturday and Sunday makes everybody happy.

Saturday's ain't work free for a lot of people in Nigeria.

Especially the manufacturing/factory workers.

You are doing a great job Bro. Kudos to you.
Please kindly help me check this AHTLC58E203008877

kind regards.

Not relevant.

bravolad:
If the service is basic oil & filter replacement, you can travel almost immediately after the oil change. There's no effect or problem.

Pls ensure you use good quality filter & the recommended engine oil. Nothing to be afraid of here.

OK. Thanks a lot.

I Am good to go.

Lexusgs430:
If it was a basic change oil, filter, plugs etc etc, it's safe.... (done by a competent hand).....

On the other hand, if you had major surgical intervention, I would advise against (best to drive intercity and ensure all the bones and blood was properly applied).....

Thanks a lot.

It's basically just change of oil.

I intend travelling with a Toyota corolla 2012 Model for a 7 hours trip... Now, is it advisable to travel with it just a day after servicing it?

For example, let's assume it was serviced on a Friday and the next day which is on a Saturday I commence the trip. Is it safe? And again, what is the best recommended oil to service a Toyota corolla 2012 Model? Thanks for your kind assistance.

It's a shame. Honestly.

She is not your Fiancee Bro.


I repeat, You actually don't have a fiancee.

Hustle hustle hustle hard.


Lagos is truly a Land of massive opportunities.


I have obviously benefitted positively from its numerous opportunities.

However, some of the major challenges are accommodation, traffic, congestion and high rate of air pollution. The atmosphere is hazardous.

Just a quick one. As a Lagos landlord, If one of your tenants decided to move out of his rented apartment where he normally pay annually for rent. As expected, the Landlord was duly notified by the tenant about the fact that he wouldn't be renewing his rent. However, during the process of looking for a new apartment, the tenant spent an extra one month after his/her rent has expired before moving out. This wasn't intentional though.


Over Four Months later after moving out of the said apartment, the ex Landlord is now calling the former tenant to pay him for the one month.

Now, is the tenant supposed to pay for the extra one month? Putting Lagos state tenancy law into consideration.

Is the Landlord in order?

What is the legal implication of this dilemma?

Some villagers who had become really angry with a politician whom they felt had not served them well, have taken laws into their hands to punish him.


The villagers disgraced their mayor

In most countries, the only way you can punish politicians and civil servants for not doing a proper job is by not voting for them in the next elections, but in Bolivia, they have a thing called “social justice”.

The people of San Buenaventura, a small town in northern Bolivia, recently made good use of their constitutional right to social justice by putting their mayor, Javier Delgado, in stocks for an hour, to let him know that they are not satisfied with his service. Photos of the disgraced mayor sitting on the ground with one leg trapped in the medieval restraining device while surrounded by angry townspeople have been doing the rounds on South-American social media and news sites since late February.



On February 25th, mayor Javier Delgado was supposed to inaugurate a bridge built with state and municipal funds, but when he got to the site, he was shocked to learn that the crowd waiting for him was not there to attend the event, but teach him a lesson. Without even bothering to explain what he was being punished for, they just grabbed Delgado and put him in wooden stocks.

“They didn’t even give me the opportunity to find out why they were submitting me to this punishment, but I did not put up resistance knowing that there was a risk of things escalating even further,” the mayor told La Razon. “Later, they gave me the opportunity to explain and then they apologized to me, as they saw that they had been manipulated and misinformed by these people.”

By “these people”, Delgado means his political adversaries and local entrepreneurs who are trying to undermine the work he has done in over two years of service to the community. He claims these people are in the pocket of river transporters and logging companies, the interests of which have been affected by some of his policies.

However, Daniel Salvador, a native of San Buenaventura, told Radio Fides that mayor Delgado had been punished for not fulfilling his commitments to the local community, lying to them and not making them his priority when they ask for an audience.


Javier Delgado

To make matters worse, this was actually the third time that mayor Javier Delgado got a taste of social justice during his two-and-half year term. The first time, he was put in stocks just a few months after coming into office, while the second time, members of the community took over his office and kept him away for two whole months. Fearing for his life, he fled to a neighboring town, until a commission of indigenous authorities put an end to the conflict.

“I am one of only a few people in the whole country who have been subjected to these traditional punishments,” Delgado complained. I wonder why that is, though…

Like many other indigenous communities in Bolivia, the people of San Buenaventura govern themselves according to three basic principles “ama qhuilla, ama llulla, ama suwa (do not be lazy, do not be a liar, do not be a thief)” and resort to social justice whenever someone infringes any of them.

Social justice has been included in the country’s constitution in 2009, although it is only acceptable in the case of minor crimes, like trespassing private property or cattle theft. Serious crimes still have to be referred to the courts.

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Source: Oddity Central

https://www.tori.ng/news/90408/see-how-angry-villagers-disgraced-politician-in-br.html

Liliyann:
What is wrong in giving your girlfriend money to look good and take care of herself?
Your girlfriend can also become your wife so there is nothing bad in pampering and spoiling her with gifts and Money,it makes her feel loved and appreciated.
If you like don't appreciate and shower your girlfriend with money,another man will definitely come and do the job well.

MODIFIED: All these broke and frustrated guys quoting me should better go and work and know what it is like to take care of their women.

No ma, We aren't broke nor frustrated. Actually, we are working hard to cater for our families and we are proud of that, we are responsible young men. The truth is that your type is a serious turn off for every reasonable and responsible young man.

A gold digger you are. Am sorry you won't make a good wife with this your negative mindset and lack of good manner of approach.

BTW, tell us, What is it like to take care of a woman? Mumu!!!

Liliyann:
What is wrong in giving your girlfriend money to look good and take care of herself?
Your girlfriend can also become your wife so there is nothing bad in pampering and spoiling her with gifts and Money,it makes her feel loved and appreciated.
If you like don't appreciate and shower your girlfriend with money,another man will definitely cone and do the job well.

Weird mentality of an average Nigerian girl.


The earlier you change your orientation, the better for you.

I concur.

He's no doubt, a wise man.

donstan18:
Shut d'fvck up... Social media claimers.

What character is she building?, what's wrong with what he said, he wants to be strict to his niece, so?

Is she your "Niece"? , is Anthony Joshua life and decision suppose to be your concern?, huh?

Yes, he knows what African culture entails, he knows that her niece will grow to be someone's wife, he has every right to father her strictly the way he wants.

All the ladies that weren't brought up strictly and great discipline, what did they turn out to be? whoré, hoe, bitches and wannabe feminists that does nothing than to sleep around and ask for money from men due to their inability to become a responsible woman, wife and mother to the society.

You typed of beauty and brain, which one do you have?, he doesn't have beauty and brain, yet he's at the level he his..... Your type can even reach orgasm at the sight of him, yet will come here to form pooooo!

Once again... Shut d'fvck up and mind your business.


You dare not tell a Nigerian man how to train his kids or siblings.. You dare not....Train your own the way you want, don't decide for others.

God bless you abundantly bro.


Spot on.

emmyw:
Nigerian Police Salary Structure 2018 – How NPF Pay Officers.

Nigerian Police Salary Scale… This article will enlightened you more on how much Nigerian Police pay its officers starting from the highest rank to the lowest vacant position. See full information.

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Nigerian Police Salary Structure
 
The Nigerian Police (formally the Nigerian Police Force) is becoming a really cool employment-wise. The salary is considerable. And you’re pretty confident you will get it at the end of every month. This is a post about the Nigerian police ranks and their salaries in 2018.

In total, the Nigerian police is responsible for the peace and order in the country. The police force number consists of about 372 000 people but this number is not enough to prevent all the criminal cases. This is why it was recently approved that the police staff will increase to about 650 000 police officers.

So, first of all, we should mention that the Nigerian police is a rather serious structure, which was built in 1930. Nowadays, it consists of 36 teams which is spread across the country and are classified into 12 various zones. It should be noted here that all these zones are operated by the seven various administrative organs. There are over 2 000 police stations in Nigeria.

Arms of the Nigeria Police.
Administrative arm
Anti-Fraud Section
The Central Criminal Registry
Special Anti-Robbery Squad
X-Squad, General Investigation
Special Fraud Unit
Legal Section
Forensic Science Laboratory
Interpol Liaison
Homicide
Police Mobile Force
Anti-Human Trafficking Unit
Force Intelligence Bureau
DCI Kaduna Annex and Counter Terrorism Unit.
Note that a Nigerian police officer’s salary is dependent on his or her rank in the Nigerian Police and grade. That being said, we shall take it from the recruit to the Inspector General of Police and you will learn about new salaries of different ranks in the Nigeria police force.

1. Police Recruit
Salary per month – N9,019.42
Annual Salary – N108,233

2a. Police Constable Grade Level 03
Salary per month – N43, 293.80

Annual Salary – N519,525.6

2b. Police Constable Grade Level 10
Salary per month – N51,113.59

Annual Salary- N613,363.08

3a. Police Corporal On Grade 04 (1)
Salary per month – N44,715.53
Annual Salary – N536,586.36

3b. Police Corporal On Grade Level 04 (10)
Salary per month- N51,113.59
Annual Salary – N613,365.08

4a. Police Sergeant On Grade 05 (step1)
Salary per month – N48,540.88
Annual Salary – N582,490.56

4b. Police Sergent On Grade 05 (step 10)
Salary per month – N55,973.84
Annual Salary – N671,686.08

5a. A Sergeant Major On Grade 06 (step 1)
Salary per month – N55,144.81
Annual Salary – N661,737.72

5b. Sergent Major On Grade 06 (step 10)
Salary per month – N62,204.88
Annual Salary – N746,458.56



6a. Cadet Inspector On Grade Level 07 (step1)
Salary per month – N73,231.51
Annual Salary – N878,778.12

6b. Cadet Inspector On Grade 07 (step10)
Salary per month – N87,135.70
Annual Salary – N1,045,628.4

7a. Assistant Superintendent Of Police On Grade 08 (step1)
Salary per month – N127,604.68
Annual Salary – N1,531,256.16

7b. Assistant Superintendent Of Police On Grade 08 (step10)
Salary per month – N144,152.07

Annual Salary – N1,729,824.84

7c. Assistant Superintendent Of Police On Grade 09 (step1)
Salary per month- N136, 616.06
Annual Salary- N1,639,392.72

7d. Assistant Superintendent Of Police On Grade 09 (step10)
Salary per month -N156,318.39
Annual Salary – N1,875,820.68

9a. Deputy Superintendent Of Police On Grade 10 (step1)
Salary per month -N148,733.29
Annual Salary -N1,784,799.48

9b.Deputy Superintendent Of Police on Grade 10 (step10)
Salary per month -N170,399.69

Annual Salary -N2,044,796.28

10a. Superintendent Of Police On Grade 11 (step1)
Salary per month – N161,478.29
Annual Salary -N1,937,739.48

10b. Superintendent Of Police On Grade 11 (step 10)
Salary per month – N187,616.69
Annual Salary-N2,251400.28

11a. Chief Of Superintendent Of Police on Grade 12 (step1)
Salary per month – N172,089.06
Annual Salary -N2,065,068.72

11b.Chief Of Superintendent Of Police On Grade 12 (step8)
Salary per month-N199,723.96
Annual Salary -N2,396,687.52

12a. Assistant Commissioner Of Police Grade 13 (step1)
Salary per month – N183,185.73
Annual Salary -N2,198,228.76

12b. Assistant Commissioner Of Police Grade 13 (step10)
Salary per month – N212,938.16
Annual Salary – N2,555,257.92

13a. Deputy Commissioner Of Police On Grade 14 (step1)
Salary per month – N242,715.65
Annual Salary – N2,912,587.8

13b. Deputy Commissioner Of Police On Grade 14 (step7)
Salary per month – N278,852.79
Annual Salary -N3,346,233.48

14a. Commissioner Of Police on Grade 15 (step1)
Salary per month – N266,777.79
Annual Salary -N3,201,333.48

14b. Commissioner Of Police on Grade 15 (step6)
Salary per month- N302,970.47
Annual Salary-N3,635,645.64

15. An Assistant Inspector General Of Police
Salary per month – N499,751.87
Annual Salary – N5,997,022.44

16. Deputy Inspector General Of Police
Salary per month – N546,572.73

Annual Salary – N6,558,872.76

16. Inspector General Of Police, (IGP)
The highest rank in Nigeria Police Force is the Inspector General of Police. He is appointed by the president and can be sacked by him also. The IGP is usually appointed on a four year term. He must leave office and the president will appoint another person to replace him when his tenure expires or if he is sacked. His monthly salary is more than what the other police officers earn; see it below:

IGP Salary per month -N711,498
IGP Annual Salary – N8,537,976

Those are Nigerian police salary structure as listed above. What is your take on the new salaries of the Nigerian police take home pay.

We also take a cursory look at the hierarchy at the Nigeria Police Force starting from the highest position which is currently held by the Inspector General of Police down to the least rank which is the Police recruit.

The Inspector-General of Police
The Deputy Inspector-General of Police
The Assistant Inspector-General of Police
The Commissioner of Police (In-charge of contingents in a state)
The Deputy Commissioner of Police
The Asst. Commissioner of Police
The Chief Superintendent of Police
The Superintendent of Police
The Deputy Superintendent of Police
The Asst. Superintendent of Police
The Inspector of Police
Sergeant Major
Sergeant
Corporal
Constable
Police recruit
Now that we know the hierarchy in the force, lets know how the Nigerian police salary scale per month and their yearly take home pay looks like, so you can judge for yourselves whether the Nigerian police is being paid well or not.

Police Recruit’s salary per month is N9,019.42 and his salary per annum is N108,233
Police Constable Grade Level 03’s salary per month is N43, 293.80 and his annual salary is N519,525.6
Police Constable Grade Level 10’s Salary per month is N51,113.59 and his annual salary is N613,363.08
Police Corporal On Grade 04 (1)’s Salary per month is N44,715.53 and his Annual Salary is N536,586.36
Police Corporal On Grade Level 04 (10)’s Salary per month is N51,113.59 and his Annual Salary is N613,365.08
Police Sergeant On Grade 05 (step1)’s Salary per month is N48,540.88 and his Annual Salary is N582,490.56
Police Sergeant On Grade 05 (step 10)’s Salary per month is N55,973.84 and his Annual Salary is N671,686.08
Sergeant Major On Grade 06 (step 1)’s Salary per month is N55,144.81 and his Annual Salary is N661,737.72
Sergeant Major On Grade 06 (step 10)’s Salary per month is N62,204.88 and his Annual Salary is N746,458.56
Cadet Inspector On Grade Level 07 (step1)’s Salary per month is N73,231.51 and his Annual Salary is N878,778.12
Cadet Inspector On Grade 07 (step10)’s Salary per month is N87,135.70 and his Annual Salary is N1,045,628.4
Assistant Superintendent Of Police On Grade 08 (step1)’s Salary per month is N127,604.68 and his Annual Salary is N1,531,256.16
Assistant Superintendent Of Police On Grade 08 (step10)’s Salary per month is N144,152.07 and his Annual Salary is N1,729,824.84
Assistant Superintendent Of Police On Grade 09 (step1)’s Salary per month is N136, 616.06 and his Annual Salary is N1,639,392.72
Assistant Superintendent Of Police On Grade 09 (step10)’s Salary per month is N156,318.39 and his Annual Salary isN1,875,820.68
Deputy Superintendent Of Police On Grade 10 (step1)’s Salary per month is N148,733.29 and his Annual Salary is N1,784,799.48
Deputy Superintendent Of Police on Grade 10 (step10)’s Salary per month is N170,399.69 and his Annual Salary is N2,044,796.28
Superintendent Of Police On Grade 11 (step1)’s Salary per month is N161,478.29 and his Annual Salary is N1,937,739.48
Superintendent Of Police On Grade 11 (step 10)’s Salary per month is N187,616.69 amd his Annual Salary is N2,251400.28
Chief Of Superintendent Of Police on Grade 12 (step1)’s Salary per month is N172,089.06 and his Annual Salary is N2,065,068.72
Chief Of Superintendent Of Police On Grade 12 (step ’s Salary per month is N199,723.96 and his Annual Salary is N2,396,687.52
Assistant Commissioner Of Police Grade 13 (step1)’s Salary per month is N183,185.73 and his Annual Salary is N2,198,228.76.
Assistant Commissioner Of Police Grade 13 (step10)’s Salary per month is N212,938.16 and his Annual Salary is N2,555,257.92
Deputy Commissioner Of Police On Grade 14 (step1)’s Salary per month is N242,715.65 and his Annual Salary is N2,912,587.8
Deputy Commissioner Of Police On Grade 14 (step7)’s Salary per month is N278,852.79 and his Annual Salary is N3,346,233.48
Commissioner Of Police on Grade 15 (step1)’s Salary per month is N266,777.79 and his Annual Salary is N3,201,333.48
Commissioner Of Police on Grade 15 (step 6)’s Salary per month is N302,970.47 and his Annual SalaryisN3,635,645.64
Assistant Inspector General Of Police’s Salary per month is N499,751.87 and his Annual Salary is N5,997,022.44.
Deputy Inspector General Of Police’s Salary per month is N546,572.73 and his Annual Salary is N6,558,872.76.
Inspector General Of Police, (IGP) is the highest ranked officer in the Nigeria Police Force. His Salary per month amounts to N711,498, while his Annual Salary is N8,537,976.





CC: Lalasticlala

Source: https://www.currentjobvacancy.com/nigerian-police-salary-structure/

Pathetic.

With families to cater for, bills to pay and other miscellaneous expenses, a man cannot survive by this damn salary structure.

No matter what kind of woman you are dating, regardless of what she says out loud, little surprises that show your romantic side will always be appreciated. Here are nine little wonders you can do for your lover that will surely put a smile on her face and earn you a permanent place in her heart.

1. WAKE HER UP WITH BREAKFAST
It may seem cliche to some but deep down inside all women adore a partner who’s thoughtful enough to serve them breakfast in bed. It shows that you care and appreciate all that she does for you and then some.


2. LITTLE LOVE NOTES
Perhaps the most inexpensive of all, leaving cute little notes for her will instantly ignite an ear to ear smile on her lovely face. You know you love her, she knows too, but showing her in such a sweet way will surely have her swimming in bliss.


3. SPONTANEOUS SHOPPING TRIP
The majority of women love to shop; it’s practically in their DNA. However, put aside your personal opinion on buying for the moment (if you don’t like it) and take her anyway. She will adore you taking the time out of your day to go through the hustle and bustle that is shopping. If you’re lucky, she’ll put on a fashion show and strut her sexy self just for you. Everyone enjoys a bit of eye candy!


4. DATE NIGHT
So many couples get into a relationship, and the concept of going out on an ACTUAL date goes entirely out of the window. Step out of the relationship comfort zone and surprise her with a trip to her favorite restaurant for dinner or even the newest bistro in town for lunch and latte. Women love that stuff!


5. ROMANTIC TRIP
This may take a bit of planning on your part but if you play your cards right and get all your ducks in a row, surprising her with a romantic trip for two will be just the ticket to warm her heart. It doesn’t have to be an extravagant vacation either; a simple weekend getaway will do wonders for your relationship and have her teeming with excitement.


6. SEND FLOWERS TO WORK
You’ve seen it in the movies and your favorite television shows: unexpectedly sending flowers to a woman while she’s at work. This public display of affection always goes over well with a woman. She’s rendered pleasantly speechless, and her co-workers are impressed: brownie points to you! Even if you can’t afford a full bouquet and a floral delivery service, even a simple rose on the windshield of her car will do just fine!


7. DO HER HOUSEWORK FOR A DAY
No one likes doing housework, not her, not you, no one. Lucky for her, you’re the kind of partner that doesn’t mind going through a rough day just for her. Tell her she has the day off from those annoying chores and she’ll be all smiles.


8. PLAN A HOME COOKED MEAL FOR TWO
A partner that can cook is always a great bonus for any woman. Take the time to plan a romantic meal for you both that you cook with your own two hands. Don’t worry about your cooking skills because she will appreciate all of the thoughtfulness and love behind it.


9. COMPLIMENT HER PUBLICLY
The majority of people live their life online, and if you’re not giving her a public shout-out once in a while, you’re missing out! Show her off to your friends and hers with a simple post complimenting her loving ways or recent accomplishments. You just can’t go wrong with that!

Sure, some of these may require more planning than others but, when you truly love someone, it should be straightforward to find the energy and the resources. Life with your lady will benefit highly, and you can guarantee the negativity will be kept to a minimum. Bottom line: when she’s happy, you’re happy!



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huss421:
There is this girl I proposed to years ago during my undergraduate who accepted the offer based on the belief that after school I would have a nice job that would enable me care for her.

After my NYSC, when she saw that things were not as expected, she lose interest in me and walked away, however, she now wants to come back as she had heard the news of my employment even though, I don't like her again and I have gotten some body better off than her.

The problem is, am finding it difficult to tell her the truth, pls pals how do I go about it? Pls I need your advice pls, no insult it's a serious matter.

Accepting her back isn't an option.

The earlier you tell her the truth that you have since moved on, the better.

Bro, don't bother yourself, she's not worth it. Believe me. It was obvious she didn't love you and now she's back because you are now gainfully employed.

Her loss.

OneCorner:
So u expect her to stay wen u no get money abi
Bros, it's ur fault for being broke so don't blame her for not staying wit u den.

Mumu.


There's no wisdom in what you wrote up there.

A lot of people will cry their hearts out tomorrow when they realize the person they hoped will take them out and call them took another out.

Many will be heartbroken, because their place another took.

Many will feel miserable, when they realize they have been building castles on sand.

Many will realize that their Toyota Camry small light is actually a small car.

But as the year goes by..

They will thank God they dodged a bullet.

They would realize that love is not a birthday to be celebrated once a year.

They will realize that Love is a personality and a nature.

They would realize that God is truly Love.

They would realize, you can't give love, when you don't have Love inside.

In another news

Wet Handkerchiefs, do not stay wet forever.

#Ididnotsayanything
#MayhethatreadethUnderstand #seeyouonwednesday
#HearWord

Mumu.

As for me, I would prefer something meaningful...
e.g. A pretty nice wristwatch.

RuthDaniels:
Lol! come on, he didn't die from embarrassment when you rudely turned him down, did he?.

Point is, you will never know what's on his mind and the only way to know is to ask him. If there is anything I hate most in life, it is regret! The regret of maybe if I had done this or that.

Ask him straight up if he wants to be your friend, make it a solemn military request, that way you will be able to walk with your head up high even if he rejects you.

You are wise.

It's not a must.


I got a job without wearing suit to the interview. Actually, every other invited candidates wore suit.... I was the only one wearing sleeve and trouser, no tie. I was decent enough and the outfit was fit for purpose.

I don't like suit, however, I had to wear it during my wedding and that was the last time I ever wore suit.

Your outfit to an interview session is important, but what you carry inside is more important.

The meat business is a very serious business.

I have been to abattoirs and the craze for meat is real...Also during this Christmas holiday, several people gifted there fans and followers with cows.

In some traditions a meal without meat is considered an insult and in fact as part of training most children are taught to finish their food before their meat.

The suya business is a multi-million Naira business, which now has dried variants in shops, sharwama also has a beef variant.

The truth is that most people cannot do without meat and it is a multi-billion Naira industry.

Curiously, the main source of meat in this nation are nomads. Unfortunately, this business and traditional model has caused a lot of problems and a lot of people have been killed in the process.

Ban them, stop them from coming to your state... Businessmen and women will go to states where they are allowed to roam.. Buy cows and sell it at exorbitant prices to butchers who will increase the price of meat...

Now to the meat of the matter...

I would expect State governments to cash into this business.

Imagine let's say the Delta State government acquires hectares of lands in rural areas, and they also acquire exotic grasses and breeds of cattle.

Imagine them having several ranches, and having milk producing breeds.

Imagine my state, supplying grasses to all parts of the country.

Imagine if my state government, decides to be greedy with the "Canda" and decides to open a leather factory and rather than sell the leather decide to go into shoe, sandals, belt, bag and even cloth production.

Imagine if we used the hooves and horns rich in keratin for developing our line of hair care products...

Imagine what their waste products would be used for, imagine us being ahead in the biogas industry.

Imagine my state running, other cattle rearers out of business and then putting laws to tax other rearers.

Imagine how many people will be employed and the revenue that will be accrued to the state.

Imagine the development that would come to those rural areas.

Just imagine people that would be gainfully employed, just imagine the cycle of wealth.

In another news,

One reason the fulani herdsmen have not evolved, is that is virtually no competition in this sector.

One reason perhaps, may be that a lot of Ogas on the top may actually be owners of this multi-billion Naira industry and will do everything to protect their business.

Beyond the politics, rhetoric and crocodile tears let one state or even wealthy individual pick up this challenge and build a model of prosperity for her people.

Again what do I know?

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