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Nigeria ladies are becoming too difficult to manage, local man is tire of them all. I'm seriously considering baby mama. I hate to die by heart attack

Even the lawful captive shall be deliver. If you know you knw

Yet southern youth called scamming hustling

To nack all these white ladies dey hungry me. Fresh neat punna

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250 here in asaba. Bought today

I can see what seem to be two formal Governors' sons on that list. The elite are really messing with the common's man brain

The certificate issued to both marriage done in registries or churches are issued to the various organisations by the ministry of interior after those places have registered just like a company would registered their name wirh CAC. Therefore, the marriage act govern the two irrespective of where you get it . So for you to be totally free settle of traditional marriage or church blessing if you can't take the risk

Had it been this op is still in her father's aux watching her life sliding to become an evenly news paper or if she is still single staying alone and paying all bills alone in this double digit inflation economy her libido won't be this high. I hate dating girls who doesn't knows what it takes to be independent. They just want to leave their father's aux with their youthful fantasies and boom in your auz and starting manifesting all they fantasized abt before they met you. That man could be passing through alot financiallly, psychologically trying to fix thing for the benefits of his family as the man of the aux. There is a way all these anxieties and worries affect newly wedded couples if they just started having kids most especially if he wasn't born with a silver spoon in his mouth. But srry to say most Nigeria ladies lack understanding in relationship. Most women fantasize so much which made them always feel disappointed when the finally meet with life reality. Op is part of your obligation to understand him and support in him in every way. Not by being selfish with your fantasies

Hell fire is getting closer to earth and some scientists thought global warming is as a result of some carbon emissions . No be my hand writing be this o na one pastor get ham

Men doesn't have biological clock . Yen yen yen. Your prb is lack of money, job, in ability to find the right partner, indecision, selfishness etc go and marry at 50s or 60s when you have become billionaire that's if you are lucky to become one and started giving birth to children with down syndrome and chromonaire deficiency. At that time you will start spending those money you made on them

SLAVERY OF MEN BY WOMEN

●Author unknown

German writer Esther Villar In her book *"The Manipulated Man"* that caused outrage and hostile criticism from women explains how women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves, they have pretended to be the oppressed sex while in the real sense they are the oppressors. She explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like courtship and finally marriage, hence the saying *"a man chases a woman until SHE catches him".*

In her book, she explains how the man is tricked to care for the woman all his life and her offspring. He rolls the stone like Sisyphus and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of sexual pleasure. We can, by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the woman uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her.

She goes ahead to explain the rivalry of women, how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for herself. Like a slave owner, she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman. She uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone.

Esther Villar's sentiments are captured by Nigerian Poet, critic and writer, Chinweizu Ibekwe in his book, *"The Anatomy of Female Power"*(AFP) and Will Farrel's, *"The Predatory Female*. They all push the theory that all societies are matriarchal and not patriarchal as we are pushed and forced to believe. Matriarchy has ruled not through brawn but wits and tricks; women feigning weakness to be protected etc. Thus the male becomes the most exploited sex in human history, (in wars, the man is always ready to die for the woman; he has been trained to do that).

Chinweizu calls the idea of dating and courtship, training, like that of a horse. It is during this time that a woman, having kept the man on a leash by denying him sex and getting him addicted to her by false charms, trains and breaks him to whatever she wants him to become.

The marriage celebration becomes a celebration for the woman and her friends, and they all congratulate her for having succeeded in getting herself a slave. A man on that wedding day waves goodbye to his independence and his coalition of males and commits himself to a Sisyphean life, rolling the stone, an act he cannot abandon having society and the government checking on him and always ready to jail, shame or exile him for absconding his duties.
*Thus the government and society helps the woman in keeping her slave in check.*

Chinweizu gives a narration of how women are trained by older matriarchs to tame men. He explains how a man is trained to rely on women by his own mother. A man is shamed for cooking for himself and other domestic chores by his own mother who is an agent of the global matriarchal rule.

By getting the man to hate domestic works and having it enforced by culture which warns men against going into the kitchen, doing laundry etc., the mother trains his son for the woman who will captivate him and when the time comes she takes hold of the man's stomach and by getting the man addicted to her body she holds him by the two, in bed and in the kitchen. With those two weapons, she manipulates the man and turns him into her plaything.

In the *"Myth of the Male Power"*, Esther Villar's *" A Man's Right to the Other Woman"*; *"The Polygamous Sex"*, the authors of those books challenge the narrative that men oppress women, and by detailed research across African, Western and Eastern both in ancient and modern societies, the authors unravel the hidden power of the ruthless matriarchal power that rules the world.

Presidents, Emperors and Kings are all puppets of the matriarchy forces that rule the World by pulling the strings from behind the curtains.

Exploring diff pussies will expose you to stds that may likely affect the qualities of your life if you ever consider returning back to bachelorhood. Do you have the time and chance to carried out test for random girls met on the street or club in the heat of romance? Even with ur condom you can still contract diseases like hepatitis through mere bodily flud during kissing and others. So you call all these worrying during the course of exploring pussies as a bachelor enjoyment? You don't have to worry abt all these if you're married and committed to a partner. As for rising kids, you can choose 1 to 2 to avoild stress that comes with raising them. Baba if your wife is sexy, has good curve and other qualities your need in a marriage mate dont divorce her. Keep her and device a mean for both of you to socialise

Is not easy out there

I can relate bro. Just hang in there and plan

Nice

Dm let's reason together

That's how one stupid fruadter hacked my wife Facebook acct and started impersonating my wife claiming one of his relatives had an accident and they need money urgently for surgery. I played along, he sent me acct details and phone number. I told him to wait for some minute so i could transfer the money after some minute i chatted him bavk , i lied to him that have sent the money and i made a mistake of sending the money twice due to network therefore he should pls reverse the other one. Immediately he saw the msg he believed me and said i should screenshot my debit alart and send it to him. I replied him that i use ussd code with a small nokia phone without that function. Immediately i called him usimg Facebook video call unfortunately for him he pick and i screenshot is face but were he is was so dark So i didn't get a clear picture of him. He would have been a celebrity by now.

One of the reasons i zip up and avoid random 9ja girls. Kai and bobo go won die for tgis op nw o

I came to realized that for a relationship to work alot of freedom would be sacrificed along the line and many people are not willing to give up their freedom for that. Their is price for everything

With the current daily increment in the cost of leaving it takes God grace to save i swear. At times i wonder how i spent mine too as an introvert.

Well, teaching is fun because you will never get bore. Always around staffs and students. It can be stressful at same time if you don't manage your relationship with your students, co-worker, your employer and your meagre pay. Just try your best to manage the aforementioned

We need similar regulation in our real estate sector before they render most fixed income earners homeless

Brymo4all:
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Marriage self, you married a working class woman she might turn out to become selfish, cooperate prostitutes and not supportive , you married non working class woman she becomes a liability. Son of man just confuse

Snrcitizen:
I live in this area , and to be fair with everybody, the Catholic church and the hotel spoilt the road more.
The Catholic even opened the back gate for only their members to use as entrance and exit. The hotel brought wack contractors who dug the road dipper without consultations.
The landlords are worse cos most don't live around there. The state government is not even remembering that part of Asaba, they only concentrated on small nnebisi road.
We are tired , if say money dey. Na to relocate but house rent in this town is something else.

hope the flooding no dey enter inside room?

ahnie:
DLA is the worst...
Seconded by phase 2 interior of infant Jesus with beautiful structures.i learnt one cud get a 3 bedroom apartment there for a meagre sum of 100k.but the problem there is maaaddd flooding.

this yr when my landlord suddenly increased 2 bedroom to 450k it infuriated me and i wanted to pack our, i searched for house and saw a duplex around op area for 200k i suspected smth must be wrong with that area considering the high cost of accommodation in asaba i went back jeje to renew my rent can come and be lifting my chairs at midnight when it rain

Maybe she go chop for those over hyped mall where they package bottle water for 5k

World events do not occur by accident. They're made to happen, whether it is to do with national issue or commerce; and most of them are staged and managed by those who hold the purse strings. Most of these things are mind game

The MURIC and his fellow Muslims can relocate to Afghanistan to fill up the gap created by brain drain.

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Fanaticism is really a disease, it blindfold the mind. If this mad islam spokeman so care abt his religion he should relocate to Afghanistan, he would enjoy all the benefits he needed to practice is madness