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Smartguyboy:
For my own understanding karma is just a mind game playing tricks with our mind.
The Rich cheat more than the poor yet them prosper .

The Rich has more money to Pay Karma and get Bailed ... You Fvcked Up Here and Make Up There ... Karma go dey Balance

A poor man would pay much costlier with possibly depression, Sickness or Death depending on how far astray you are from the right Pathways!

Money Clears The Way for Those who are Wise!

LordAdam16:
That's not it.

Everyone is a hypocrite. If you're going to voice support for cheating in a public setting, you will get pushback from those who do not want to be victims of it (which is most people). And it's not always going to be articulate or brilliantly composed. Lots of emotional quips, scaremongering, threats, and such.

It is what people do when they strongly oppose any viewpoint. Whether it is politics or a sociocultural issue.

Hypocrisy begets discretion. You're going to find it incredibly easier to keep things under wraps with your choir mate than with a runs girl. The former will have major credibility issues if sh*t unraveled, the latter does not GAF.

If you're observant, you realize this in your adolescence (at most your teenage years). And a whole new world opens up to you where you become the outlet for those who have much to lose in their social lives living out their darkest fantasies through you. While you encourage them and do your part to keep up appearances and prevent their cover from getting blown.

Because we're all hypocrites, and na only who dem catch b thief.

All of that said, most normal people have lines they don't cross. Limits. Like an armed robber who wouldn't molest a child. But you'll have people who've never robbed in their lives but can molest a kid. It's different for everyone. For some, it's f*cking a married person.

I'm amoral, but I have my lines as well. I'm sure you have yours. So unless you're willing to deal with the fallout, keep controversial opinions to yourself and do whatever the f*ck makes you happy in your privacy (provided you're not committing a crime). Let those that want to signal their virtue get all the time in the sun, we go still meet for trenches.

-Lord

... everyone with their Philosophies in the longrun there is Cost-Benefit to all adopted Philosophies!

Nia69:
When you marry, that's if you wish to, hope you'll be fine when your husband starts screwing multiple young women or married women? You people will just be thinking like fish, don't you have morals?

You ain't living Realities Morals in 2023 !

Chide the World as you wish ... this is what life has metamorphosed into ...It would later change sometimes in the future and go back again ...

Nothing new life Civilisations has always been in phases of changes from Good to Bad to Good to Bad in Cycles n Recycle !

Brushstrokes20:
Quite rampant!... Such a weird society.

If not that it contradicts my personal principles, I would have bedded over a dozen of MARRIED WOMEN !

One shockingly confessed to me that she and her hubby haven't been intimate for over 2 years and counting , yet they reside under same roof / the man frolics with assorted shapes and shades of women.

Imagine ... So Is that how she go reach enter old age .. She is prolly gonna die of Depression & Heart Ache without Help !

histemple:
Nobody is exactly sure whether or not there are spiritual consequences for adultery. It is all about superstition and assumptions. Bad things happen to good and bad people.

Even from the Christian bible, the remarkable stories of David and Solomon shows that God loves adulterers. Imagine God making the adulterous David the man after his heart.

The product of King David's most publicised adulterous act was Solomon. Solomon was born out of wedlock (a bastard) but he went on to become the greatest King ever.

Don't also forget that King Solomon was a serial adulterer. Bible said he married 300 wives and had 700 concubines. By all standards, he was immoral just like his father, King David.

My personal opinion about adultery is that it is bad. It creates distractions that could affect the commitment of the cheating partner to building the marriage. It is the single most dangerous cause of disaffection amongst couples.

Thanks Great Pointers at the Bolded ! Once you taste sweeter outside your spouse started becoming offensive to you then the home started scattering except for great managers and psychologist they can manage both ends Adequately with least Issues !

ednut1:
Karma does not exist . Men and women shine ya eyes. Stop marrying oloshos or community penis

... How would you ever know !

It's like an Economist saying Accounting is a No Maths!

Zico5:
Things are happening jare. Adultery is everywhere. Married men and women are finding it hard to stay faithful due to many factors which can't be explained.

If you hear wetin some married women and marriage dey pass through ... no be play ...

A woman once said na only 3times d husband knack am last year 2022 ... and just now time this Last March, 2023 First Quarter don Comot ....

Now Lack of Sex is known to mentally Messed Human some people go just dey form James bond na lie ...

A well fvcked is usually calmer while a less fvcked is usually aggressive and depressed...

If such woman now start knacking outside dem go blame who

ComputerOperato:
I used to think karma is real but I'm beginning to doubt that.
The more I see and experience things in this world, the more I realise no one size cap fits all.
Some will suffer the consequences of their acts, others will go scot free and even prosper.
Bottom line, don;t let your wife/girlfriend to be mounted by another man. Ditto for husbands and girlfriends.
Nothing. Absolutely nothing will happen (As long as it is consensual).

Rich men and women have sex (cheat) the most. Yet they and their children continue to prosper and rule people.
Don't rely on karma. It may never come.

There is Karma(Debt Owe to Nature) and There is Payments to Fulfill the Debts .....

Don't Engage what's beyond your Maturities Mother Nature Would Flog You Anyhow People who no sabi you go follow you cry !

If you messed Up, Clean Up .... Rich Men Dey do Charities No be Play !

pacespot:
The fact is that the women wey no get yansh are more likely to be wicked, maybe out of jealousy for the ones wey get, we don't know

Toxic & Insecurity !

YinkaOlusesi16:
To me it's just a balloon in a flesh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

You get overthinking Problems...

e be like make you say Pounded yam na just Yam Uprooted in the Soil ....

Nyansh and Classy Woman no be wetin dem dey use Mouth Spoil ....

Respect The godess & Acknowledged the Blessed !

Reelmii:
Na nyash this person dey talk about without respect ...

Olohun !
Wetin person no no e no no

placeofallure:
How true is this assertion?

Shade A if it is often true.
Shade B if it is seldom true.
Shade C if it is difficult to say how true it is.
Shade D if it is never true.

Start!

The Meat stolen is much enjoyed than the Meat Served .... Stolen Meat dey be like last super though stealing e no good sha !

To steal no be play na .. you must have salivate like tomorrow no go come ....

Akwamkpuruamu:
All I have to say here are my experiences in my marriage. I have been married for five years now with two kids, Girl and boy. What works for me in my home may not work for you.

1. Tolerance is the first thing every man should have in marriage. You see women, your wife, they can dare you to a fault. Especially when your wife knows that you can't physically assault her based on your personal decision not to lay your hands on her, she will push you to the wall. How do I overcome that temptation, I walk out or I pretend as if I'm not hearing her nags by paying 100% attention to my phone.
2. SEX: This is an issue that most women use as a bargaining chip or power over a man especially when she believes you are 100% faithful to her. HOWEVER, if she understands that you get side chick, she will to an extent understand that she doesn't have the monopoly of denying you that. I'm such a man that I'm soft hearted. If I want to deny her money which is my own bargaining power when she denies me sex, I think about how I will feel to see her starved or deny her what she can put to look good, I just give.
3. It's not always good to hand over your finances to a woman to manage. NA LIE, every woman is selfish. If she's not selfish to using the money for her personal needs, she sends it to her family. I no de give my wife wetin I no say if she no gimme account well of how she spent it e go vex me well.


.... To be contd

Thank You Sir !

Shedrack777:
14years not 7years

7years Bro ... Each count is 7years to be served concurrently .... A day in Jail is for the two Offences together

Emmastan291:
Umar Hussaini was jailed for 7 years for a fraud of 1.1 Billion.. He begged the court to temper justice with mercy...lol

He will pay N100 million as compensation to the victims of the crime, Yemi Obadeyi and Cambial Limited and N50 million fine on each of the two counts.


What happens to the rest of the money?


7 years is really small

The 1.1B Would have been Recovered and he would now pay damages of N50M extra to the Prosecutor !

1.150B to be Recovered from Umar !

If not he will go to Jail for 7years On Each Count to be Runned Concurrently after N1.1B would have been Recovered from him !

Amuluonyenaego:
Indians are just taking over everywhere. Google dem Dey, Amazon dem Dey, uk prime minister dem Dey and Nigeria politicians are taking them as personal doctors too.

Almighty God of 2020s is Resident of India so make dem Enjoy Am ...

Hope Africa is also Coming ...

India are Trustworthy sha !

Lifestone:
I'm Yoruba, my senior brother married an Imo girl, my nephew married an Imo girl, I dated plenty Igbo girls, my best friend in school is an Igbo guy, all my children have Igbo names, I almost became an Igbo, yet I'm Yoruba

The Entire Nation of Nigeria shall Become an One Single Empire Under Almighty Good-God in the Nearest Foreseable Future:

We are gonna be One Nation !

AgentGoat:
Just an innocent question una turn am to she having wide hole. I don't like all these herd mentality among nigerian youths. Everyone reasoning the same direction. No objectivity.

Everyone is Poverty Frustrated ...

The Hate and Criticism on Women By Men(Boys) regardless of Age is enough to Fuel Spacecraft to the Sun

Most Men are now Waters(Feminine Energies) Only Few Men are Men(Masculine Energies) ...

Most Women are now running on Masculine Energies due to Harsh Economic Conditions & You have to be a Man(Not Boy) to Truly Match Up Energies of such Women if not You would be Washed !

Whatever the Women Folks has become is the Fault of We Men ... It's not Easy But a Man must rise up to the Hues of Nature talkless of His Fellow Softies Gender !

2starboy25:
11thnot man really but ain't in school anymore but she's a student

Anyway ... Boy no suppose dey do wetin Man dey do oo ...

Relationships na for Adults to handle the gimmicks therein .... E better make una be friends than Relationships....

No use ya dck scatter person daughter without Commensurate Responsibleness e dey lead to Wahala later !

2starboy25:
i am not a student but she is! I' m 25yrs of age and she's 19, yesterday when i went to see her in their dormitory, i insisted that i must go with YES or NO but she said she will call me with same smile on her sweet and fresh face, i think i hav to let go YES or NO and move into a relationship with her

19yo relationship... manage am well oo ... she is just getting Matured not yet full Fledged....

Good luck !

2starboy25:
ready to wait till eternity menh, the gal dope to me aswear, very cool by nature, she can talk well on phone but bends her face down when standing with me physical with a cool smile allOver her face.

are You her first about to "Relationships" .... ?

Simply give her time Man But if you are also a Boy Kindly make una face una studies because Relationships no be for boys and girls

IyaebeTheGreat:
Funny 😄 I’m married with kids already (5kids)

Gisos Son of Holy Mary ... Best Wishes Mehn !

IyaebeTheGreat:
If I hear, he’s intelligent no doubt but has nothing to do with romantic. What makes you think I’m not a star already.

Two Star on Collison would lead to Boom Supernova

IyaebeTheGreat:
You don’t like me bdat. Na man wey go pamper us we dy like

.. He is an Intellect and Surely Romantic .. One of the Best of NL .. You go be Star ooo

IyaebeTheGreat:
You are right

... .. Right Kwa ... Panso Wife

IyaebeTheGreat:
thank you. But sex is only evil outside marriage, we can have plenty of it in marriage

... That's Your Emotional Blocks Again ...

Sex can also Be evil in Marriage with an Irresponsible Man

The simple answer is Pray to God and Only Delve into What You can Handle .. Once it's beyond your Maturities take a Step Back

2starboy25:
i don't think me not having money is the reason y she's still thinking and if that is the reason, then it means no girl will love without money

You are the One at hand now but lacking something She needs in her Man so She is holding You while keeping her options opened But if market no dey ... she would have to make use of what she has in hands:

If you drop Her, She will Blackmail Emotionally

Women and Businesses ehn

Or She is not mentally ready for Relationships But Like the Coziness of Friendships...

My Verdict: Give her Time and whatever her decisions just take it as a Man and if you ain't gonna wait ... Just let her know ... !

IyaebeTheGreat:
I think we are all different, and I can’t ever see sex as just having fun. You write so well by the way. Lots of intelligent guys on this forum. How was your day?

Yes, We are all Different from different Backgrounds, Brought up and Maturities....

You can Depending on the guy handling You:

But for now You Can't Because of the Philosophies and Principles Engineering the Maturities that Brought You Up Coupled with Your DNA(Your Parental Chemical Build Up Transferred to You that Makes Your Original Self):

I'm Fine, How are You too ... Don't have sex oo Because the Nasty Aftermath is dirty and evil for Emotional Person

IyaebeTheGreat:
He's right , premarital sex has never been good, it'll mess you up as a lady and you won't be able to know the right man for you. Premarital sex is the major reason why most women end up with bad men.

You are Over thinking ... !
Calm down ....

Everyone should do what they can handle and Someone Experience is not Universal nor Absolute truth for Others ....

If you are an Emotional type someone that think with Deep Emotions You might find sex too deep and any slight nastiness from your partner can Messed you up Emotionally ...

Some people see sex as just two adults having fun like ludo, chess, video games .... like rubbing hands ... no Emotions no nothing ... just like hunger dey catch me and I wan Chop..I'm feeling thirsty I wan drink water ..... I'm Konjified I wan Fvck ...

What's happened there about is a no issue ....

An Average African is an Extremist Genetically because we are adapted to Putting Much Extra Efforts in getting Basic Beauty of Life Done and This has Messed Us Up Mentally that we Don't See anything from Normal Perspectives anymore but Paranormal which also gives birth to Accusing Village People for Your Own Stupidities Instead of Facilitating Changes ....

African are too Spiritual thus too Emotional and Sex would Messed up an Average African !

Thus, An Average African should keep off Premarital Sex because Sex is not Ordinary to Someone Operating from Extremism Tendencies especially the Emotional debris and Evils in Sexual Intercourse might be too much for an African to Maturedly Handled coupled with Struggles to Breakthrough Nature .

Avoid Being Messed Up join the normal Daily Family and Street Messed Ups ....!

Many Well to do Peeps don't usually have this experiences though ...

Riches Clears Many Poverty Shenanigans !

Regex:
I think they are yet to see their mistake hence the hesitant move to cut loses. Now they will either take their loss or become that very monster for which they accused Russia of. This is a game where Russia has computed everything from every possibility, angle and parallel universe and waiting for their opponents to make a dooming move.


Russia and China are master chess player. And the rule is simple, Develop yourself in all ramifications and watch every piece of life fall in place.


This is wonderful. I'd like to see USA move.

Personally, USA don't have much Move because the Law of Diminishing Marginal Utility is Creeping In for Them .... It Happened to All Past Civilisations, It's Happening to them ....

USA have done the God's Work Exposing Humanities to Knowledges via Liberalisation Now New Nations Needs to Spring to Pit Sanity to the World and Cleanse USA Messes...

Those New Nations would also go down too because they have Messes of their Own till Mankind Become Truly Liberal to Making Decisions On their Own shaping their Futures Through Leadership !

Power Belong to Almighty Good-God Only Because Power Corrupts and Absolute Powers Corrupt Absolutely So No Nation Would Have Absolute Power as far as the Law of Universe is Concerned.... !

rainmaker12:
All to instigate conflict. Tommorow divorce papers start flying. There no point proving who has power or not, its not a competition. A proud and arrogant woman can never accept you as a "Masculine"

Its even worst with a man trying to be Masculine because then she becomes more adamant feeling the man wants to over throne her. "He wants to oppress me" "He doesn't want me to speak".....etc.
The moment the woman drops her pride, that so called "Feminine man" will look Masculine.....its not about showing display of power, it never helps anything.

Some women will be okay o, humble. the moment they get a upper hand financially, boom, they want to become a man. Is it forbidden for women to have money be humble?

When it suits them, you ll be hearing "you are the man"..... Where it doesn't suit them you ll hear, "I'm a woman"......lol.....oya chop ur cake and have it.

Bro, What Else can I write to You Again ...

If Women Is Water, Men is Rock together we make Humanities Stand Strong ....

All this Big Big Women still has men pressing their Mumu Button thus it's all About Understanding the Plug and If you ain't a Man enough for a Woman Don't blame her, Simply Hustle Up ...

Naturally, Women are Builders of Men If not all Men would have been sleeping and Fvcking but Most Developed Men are in one way or the Other Challenged by Women to Man Up or Forget It ... That's how Nature wired Women ..

If You can't Provide for Her and Man Enough to Climb Her ... She will Dirty You ... Simple ...Once She sees the one who Can .. She Swerves or Be Managing You ....

A Man must be Matured Enough to Conquer His Woman & That "Maturities" Involves Alot ... which Many Men takes for Granted Nowadays..

You like a Woman beyond your league and You ain't ready to Upgrade Only to Be Running Mouth against Her ...

You can Even Upgrade finish and Find someone better than Her ... Because she is not below your league ... Kai, Man no be Joke o ... We too Dey play we Gen Z .. Our Forefathers dey pack Women for House like Cashew ... Very Hardworking Men Dem ....

No be today Rich Men dey Collect Women of Lazy Men E tey ... Man even need God to Man Up Well No be By Hustle Alone ... E no Easy to Man a Woman But with God everything is Easier!

IyaebeTheGreat:
For where? Abeg ooo I dy fear him very well and all nairaland guys in general.

Lol