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Fedrick100:
Is true sha,
My ex i broke up recently made me believe this, at the beginning I thought her type is rare. But when she started showing me shege I mad

Someone before she could pay me a visit or make out with me I must drop money, at the beginning she wasn’t that way

It takes alot to Be a Man But It Only takes a Man to Manage a Woman Successfully

If You ain't a Man, You can't Manage a Woman Regardless of The Money You throw Around !

Welcome to Earth!

Fedrick100:
Nice tips

Lemme copy and paste it somewhere for future purposes

Relationships has no Rules Simply Be Yourself and Learn From Your Experiences to Correcting Your Anomalies ...

Most Women has Generic Behaviours & Personal Behaviour ....


The One Rule I Know is that "A Man Must Conquer His Woman By Matching Up Her Worlds as far as the Benefits Outweighs the Costs, if Not Retrace Your Steps and Find Your Levels"!

Elmojiid:
Divorce and marry person wey get your time and Dey last for bed

E no dey work like that ... Person wey good on bed might not have what it takes to Nurture a Home ...

What Women do now is marry person wey can Nurture a woman but Once he can't fvck ... dem go find fvck boy outside n still hold their marriage intact !

Nothing Spoil !

Esortigress:
result of dating multiple men while single. Well, some women are polygamous(polyandrous)in nature

This is not true in Absolute.

This is an Information Liberalisation Age thus Once You are On Social Media You hear what Married Women are passing through and How Many are Seeking happening elsewhere You would also want join the train if you are suffering from same debacles !

This Might not have anything to do with Promiscuous life before marriage !

Alot is happening in Marriage beyond the comprehension of most Couples mostly due to economic Harshness!

caye:
I used to think like you, in this manner, in the 90s.

I think this may be wishful thinking; the white European and Arab diseased mind of domination ( being copied by the black African) would only lead to self destruction and nothing grandiose.

There is no More Superpowers .. Nature Balances Us ...

The Essence of all Dominations and Counter Dominations You see is Globalisation & Unification then Humanities shall become One regardless Colours or Nations ...

Everybody shall do their God destined Jobs ...

We are all Collaborations to One Another Not Mere Competitions Until then Our Evolutions is Yet to Be Completed...

Eliminate Competitive Mindsets Eliminate All Humanities Problems!

Alllucky:
Niceone. I think it’s almost taking over the whole space of sports in general not only in football. Other sports associations should also follow suit as it will give less exposure to upcoming generations to the gambling menace.

I think it's to Curtail Match Fixing not Gambling per se !

They bring in the monies they might influence one or two things in the clubs !

Acekidc4:
There can't be Peace without War.
Unrest first before Rest.
It's the law of the Universe.
There is nothing like everlasting Peace.

There is Everlasting Peace and That's where Humanities are all Gravitating towards:

The War in 21st century is not same as Centuries before same with Catastrophes and inhumanity ....

Everybody just want to make mOney and enjoy spending it in Peace ....

By two centuries from now when Humanities would have been totally globalised in Peacefulness and full accountability.... We would have been set to Conquer the Universes!

ezechi242:
If there is hell and heaven, how come people still come in contact with spirits of their loved ones.....how come we reincarnate multiple times.......no allow white man lies take control of your mind.

Different between people in Affluence & Wretchedness!

dontrulee:
Of course, many people will blame God himself because it's him who created hell in the first place (that is if hell actually exists)

Hardly will you find a human being taking responsibility for his actions.

Born Poor in third world country is Hell Bro ... Depressions is Hell Bro, Mental Disorder is Hell ....

Once You ain't Aligned with Good as per reasonable level you can't have Peace!

onadana:
Women are just confused.Give them the whole world,f...CK them like a stud,be prince charming or whatever..they are still wired to just do something stupid all still in the mist of professing undying love for you.I have learnt to just take them as they are[b].A woman can never be complete[/b].

No one is Complete !

We are In the era of snatching Anyway ...

If you loosguard you would be snatched self talkless your wife/Man !

Solofresh2:
It's normal for them.They have this thing for bad guys who don't give a Bleep about them
They like to be tagged with great things and people even when they don't work for it

I don't want to believe this ...

Women also cherish great Sexual encounter as Men ... So Imagine someone that bonked Davido Her Best Musician... she would be happy she banged a superstar .... That can make her happy for years ... Imagine remembering and laughing and sharing with her clicks how it all went down ....

Same way Most Streetish male would feel if encountered Tems or Arya Star for Two Nights ..... You might just be laughing sheepishly around town as if dem give you A Million dollars ....

Dem be woman no mean say dem be Zombie Sub Human ....No Shiiiiitttttt ..... !

Tife270:
One moment they will never reply a guy’s text but once you get famous or blown up , they start getting desperate for a guy’s attention. What is the riddle behind this ?

I know of a particular guy who a lot of girls friends zoned and brother zoned until when he became a little famous in Nigeria. These same set of girls started searching for his contact

Is there more to fame ? Why are a lot of girls ready to sleep with a celeb for free

I need valid opinions please . Good night y’all

Women are the Water of Earth while Men are the Rocks ....

Women are the Reason why Most Men are Men and Nature has created her to be Wet for Only those that can take care of her womanly needs Whether Real or Perceived so Until You can take care of a Woman You are nothing But a Boy ... A Boy is Supposed to Hustle While A Man(Achieved Hustler) Is Suppose to Date ...

Celebrities are Percieved to Be Valuable so its normal for some ladies to open their Water Gate for Perceived Values atleast She Can Reminisces such encounter and Be Happy ... that might be some certain people best happiness in Life...

You might feel the same if Beyonce Allowed You to Shine Her Coochie ... That Might be Your Best Motivations to Breakthrough in life

Rokiat:
Yea at first I didn’t blame him because quite frankly I do know too that I am sexy but after a while I thought he would get tired. All the same I do like his attraction to me so I can’t complain lol

If it's just Curves He would be Tired in no time but when you add the Brain, You already glued Him On "Natural" Steroids .... You are the One with the Blames!

I wouldn't blame him in 1billion Light Years !

efficiencie:
When kasala go bux we no go hear am oh. One man marry one woman wey dey about domestic vawulence now na two men versus one woman...the vawulence is about to take steroids. Yeah she go dey enjoy the DP and the spit roasting but I assure you their fallen nature will erupt one day when the chemistry is diluted.

I'm telling ... Once the Dopamine Ends the Animalistic Tendencies Rose and Everywhere go Burst with Tchetcherenche ...

Rokiat:
If you see a sexy woman like me saying that you should know I have a man that’s on my back everyday for se.x if it was left at his will it will be twice a day, it gets tiring, that is why I said men have high sexual libido. My libido is just fine not low but his is extremely high.

I am not lazy in bed please lol you just wanna get a reaction outta me lol.

When a Man is with Some Certain kinda lady He must Surely be high on Libido ... Some Curves are meant to Maintain Steady Erections Whether He Likes it or Not ....

It ain't His Fault Anyway!

You can't blame Your Man, You Should Understand the Cause and the Course !

honniemail:
You guys did not even give women space on the first page to answer your question.

For me, my husband works 9 - 4 and I wake up as early as 4am, cook, clean the house, prepare my daughter for school and resume work by 7am that is after I dropped my girl in school. All these time daddy will still be in bed cos he resumes by 9am, though he helps alot with cores.

So I called him, and explained that for us to enjoy sex together and it won't be a one sided thing, he should pls come back at most 7pm since he is closing by 4pm, so that we can eat, shower and go to bed by latest 10pm and have a good time, then by 11pm max I can sleep and rest against the next day. He won't listen, the least time he will return is 9pm, then by 2am he will start to touch and my alarm will sound by 4am, and he wants it everyday, the whole thing might even last till my alarm will sound making me not get enough rest and sleep.

The truth is its not possible, person go just die untimely and he won't even wait up to 2 months before getting a replacement.

Olohun ... You guys should simply plan a vacation on breaks period and eat each other !

Abeg, Protect Your mental health oo make Adam no kill the eve in you !

placeofallure:
So students can really get distracted when the teacher is maybe attractive? Hmmmn!

I served in a secondary school in Ekiti, Ado precisely. My principal always complained about my dressing. Mind you, I don't dress seductively, only smart office-like gowns, shirts and trousers etc. It's funny but he would always complain about my derriere. Thinking back, I think it wasn't the students he was concerned about. He didn't trust himself to stay in line ni, He made a move later which I declined. Men and bum bum

You should have said "Men and Peace of Mind"

kurlz:
That's near selfishness though.

It's More of Pride Not Selfishness Nor Arrogance!

Monogamy:
Funnily some of those girls don't even have anything upstairs.

Have you eaten, the way I hate that question heh. If I haven't what can you do about it

You are just too serious with Life.. Many People Ain't.... If you downgrade your mental acumen a Lil bit .. You wouldn't be asking this Question!

Hyper serious is madness

Lower serious is Madness

Balance-Fair is Sanity! ....

Everyone ain't like you that's what makes Life Game Sweet !

Monogamy:
As a guy, I just couldn't comprehend the logic behind womanizers.

To even maintain a girl self no dey easy not to talk of having 3-4. I mean how are they maintaining their sanity.

To be a womanizer, you must be a chronic liar cos story must be available to entertain the girls.

What's the logic behind guys having 3-4 girls?

Adventurous!
Is like saying what's the logic behind having 10 sneakers of different colours and shapes ....

Nigga, Go sleep abeg !

kurlz:
I have seen on several occasions people mistaking Narcissism for being an Alpha male, hence I will like to write a little on Alpha male, Narcissism and simp.
Pls you can add your own opinion for more insight.


ALPHA MALE
An alpha male is not a guy who treats ladies anyhow. He is a guy who treats ladies based on their values.
He is not an heartless individual but he's someone who treats you based on your person and actions. So if you are good, he is good to you, if you are nice he is nice to you. He's in absolute charge of his emotions and actions. He loves with his brain not heart, he is logical, calculative and domineering. An alpha male is a man who takes charge, one who imposes his will on others, not the other way round. He has self-validation and therefore needs no one to validate him, he doesn't feel inferior. He is strong, intelligent and in control. Can't be swindled with any form of emotional blackmail.
Don't mistake a Narcissist for an Alpha male, they are not the same.

NARCISSIST
A Narcissist is a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of himself or herself.
Narcissism is a mental health disorder. Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. Excessive love for ones self hence, treats others as secondary and immaterial. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them at all cost. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others. They only care about themselves.
The following are the behaviors of Narcissists
*Sense of self-importance
*Preoccupation with power, beauty, or success
*Entitlement mentality
*Can only be around people who are important or special
*Interpersonally exploitative for their own gain
*Arrogant
*Lack empathy
*Must be admired
*Envious of others or believe that others are envious of them

SIMP
While a simp is a guy who treats ladies nicely situations not withstanding... Yes a Simp is one who treats ladies nicely and they don't reciprocate his nice gestures yet he is never bothered. He is gullible, and in dire crave for attention, hence, he can do anything to have it. The word Simp simply means fool, simpleton.
A man who foolishly overvalues and defers to a woman, putting her on a pedestal.
He loves deeply with his heart while his brain is on transit. A simp can be emotionally black-mailed and taken advantage of by the other party.

It is essential that we know how to differentiate between the three so we can understand who really we are friends or in a relationship with. So Narcissists should stop claiming Alpha male please.

So guys which category do you fall?

An Important Attributes of Alpha Male is Arrogance and Courting the Entire Aura of an Environment to Themselves without leaving no room for even one head not turning at them while also Striving internally to gain Attentions of all the ladies ....

I'm a Sigma-Masculinity ... We Cleared the Doubt of Alpha-Male Because We are the Humble Alpha-Male:

Check Putin That's Sigma Right There .... Sigma are the real Dudes away from the Fanfare ...

They just do what needs to be done No Trumpets!

SyrusdeHansome:
From my observation i bliv African girls are even more committed in relationships than western girls. We think our girls go into relationships for material gains but the truth is that everyone irrespective of gender loves comfort so sometimes i don't blame them. Western girls are independent because their governments have given everyone the enabling environment to thrive. Every gender works nd make money over there that's why we think they're dfrnt. Bring them to Africa nd give them the same conditions our girls are exposed to nd see if they won't be worse.

They would die ... Most Nigerian Guys are Ingrate and Most Senseless Ones Among them Abroad are Enslaved !

If you can't survive in Nigeria as a Man how Do you expect a Nigerian Woman to Survive in Nigeria even as a Woman ...

Like Most Nigerian Man wants to fvck a Nigerian Woman even if she doesn't want before she can be helped and she can't complained to anyone how do you expect the mentality of such woman to be ....

Nigerian Men failed Nigerian Women Simple & Men Failed Women Globally ... Most Men are running on Feminine Energies Not Masculine Energies ....

Emotions before/Without Brain!

SavageResponse:
When you were in Nigeria how many times did you ever go to the dentist to check your teeth and gums?!

Once you people cross over to Europe or America to do your boy boy jobs you automatically assume you have the right to talk down on Nigerians.

Instead of you to use your free time to get some rest before going for your burger flipping job at McDonald's you're here opening stupid threads

Person wey dey Ajegunle

SHIVA001:
😂 😂. You no fit compare nao. You know say here wey dey so religious and very moralistic.

Na who you dey deceive

Nigeria is one of the sex Capital of the World and the most Hypocrite about Sexual Intercourse!

CallmeTrinity:
Most Ñigerian women don't think like real women ,they think like men and are deeply unstable

The economy is Harsh and the Men are Harsher ...

She has to Manned Up or Be Damned with Her Kids ... when Testosterone rise pass Oestrogen Eevryone go become Man Laslas ....

richie240:
Yes o, carry on my gee, na d same 'love' wey Adam get for eve wey make am follow chop d forbidden fruit. See the result of where we are today by dt mumu action of his.

You dey there

Divoc19:
It's not a transfer per say.
It's reality I spit

Reality is Peculiar to Each Individual and the Reality is One's Personal Reality vis-a-vis The Present Societal Reality.

If You Looseguard and get Failed By Your Reality which is Not Enough to Conquer Societal Reality Don't Transfer Blame to Anybody as a Queen or King :

Simply Dust Yourself Up and Dust Up Your Reality with your newest Experiences and Exposure and Be Better than Yesterday !

You won't fall Again Because You are Now Wiser But Blaming Someone else means You haven't learn Much to Adjust Yourself to the Reality bearing same scenarios You would still fall again !

Divoc19:
If only our men appreciate brains and intellects all these for no dey happen.

Na so so nyash and big breast dem dey crave these days.

I would rather everyone bear Responsibilities for their misfortune ... Transferring of Blames is a No-No !

JapaToDNext:
Op continue banging her, so that she will sleep and relax more

Once she is addicted to banging to Sleep Op Better be ready to Work Harder cuz He is In For a Big Job ... !

placeofallure:
Far from a saint o. I'm a baaaadt girl.

Gisos, Na Stubborn You stubborn U no dey do Badtins na !