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IyaebeTheGreat:
He's right , premarital sex has never been good, it'll mess you up as a lady and you won't be able to know the right man for you. Premarital sex is the major reason why most women end up with bad men.

You are Over thinking ... !
Calm down ....

Everyone should do what they can handle and Someone Experience is not Universal nor Absolute truth for Others ....

If you are an Emotional type someone that think with Deep Emotions You might find sex too deep and any slight nastiness from your partner can Messed you up Emotionally ...

Some people see sex as just two adults having fun like ludo, chess, video games .... like rubbing hands ... no Emotions no nothing ... just like hunger dey catch me and I wan Chop..I'm feeling thirsty I wan drink water ..... I'm Konjified I wan Fvck ...

What's happened there about is a no issue ....

An Average African is an Extremist Genetically because we are adapted to Putting Much Extra Efforts in getting Basic Beauty of Life Done and This has Messed Us Up Mentally that we Don't See anything from Normal Perspectives anymore but Paranormal which also gives birth to Accusing Village People for Your Own Stupidities Instead of Facilitating Changes ....

African are too Spiritual thus too Emotional and Sex would Messed up an Average African !

Thus, An Average African should keep off Premarital Sex because Sex is not Ordinary to Someone Operating from Extremism Tendencies especially the Emotional debris and Evils in Sexual Intercourse might be too much for an African to Maturedly Handled coupled with Struggles to Breakthrough Nature .

Avoid Being Messed Up join the normal Daily Family and Street Messed Ups ....!

Many Well to do Peeps don't usually have this experiences though ...

Riches Clears Many Poverty Shenanigans !

Regex:
I think they are yet to see their mistake hence the hesitant move to cut loses. Now they will either take their loss or become that very monster for which they accused Russia of. This is a game where Russia has computed everything from every possibility, angle and parallel universe and waiting for their opponents to make a dooming move.


Russia and China are master chess player. And the rule is simple, Develop yourself in all ramifications and watch every piece of life fall in place.


This is wonderful. I'd like to see USA move.

Personally, USA don't have much Move because the Law of Diminishing Marginal Utility is Creeping In for Them .... It Happened to All Past Civilisations, It's Happening to them ....

USA have done the God's Work Exposing Humanities to Knowledges via Liberalisation Now New Nations Needs to Spring to Pit Sanity to the World and Cleanse USA Messes...

Those New Nations would also go down too because they have Messes of their Own till Mankind Become Truly Liberal to Making Decisions On their Own shaping their Futures Through Leadership !

Power Belong to Almighty Good-God Only Because Power Corrupts and Absolute Powers Corrupt Absolutely So No Nation Would Have Absolute Power as far as the Law of Universe is Concerned.... !

rainmaker12:
All to instigate conflict. Tommorow divorce papers start flying. There no point proving who has power or not, its not a competition. A proud and arrogant woman can never accept you as a "Masculine"

Its even worst with a man trying to be Masculine because then she becomes more adamant feeling the man wants to over throne her. "He wants to oppress me" "He doesn't want me to speak".....etc.
The moment the woman drops her pride, that so called "Feminine man" will look Masculine.....its not about showing display of power, it never helps anything.

Some women will be okay o, humble. the moment they get a upper hand financially, boom, they want to become a man. Is it forbidden for women to have money be humble?

When it suits them, you ll be hearing "you are the man"..... Where it doesn't suit them you ll hear, "I'm a woman"......lol.....oya chop ur cake and have it.

Bro, What Else can I write to You Again ...

If Women Is Water, Men is Rock together we make Humanities Stand Strong ....

All this Big Big Women still has men pressing their Mumu Button thus it's all About Understanding the Plug and If you ain't a Man enough for a Woman Don't blame her, Simply Hustle Up ...

Naturally, Women are Builders of Men If not all Men would have been sleeping and Fvcking but Most Developed Men are in one way or the Other Challenged by Women to Man Up or Forget It ... That's how Nature wired Women ..

If You can't Provide for Her and Man Enough to Climb Her ... She will Dirty You ... Simple ...Once She sees the one who Can .. She Swerves or Be Managing You ....

A Man must be Matured Enough to Conquer His Woman & That "Maturities" Involves Alot ... which Many Men takes for Granted Nowadays..

You like a Woman beyond your league and You ain't ready to Upgrade Only to Be Running Mouth against Her ...

You can Even Upgrade finish and Find someone better than Her ... Because she is not below your league ... Kai, Man no be Joke o ... We too Dey play we Gen Z .. Our Forefathers dey pack Women for House like Cashew ... Very Hardworking Men Dem ....

No be today Rich Men dey Collect Women of Lazy Men E tey ... Man even need God to Man Up Well No be By Hustle Alone ... E no Easy to Man a Woman But with God everything is Easier!

IyaebeTheGreat:
For where? Abeg ooo I dy fear him very well and all nairaland guys in general.

Lol

Islandboi:
Lol, is this what you call an achievements in marriage? You are on a long thing.

Yeah, If such doesn't Gift you Mental Achievements as a Biological Existence then Something is wrong with Your Biological Build up which is Non of My Businesses ....

I rise, If Ya wife born pikin or Carry Belle u no go happy ... E get Wey Poverty dey reset Normal Human Brain upside down and you go think you normal ....

Na ihm make one man drink full big bottle of Chelsea dry gin cuz some some boys dey hail am until everything blank

Adexgentle005:
You ehn. It’s not like I’m complaining. It’s just that marriage is not an achievement as some people makes us to believe it is. If bills no kill you, nothing else go kill you!

Marriage is an Achievements for a Man ... That Your Seed can Fertilise a Womb and Cause another Life to Evolve is an Achievements....

That You Can Manage a Full grown Human Beings under Ya roof and Labouring to providing for them is an Achievements....

That You have a Household and a Family of your own is an Achievements....

That You have Contributed your quotas to your society and Global Human Population by taking someone off the street is an Achievements

That you are now more responsible for the well-being of others is an Achievements!

IyaebeTheGreat:
That post of his really off me, Imagine.

Na Ya Husband oo ...

rainmaker12:
Lol. Dey play. Women wey dey weaponize sex, never admits error, wanting you to always craw for ground dey beg every single day of your life, to say sorry for just once, na problem.....lol make I come dey follow you dey do pre-intimacy like say na watin go bring their pride down, when time reach for Bleep........story.lol

It is their natural sef, its not about what the man
should do or is doing, they want you to worship them. How many man is ready for that?....mumu men.. Any position wey woman dey in power na problem.

Oestrogen shall bow to Testosterone but if you are a Man on Feminine Energy Yourself You can never Manage a Masculine Woman .... Never-Ever!

To Manage a Woman, You Must be a Man not a Boy...

If Not Simply Accept Defeat and Find Your Level, Some Women are Not Meant for Boys But Men(A Full Fledged Masculine Maturities) Not Someone Lamenting and wimping for Failing Ladies Sh.its Tests !

Prettygirl200:
I thought some mumu men said they can never Marry or date a liability? Now a working class lady don come una dey complain, una never really talk wetyn una want from women for this forum. Confused mumu gender.

Ya left yansh u be dey talk say until you use few Nairalander men to insult Entire men among whom you gonna carry Belle n Sire your next generation

LikeAking:
It's called the power play... Play yours too...

When they play, play yours..

It's a game of do me, I do you.

Na you get am .. Many Men are Boys now ... Ordinary Power Play see Sweating ...

Women be dey develop men since year 0 ... When the Children of those illiterate now be like Kawshiokor same men would be complaining and regretting why e marry dem Mama ...

IyaebeTheGreat:
He’s a coded atheist, I wonder why most atheists keeps hiding, so laughable. How are you doing donroxyll

Atheists are lazy people ... I wonder how this a Human" believes He knows it all ... What Arrogance ....

I'm Fine My Lady

Saintinoo:
You truely have not dated such women, if you had, you.won't say such.

I had and I'm telling You it ain't easy .. But if You bell the cat and she become loyal .. they are the best kinda girl you can have around ... Your Children is made genetically and Trainings wise with least stress from You because their mama go Dust Craze comot dem body ... You go just dey cool dey relax ...

A Man must bell his Women... e no Easy But e no Suppose difficult reach War zones!

nicerod:
U must be educated to cope with them



Stay away from feminist

You must Be Much Matured than Her and Good in Bed makes everything Easier ... Most Women don't Quarrel with their source of Dopamine(Happy Hormone) Instead she Cries

Saintinoo:
Do you know that this girl will never apologise when wrong, she will rather go mute on me, and when i say, ok irrespective of who was wrong, let me make things right, she will start playing victim until i sincerely beg.

I became a simp for this girl, mehn, i japa ooo.

I rather date and marry an illiterate than to marry those type of girls. Virginity and First class really enter her head.

Don't Simp But Be a Man ... They are the best Girl Out there and Cheating is difficult for them because they find it difficult to stoop low and they have Extremism Tendencies derived from Adaptations to Maintain their GP or Standards...

They are Mostly Immatured thinking they are Matured...

So, You redefined Maturities for them and Hold Your Dick Steady because You might not win her in Arguements as they argue nonsense thinking they are sensible shebi na she carry first for class .... But Win Her On Bed .. She can't know that One as she don use all to Read or maintain Standards

Drum Your Manliness into Her Head ... She will Riverberate the Energies and Take You as Her Man ... Only that She can become Clichy and Emotional since book is different from Human ... Any Foolish acts from you can break her apart since she ain't Street... !

blacksam01:
Two of my exes are first class : one in Economics the other bus administration...same behaviors...

they are non violent, they dont raise voices, but they are terrible with other vices...

Na Dick dem dey use comot book from those girls ... they needed help and you guys ain't it ....

Be the opposite of her bookish character like a Oxlade and Hip-hop Star n Fvck Nonsense comot her body which shall confuse her emotional state ... Na she go reset Her self ....

While She Beefing ... Call her Aside and Just Grab Nyansh anyhow ... Lift her up ... Break apart the Mental Blocks created by Books which has taken away their Sense n Definition of Fun ...!

Most of them suffers from Adaptations due to longer studious time ... They needed a man to take them out of that Reverie unto world of Fun and they would mentally find Balance between Bookish and Womanhood !

Trust me, They would side Womanhood and You have won Your Woman against Book !

kollinzgee:
If Europe,Asia and America gets wipe out in a nuclear war today which is is looking very likely,will Africans be able to produce,phones,laptops,Airplanes,car engines,infact will a blackman be able to go to space to at least launch a satelite to aid telecommunications? Despite having the richest minerals beneath of soil.
All we do everyday is cry victim of white oppression while we are the ones helping to conquere us, we fight against any good that come out of Africa.i doubt we will ever get it right in this our lifetime.maybe our children children.

We are already getting it right ... Oppression leads to Envy which leads to Jealousy which leads to Competitions which leads to Wickedness which leads to Evils ....

Evils is gradually reducing n we are Embracing Civilisations gradually and in no time we shall all be consumed by God launching side by side with Advanced Civilisations!

Change is a Gradual Processes because one big turn can break everything!

Wordsfrombimpe:
Let's discuss

Scamming !

pansophist:
God regretted creating humans, you think that's a child's play? And what baffles me is that humans are created in God's image. So if we are this evil, what more of God, the creator? Anyways, you've had a tiny view of suffering on earth, and that's not the worse. It is not.

God Omniscient, Omnipotent & Omnipresent Couldn't have Regretted Creating Anything that Statements could have been written by some Mentally Depressed Souls researching into Unknown Mundane Phenomenon...

That Said, Human like Other Animals on Earth
has always been in a State of Tumoil forget the Skyscrapers ... The last world War was fought in Just 70years Ago and More Weapons has been created to such extent that one nation could wipe out Humanities within a blink ..... Boom !

Almighty God of the Universe is the Only Reason We Human are Erasing the Animalistic Genes in Us and Evolving into Homo Sapiens and Almighty God has done a wonderful Job revealing Scientific and technological Breakthrough in Unifying the World into Globalisation such that No Nation Could be Ignorance of Contemporary Civilisations and We are all Complemeting and Collaborating With Each Other More than Before in the History of Humanities....

Almighty God wouldn't reveal a thing beyond our Quests and Maturities to Decipher what we asked for But Human can turn anything Good to Evil within a Blink ......

The Fight for Resources is the Reason for Competitions and the Basis For Wickedness and War ....

Once Humanities are able to Understand and Consolidate that we are meant to Complement and Collaborate with Each Other and Adaptations Sets in while Evolutions takes its Course .... Next Waves of Humanities Wouldn't be Born With Competitive Genetic Disorders But Sufficiency, Complementary and Collaboration as Such Competitions would be wipe Out Eternally from Human Race while All Animals Could be Domesticated No More Evils ... Much Health and Longlife Due to Utilisation of Mental Sphere for Advancements in Sciences and Technologies instead of Time Wasting On Wars and Bitterness....

Welcome to Heaven !

and That time Shall Emerge ... We are getting There as Nations are Swallowing Nations While Much Evils are Being Erased and Good are Being Flagged, Hallelujah!

Almighty God is Good!

Adexgentle005:
My brother I couldn’t believe I’ve spent 100k in just two months. Money for this, money for that. It’s really crazy out there! Sometimes I think about that too, is it not better to be single and have peace of mind?

Ogbeni Stop Shaming Manliness ....

How you go enter Oceans begin to run Mouth like Ofe Nsala Watered Okpata Mouth .....

Dem force you enter swimming pool wey you dey complain sef water dey touch Ya body ...

Where dey pack dis boys from ??

A Warrior no be person wey get all the big guns but with One Knife ... He still fights n Kills Many ...

Soldier On Man ... Pray to Almighty God and Breakthrough is Coming For Big Finances that would shut Up your Mouth from complaining Over little things ....

Na Ya mate dey sambisa dey bombard Bokoharam while You dey here say One Woman(Softies) dey give you confusion

slimjohn2k5:
She came to visit me in school, though we are family friends. The night wear that night was so transparent, big pointing boobs. My penis stand till daybreak but I didn't make move. Years later we were gisting and she said she gave me opportunity n I didn't use it.
I told her if I had used it, we may not be close again.
She visited about 2yrs ago and I collected what she offered then. Now she won't talk to me again

... Women Ehn !
We shall be Managing Our Softies Gender like That .. They Deserve Loves

placeofallure:
How old do you think I am? Se o mo age mi ni, wetin I wan take 30 something year old do? I be ancestor myself

Mummy Bomboy ... Shebi U Don Marry now ... But 40s too Much oo Especially when there is Civilisations Gap, Girls of Nowadays are getting Woke Faster and I doubt 40s Man can catch up leading to Maturities and Communication Gap
Where girl would find her mate for extracurricular activities then Divorce is loading!

Generalwoodz:
Who's that guy up there saying, "sex is sacred shit?"

My friend, whatever you believe in rules and stirs your purpose and direction in your earthly sojourn. In days of the ancient, Cleopatra, Julius Ceaser, Casanova, and all the kings and queens of the Roman empire had sex recklessly. Nothing happened. The only one thing that happened to them and will one day happen to everyone else is Death.

Sex is overrated. We're way more than seven billion people presently walking the dirty face of this gad damn Earth. They'll all one day bow and sign out! and in comes another different set of people to walk in their trails.

In the year 1207, men and women had sex.
In the year 1809, men and women had sex.
In the year 2022, men and women are having sex.
In the year 3009, provided these bastards don't wipe the human race, people existing then would have sex. From morning to night. Sun up to sun down. And by that time, you saying that sex is sacred, would have long been dead and even your bones would have melted and you go back to being dust.


Have sex. There's nothing sacred about it. This shit talk sounds like an African thing.

The only takeaway that I want you to get into your head is that; with the prevalence of all sorts of viruses, diseases, and infections, it's advisable to protect oneself. Condomize your dick and take extra caution.

Not Eevryone is emotionally Viable to Withstand the Games of Heart that's why many alluded sex to Curse due to the Dirts & Evils therein ...

You nabbed it so Apt ..

Most Africans are emotional Being due to Higher extreme level of Spiritualism!

Also, Poverty is a Problem Here and Biblical/Qur'an Abhorrence of Premarital sex such that when calamity befalls an African He Alludes it to the last sex instead of taking responsibility for his Shallowness....

It's a messed Up Peeps ... Nonetheless, Make Nobody engage in actions beyond their Maturities!

Omoawoke:
Ooni of ife is doing his best to unite Yorubas all over the world.

We have our people in Brazil, Trinidad and Tobago and many other South America and North America countries

They have long be gone but still kept their ancestry and trace their origins to Yoruba lands
Their ancestors taught them where they come from and they are proud Yorubas , they won’t forget home

No Yoruba Child Would Forget Home ... The Ties is too Strong Especially if You are Royal ... You Can't do Anywhere without Your Root... You would be Lost and Perish ... !

OriOko88:

If Yoruba were to be a country,would have the best passport in Africa. We would have the best human resources of any African country.

Nigeria contraption has really dragged us 100 years behind. Sad

We dragged Ourselves Behind via that Kiriji Wars(Yoruba Civil War) and We are still yet to be Balance from that Wars For Centuries ..

Instead of Expansions/Love(Ife) The Generalissimo(Aare Ona Kankafo) Simply Faced Themselves and British Empire Finished the rest for Us ....

Anyway, Ooni Ogunwusi Ojaja II is Doing Great Mending Fences and I Pray to Eledua to Superimposed On all Our Affairs such that the Expansionary Movements Could Continue and Odu-du-Iwa(Corpus of Good Characters) Could Consumed the Entire World of Humanities as Deemed By Eledumare, Oba Iseda and Adeda:

Yoruba Race is Critical to Global Unity, Peace and Progress Because Omoluabi(Humilities) and Humanitarianism(Iwa) is What Eledumare is Asking from Humanities in Order for Us to Enjoin Everlasting Peaceful Life and to Be an Omoluabi Oniwatutu By Any Citizen of Any Race in the World is to Be Yoruba ...

This is Not An Overstatement, Yoruba-Race to the Globe !

GeneralPula:
Eledumare Ma Gbe Wa o

Ase Waaa !

placeofallure:
Men are most desirable when in their 40s

Haha ... 30s is Now Small Boys ... Laslas Na our Ancestors most ladies go go Marry ...

Boys are too Playful anyway... We are better Matured in 40s atleast we gon don see finish !

nimideh:
We are tired of hearing that without action

Trust me they ain't doing nothing...

This is better for Nigerians ... If the US stop aiding and abetting we would fix ourselves but they would never stop ....

They say one thing outside for PR and do Black Markets inside as real business

Racoon:
https://www.chathamhouse.org/2023/03/nigerias-election-highlights-anglo-american-missteps?utm_source=twitter.com&utm_medium=organic-social&utm_campaign=nigeria&utm_content=election

This is just Balderdash... US n UK wouldn't kill themselves over Nigerian internal Imbroglio...

Fix Yourself by Yourself ... They only Care about Businesses and their Boys !

They wouldn't Stop Flow of Businesses and Cripple their own Economies because of your own Internal Uncivilized Democracy .....

Change is a Gradual Processes US n UK knows this .... Businesses is flowing, Oil is Flowing .. Good ... Good Governance is your own Wahala!

There is only Established truth in the World .. US n UK are Businesses Empire not Good Governance Empire ...

They would only Aligned to whatever dictated by your region and they would destabilize all of you if what you are doing doesn't profit them than to Stabilise You against Themselves ...

The earlier you Realise US n UK only Cares about Flow of Businesses the Better for You All !

A Lion Doesn't Care about the Welfare of Wild Dogs ... Everybody dey find wetin dem go Chop ... Welcome to Earth !

densiks:
Man without God is a beast

Olohun !

If not that God hand-picked Adam to Restart Humanities and Blessed Eve for Him ... Only History knew what Human were capable of in the animal kingdom .... Beasts, Beasts ...

We shall evolve better Homo Sapiens as time comes by !

Larenna:
Jesus this man 💔😭😭

Chaiii Kaketi... I love the Wire like Mad ... God Rest him in Peace ...

An action Man !!

shantti:
Do u know me more than I know myself?
I said sex causes me consistent bad luck and you are arguing with me.
Are you me?
Why r you assuming?
You think am happy about it?

You are correct and I'm sorry

shantti:
I can't have sex cos of the numerous bad luck that happens afterwards. It's not easy

if that's what your mind belief so shall It be ...

Bad luck happens sex or no sex but your philosophical problem is Allusion ... Once Issues happened after your sex .. You would allude it to the sex and become traumatised by Sexual Encounter further !

Everything boils down to Maturities and Your Philosophies....

Sex or no sex Life happens !