₦airaland Forum

Fmghewzy2:
You get sense bro, if you can't meet up with girls demanding then don't date.

And they should up their games, majority of them think everything is about money.(Getting a girl and keeping her is all about money).
If they could up their games.
Aside money for dates , birthday gifts and minor expenses, they would be good.



And with the way guys for naija love sex

I don't think they should complain about girls liking money

Thanks Bro ... You sef gather Sense Bro ... na why we dey run am!

Nigerian Girls are very Nice because Nigeria is an Emotional driven Country Once You enter into Our Ladies emotional portal, She would just turn you into Her Bro and Give you everything you want still Advise you Join ....

Enter Street, I can bet you to meet 5ladies and ask them for Tfare atleast 3-4 of them would surely help you ... Na so Dem be even if she be Ashawo ...

but where you wanna run Naija Girl Street... Her Survival Instincts would rise to the occasion immediately .... if Nigeria no teach Nigerians lessons na who go teach us

Imagine a dude wey Sapa Don wound finish with no games and still dey carry konjified Dick up and down dey look for naija girls to chance ..... Chop and Run ... Person Intestines oo

The Naija Girl Scamming IQ go rise immediately in response to the desperate dude and see Lamentations everywhere......

Whatever Our ladies become na we men turn them to become like that as Father, Brother, Uncle, Boyfriend, Manfriend, SugarDaddy, Husband, Brolosho etc ...
...

The Women of a Nation are Replica of what the Men are all about !! .... We dey fvck each other no mean make we no dey teach each other sense But when the Gender wey suppose get sense only get Pe.nis and Jekonmo and Kolaq induced Gbola everywhere... Our Ladies sef no go get sense .... Many Nigerian Men no wan make Nigerian Women get Sense in order for her not to make the Coochie Expensive to Access ... The More Her Sense, The More She Protects the Accessibility to Her Body

A girl being served breakfast since the age of seventeen(17) by older men has already been taught how to Breakfast ... She would revenge ... Men especially Simp are in trouble in her hands Except Gamers and Players

Iyajelili:
I don't like talking on topics like this because of sentiments. I know a rich man whose second wife destroyed him financially. What do you have to say about that? It is not about having money to choose any woman you want rather, it is about meeting the right woman.

Maturities, If you carry wetin pass you no matter your wealth ... You shall Fall !

Man wey carry olumo rock as wife Don enter one chance !

Fmghewzy2:
Walahiii with way sapa dey choke everyone .

Although there are babes that are doing well for themselves and are not in hookup or anything degrading.

I don't know if Nairaland guys no dey see those ones .

Most guys complaining don't have games and dem no suppose date

In our culture, Men take care of Their Women even if not 100% atleast Reasonable Level !

In order culture na reverse e.g. India na Women dey pay Men Bride Price and na the wife family dey do the wedding for the Couple .. Africa no be so ....

So if sapa dey worry you and You still go meet girl wey sapa dey worry ... Sapa + Sapa = Sapa² .. Nigerian girl do not care about Her Own Sapa, She go give you Billings as Per normal normal and Charge you to do your Manly job, Nigerian girls would still ask you for gift except You sabi Change the game as per Home Boy

Why complaining

Fmghewzy2:
Don't mind those dudes always insulting Nigerian girls like jobless goats .

As for me ,na Yoruba girl I go marry

Olohun!
Any girl would behave like Nigerian girl if subjected to same conditions in Nigeria!

E no Easy.... E get how Economic hardship go hook you sotey u go wan suck life comot another Persons !

No be play Nigeria is the scam center of the world na Hardship....

Anyway, You would attract your league !

Lucrativress:
And is this good? Ehn?
Most guys of nowadays are morally decayed, plus young o plus old oo
Don't worry
We're now going divine..
Sexy vibes with godly cries.
When we meet the Maker Himself while still being good and hot, He will drag the befitting men from their Dens for us.

Such is Life Bro, Till we all Meet the Maker ...

But who told una say the Maker na "Himself" ..

Moral Uprightness and Moral decadence is the problem of Human Race!

Pakwel:
If you deh look for wife go your village. If your village girls too spoil. Go Hausa states. Do 1 week. You go find good girls..
As a military child. I have seen countless military men. Play around with Lagos girls, ph girls,abuja girls. At the end them go go north go find one sexy sexy fair Hausa virgin( since nah virgin be your problem). But trust me. The only hope for obedient truthful ladies left in Nigeria is Hausa girls. Them nova too open eyes

E go clear for Ya eye ... Na dem spoil pass !

ebubeson:
Please help me out. I have started getting closer to someone from a broken home. Please does it have negative effect?

Our Experiences and Exposures shapes Our Life so Yes, Dyfunctional home have negative effects on the Upgbringing of Children and without Interventions it affects them till adulthood!

Nevertheless, You can Provide the Succor and the Love to Shape and Reshape the Mental Health to Normalcy!

Only if you don't have your own issues Yourself!

Sanmel:
Ayama!
Maybe with tme, I'd become a pro but for now thoughts of it makes me nauseous..

I've had guys beg me to do it or even push my head towards there but mba o.. Nobody can overpower me when it comes to this

I'm just settling down for this thread ..

Oya Sanmel, where you know me Make we Bond !

Sanmel:
Lol..
I'm not claiming to be a good girl o but I've seen and heard a lot..
You see those so called "bad girls" abi "ashawo girls" as you call them do well in relationships more..
Just imagine Samson and Delilah without the betrayal

This is so True because Experience is the Best Teacher !

Lucrativress:
She is right o
The bad girls are getting hooked up
The good girls are sulking indoors
She knows just what she's saying....

Aswear dem too use Morality tightened alot of People up and it would really need a bad guy to loosen Up some girls...

The problem is many good girls are dying inside with Depressions especially when Mr Good guy is not forthcoming and she can't settle for less nor have cruise Sex !!

Bad time for Higher Morally Inclined People ...

poweredcom:
Even your gal friend is one of dem only that she is not stationed in a hotel

Your head dey Pain You Kwa ... You dey Carry Olosho dey Cap you don bang all Nigerian Ladies .... My Wife Na Hijabite .. U never Chop Hijabite before

detectivejones:
Not being being succesful or dependant m people

Any form of Weaknesses, Sicknesses, Disabilities and Depressions in any Guises and Lastly Losing Touches with Almighty Good-God of the Universes and Everything therein..... I forbid being Beasty !

Mi o Raye Slow Down, Olohun !

poweredcom:
Look young man, i am a principled man ok , bo be me send any girl to become a prostitute

Your Left Blokos, You be Brolosho too Na Brostitute dey parol prostitute!
Principle

minks:
The
Who's your favourite Bible character and what have you learned from his/her life?

Jesus Christ for He doesn't Condemn Judge But Seek Restoration to God: Jesus is the true Depiction of What God wants from Mankind, We are Meant to Complement and Fulfilled One Another not Compete !

King Solomon He was So Powerful and Achieves alot for His People through God as well as His Love for Women

Joseph the Minister of Finance Son of Jacob Brother to Benjamin for Forgiving his Brothers who Casted Him Down into Well:

Moses For Being Raised By Superpower Pharaoh, Learnt alot of Great Skills and Defeated Pharaoh's Magicians and Still Perish Him in Oceans as well as His Magic Rod, All Powers Belongs to God Only and No Power Belongs to Devils But Scheming !

Tayorshd2:
Yes sure i found her acttractive
But sometimes if she is angry to extent that she will stop loving me that's when I will realise that i need her and don't want her to leave me

So a friend of mine was telling me that maybe because of my bad past experiences Abt falling in love that's why I am too hard to fall again ..
That not that i don't like d girl in d picture but am just too afraid

You are too Emotional Bro even this lady will fvck You Up very soon because You are so Womanly ...

A Man must not be afraid to love but Don't Fall in Love because Life moves sideways easily ....

You are a Soldier ... If you Fall, Stand Up, Dust Yourself and Cock your Gun then Keep Running if you fall again Do the Same thing ...

There is no crime in Falling the Crime is when you fail to Stand Up and You ain't Dead ....

Lastly Always Pray to God because No Man can navigate Life on their own without being messed Up But With God, Your flaws shall not Consume You that's the Power of Grace and Your Scientific Sense!

Go Join Manowar and let the break plank on your Head .... Worst still, Start Lifting Weights and Dry up the emotions filled Blood inside of you and let Male Hormone(Testosterone) takes Over ....

We're you raised by Single Mum ... na dem dey turn boys to girls and men to Women !

Desusi:
Honestly, you need to work on yourself if you must have enduring marital life. I guess there other things you didn't tell me about yourself..Are you from Ajegunle.?

You get Sense aswear ... e from Ikorodu ... Oko Asewo ni He and Powerdcom na same Mama born dem ...

Emaprince:
If she truly love you, its very good to wife her. You may not really be in love with her. You don't need to fall in love.. Falling in love is feminine..it is designed for women, not men. As long as you find her attractive and believe you won't be bored with her soon, you are good. She will treat you like a king if she truly love you. But don't take it for granted and treat her bad. I am one that loves to return every good gesture in double fold. Her love for you should motive you to work hard and be the best man you can be and make her proud for choosing you.

If you are not attracted to her..then bail out. If I am not attracted to a woman sexually, even with the best of good morals, I no do...I'm not interested in breaking any ones heart.

Be sure she doesn't have any one on the corner though. Women dey confuse me these days. They will love you and still be getting humped by some unserious folks. Guess its the Badboy thrill.

They are easily influenced and swayed too. So the love you see today may dissappear tomorrow. You should hope for the best but always expect the worst so you dont get knocked out by the worst surprise.

I wish you luck.

Wisdom Pro Max
Thanks !

Tayorshd2:
But my problem again is those ones have once loved ehn will never stay with me i will b d one chasing them up and down ..so am kind of fedup with such that's why am thinking of giving this a trial maybe i will soon love her as time flies

Your Emotions is playing Chess, Ludo and Drafts on You until She Pushes you to Enter One Chance laslas ....

A man Should be controlled Much By Reasonableness While Women are Much Controlled By Emotions ...

Desusi:
My brother! These are the things,that make marriage a painful endurance journey. If you dwell on that you would not move forward. Human beings generally are like that even to God who made them.The children of Israel once attacked God that it would have been better for them to dwell in Egypt than the promised land becos of cucumber?

Like Cucumber or real Cucumber?

omonnakoda:
Is this from the Nigerian constitution?

How do we recognize the fear of God in a future husband or wife . Do we ask them

" Oga Do you Always Set Out with the intention not to Conduct Evil on the the other Party " and if they answer
"yes" we know they have the fear of God? Or is there a machine we can use to measure

Chairman no use your head commotion My head OK... I no get time to shalaye ....

Endeavour to do unto Others as You want to be done unto You and that's the "Fear" right there!

omonnakoda:
Very funny and childish
Just like with men so with women.. Not every man is that crazy about sex.
Assuming a woman gets good sex from Okafor will not stop her checking out Okereke and Okechukwu for test drive.
Only children will believe this nonsense.
There are many women who either do not enjoy sex or find it very uncomfortable and there are others who love it so much.

No matter how good a woman is in bed that will not stop a man cheating and it is the same with women even worse because they will even cheat with someone that does not satisfy them

When You grow Up and Understand How Human and The Emotional Filled Women Psyche is Ripped You would understand Better !

If you sabi, Your wife go close shop for other men even if she Be Olosho once before .... You ain't a Gamer so Keep silent and learn !

Olosho Gan dey fall in love with Confirm men and dem dey give money from Hustle to their Boy .... Such is Life na ihm make gateman dey bang oga wife !

osazsky:
fun...dont know abt others maybe I was lucky

You Sabi ni Jare!

Emaprince:
Anyway any man getting married should be very sure that he is financially capable of taking good care of his wife and kids. No man should be out there looking for what a woman brings to the table. A womans gift sef is like the devils gift. If she do anything for you today, it will be used against you tomorrow. So pray against becoming a man that may, at one point, need a woman as your helper..rather be the helper of women. You really have to work your socks off to make sure your wife and kids are well taken care of. Pray as well that God bless the works of your hands. Do not make any sacrifices for your wife which will make your only means of income which place s you as the provider slip away. I have heard of men quit their jobs just to join their wives who are working abroad or in another state..only to get their and become a house boy.

Never ever trust a woman!!!.... not even your wife. This will help you cushion the effect of the heart break or heart attack you might get on finding out that becoming a wife doesn't make any woman a saint. In todays world of social media..where women will do anything for validation. she won't even need to move out. Just indoors posting sultry pics on tiktoks..IG etc getting likes and the consequent advances and hence may end up sneaking around. Just know your wife is not exempted from wanting attention from other men. Every women wants a piece of the attention from the wolves out there.

If you are igbo ..prepare to have your wives siblings coming over to stay regularly. Your own siblings will be distanced from you cos they will never be comfortable in your home anymore. Thanks to your wife's hostility towards them. Women that makes their inlaws comfortable are 1 in a million. Do not stop rendering help to your siblings, but they don't have to come to your place to get it. If you have the capacity, you can set them up to stand on their own.

Do not beat your wife. Never ever do it. See eh..silent treatment pains women more than physical abuse. If she annoys you to a point you feel like hitting her, give her the silent treatment and stay the Bleep away from her for a while. But she will only feel the effect if you are financially important o..cos she can't stand thinking of another woman giving you peace of mind and possibly snatching you. A rich man is a jewel to his wife...you see as E money wife dey praise the guy? If you no get shi shi... she may not care. This means in all you do, strive to get your pocket phat.

Lastly. NEVER fall in love. You will be acting like a fool in the name of love. Treat your woman well provide for her. But run from falling in love, so you won't be applauding her for behaving badly. Or commit suicide if you find her chat with another man. Every woman is replaceable.

This is like Hell on Earth for the Man You Describe Above, Shogun Laye ni

You just Describe a Man that is on Earth to Suffer as if All Life Problems was caused by Him!

but Life is not a One Strategy or Experience Fit All!

My Wife is My Helper and I'm meant to Enjoy all the Gifts of her Life to the Fullest ....

Man no come earth come Suffer ...

I will collect from Her and still collect insult join ... e no go pain me at all ... if she no abuse me na who she go abuse ...

me and My guymen dey banters one another ..... so My Women no go Banter Me

See Life as Fun and Enjoy yaself with Open eyes! ....

Take am too serious ... if hypotension no Wound you, Anxiety go Hustle you especially once You are on your Journeys to 40s and Above ....

I go borrow money from her and intentionally decided not to Pay except she beg me to Pay ... I like Trouble like that and Drama ... Once I decided to Pay then I would add untop am or Decided to Pay in Pieces ... Nevertheless, Upkeep allowance is Fixed On a Monthly Basis !

Create Drama and Movie for Women before she Creates Real Drama for You wey go cut your Mind and Everything you Belief in !

omonnakoda:
Fear of God?
Wetin be this fear of God sef?

"Make sure you find somebody with fear of God"

Ona go gey talk upandan
How dem dey tale know who fear God?

Fear of God is Same as Fear of Good ..

Always Set Out with the intention not to Conduct Evil on the the other Party .... That's the Fear of God/Good Right there ...

God = Good ..

Oyinbo just comot One "o" from "Good" to Arrive at "God" ... Make we no dey stress ourselves too much

Tayorshd2:
Am planning on getting married soon but d few problem is I DONT REALLY LOVE HER
but she loved me 100 % with her life and have tested her in many ways infact she told her elder sister secretly Abt it too and her friend on her chat which she didn't know i saw all of this proclaiming the love she have for me ....

With ur idea can I still marry such a lady ??

For the Love of Your Children Let Common Sense and Reasonableness lead You not Emotions:

What's tye reason you ain't loving Her

Hope no be Physical Issues

If na Mental Issues then You need to Train Her ...

aimmoney9:
It is because Women only truly appreciate those who satisfy them in bed, as in back to back orgasms and making her cum and squirt.......

If you buy a woman many houses, cars, with huge cash gifts, and even give her the whole world without sexually satisfying her, she will ask u dat question......

If you are sexually satisfying her without giving her shi shi, plus even beating her and treating her bad, she will never ask u dat question...

Women don't use fvck to play......

A woman can't ask a guy sexually satisfying her dat question, sex is something else for women .........e.g the cheating wives on nairaland can never ask der side boyfriend's this question.......

Aswear, Men just don't know the power of Sex .... Leveraging on that alone can win you Nobel Laureate from Her as the Best Husband in the World !

but On that .... Na God na ihm Go Judge You on her behalf as you dey manipulate everything

Human mind is easily hackable except one with Updated Firewall!

seanwilliam:
One night , I woke up in the middle of night , I looked up to my girl on the bed , if you see the way she take sleep and open mouth , I say shey na wetin I Dey kiss be this
True true I never ready for marriage

Oko Asewo ... How u tey dey Open Mouth when you sleep U sabi how many things Wey Done run for her mind when you yasef sleep Yakata Spread Ya Blo.kos Everywhere ...

If you like am wellwell you go use Ya mouth close her Mouth

poweredcom:
They wont hear , all of dem can lead a struggling man to his early grave

Uselesss piece of creatures

Ashawo no be you useless dem finish All Over Ndokwa

searchlight:
You can do 99 things for a girl and the only thing she will remember you with is that very one thing that you didnt do for her

Olohun ...

Sendero:
It's purely a business relationship between the man and the woman, the kids are the business.

Anyone who works with a different concept of marriage will lose out big time

Marriage is a Simple Patnership to Journey life together ... Approach it from Business then you start conceptualizing Costs, Revenue, Profits, Loss Before You Realise it... You will start Failing !

Marriage is for a MAN and a woman!

If You ain't a Man no go there !

jelel6:
I can only imagine how a married man (woman? hardly) must feel if their loving wife just bloat out "what have you ever done for me?" in the middle of an argument.

Our sisters, and wifeys them, that are guilty of the above in the heat of the moment, why Una dey yarn that talk. I would truly like to know?

Once You Understand Women, You Understand Life and Once You are Able to Conquer Women, You Conquer Life Economically!

... Most Women Live in Comparison to Other Women thus If She is not the best Women Amongst Her Peers of Women, She would never acquiesced you have done anything Spectacular for Her until You Leaves Her Life and Do more Better off for Yourself than Her ....

That's when She would regret How much she has Missed and the Begging Begins

Also, Most Women Issues are Psychological thus if You can't nib Her in the Bud Emotionally She would never agree within Herself You have helped her no matter how much you have tried Because She ain't Par with Other Women ...... Social Media has now Upped the Game for Her, She is now Competing with Fake Lives of Other Women Online ....

You just have to Manage between Being Emotionally Enslaved By Women and Not Being Labelled Sadistic Yourself ....

If Women never Tried and Test You, You ain't a Man Yet because Women are Meant to Test the Limits and Extents of Your Manliness/Manhood

Be Her Father Figure ... Even if you no get Shingbae, She would still be your girl n crawl up to You !

Goldbw122:
No need to argue if God is alive or dead, nor exist or never exist.

HE WILL PROVE HIMSELF... No need to argue.

God is not a He nor She, God is a no Gender that's why Many People find it Difficult to Understand God because Major Religion Conceptualise God to be a Gender!

God is Good!