₦airaland Forum

Killbillz:
Chai...wolves everywhere still trying to devour what's left of the op. No conscience anymore

God is the Only Reason there is Sanity in the Jungle !

Wealthier:
Thanks.
But where else do i go? I already attend seminars, also singles seminars. I honestly don't know

Don't mind that nigga wey say God no Exist oo Make ihm no pour sand sand inside your Hustle because to Marry na one thing to stay happily married is another thing anyway na way no leave God ooo because when life carry Auto reverse na only God fit help balance am if not ...

Simply Socialise, Take Marriage Pressure off your mindset(Difficult due to addictions But Plausible), Make Friends... Go Out Catch Cruise.... Pray to God in Silence....

Mostly ... Develop Matured Characters that meets Present Realistic Times ....

Don't be Set By Religion Fanatism & Unrealistic Doctrines passed to meet Realities of 1,000 years Ago .... This is Woke World ... Play it or Forget it ....

Whatever Options You choose has its benefits & Consequences... You Can't jump into Swimming Pool at the same time crying water touch your bodies ... If You want Oceans, Carry Ships not Canoe ... Be Realistic with Your Demands .....

Men of Nowadays as Lazy because women are much easier so Cut down your specs & Demands or Find Alternative Means ... Anyway na way and everyway gets its pros n cons !

Wealthier:
Hi Nairalanders,

Permit me go straight to the point. So I've been praying to God earnestly, with tears since I was 25. Up till now that I'm clocking 30 years this month. It seems God doesn't want to answer my prayers to bless me with my husband.

I have fasted, prayed, cried, sowed seeds, join others to celebrate, sow seed in theirs and yet I'm still not taken seriously.

Honestly, I've begin to lose faith many times and already planning to be a baby mama as soon as I earn more money.

Before the age of 24, I wasn't thinking about marriage. I majorly wanted to be done with school and get a job because I do not want to be a liability to my husband. The whole thing though, there were no serious suitors , but I wasn't worried. I had a boyfriend then of 3 years but I knew we wouldn't end up together because he was too focused on being an Activist, his communication became poor. No matter how I complained about it.

I started to become afraid when I clocked 25 and saw that most of my friends were engaged. It dawned on me that no serious man is seeing me. I believe I am pretty , doesn't dress extravagantly and not materialistic. Infact the other guy I was hoping we would be serious together told me he doesn't have money for marriage, I told him money will come but he insisted he couldn't start a relationship with me. This was when I was 25. At 26 , 27 up till 28, the same reasons I heard.

What exactly is wrong with me?

Finally at 28, I met my current bf. He seemed very serious and into me until I started to dream about marriage and started to talk to him about it. Today we had serious quarrels, he broke up with me just because I wasn't happy with him that he didn't try to greet my mum on her birthday. I thought he was taking things serious after telling me at the beginning of this year that we would have our court wedding this year. He told me he's not ready for any marriage anytime soon, that he can link me with his friend if i still want to marry this year. We have resolved the issue , but I'm not sure I love him anymore. I'm just rolling with it.


I'm clocking 30 years this month and feeling so much like an evening newspaper.

I'm just here feeling bad and dejected. Why does it take so long for God to show me mercy?

I'm somehow regretting not joining my female friends in double dating and then go with who's more serious.

Not one, not two or 3 of my friends did this same thing and they are now all married.

Honestly, I feel so much like a loser. I guess I may eventually just try to get kids of my own once I earn more money.

I feel depressed whenever I see couples together. I've had to rub away from my sanitation group in church because of a particular young couple in my department that I'm beginning to get jealous of. Like , will this ever be me?

I've been attending couples seminar since 2021 and northing yet. Is this how another 5 more years will add to my life and everyone will officially be calling me evening newspaper.

I've told my family to not judge me when I find a way to have my own children cos I'm tired of crying to them and they shouldn't ask me where is my man.

If there's any prophet amongst you. I'd really appreciate a word of prayer. Seems God doesn't care of my feelings.

Please ignore my typo error. I typed from too much pain

It's Crazier World nowadays and You need to Survey Realities and Survey Yourself then Find the Gap Between Your Maturities and The Realities vis a vis Your Desires ....

Almighty God is not a Spiritual Mumbo-Jumbo as Nigerian Spiritualists Made us Belief ...

Almighty God is God of Realities & Once You are Prayerful But Behaving Contrary to Realities Your Prayers Can't be Answered the way You would like because Your Maturities is not Speaking to Your Realities ....

A crippled should Understand He Can't Compete with Usain Bolt & Almighty God wouldn't answer the prayers in Millions of Years!

Develop Maturities On What Men Wanted & How to Flow with Men ....

Imagine Subjecting Yourself to Pressure of "I wanna Get Married" Since Your Early 20s Only For You to transfer such Pressure to Your Potential Man(A 2023 Nigga) An Average Dude would just see you as No Fun and Swerve Off..

You are too much On Pressure ... Relax and Be Openned to Fun, Jokes & Liveliness ... Show a Man You are worthy of having him for the rest of your life without saying it ...

The Energies will ricochet everywhere ....

All these small small Margaret Thatchers .. You are too Hard on Yourself and transferring the Aura to Men .... !

Men of nowadays ain't serious like Years ago.. You Show them you be work .. you get dropped except few ones !

Mystery9:
See let me be sincere with you. The reason you are experiencing such feeling towards that lady is because you are laden with spiritual wives. See you are in a mess and the only solution I can refer you to is to run to Jesus Christ for salvation.

He is Only Suffering From "Addictions" as a result of Constant Continuos Adaptations to One Source of Fun which is "Fvcking Prostitute" ....

It can also happen to someone who is a Bookworm ...

Human Bodies is Programmed to be Adapted to What You Constant-Continuous utilise your body for ...

Same thing happened to Boko haram & Other Religion Fanatics ....

The problem is where the addictions inhibit you from other social Growths and Developments during comparions of your life with your contemporaries or comparisons Between

Where you are Presently

Vs

Where You would love to be ...

Where You are as a Result of Adaptations(Addictions) Would always Inhibit Where You would love to Be and That's the Problem

Spiritual Stupidities has never and would never help Africa because this is the Means By Which The Daddy GOs Would Still Scam You of Your Remaining Cash & Turn You to Church Rats ....

Almighty God is not Stupid-Shallow !


African Spiritual Therapist are Emotional Hackers Most of them just turn You to Slave Making You to Working for them and Fleecing of all your Monies via Spiritual Abracadabra!

Simply Be Serious to Change and have a Formula while Praying to Almighty God Yourself to Release You from Your Self Inflicted Addictions....

You can Command Your Body-Systems to Do what You Truly & Genuinely Wants ... Relapsing is not a Big Deal from the beginning because Significant change takes time But You Will surely Get there with Conscientious Efforts!

Emyzoloye5:
The current ADC to buhari Col. Yusuf dodo was NDA adjutant

Very malicious and brutal Modafucker!

Dodo Don Collect Ya Woman ..

Dodo no send Anybody Father ooo ... You Mess You Collect Wotowoto ... He Can lead you to your own Job make you learn small

naptu2:
Dr Goodluck Jonathan, President, Head Of State And Commander In Chief Of The Armed Forces Of The Federal Republic Of Nigeria

ADC = Colonel Ojogbane Adegbe (Nigerian Army).

Colonel Adegbe served as the ADC to President Goodluck Jonathan from 2010 to 2015.

Colonel Ojogbane Adegbe graduated from the Nigerian Defence Academy with a BSc in Mathematics. He also has a masters degree in Intelligence and International Security from Kings College, London. He has served in the 26th Motorized Battalion, Ecomog in Sierra Leone, the Office of the Defence Adviser at the Nigerian High Commission in London, the Intelligence Production Centre of the Headquarters of the Nigerian Army Intelligence Corps and the 81 Division Intelligence Command, Lagos.

He is My Favourite and I Love His Aura .... He Could Wrap the Entire GEJ like a Newspaper & Fold Him in his Pocket Peradventure there is Crisis !

Same as I Love Dambazzau and Owoeye Azazi!

.. These are Armies, They are My Sweethearts !

naptu2:
Umaru Musa Yar'Adua, President And Commander In Chief Of The Armed Forces Of The Federal Republic Of Nigeria.

ADC = Colonel Mustapha Dennis Onoyivetta (Nigerian Army).


Colonel Mustapha Onoyiveta from Delta State served as ADC to President Yar'Adua from 2007-2010. He played a controversial role while protecting the President during his illness, especially when the President suddenly returned to Nigeria from Saudi Arabia.

He was subsequently promoted to the rank of Brigadier General and posted to the Army Headquarters as head of the Army Operations Monitoring Team. He later served as Chief of Staff to the Chief of Army Staff (Generals Ihejirika and Minimah).

Loyalty!

efelicity:
I have been married for four years now and nothing like this ever happened. My wife is a trader so she returns from market late in the evening. If I want to do anything I will do it sharp sharp before she returns and as she don't have eyes behind her head she won't notice my cheating act. Honestly, I met my wife a virgin and she's the most faithful woman after my mom.

My gf suggested we go to hotel but I insisted we come to my house and also citing the cost attached to booking an hotel. During the act my wife just bounced in and caught us. She fell to the floor because she never thought I could ever cheat on her.


My wife has been crying since yesterday.
How do I console her and restore the full trust she had for me. Honestly, I regret.

Lazy Man ... You that Set Courses to Adultery Must have prepared how to Console Your Significant Wife if You Get Caught ....

Some Endeavours are not meant for Boyish-Men But Men ....

Nothing for You !

yomi007k:
Na so your woman go do you oo bros.

The husband self go don do like that before.


Karma is real.

Life ain't like that Bro Na the Person Wey Looseguard na ihm dem dey Chop dem Person Wey No Looseguard go continue to dey Chop the Choppers !

Some Beats Karma .. E get Ways !

MrNipplesLover:
This OP has poverty mentality and is a broke ass dude...

Fornication or womanizing doesn't affect one's glory or pathway to succeess...

It is either u are earning below average or u are a hustler who sees seasonal money and u don't know how to invest, but blow it on dem olosho...

The billionaires: politicians, businessmen and celebrities are chronic fornicators/womanizers, why aren't they affected? Rather, they are getting richer and richer....

Reason is cos they have investments that fetch them money without thinking of poverty...


U spent Just 300k in 4 months on olosho (that's just 75k in a month) and u are shouting?!

Money that's spent within a week in the hood here...

Bro, u dey vex me, aswear...

Go and invest before u go into fornication, that's the rule...

U are fornicating and u don't have ur own business that's fetching u steady money, u will completely be drenched in poverty and u won't have any progress in life...

Be wise, nigga!!!

He wants to Eat his cake and Still Has It ...

How they leave Common Sense and Jump into Spiritual Problem is My Amazement!

BlueAir:
Ironic enough. The only way to maintain peace with a woman and her bullssshit in the home is to seek distraction or comfort outside d home

Only For Power Men Every other Men Shall Fall !

donbachi:
No matter how hungry you may get.if you don't like the heat from the kitchen.dont go there.

Olohun, Life is a Choice ... Choose Your Choose & Live by the Benefits & Consequences!

DonEd:
This I have confirmed to be true. The correlation between the two is what I still can't fathom

Driving requires Seriousness but when you turn your vehicle to fvck house Imagine you driving n reminiscing how you banged chika, Smiling to memories without concentration on Present...

Gbuaaaa!

placeofallure:
What is Okafor's law? Your tale will be meaningless to me if I can't fathom what Okafor's law is.

Okafor Law States A Congo(Coochie) Once Well Shined Shall Be Continously Reshined at any Point in Time:

God Bless the Memory of Mazi Okafor Because This Law has been Existing Since Adam & Eve if not Why Would Adam have Chopped Apple

PrinceJoeWan:
In Africa mostly Nigeria, our Pastors are our therapists and they spiritualize everything.

They Destroy Everything Because The Pastors/Alfas Also Need Therapists Themselves !

UnusualEmissary:
My God. My sanity. My abilities.

Almighty Good-God ni oo ... With Almighty Good-God All Battles-Wars are Conqueror-Dominions!

yrhuhfy113:
I knew a guy on campus years back who read 6TH AND 7TH BOOK OF MOSES, ALL ROBERT GREENE BOOKS and DALE CARNEGIE'S BOOKS...
for two years...

it was in 300 level we heard of him, he slept with lecturer's wives, female students, female ADMINS, even had sugar momma proof...

His words and presence had this effect of SURRENDER... like you just want to trust him with your life... las las he started a fellowship and in months had 700+ students(mostly females) then he held a major program on campus for FINANCIAL mastery and over 2000 students attended plus lecturers who gave speeches, He introduced INVESTMENT PROGRAM where everyone easily believed and most of us donated school fees and all we had (some even borrowed huge amounts) as investment in hopes of getting 50% return in 3 months...

HE VANISHED till today, left the country and we never heard of him again.

SO WHAT BOOKS, VIDEOS, ETC HAVE YOU EXPOSED YOURSELF TO..... it can be a MIND POWER you are projecting thoughts and feelings.

This is True ... What You read has powerful effect on Your Mindsets & You Start Manifesting What You set Your Mindsest About depending on How stronger your minds Fields os all about !

Kibbs:
In my opinion, it goes both ways. Do you not see these podcasts and the latrine talks that come out of their mouths? A lot of ladies these days have also programmed themselves in such a way that if you cant afford to give them what they want financially, you’re automatically 'not in their league'. Things that most of the times they can’t also afford for themselves but because they know there are other men who would simp and throw the bag at them, they wouldn’t even give any other person a chance.

And I dare say na hustle boyz cause these things. Cus when girl of 17 don dey carry iPhone 11 wey her 18yr old bf buy for am, tell me how she’s supposed to look the way of any other guys who can’t match it or offer higher as she grows older.

Olohun, Yahoo Spoil Market for Working Class ... Annual Salary of some people dem dey use do Dorime for Club on Weekly !

AfahaAbia:
I will not lie. All my life it's women that have always helped me. I'm presently 35 years old and very very comfortable. I still remember in my 20s as a broke nigga non of my male friends every helped me it has always been female. Those I dated and those who were just friends with me. And as God would have it when my life became rosy I compensated all of them even those who later got married. I even helped the husband's of two of my famale friends with jobs. So to conclude, women can be a blessing to a man if you're sincere to her, have potentials(which she can see) and genuinely love her.

Olohun, Her Motherly Instincts would just Kicks !

AndrewTate:
and men assist women more than women assist women.

Sense no go kill You:

Men Assist Women than Women Assist Men !

imagrg:
Opening her pretty legs for me to enter her toto!

That sacrifice is golden but these small boys won't understand.

aswear .. Popping Someone's Daughter's internal Organs with Rods no be play Nonetheless that ain't mean we should simp nor Beta Women also Dislike Beta-Simping-Male But We Must Care for Our Oil Rigs and Baby Manucfacturing Plants !

Very Important for Classy Men Only not Women Haters & Alpha-Nonsenses-Redpillers !

eben97:
we modern day parents are already on d path of failing ,with respect to this computer trouble.we need to really draw d line n stand firm on discipline with all firmness lest we begin to sing d same song europe is dancing to now due to foolish comfort and share negligence of parental responsibilities.africa is known for child training but we seem to be loosing such noble identity copyin d white man (who has virtually everything working for him )my kids wont stay up on tv while i stay in bed,my daughter has a system but strictly for academic work and thats when i am around.i am on d clergy side thus know that i must practice what i preach.

Which Child Trainings are we Known For Or Child Abuse

How many Homes actually Trained their Children on Maturities & How Many Father's are Actually Responsible for their Kids !

Digitalisation has come to stay and papers are gradually going into Extinction we need to Developed Digital Maturities as Parents ... Many Parents who remained analogue in this Dispensation are already losing their Kids to the Street already !

Europe Over pampers Kids .... The Entire World has failed in Kid Raising Only Few has rose the Challenges and that's Why It's all Loopsided no thanks to Global Economic Hardships But It shall All Soon Be Okay !

Draslo:
Well, you know you're your kids best teachers. They see all your screen time and it's a norm for them. They see this as their brains are developing and adjusting to their new environment outside the womb. People don't realize it but the game has completely changed when it comes to parenting these days. It's almost like new instructions should be handed out.

The Kids are Reflections of the Parents and the Frequency is right from the Genetics formations and also What You guys Does during Conceptions and while the Baby is Growing ...

This is a Digital Age and Parents needs to Developed Digital Maturities for themselves and their Children thus Take their Educations Digital Zoom, Presentations & Classes ....

Fun is now at Fingertips of Children & the Mindsets tends towards Fun than Work especially for Kids, Their Digital & Physical Fun time needs to be managed via Digital Tracking of their Activities & Timely Interference through Hacking ... Oh ha !

You need to see them without Seeing You till they come of Age & You would have done your job leaving them with the rest !

richard870:
I doubt this is a lady's profile, sounds more like a male

You just dey come Nairaland . She is an Ancestor on this Platform !

KillSars:
The goal is to lash dat cake wey she dey move upandan...
As friends wey u be, she fit dey call u ur name or nick, it's cool, If the werey come dey reason u about hin boyfriend mata, the zone has been initiated, u don't have to run, season go soon end, transfer window go open....anything wey wan come xup within that window, na u sabi, maybe u go boehly the window or u go bloom am... it's left for u

But there is a particular zone i will advice u not to find ursef, it's called the brotherzone...
If she calls u brother, murife......run.. some werey don dey rebrand am now, dem go call u cuzzo, bro.... just japa....

Friendzone is My Best Zone Just "With Benefits" it and You are Secured !

thesicilian:
Dogs are very sensitive. Some people say they can even see beyond what humans see. On the basis of this I dare say the dog is seeing something in you that it knows is dangerous for its owner

Nigerians the Dog is Only Being Territorial and Sense Attention is now Divided ...

Nevertheless, The girl no sabi Diplomacy ... Feed the Dog some Good Feeds and Nigga Head is gonna reset & Wouldn't be seeing no Evils !

KanuSE:
Between the pastor's wife and the herbalist who committed adultery?

The Pastor, The Wife and the Herbalists all Fornicates Based On Customary, Religious and English Law because there was no Dowry nor Court Marriage ....

It was just Fvcking Sessions across All Actors !