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RosyIsBlessed:
U are still associating education to just money. Read to understand and not read to reply. Go back and read my earlier post if you wish.

I'm through with this.

By the way, it seems you are feeling attacked.

Na you Sabi.
I don talk reality. Not underrating university but it's overrated or over hyped

RosyIsBlessed:
Like I said before, education is not all about jobs but it enhances your life in totality.

Definitely not the university of today where majority of ladies are slay queens and hookupers and the guys are yahoo boys. It doesn't enhance anybody's life in totality, because once you're a graduate, you're on your own except your parents are wealthy enough to support your dreams or business.

You don't have a friend!
The person you think is your friend, may be your enemy in disguise.
Never loose your guard. It's the nature of people to disappoint, same with Friends.

"Knowing what will happen when you put your hands in the jaws of a lion, with friends you'll have no such caution"

RosyIsBlessed:
Education is not all about the money or job. It's not 'usele.ss'. It enhances your whole life. It broadens your perspective and outlook in life and much more. Do your own research around you by sampling the educated and the uneducated.

It's only an illite.rate/uneducated person that finds solace in not getting educated, stating 'the educated cannot get a job' as his excuse.

Mind you, the educated person can still do his business and even run it better (than the uneducated)

Not going to the university doesn't make you uneducated. Finishing at the level of secondary school is termed secondary level of education. The university has lost it's glory, graduates are unemployed and doing jobs not related to their course of study, is that not a waste of time and resources??

Likoya:
Rubbish 😒 this is not my problem now abeg....

Now, I have an advice for some people here...
If You're sixteen years old,or just finished secondary school in this country, please my advice for you is to not go to university immediately.. Use one year or 6 months to go and learn any business you have passion for, then ask your parents to use the money they want to waste for that Useless five years course to start up a business for you, trust me, in five years time if you are destined to succeed and not an Igbo smoker or mumu pikin, when your mates are celebrating graduating with a stupid degree and start searching for a job they can never see, you will have become a millionaire by then.. After you've established your business to a stage where by it don't need your presence to run, you can employ people to run it in your absence while your go to school and chase that degree if you want..

Very valid advice!!

Marriage doesn't change a person.
If a person cheats before marriage, there's a high chance of the person cheating during marriage too

Jbleenk:
No it’s actually not about the amount spent that’s the inherent problem. The actual issue is her not being grateful, and immediately after the marriage, I started seeing a different part of her I never saw before. Imagine with the resources spent, time money, sacrifices (I have been sleeping inside my car for about 2 weeks now) just so I don’t waste money renting hotel in order to have enough to upset hospital bills. Inspite of all these sacrifices yesterday she came up to me and told me she thought I loved her. The issue is same thing I’ve been complaining about since day one, I dont feel appreciated in this marriage. You might not understand if you are not in my shoes really

Abandon the ungrateful witch and let her die...

Antiochus:
It will favour me and my family

Lol, how e go favour you?

Sure, it can be invented and trust me, you're not the first person to think about it

The solution I have is scary and I don't want to go through that route again!

She killed the biological father of her daughter and she's contemplating doing the same to the sister.

Woman can be sinister and devilish if they've no options or pushed to the wall.

I just pity the husband who's loving gorgeously on a daughter that isn't his, if he eventually finds out, the shock may kill him.

Candidlady:
This is wickedness over 17thou'


Please how much is two bottles of Jameson... 17thou' that can't get you four packs of cigar and dunhil in a club

This life is crazy


Rip to the poor lady

And to the hotel owner Iam dead sure it was her husband that must have asked her to act that way cos women are naturally not like this...

Irest my pen fingers

Typical of women, blame shifters. Never ready to take responsibility!
If you're like that, shame on you. Tueeh!

Billionaire in naira perhaps but I doubt if he's one in dollars.
Anyways, congratulations to him. It's no mean feat.

Runnerzz:
They will swear even if u catch them under penis sweating and being pounded, they will still try to explain to u its not what u saw. And a man who is an imbe.cile will start doubting what he saw like maybe it's his imagination

Lol, very peculiar with ladies

Lightening strikes killing people is absolutely real.
I remembered vividly when I was still in secondary school there was a day rain was falling and suddenly lightening struck, how the lightening entered the class and struck the bulb and exited via the window remains a mystery, the window being my favorite spot. I saw the lightening flash through my front inches away from my body!

Jovialjune1:
Not every lady is like your mother.

Of course my Mother is responsible and my dad is proud about her because she married as a virgin. Can the same be said about you?
You this fairly used Lady

Jovialjune1:
Lol failed assurance, I don't pity chioma at all, ladies like her don't care if rich promiscuous men shiit on their face, as far as the money keeps flowing, they are good,

Awon emotionally, psychologically damaged isonu that keeps enabling irresponsible men like Davido.

You're talking like as if you're responsible yourself. Shift joor

It depends on your financial level actually but regardless of financial level, what the guy did was wrong. If he can't afford 12k, he should have told the lady instead of making a video and making a clown of himself.

Many ladies are parasites with entitlement mentality, I like to punish ladies with entitlement mentality. Why will you feel entitled to a money you didn't work for? That's a very bad character.

Vicboy1:
Ok
But those bitch I will still Bleep them if I want to whether the are celibate or not

That's your choice and their choice, e no concern me.
Girls will be girls and men will be men

Tranquility2345:
This one say na celebrate. Guy, you better go and use your time wisely to better your life. Lazy youth

Lolz, na mistake na.
Sorry I meant celebate not celebrate.

zenithgroup:
Nawa for you oo , you're asking your womaniser friend to continuously flirt with your woman, giving them all the attention at close range and you expect them not to fall the problem is you not dem ladies.
>Woman are emotional being, they responds to all men base on how each makes them feel.

>woman are not property you can't own them. When she's with you it was your turn - keep taking what you can don't personalised it.

>No woman is loyal to you, they're with you base on wat you have attached to your name which they can gain from.
>If you must marry took a young virgin from her fathers house, Dominate and satisfy her sexually and emotionally and her heart will forever beat for you.

You're right, but even at that women will still cheat Sha. If you must marry, just choose your poison and move on

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
?

When the deed happened, the girl was crying that she's promised God to keep herself till her wedding night, she was so sad and heartbroken. Somehow I comforted her and told her soothing words, I knew she wasn't lying about her celibacy because she was very tight almost like a virgin's own, so when the sex happened, she couldn't believe it.

Anyways, I ended up having sex with her six times before leaving her place and few days ago, she was telling me her vagina was sore and paining her from the sex we had.

Vicboy1:
U are very clownish
U taught girls to be celibate
If u teach girls to be celibate ,the will be celibate only to u

No, I'm not clownish.
The girls I teach to be celibate are willing to give their bodies to me. When I teach them to be celibate, many of them like the idea and end up breaking up with their boyfriends. Sometimes it shocks me, because my believe about women is that they hardly keep themselves.
How I will teach a lady about celibacy and she'll stop having sex with guys she used to enjoy doing it with. It's something that amuses me.

DaddyRochie1642:
You need to be slapped for being a very foolish simp.

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Haaaaa, a whole 20k.
The day I stopped send ladies money, my life changed.
I recently met with a sexual puritan last week, she's been celebrate for 5years and she's a pastor disturbing her for marriage. When we were together, one thing led to another and sex happened. Few minutes later, the pastor called her and even sent her money not knowing that the lady he wants to marry just moaned and cummed few minutes ago. That day, my fear for women increased tremendously. Women!

Sex is one of the cheapest things to get in this world.
The urge is in both men and women. The world is evil, sexual purity or abstainence will not be embraced by this generation unfortunately. Even the ambassadors of sexual purity do a whole lot of sexual things (maybe without intercourse or penetration) but the main core of sexual purity Is Purity of the mind, body and Spirit.
A lot of sexual puritans are not virgins anymore but people who decided to be celibate for whatever reason, the few ones that are even virgins engage in romance and other sexual pleasure asides from intercourse.

I once belonged to a group of people called sexual puritans and most of them are hypocrites, I lost interest in it because they have left the core of the teaching and were busy condemning others.

Sex isn't bad in itself, infact the reason you're alive right now is because your parents had sex, so a time will definitely come when you should have sex now. What may make it seem wrong is if you do it at the wrong time (that's having sex before marriage) but unfortunately, many that even teach this principle didn't keep themselves before marriage, so why should I obey and follow you if you didn't keep yourself?

Many single mothers will embrace sexual purity and say they won't give sex to any other guy until after the guy marries them whereas in there pasts, they tasted a lot of dicks. I find it laughable.

If you want to embrace sexual purity, fine go ahead but don't force it on anyone. It's between you and your God or creator (if you believe in one) and if you don't believe in sexual purity, continue your escapades but be prepared for the consequences.

The truth remains that a lot of life and destiny has been destroyed because of lack of sexual discipline.

In the end, we are all free to make whatever choices we think it's the best for us but we are not free from the consequences of our choice.
Take care

It's very easy.
Nobody likes to be rejected.
Tell them that they came a little too late, assuming they've asked few days ago, you would have given them.
If they ask for 5k, you can tell them you don't have up to that, that you have 2k or 1,500# (if you are willing to give). If you don't want to give them at all, tell them that you recently borrowed someone money and you'll try to get something across to them as soon as the person pays back. If they ask you again some days after, tell them the person hasn't paid back and you don't have any money to spare. They would have gotten the message that you don't want to give them.

NB: use this approach for people that you know you can't benefit anything from, but it's good to help people because you may also need help in the future. The help you give today will come back to meet you in the future. Be wise and take care of yourself first.

Vatod:
Let’s see how it plays out, Rev King is still walking.

Where is he?

siofra:
Mtchewwww who's this one

You don't have sense

Lolz, why you dey yab the guy na?
If he say e be doctor, na doctor e be na but definitely not a medical doctor. Not to say that we have stupid medical doctors that are careless and even HIV positive (though majority of them get it from other sources like needle stick injury and not just from unprotected sexual intercourse).

Unfortunately, many people are like this so called "Medical doctor" in this story, having raw unprotected sexual intercourse with anything in skirt without regard for their lives!

Forget the awkwardness of the story and pick your lessons from it.

Selah

Simps.... Many simps don't even listen to advise, I think they learn more from experience. Men and women can do very stupid things when they think they've fallen in love, it's because they put themselves in a vulnerable state. Women can be very manipulative and if you're not careful as a man, they'll eat your resources. All the women I have ever had a relationship with have contributed to me more than I contribute to them, that's why they find it very difficult to leave me. If you're one liberal with your resources, woman will take advantage of you.
Your money should be used for important things, the excess you've can be used for whatever you like, girls will always find mugu that'll foot their bills. Many girls know I have money but I don't spend on them, rather they give me money instead, I like that kind of Life.

Have many female friends as possible but don't be the Mr. Nice guy, focus on yourself first. Whatever you do, never put yourself in a place of disadvantage! I love my freedom. Imagine your girlfriend telling you that you're free to flirt with other girls? Or she even knows that you've others and she chooses to stay?

Girls are not loyal, you need to understand that. They swing branches easily and can date multiple guys at once. Their mindset is to chop and clean mouth, they want to reap where they did not sow. To be on top of your game, you've to understand the nature of a woman.
Should I continue??