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Trust women to only tell one side of the story. a side of the story is true but not completely true, to make a balanced judgment, both sides must be listened to without bias.

The foundation was wrong, wrong decisions but unfortunately, none of them can be changed.

Beating is a red flag and it will get worse, leave before your husband kills you out of anger one day.

If divorce will make you feel better or happier, go for it. You've tried.

The incompatibility between you guys is quite great and unfortunately it will only get worse with time.

INDUSTRIALFAN:
When has the any President of the United States ever come to celebrate their birthday in your own country?

It can never happen, the "worst" will always gravitate to the best, while the "best" will ignore the "worst" except there's an advantage in their interaction.

What a shame!

The president of a country celebrating his birthday in another country?

Kai, happy birthday to you Sir President!

And to think that the cake is even in Nigeria colour but the location is another country?

Nigeria, when will we be wise?

The only constant thing in this world is "time and death".
Time being the, "past, present and future" none of which is real except the present.

Many old men or let me say older people tend to live in the"past" the thoughts of their life is "how I wish" unfortunately, we can never know a better course of action to take until we take a terrible one. As a young person, weigh your options well, you've the strength to Carry out actions, resources may be low on your side but you can "leverage "

The young tend to live more in "frivolous present " and the "future ". They tend to ignore the present "now".

So, how to live life to your fullest? Once a month, picture or imagine yourself in your older years and reflect, any regrets? What could you have done better? If you lost all you had today, will you still be "yourself "? Have you discovered "yourself "? Have you thought about the things money cannot buy? Do you have the things money cannot buy?

Everything is fleeting, nothing is permanent except for time and death. As a medical personnel,I see death everyday and I know one day it will be my turn and I am ready everyday! So I live my life to the fullest.

Many wish to have "our kind of life". Many will whine you and say, boss man I want to be like you, whereas, deep within us, we wish we lived our life differently the degree to which varies to how much we've discovered or returned to our true self!

Sighs, life is empty and the only meaning is the meaning we give to it. The irony of life is the things we chase seems to elude us, but when we become more relaxed and happy, we tend to have it in abundance. Loss, is also a constant. To build true wealth, you must loose but a loss can be good if it's a seed. A seed planted in the ground and buried looks like death but with Time and chance, the right conditions, death becomes resurrection!

Fame is fleeting! To get fame is not difficult. I will never choose fame, I prefer to be behind the scenes, the dark curtain, it gives me more freedom.

Nothing is permanent, your life is whatever definition you give it!

Kollins11:
Reason I live my life to the fullest everyday. The strength I use to fvck a useless Nigerian girl Today, I may not have the strength tomorrow. So allow me to enjoy it while it last.

You're wasting your strength Bro but since it's giving you pleasure, ride on!

You try.
Congratulations to you!

Once a person becomes a politician, they start thinking with their left yansh

obembet:
This is kind of candidate Nigeria need.

Not Obi, Tinubu and Atiku.

Nigeria dont need Old criminal But some animals will defend thier brother.

Exactly, he will be very good for Nigeria but unfortunately Nigerians no dey learn. He cannot win Sha. Getting 100votes sef will be a miracle for him

He will definitely be the best for Nigeria but unfortunately, Many people don't know him so he can never win. He just wasted his money.

1. You don't need to keep or hide anything from your wife. Why did you marry her?

2. If you're an open person or a person of honesty, why hide?

3. When you understand that you're meant to be one with your wife, you'll begin to enjoy your marriage for marriage is to be enjoyed and not endured!

RenerdLiam:
Honestly, I know all these things. But I am not a relationship guy.

Don’t worry, you won’t get it.

I understand your perspective. Since you guys are cool with each other, enjoy yourselves then. Wish you the best.

You've been played and leashed successfully.
She's most likely using you to catch cruise.
The red flags I can identify
1. She doesn't read and reply your message on time.
For me, I wake to numerous messages from girls everyday and I can choose to reply or not and what baffles me is how quick these ladies reply my messages.

2. She may be right about her recieving messages from unknown numbers but that's also a red flag. Where is she getting the unknown numbers from?

3. She is still young, 21 you say. So she'll definitely have a lot of guys around her. I can bodly say you don't know all of her personality yet.

4. Most ladies when they're wrong will always play the victim card and instead of them apologizing, they'll turn the situation around and make you apologize instead!

5. Don't give your heart to any girl, you'll be surprised and heart broken when she begins to show other aspects of her personality you didn't know existed before. Girls are good in masking their personalities, they can be different things to different people.

Hookup is the new pandemic.

Girls ehn, fear them.

riverbird:
Women are moved by the sight of money even if they know that they don't need it, Thier behavior towards money is something they can't help and that's why you see women doing unspeakable things for money, don't bath for a Year and tell a girl to give you head for some good pay and watch her wash your d++k using her tongue and saliva.

Lol..... Women and money, 5&6

Of course, the spiritual Man is mad.

Good for them

Op, why don't you come and marry me instead.

From your story, this grown up boy is just using you to play. He will not marry you!

Don't let the foolish love you've for him blindfold your eyes. If you eventually marry him, your marriage will be miserable because this is a Mummy's boy and that's a red flag

Unfortunately, you'll not listen to us because you probably know him more than all of us and the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. There's a 90% chance you'll still stick with him despite the red flags.

ubunja:
you definitely got it right. As someone who always champions sex above everything when it comes to women, yes, there are women who can bring you other things besides sex. The point here is you must be benefiting at least something from your female friends. No friendships for the sake of friendship. Some women bring you sex. Some women bring business connections (as a guy your next big business deal could be lying in your female friend's DMs). Also Some women bring you life and dating advice. Whatever woman you call your friend must be solidly adding value to your life. Problem with us guys we can be so reluctant to force women to bring forth value.

Thank you very much Boss.
Your Miseducations are a blessing! Thank you for liberating simps!

Did you compile the miseducations in a book Boss?

doggedfighter:
On reading this story I bursted into laughter.




I really don't know why it's that funny to me.


.

Yes, it's very funny because there is nothing like bursted. The past tense of burst is burst!

What advice are you looking for again?

Marry her na

ahnie:
Not everyone is like your momma.
Winks

Yeah, you can never be like her because my Momma married as a virgin.

So, pack your garbage sef from my front. I am not someone you can diss.

ahnie:
To whom brain is given.... common sense is expected.

Just say that you're sex starved! You're an adult, don't be shy.

But there is more to life than sex Sha.

Na big risk to send or sponsor any Nigerian girl to school not to talk of your wife.

Reminds me of one of my coursemates, we were very close together (more like brothers and sisters) this girl swore to never cook for any guy but she was always cooking for me. Before she got married in our penultimate year, she was showing me strong greenlight. She even told me about her wedding before she made a general announcement to the class group page. This lady will do crazy things like touching me in intimate places and I'll be like, I'll tell your husband for you ooo. Thankfully, I maintained my ground and didn't push beyond my boundaries. Her husband and I became close friends, her Mum also became my friend too and anytime our classmates then see me together with her,they will be like, you no dey fear, see what you're doing with another person's wife.

In summary, your wife may or may not be loyal. Someone who was not loyal before marriage, how do you expect them to be loyal after marriage! The number of married women calling me Love, baby and darling on my social media everyday is alarming! It's obvious their husbands isn't showing them love in the first place. It's so Sad!

ahnie:
Expect the weyreys to come for you...bunch of stupid idiots.
People that cannot maintain 2 minutes erection.

You want a man with four hours erection abi?

Not every woman you come across is for sex!

The sex should just be an added advantage!

Make sure you're benefit from her one way or the other. For example, I'm always almost online 24/7 and my sub hardly finishes because I have many ladies that sub for me. It's quite funny how the situation turned around from me subbing for ladies to ladies subbing for me. I couldn't believe my eyes when it happened the first time. Some will even collect money from their boyfriends and be willing to give me part of it!

CaveAdullam:
1. Except in conditions when she's narcissistic, arrogant, insulting, or abusive should you cut ties with her.

2. Redpill is not men vs women. Understand the intersexual dynamics and your life will be fun with women. Simple.

3. Once women come in contact with men, they look for possible ways to meander their way around him to get his attention, time, and resources.

4. A woman doesn't care about the category of man, each man is arranged in her brain to her specific benefit. She needs the money of the rich man. The praise of the ugly man. The sweet company of the funny guy. The assistance of a nice guy. The attention of a strong guy. Sex from the handsome and fit dude. Protection of the masculine man. No man is useless in the sight of any woman.

5. Start thinking as a woman. Once contact has been established for a long time, look for ways to benefit from her. Women are not timid in this aspect, ergo, can start requesting money and gifts within less than one week of dating.

6. It is in the masculine instinct to cater to the female and the children, but you are not going to squander your resources on a woman you are not benefiting from. Simply put, let value match value.

7. because of proximity, women will demand from you. There's no debate about this. Based on that proximity, you must be fast enough to start demanding from her. Sex is the end game, but you'll lose a lot of benefits from her if your mind and heart become clouded by sex.

8. I have met a lady for who I had a "thing" for who reiteratively told me point blank that she ain't gonna fvck me. Let me tell you how bad it was, she reiteratively told me about a guy in the same circle she wants to fvck. Yeah. That's the game. But I wasn't blinded by sex, I wasn't perturbed. The respect was there. She never loses her demeanor around me. So, since sex wasn't possible she did other activities for me which would have cost me time and money + brought food for me a few times.

9. Life is all about bridges and connections. Don't burn bridges when you don't have a complete map of your direction. See everybody that comes your way as a bridge or a tool.

10. If she does something you don't like, caution her; repeatedly and remorseless, then, disengage.

11. You want to cut a lady off who saves you transport fare and the hurdles of struggling for public transport because of your fragile ego? I laugh.

There is no need to deny your feelings for her and not get her attention. We know how these things work. Don't use any flimsy excuse to divert that feeling. You want her. Learn the game to get her or abort the mission and diversify your thoughts and plan.

12. If she is from a rich home, use your intelligence and confidence to become more acquainted with her and her circle. Always think long-term. Let her be fvcked and dumped, that's not your business. Your own is leverage your proximity with her to better your life.

13. Since you are an ectomorph (my cousin), eat good food and hit the gym. Dress beautifully and maintain a neat aura and physical outlook.

14. Be confident enough to not allow your ego impedes you from attaining a greater height. Keep developing yourself and learning more about women. The lessons learned will enable you to know women better in your dealings with them.

Have a nice day.

DAY 337, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Women are fun to be with. Lovely. But you must be smart.

PS: Fearjah, something on the table.

Very nice review Boss.

I have learnt a lot from you and I appreciate you!

Your words are marble on Gold, saving lives of the common Man. Keep it up Boss!

Normal stuff happening to me and that's why I don't like taking public transport, or If I have no option I go with my less expensive phone(s).

It still baffles me how people flaunt their wealth anyhow.

People close to me know that I "have money" but you'll never see me brag or flaunt it around because I know the fluid nature of money, you can have it today and it's gone tomorrow.

Protect yourself, stay low key. But it seems poverty have eaten the sense of most Nigerians, once they get little money, they want to show the world.

As for me, I'll stay low key even if I hit 1B$ in net worth, I prefer to work behind the shadows.

No ladies loves you. Infact nobody loves you.

Ladies only show you fake love based on what you have to offer them or how you make them feel.

There is no "love" everywhere, so learn to love yourself!

You shouldn't have posted the story here knowing fully well the high rate of negative people on this Forum.

R.I.P to your elder sister.

How are you doing and how is your family?

virginprincess:
Your madness and stupidity keep increasing day by day,hour by hour,minute by minute,second by second,i think you should look for a way to fix your already condemned and damage life instead of coming to nairaland to create useless topics that won't add any small meaning to your already meaningless life.

Your sharp uncouth mouth will be your own undoing, grow up!

If to say Madam Aisha Buhari dey for Nairaland, she for don arrest many cyber bullies for here.

The thing is no matter how good you're, there are some people that will definitely accuse you wrongly even without substantial evidence. She's just being petty and of course she's a woman, so she didn't let it slide