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Please, make sure you kill yourself oooo.
If you no kill yourself, you don f*CK up.

And make sure the money go round.
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SodiumValproate:
You used the word Chopping [Chop] which is often used by Ghanaian to mean the same that we Nigerians prefer to call Kpansh, lash, straff, lamush etc

Hahahahaha..... Yes, you're right.
Something must kill a man but man must learn to guard himself before the hunter becomes the hunted. To me, sex is overrated, not enough to reach the apex.

Yes, and always remember, she's not your girl, she's for the street. There are many things about her that you don't know yet!

This is a shit test and unfortunately, OP has failed.
From the way your girl types, she probably has some form of "mental disorder" she may or may not be aware of.

Why will a girl ask for breakup? Do you know the reason? It's because you're no longer valuable in her eyes, either she wants to stay alone, got some nigga she just met and wants to explore with or she wants to shit test you, any other reasons are derivatives of these three reasons above.

Op, you don't know what to do because you've been spellbound.
Do you want to marry her? I'll advise you shouldn't because the red flags are numerous!

She has ego issues, jealousy issues ( you know the funny thing about ladies is that they chat with multiple guys or allow multiple guys flirt with them but they want their boyfriends to be chatting with only them, (set awon werey, iku pa gbogbo yin!), She finds it difficult to apologize (this is a strong issue o) and these are few of the red flags.

When a girl initiates breakfast, 95% of the time, she's ready to change ships (if she's not already in one sef) or she wants to monkey branch.

You're confused Op because you've invested some resources into her already, it Will bite you in your skin to let it all slide!
All this bullshit about relationship doesn't make you happy, don't buy it. Why can't you create your own happiness?

In summary, enjoy your breakfast and be free as a bird, love yourself, engage multiple ladies, be the price, let ladies be taking care of you (if you want), don't just be centered on one lady alone except you've vetted her and she's worth it!

SodiumValproate:
Are you a Ghanaian?

No am not, why did you ask?

If you check closely, girls like this either have HIV or AIDS, very beautiful and they don't mind sleeping with you to infect you. Mumu boys will think they're chopping the girl not knowing the girl is digging your grave!

It's a tactics my man, to act shameless, order anything orderable so that you'll feel that you should get something back in return and what will she have to pay back? SEX!

If she's a great manipulator, she can even use protection during the first few rounds before you as a man throws caution to the wind and go in raw because many men love and prefer death to Life

And here is the interpretation of your dream o false prophet!

The demons ye saw in your dreams are "negative influences"

The dance ye saw in your dream represented "freedom"

Many girls that were brought up by strict parents become wayward when in the higher institution because of negative influences and the false sense of freedom. The dance and the sex is an initiation, nobody needs to teach anybody because it's all within us. The whole scenario looks or appear demonic before you because, the sex was done at the wrong time and anything done at the wrong time becomes ugly and useless!

Unfortunately, there is little or nothing you can do about it, it has been happening before you're born, it is currently happening now and it will continue to happen even after you've left the world. So, rest and teach as many as you can the right path.

Heroicvic:
You can waste away your life for all I care

It's you that'll waste away your life.

Heroicvic:
Pele and millions of people died today but only his name is mentioned

I think it's time for us to stop existing and start living so that we can be remembered like this legend for a good legacy

What's the point?
Since we will all die and legacy wouldn't bring anyone back to life.

God1000:
have you worked in the morgue before?

I am a medical personnel.
One of the saddest part of my job is certifying people dead.

stan4b:
You can't control who they sex with. Same way you won't be able to control the pain when they bring STD to your doorstep.

STD?
Far from it, no girl can ever give me STD. I have never had STD and I can never have it.

FatimaAbbas:
Not all girls or ladies cheat, just the way not all men cheat. Please stop generalizing...

Have you cheated before?
It depends on the definition of "cheating"
As far as you're living, you're cheating.
Just being alive is a proof that you cheated death. So, yes we are all cheaters in the true sense of it. Just that the degree to which we cheat varies.

Normal stuff na.
It's very easy to get ladies banged these days, so I don't give a damn.

No lady can be trusted, I onced dated a very "religious" girl, attends deeper Life and seemingly spiritual and she once told me how she lost her virginity. Yeah, the same day she lost her virginity was the same day she had a church program and she attended and even ministered in church after the act because she's a chorister. This is someone who looks so innocent (looks do decieve) and this one will say no sex till marriage whereas she's collecting it from bad boys like us.

All those church girls, na Dem bad pass in a coded way. Every lady is bad until proven otherwise.

If you truly want to enjoy ladies to the fullest, your relationship with them should be nonsexual majority of the time, the sex is just an advantage. A lady can love you and still have sex with other guys, sex is a function of the body's biology, love is more of mind and emotional games. Don't kill yourself because your girl is having sex with others, what stops you from having sex with others too??

When you understand that you can't control a human being 100% and that whatever action a person takes shouldn't affect the way you react or respond, small things will not bother you.

Truvelisback:
So, which of them would u choose? A Virgin or a non Virgin?

Of course, I'll definitely choose a virgin over a non virgin!

Character can be moulded, taught and instilled. I'll go for a virgin 1million times over.

Am not a fan of left overs.

CaveAdullam:
This is an unbearable loss.

1. Dreams shattered. Hope quenched in split second. Bonds broken. Joy lost in the dark. Sorrow abounds. Sorrow upon sorrow upon sorrow. Henceforth, every joy felt will be tainted with sadness, fear, and anxiety. A great loss indeed!

2. Such is life. The unexpected happens. Joy today and sadness the next day. We think things will always go as planned, but the vicissitudes of life shock us beyond our boundaries and set us flying around looking for help where there is no help.

3. We spend our days searching for luxury and pleasure. Our minds don't like thinking about the negative turn of events, we skip them and hold a strong faith that only good things will happen to us and all will be favorable. Of course, some bad situations can turn favorable but not all and so many leave scars that will never heal.

4. What is life? If we sing for joy today and mourn tomorrow? What's the essence of life then? Why this sorrow? Why this pain? Why can't we be with our loved ones for a long time till old age?

5. Anyways, these whys and whats are the core intricacies of life. Probably, life wouldn't live without them. Innocent life. Endangered man.

6. Maybe with love, we can subdue. And with love, we can bear our losses, failures, and disappointments.

Sigh.

Loss of loved one(s), one of the saddest events of Life. Everyday, I see or watch people go to the great beyond and I have mixed feelings about it.

Death can come at anytime, we should be prepared for it. Everyday I tell myself it could be my last, every morning I call my parents knowing it could be their last, I'm prepared for my death or their deaths, anyone which comes first!

To me, death is not necessarily a bad thing if one has lived life to the fullest. Death is a debt everyone of us must pay.

Sighs.

Truvelisback:
What then is the Best? Let's learn together.

Women these days cannot be trusted at all.
I have learnt that no woman is 100% just as no man is 100%

I'm privileged to have virgins surrounding me and I'm grateful for that.

The best is to have someone who loves you "unconditionally" who has a wide tolerance limit, who sees your best instead of your worst, who is willing to give you resources inspite of your abundance. Who makes your life easier and better..

But remember that people change, love can become hate at anytime and the lover who you think can't betray you may stab you in the back in certain conditions.

Never love with your heart 100%, chances that you'll be heartbroken is high!

For me, I'll choose the best, the finest quality.

Virginity is a good gift but it's not the best gift.
A virgin with a bad character is a disaster waiting to happen, and that's why we have wise and foolish Virgins.

Well, I'll choose the wise virgins over the repented hoes anyday, anytime

Jennyclay:
Biko... let us hear word. Noise maker!

Is not as if you even have money to take good care of a virgin woman. All you broke men want a virgin lady but don't want to spend on her. Biko don't put someone else daughter in poverty.

Broke Non-entity men everywhere!!

Go and rant in your father's house not here!

WinningEleven:
Unrelated rant but I don't know where else to put this
I'm tired of the redpill.
No, that's not quite right.

I'm tired because that is the effect the redpill has been putting on me these past days or weeks

The redpill is the truth. 100%.
I came across it back in my senior secondary days, and it's been proven before my eyes time and time again in this university.
But I'm just tired.

The redpill just makes me feel hopeless and defeated. There is literally no way to win this game
What's the fucking point of it all? Why does it have to be so complicated? Why does it have to be so hard?

What tf am I supposed to do? I study long hours (12 hours today) and I just feel like shit when I go to bed. Only parents call. No money or shishi to show for anything. No chats from friends or anything

No girl is even looking my way to elevate ones spirits every once in a while. I'm tired of doing my things alone.

I wish I could just go back to my blue pill days when I was blissfully ignorant. But now, if i try to get with a girl, the slightest attitude from her will push me far from her. I'm even tired of myself at this point

The last 3 girls stopped talking to me cause I admitted that I was living on a tight budget on campus.
Without money, it seems it's all hopeless

I'm 21, and studying to become a medical doctor if you were wondering

You remind me of my younger years in medical school. I know how stressful it can be with the studies and all, coupled with the fact that you now have knowledge of the red pill, you'll have quite a few problems with girls. Girls will only be attracted to you because of your intelligence or money or look. Lack of money in Medical school is a very big issue, tackle that first and forget about girls, girls are always available but take care of yourself first.

For me, when I was damn broke, girls came through for me because I knew the game well but nothing beats having your own money. I wish I can give you some tips but I'm quite busy these days. You just remind me of my younger years, wishing you the best in your medical journey.

Precious Facebook?
Hope it's not the precious wey I dey play with steady steady. I have too many precious on my contact list, close to 200 of them and all of them are bhad with no exceptions! I don run all of them. And most of them, I met them from Facebook.... Those bad old days ....

LeoDeKing:
So what's the purpose of that symbol of a propagating EM wave in the pictures?

Is that its principle of curing whatever it cures?

EM wave kor
That's the double helical structure of a DNA boss.

Post traumatic rape syndrome.
I have handled many cases too numerous to count.
I don't mind capital punishment on rapists, they don't deserve to live not to talk of raping a minor. Many rapist have one underlying mental disorder or the other but that should never be an excuse.

Lol..... Hemorrhagic stroke secondary to orgasm.

achillesfoot:
I'm forced to comment, I'm sure it'd reduce the fear some Nigerian doctors has instilled in some of the readers. You can't get an arrest while having sex except you're on some sexual enchaners or you're above a certain age.. Your heart is over working, after male orgasm, the heart slows down automatically, hence your penis losing erection. You need brief minutes of rest before engaging.. Exercise daily and stay off sexual enhancers, drink water regularly and you good to go.. No need instilling fear.. Some of these doctors wanna show off.. And they barely passed med school.

Yeah, they barely passed med school but did you go to med school??

Haven't you heard of cases where people die giving active service (sex).

Sex normally should be a recreation activity but some stupid men take sex enhancers and drugs that may lead to their demise.

Hopemanfx:
i remember during my nysc in enugu.. i woke up in the morning around 5am i was brushing my teeth outside.. I never knew that some set of aboki where chasing a cow towards me.. thanks to God almighty that the cow did not hit me! the speed the cow was moving towards me was extremely high.

Your heart go wan almost cut.

I'm also scared, honestly I'm scared.
The rate at which married women flirt with me on WhatsApp is alarming. I don't know whether it's because their husbands are not giving them attention or what??

iamL:
If holy spirit slapped person he nor get cure.

Who Created Adam and Eve and yoked them to be one flesh? Who rebuked the israelites men for divorcing their wives? Who says he "hates divorce"?

When una refused to follow bible principles una go hear wim. There are millions of working marriages out there that's because they allow Jehovah to the third cord in their marriages.

Which working marriage?
Dey decieve yourself.

iamL:
Don't drag Jesus into your wraped/nonsense mentality!

Was jesus sent to earth for fleshly purpose or his he a mighty spirit being?
Do angels get married? Is marriage meant for heavenly bodies?

Do not sin against the holy spirit!

Lol... Okay.
It will be a waste of time talking to you. Everyone is free to believe what they want to believe

deyplay:
really since the God of Malachi is not the same God that Jesus was quoting in Matt 19:6-8. Bible commentator!

Deyplay, Jesus that didn't get married knew what he was doing.

Normal, normal.
As marriages keep crashing everyday, people keep getting married every week.
The idea of marriage is flawed and unfortunately, divorce will continue to happen.

Marriage in the real sense of it is a prison and nobody likes to be in a prison. For those who are christians and say marriage is ordained by God, why did Jesus not get married?

Marriage was created by men and will be sustained by both parties in it, unfortunately the disadvantages of marriage far outweighs the advantages don't let anyone decieve you. It's only when you enter it yourself that you'll have a personal experience.

Is that an offering basket?