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eleojo23:
Every time, damn nigarrr...

That's what makes him special. don't hate bro! yada..

dangotesmummy:
I'm always a perpetual winner

Life is a game.
we win some
we loose some.
but whether we win or loose, stay happy and calm!

Lightangel65:
Read the post well, I said if a girl tries to seduce me she will get a hot slap. You guys just comment before you read

oh, okay. sorry for misunderstanding and misinterpreting the situation. Thanks

dangotesmummy:
and what is bad in being celebrated?

You graduate from university put graduation pictures on the internet is that a problem?

You do wedding put pictures on the internet,kilo bad nbe?

You build house put it on the internet? Ehennn shebi it's so that people can rejoice with you and celebrate you.the idea is for people to celebrate you but it's unfortunate that we have a lot of twisted, frustrated, envious and bitter people who get pained by the success of others, especially women,then to now hear she's single.e go dey do them like say make them kill am.how dare she be single and successful without a husband

alright, a good point you have there.
you win!

interesting, for every trade, there is bound to be a king!
in the land of the blind men, the one eyed man is the king likewise so in the land of the beggars, the one who uses his brain optimally is the king.
anyways Sha king get levels.
which level are you?

dangotesmummy:
Eyin aye Papa


If she put her boyfriend cheated on her na Una go talk say carry your private issue out of social media and stop seeking the counsel of online strangers


If she naked herself put for social media Una go call am asewooo


Now she was able to build a house without whoring around and you still don't like that she put it out.....okayyy ABI because she no say one alhaji build am for am ABI one chief buy house for am


Na problem for single woman to achieve anything again?

that's not my point bro.
the point is why should she put it on social media?
how does it affect you positively.
truth is many people post on social media just to feel important and celebrated

Nawa ooo.
this country sef na better.
they fit just arrest you if a lady accuse you say you rape am. That's bullshit na

Melison:
Bros why nw, if u can't hold urself go patronise s3x workers na,stop bringing shame to us everyday abeg,we get much on our plate already nw

it wasn't a rape bro, he was framed!

Perfectdanny:
Note book

will always be empty if nothing is written in it!

dangotesmummy:
oore olorun osebomora

Word! but will that protect you from "village people" any small achievement, put on social media. That's risky and dangerous

SassyGem101:
Better you say it the way I'll understand. I know where you're going though.

okay, I guess I will keep quiet for now. somethings are better left unsaid? sassygem101, where do you think am going?

In as much that you're happy, should you tell the whole world? me that I have 10 billion in my account did I tell anybody?

Chizuru01:
Thats why i said good guys should not involve in Relationships.

Ok, so how will they get married? going straight into courtship? Op, does it mean you yourself aren't a good man?

SassyGem101:
Guardian? At my age? No guardian o. Only God is my guardian now o. Always tell him though.

hmmm, can I say what I want to say without you misunderstanding?

Perfectdanny:
Pregnancy for one.

Noted

AuroraB:
I won't mind relocating to this place. But for security....

where are you currently?
the heat killing you badly?

badoh:
Dear Nairalanders,
Was I wrong to have ended the relationship? Please read along with me.
Back then in 2008, I was posted to serve in Uyo, Akwa-Ibom State while my Fiance was posted to Portharcourt same year. We attended the same University and studied the same course in one of the Western Universities. I had disturbed my fiance since 100 level until 400 level when her previous boyfriend left her. I went with one of my friends to convince her to date me. She eventually agreed and we dated throughout our 400 level.
We call eachother everyday during our service year. Barely 3 month into NYSC, we agreed that I will come one particular Saturday to Portharcourt to visit her. On the day of appointment, I left Uyo for Portharcourt. She told me once I get to Portharcourt and a popular place she described, I should call her immediately. She also said we will have to pass through water with the aid of speed boat but since I'm not familiar with the area, she would come and pick me in Portharcourt city.
I left Uyo around 12pm and got to Portharcourt around 2pm or so. While inside the Bus, I realized my fiance line was switched off. I said may be the battery is flat with the hope that before I reach PH, she would have charged the phone. Few minutes to reach PH, phone was still off. When I eventually got to the place she described for me, I dialed the line, the phone ranged and immediately it was switched off. I continued to dial the number but remained switched off. I was not myself anymore. I was wondering what could have happened. I never forced myself to visit her, she suggested it. It was getting to 5pm, same thing. I quickly think of next step to take. I thought the best thing to do was to quickly find my way back to where I came from. I was boiling inside me while at the same time also smiling. I got to Uyo around 8pm and located the nearest suya spot to relax myself while pondering on what played out. Around 9pm, my phone ranged and it was that of my fiance. I did not bother to pick it, she called several times but I made up my mind never to pick it. The following morning, her call woke me up and I decided to pick it. I asked why she switched off her phone yesterday knowing fully well we were to meet. Her response was she was in choir practice and immediately her phone rang, the choir master collected the phone, switched if off and siezed it. I asked her if she did not inform the choir master that she was expecting a visitor and that she will need the phone to guide the visitor, she said no that there's nothing she can do in that situation. I was mad at her for uttering such. It means I was nothing to her. I simply asked her if it was her mom or any of her siblings that she was expecting same day and the so-called choir master seize the phone, won't she make effort to collect the phone back? She immediately lambasted me and told me never to bring her mum into such scenario. I told her I was not abusing her mum but only trying to see her reaction to the seizing of phone. Since I realized I was played, no sign of being remorseful and exposing me to danger in a city where I know nobody, I ended the relationship by stopping all forms of communication with her. I blocked her and moved on with my life.
Did I do wrong in any way and was I right to have ended the relationship?

Op you did right.
such a lame excuse from her.
did she beg you after?

proposal gone wrong! I always wonder why men kneel down to propose to women? any tangible reasons? let's iron it out

XhosaNostra:
Ok.

yeah. I think it is great to be neutral (neither bad nor good) or to be both bad and good(badholy) depending on the situation you find yourself

XhosaNostra:
What do you think?

I think everyone is bad with the potential of expressing goodness if they are rightly taught and they follow the teachings well.

Chizuru01:
Then another guy will do it for u wen you are done wasting your time and resources

still doesn't justify that you should do that.
The fact that everyone does wrong doesn't mean you should join in the train.

XhosaNostra:
Huh?

Are you a good girl?

Darkseid:
Maybe she is already pregnant and as you be guy with good potentials, she wants to pin it on you.

That's a very good possibility.
that's how many men end up fathering bastards.
could be true because am in my final year in Med school and am financially capable.

SassyGem101:
I think I agree with you on this but what about those of us that don't have parents any longer?

Hmmm... if you have guardians, you can obtain their consent but if you are independent, tell follow your heart and do what you feel is right just know that when the consequences cones, recieve all the blames and move on

can someone help with the summary pls?

XhosaNostra:
Ovius
Who's your celeb crush?

bad girls like you are every where...

@op, I am more interested in how many guys heart you have broken? or are you the victim in this case?

Davash222:
We're all broke in the eyes of Dangote.

Am telling you, brokeness is in levels.
I have six digits in my bank account but have never felt so broke in my life.
nobody should come and preach contentment to me. My taste is so high. This money must be made albeit in a legal way

Lightangel65:
Thank you, cause I know no girl can try that with me, without relieving a hot slap.

why would you slap a girl because she refuses to have sex with you?
that's gross and animalistic!

Fortuna2:
As far as I'm concerned, men are too cheap. It takes extra discipline for a full ass grown man to reject sexual advances especially from cute chicks like us .QED.

don't put your head in the sky babe.
I can romance you and make you so Hot and leave you on the bed without sex.
no girl has ever succeeded in making me have sex against my will. it is simply impossible.

Chizuru01:
My dear, I ain't pouring out emotions. I just want to tell guys to always Fuc.k una kpekus wella in every relationship to avoid Heartbreak when she eventually decides to take it to another guy.

Good guys should stay totally away from Relationships wen they are not ready for marriage.

This isn't right bro. two wrongs doesn't make a right. girls will always be girls, that doesn't mean that you should be having sex with every girl in a relationship.

was faced with something like that of recent but mine was quite different.
started relationship with this girl 2016. we started on a good ground and all. At first, she was like no sex before marriage but we can do some romance, I agreed. wanted to marry this lady but her parents never liked me because of my stature and ethnicity but this girl loves me so much.
she also trusts me so much that we had romance several times totally naked without sex. Anytime she gets high and wants to have sex, I remind her that no sex before marriage.
her only problem was that she is too insecure and misunderstands many of my actions. I never ask her about her past neither do I ask her if she f**king any guy though I never trust her, I love her so much.
I broke up with her today because she insisted we have sex so that I will put her in the family way because she thinks that if she gets pregnant, her parents will have no choice but to let me marry her. I disagreed totally and we broke up.
I know many of you will call me fools but to me, that's the right thing to do.
it will be irresponsibility on my part to impregnate her and deny the pregnancy. I can't stand the shame and dishonor but this girl doesn't care she just wants to leave her parents house and live with me because according to her, am the best guy ever. such a pity.