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Mariangeles:


You are a monster! Period!
@op, if you even dare to consider this piece of trash, you're even worse than the giver!

You will be called monster if you have the ability to break a relationship without you getting hurt in the process.
if am tired of a relationship, I break it without considering if you're hurt or not. I don't enjoy the relationship anymore, I move on. you on the receiving end will be completely ignored! I don't care what happens to you.
and if you think you can hurt me first by initiating the breakup, you're wrong because if you break up with me, I will do everything possible to make the relationship work back and break up with you a week later. when it comes to breakups, I call the shots not you.
if you think am lying, ask Iyanu, Beatrice, Sandra and many other useless girls who thinks they are wise. Their names no worthy enough to be mentioned by me. That's how nice I can be...

Mariangeles:


You are a monster! Period!
@op, if you even dare to consider this piece of trash, you're even worse than the giver!

You're not the first to call me monster and you will definitely not be the last one.
I understand what OP is going through cos have been in even worse situation.
OP, if you want peace of mind, breakup and move on... if not...
the end shall tell

Assurance1000:
Just lost my job in a transport company. Pay was little (30k) but it kept me busy. Any recommendations will be appreciated. I reside in Benin. I have a Master's in Microbiology. Though
I feel bad right now but am positive about the future. Your kind words would go a long way to help me right now. Thanks.

@OP take heart and take care.
it's very difficult to get a job in Nigeria, very difficult if you're not connected.
That's why I prefer to go the way of business.
why not try being an entrepreneur?
the begining may be tough but it will payout in the end.

I am not surprised.
right from my sec school days, I have heard of various methods of abortions especially the aspect of using tools like iron hangers, buckets and the likes.
Are they to be blamed? perhaps a few of them.
let's look at it closely.
1. if you're in your late 20s and you're still addicted to things(smoking, drinking, fornication etc) it's was as a result vof peer pressure.
2. many times we know somethings are wrong but we still go ahead to try them out. That's because, the teenage stage of our lives is filled with Testosterone and oestrogen. so much that even if our parents tells us something is wrong, we never listen to them.
3. we prefer the company of our friends to our parents because our parents are outdated and not in Vogue.
4. we think only of the present moment and not of the future.
5. Teenage years was Bliss.... but mine was pathetic, I was locked up in a cage. don't ask me why..

nazablossom:
Oh!! God!!! How do I unsee this

lol.... I have an unsee eyedrop.
do you need?

Jamesrock:
JESUS, ur second coming is long enough

he isn't coming anytime soon.
read your Bibles...

Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!

OP, enter ghost mode.
well a candid advise I can give to you.
1. Invite her to your place or go for a date one last time.
2. talk very free with her and show her your best smile ever.
3. tell her about the issue bothering you and what you want to do( there is a way to go about it)
4. Take last pictures together, have beautiful memories.
5. Tell her you really loved her but you want to move on.
6. After going separate ways, delete or block everyform of contact with her( social distancing).
7. 6 is very important if not, you will be very confused and lost.
8. after performing 6, you will feel something great has left you. The syndrome of boringness begins. Mental balance may be disrupted. prepare for it.
9. learn to be calm always. do things that makes you happy
10. rid yourself of guilt feelings, have a pure conscience.
11. she may find a way to beg you to come back to the relationship, don't give in. if you do, the relationship wouldn't be the same again. it will only grow worse and complicated.
12. Enjoy the life of being single.
13. 12 has a lot of advantages, you will be able to save more, focus more, learn more, spend more, be free with the opposite sex more.
for example, I was able to save my first 100k one month after I broke up.
14. follow your head not your heart. your heart can break but have you heard of a head break before?
15. be wise.
let me stop here for now. hope it was helpful

CAPSLOCKED:
This is the stupidest thing I've seen this year (so far).

Folks like you can't understand because you're not enlightened.
There are loads of scriptures for folks like you but it may not change you because you don't believe the Bible.
The Bible is God's secret code message to humanity but humanity misinterpreted his message. That's what is causing a lot of confusion today.
I am Christ in full... 100%

CAPSLOCKED:
What is the importance of "an almighty unchangeable changer" God, if he cannot solve simple real life matters?

All the major religions in the world have all lost their voices. They're isolating and hiding, begging science for the medicine, instead of trusting in their prayers?

"If prayers worked, Ambulances will be driving to Churches instead of Hospitals".

Obviously, you're right.
God is almighty and all powerful in heaven but very incompetent on Earth. on Earth he is a weakling and there is a reason for it.
why is it that God wouldn't proof his awesomeness or full authority on Earth? why doesn't he answers prayers?
it is because while he is in control of heaven
he gave the earth to men to be in charge( he only intervenes in some rare cases and that's obviously through humans too) so if there are no humans willing to work for him, he cannot enforce his will and that's what the devil is trying to do, but there will always be one man who is in right standing with God. That's why the devil hasn't won yet.
well, I don't believe in God and the devil they are the inventions of men.
let me stop here for now

Hotfreez:
But I do, that's why I'm replying you unfortunate bastard.

Your elders at home are lower than animals and they bark like rabid dogs. Stupid cursed nonentity.

you're so pained eyah.
have you eaten grass yet?

chatinent:
Truth is 60 percent of ladies practice lesbianism.

80%

@op, that's the recipe to last longer on bed na.
you no broke jare.
anyways, brokeness is in levels. I currently have 6digits figure in my bank account but have never felt so broke in my life. don't come and preach contentment to me, my taste is very high. nonetheless, I make money the legit way.

I have heard a lot of derogatory words targeted towards me. I don't call them painful because I never accepted them. No words can pain me or pull me down because I am always true to myself.
I remember in my secondary School, My geography and my chemistry once told me they were disappointed in me, they seriously bashed me but guess what, I ended up having As in both subject in WAEC. I look so small in stature but am mighty in nature, once I converse in you, you will find intelligence..
so do not let people's opinions or idea about you affect how you think or behave. do not let it put you down for he that is in you is far greater than them that are in the world..

Maryjane001:
It was back then in secondary school. I had this class teacher who liked intelligent students and disliked the others esp those at the bottom like me....
I didn't know y tho...

I recall a day she gathered the whole class and was talking Abt her past life in d University. D next thing, Aunty turned to me and started comparing me to the highly intelligent ones. I was used to it, she insulting me in front of the whole class was nothing new. But dat day she bore a hole in my heart when she said...
"She prays never to give birth to a child like me with no brains and anti-social attitude like me. If she could turn d hands of time, dat her son/daughter would marry one of the intelligent ones in our class and not end up like me. She even called me a hermit crab and talked about quiet people having mouth odor"
Omo dat day eh, my classmates taunted me,I went to the back and cried, then cried d remaining at home. I never told my parents cuz they had stopped asking Abt whatever happened in xkul and were busy hustling so we could eat.
But guess what? She taught us biology, ND I scored 94/100 in Jamb biology.
She had a negative impact on my life and sadly it still affects me till today....
Even a day before yesterday, a guy told me to my face dat I had potentials but I just lacked self confidence...

oh, do you need help?
I can help you though. if you're interested

Hotfreez:
Why won't you be talking nonsense with your head like cashew. My friend, if you have nothing sensible to say, enter bush and start barking.

you just confirmed that you're a lower form of being even lower than the animals.
I asked you a question and all you could do was bark?
Mr. Man, please grow up. I don't converse with animals. Thanks

littleguy444:
judging by this it shows that you are an extraordinary student will you mind sharing some reading tips with me

okay no problem.
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spencestanlis:
bro please can we chat on watsapp. Thanks

Alright, you can contact me through 09024387119

Hotfreez:
Could even be his grandfather that reincarnated as a snake.

Each man to his own believe!
so you were once a snake?
am sure lala killed you then.
you're a grown up man but you're still thinking like a snake. Am not surprised since that's what you claim to be

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Well done niggarrr
Thanks for not killing that beautiful python

These are not dangerous

The rate at which we kill them these days, their population will soon be threatened. Lets learn to live peacefully with these beautiful snakes. They don't bite to attack and to defend. They only swallow small animals
If you keep your cool, a human - python cohabitation is very possible.


Even the cobra, black mamba and Taipan that are poisonous only bite to defend
Because i dey reason am why he be say if snake come meet us for house them nor dey harm us. Sometimes self you fit live with snake for two years inside house them nor go do you anything

There is no way you can be bitten by a snake in a residential building
Which means they respect us
So lets learn how to respect them
Please lets learn to live and stay with this beautiful creature called snake

I hate snakes!
may a venomous snake strike you one day and I pray you survive it and when it happens, I hope you will be able to live according to what you typed above. Amen