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Vickyydera:
doveda am not jealous, I dont like people doing the opposite of what they preach. this is what a married woman told her in one of her lamentation thread.

Vickyydera:
in all mizmycoli posts all I can see is a frustrated single lady trying so hard to form boss lady but at the end she still landed under a man's roof. let's see if she won't be humble n good since she is miss independent.

Vickyydera:
if I quite instances she said she don't need marriage,she is better as a single lady , my MB go finish . let's just forget her talk.

Vickyydera:
she goes round talking about how she dont need marriage. hahahahaha.@doveda

Vickyydera:
ok doveda since you refuse to read, check out this guy post where he said Anti-marriage feminists.

johnson232:
just leave doveda alone.... doveda is a lonely frustrasted witch! what do u expect...

allow her to wallow and swim in a life full of bitterness... which sane man will take a frustrated witch for a wife? let her keep consoling herself in delusion...

@MizMyColi i am convinced this antichrist u propagating will soon consume u... i just sorry for u... keep on deceiving 'em ladies...

Vickyydera:
doveda read this, if I tell you women that say marriage is unimportant are women that are getting old single n bitter

Vickyydera:
doveda read this too.

Do I still want to get married? No "still want" is Undermining...I DESIRE to get married.

If it is marriage you desire, you will have it. It will come. Know the one in whom you have believed. If you do not desire marriage, forget the 1980s talk on this thread....don't force yourself to desire it. It is not compulsory. Fulfilling your inner purpose is what's compulsory.

[b]Why? I want to form a lifelong partnership with someone who understands what it's like to be me. I want to build a home and kids who are replicas of their creator. I am aware that two heads are better than one. I want to be with someone whom I will share my completeness with, someone who understands that I am not lacking in any way. He helps me grow, I help him grow. I want to be the wife of someone who understands that CHRIST IN US IS OUR ONLY HOPE OF GLORY. Not woman in man or man in woman is our only hope of glory.
OR Man needing woman/Woman NEEDING MAN is our only hope of glory.

Now I believe that there is a right time for everything under the Sun.
Mine is happening now.

What about those who will not have their desires met till they are 30 going on 35?
Should they be miserable, desperados who have no iota of self anymore, other than a ring and a title?

Is it actually okay to live in the awareness that you are complete and you're not lacking in anyway even if you do not have a man to call your own?
What happened to your dreams?
Why did you jettison them?
Why lay it all down for a future you are not even sure of whem and how it will happen? Why? Why?[/b]

Vickyydera:
@doveda I guess this is why pibkiberry and Arsenate called her a hypocrite. She said she dont want to marry and got married so is this not contradiction? anti marriage feminists try and practice what you preach. bye.

Vickyydera:
Now am beginning to think pinkiberry was right in what she said. why tell us you dont need men/marriage cos you are miss independent and end up walking down the alter, it doesn't make sense. Nairaland feminist I hail una o. hahaha.

I guess we won't be hearing from the op again now that she is married. That's how their feminist dream die. Why are single ladies mostly feminists?

Vickyydera:
she didn't just talked about women being independent and single, she also referred to marriage as unimportant which I find quite annoying, people shouldn't impose their belief on us, if you don't like marriage or you think it is overrated then don't impose it in us or a create a thread about it.

Vickyydera:
what the hell are you even saying? so you are trying to say that a woman can't be married and also be successful, then who told you women don't develop themselves for themselves? haven't you seen women with degrees and good job yet the aspire to Marry,your argument doesn't hold water. Any single Lady that is old enough to get married but isn't married yet condemning marriage is a bitter and lonely person. The fact that you are not married doesn't give you the opportunity to transfer bitterness to others.

Try and read thus thread from page 1to 10 then you understand what am saying.
I had to view mizmycoli profile cos of this and I must say most of her topics in women feminist stuff are always bitter.

Vickyydera:
my friend keep quiet, what I said its true. mizmycoli wasn't married when she was condemning marriage. have you seen any married woman condemning marriage or tell you women don't need marriage? reason before you spew trash.

if you guys want,you can condemn marriage all you want, it won't stop me from getting married and also be an independent successful woman, you can be both so don't come here and showcase your ignorance and bitterness then hide under the umbrella of feminists.

Festivalofholi:
wenever a guy is fuccking u next time, remember, dats ur purpose in dis life, to be fuccked like animals like the way my father fvcks my mama.

carmag:
pls don't you ever think of getting married

cos sex is your primary assignment in order to keep your marriage

...l also have a sister who does not like sex, so

for just that a singular act life have not been

easy for her as all her friends and sisters

have left her to there husband's houses

Festivalofholi:
What a pity!

Vickyydera:
Marriage is important, without marriage the society will look at you awkwardly and again women that discourage marriage use it to console themselves because they are not yet married. Most of the women that discourage marriage are mostly bitter,lonely and insecure.


Pinkiberry abeg leave mizmycoli alone, she may have over talked but for her to get married shows that she knows within her self that men are essential in a woman's life.

Congrats Mizmycoli, invite me to your wedding o.

Festivalofholi:
another sex object like my mother trying to claim smart.

Detonator:
Copy that

Thanks for not beheading me

Festivalofholi:
wenever women r mentioned, its all about sex sex sex... How come women have no other use besides being sex objects??

unapapadeycraze:
Persuaded? If she was not a w.hore, she would not concur. The guy just wan satisfy him libido na.

Detonator:
Blessed are you among women


Nigerian Muslims ladies would be forming more holy than the ones from the " Holy Land "

boostdom:
You this fool, you violate rule 2 and 19 by abusing, bullying, deliberately
insult/provoke and having alternate monikers of "daretodiffer" and "sheilak" to forment trouble. I don't see you running to your ogre looking mile-12 mod yet.

You lack any sort of critical thought and rational reasoning so you attack people you can't criticise their opinions. Be rest assured when I catch you, I'll slit your throat so when you scream only blood comes out. Ackmed the terrorist.

Krismart:
Her hair uncovered , even fixed hair while the poor , hungry ones in the villages carry Muslim for head, beheading people in d name of religion

seacoast:
Thank God we are not close, for with the type of anger and pain in your reply, u can easily do me something for 72 virgins... Oso

seacoast:
He died as a Muslim who has Christian heart (because he killed no one for seven virgins)...

banmee:
Not saying there aren't men who don't but if you have enough experience marriage and relationships, you'd know that, especially in Africa, most men just marry for the sake of it and start the hunt for a concubine as soon as possible. You may be right though. I just can't fathom why people do that. Which is why i made my first comment. They marry whoever and after a while the side chick comes in and it is seen as the norm. Smh.

kazyhm:
I agree with you

I can't follow a leader blindly, not even an outdated and old fashioned man

JoeBlocks:
LMAO. My shop? Just imagine this disjointed incorrigible horrible woman, what are you yapping about? So typical you follow suit of nairalanders who after being showed how miserable their existence is, they join in the chorus of "e pain am". Such a pity.

Tell me, are you so fucked_ and raped you can't even think and reason straight? I use to believe victims of rape usually suffer traumas, but little did I know people who were raped by poverty, such as you, loose touch of reality, that's why you're a mad and vile woman.

Saying you earn more than me, proves you're suffering from acute dementia, when you've not even seen my paycheck. That's how people like you, follow the band wagon and end up being banged by a wagon of angry dicks.

Its a pity, a very big pity that you, doveda, daretodiffer is a wretch for an excuse for a human being. You're pitiful, tell me, when was the last time you went for a lobotomy? You obviously need one, ASAP.