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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:09pm On Nov 30, 2020
emmalated:
@Dpsychologist,
What's the telegram group chat name. I can't find the link you shared on my telegram
Kindly send the telegram TRP group chat to my email emmanuenable@gmail.com.
Thanks
Sent
RomanceRe: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist(op): 7:37pm On Nov 28, 2020
Savie:
grin grin Bros I swere your write-up has completely change my life, especially in this my early 20's. I don't how I can thank you enough for this!! Please keep the good work up. I must confess I'av fallen in love with your write-ups grin Bros I swere your write-up has completely change my life, especially in this my early 20's. I don't how I can thank you enough for this!! Please keep the good work up. I must confess I'av fallen in love with your write-ups
Lol very funny. You are welcome
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:05pm On Nov 28, 2020
Phran66:
having read from the start till these very chapter I must say am very great for you got great skills in wright and impacting knowledge thanks for showing us the way
You are welcome.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon] Training your child

Train up your child in the way of the red pill and when he is old he will never depart from it.—Dpsychologist

The society is blue pilled as such you should train your child in the way of the red pill. Even before you get married you should start developing plans on how to train your child.

Eventually when you have a male child do not wait till he is 18years or when he is at puberty before you start the enlightenment. Start the drill as early as 5,at that age children learn by what they see. [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:37pm On Nov 24, 2020
This deserves to be on red
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Emmynator:
My red pill advice to fathers and aspiring fathers.

Build strong relationships with your children, don't buy into hard man BS, as a father you ought to rule your home and children well, but never run your house on fear alone, where your children can approach you, if you do so, you are only strengthening the female imperative.

Many fathers wonder why they are often neglected by their children, while it's often their faults, their wives push them into being hard men with their children, in the name of discipline, yet demonize them in front of their children when they are at work, they come back home and find their children more and more distant from them, very soon the fear turns to contempt and the contempt to hatred.

You can discipline your children without destroying your relationship with them, and leaving them at the mercy of their mother's advice and direction.

For those who decides to marry, it is important that you have a good understanding of family dynamics and that your red pill application does not end with your wife but also transfer to your children. A wise man rules his house well, not in love alone, not in fear alone, but with a right mix of both, to achieve the best results.

Authority: no matter how red pill you are, if you don't understand family dynamics and apply it to benefit yourself, you will soon become a stranger in your own home...
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:26am On Nov 24, 2020
Ghallant01:
Which forum is this sir ?
Its from twitter.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:25am On Nov 24, 2020
post=96369157:
This whole thread is plagiarism.. this OP is a criminal.. he just copies someone else's work and bring them here.. stop stealing.. you have to credit the author. This is very irritating.
Lol the whole thread? you must be joking. I can see you haven't read the thread.

However, from the beginning of the thread i acknowledge that the thread is an amalgam from some websites, a little books, my experience, my friends experience, introspection etc. When i use someone work i indicate, you will see alot of rollo tomassi in here and IM. I guess you are too myopic to see that.

Why am i even explaining myself. You are just here to criticize.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:07pm On Nov 23, 2020
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:54pm On Nov 23, 2020
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:49pm On Nov 23, 2020
Train up your child in the way of the red pill and when he is old he will never depart from it.

#Tellyoursonthis

RomanceRe: Benefits Of The Redpill To Young Christians.. by Dpsychologist: 5:15pm On Nov 22, 2020
Chidorx60:
Hello Nairailanders...
It just dawned on me that the Redpill is not as evil as some people paint it to be....
Although some Redpill extremists might corrupt it's idea as an outright hatred for the female gender...which it is not..

if you study the writings of the Dpsychologist and his post, you will get an insight into what the Redpill is all about and it's wonderful liberating nature...

And although all women are not as michevious ,cunning and manipulative as the Redpill truths rightly point out ...majority of young girls today are just like that...and ignorantly journeing into the ways of women and relationship without knowing these truths will certainly be disatrous ... especially for christian guys who seek to please God and go into a relationship void of the ulterior motive of pre marital sex which Is mostly the only gains of guys in nowadays relationship....

But before I lay out the benefits of the Redpill to Christiam guys .. I'll give a short note about my self....

Well before I became born again I was cut under the web of the things that make women and their bodies as the sole reason for existence...things like pornography and lust etc..things that paint sex as the essence of anything ..

But when I became born again I Became a Redpill to the core without even knowing...I avoided any sexual relationship or material .became more serious with my life and acedemics...and in so doing I invested in myself and became a very serious Christian and a great achiever...so I accomplished a lot in the few years of my emacipation from the desires of women and slavery of the sex drive..and after I accomplished alot .. I began to attract even more young girls to me ...and since I wasn't ready for marriage and I know that a relationship at this point will do me no good...since my only gain would be sex,
seeing that I'm a Christian who seeks only a realtionship leading to marriage I decided to find away to curb this distraction and desires and be more focused in pleasing God and,achieving my Goals..
And that was when I discovered the Redpill Constitution...
Now here are the benefits..

1)As a Christian guy you should be more Focused in achiveing your Goals and pleasing God..instead of frivolities like aimless relationship..
Most young ladies of nowadays hardly live genuinely..they are all very unfaithful and it would be a loss for you ...if you find a young Girl who pretends to have the same religious view as you...but secretly cheats ..while she gains,companionship,commitment and material gains from you...don't be a simp because you are a chrsitian.


2)When you are an achieved male Christian with self dignity...pretty sexy girls don't move you...you decide who you have sex with and that is when you get married and with whom you get married to ...

3)The Redpill as a Christian helps you to overcome the seductions and temptations of women so that you can see clearly to Fufill your destiny on Earth
You understand better the futily of the love that girls profess and how easily it is for them to betray that love once a better or more superior guy comes...dumping your sorry simping ass ..for a more classy wordly guy..

4)the fact that you are a Christian shouldn't make you a simp...don't be a Mr nice guy...the girl you are going to marry should not be disadvantage to you...yes the Redpill makes you understand that as a male who decides to uphold his dignity to stay without random sex..you deserve a the very best of girls..fertile,obedient,helpful and productive, preferably a virgin or one who is a truly a born again Christian void of an oloshoic life stye....yes Christians understand that you deserve the best....not some girls who after years of being used and dumped looks for the nearest nice guy in the person of a Christian brother to dump there woes on....


So my Christian ..don't hate women. At all...but be very wise...cuz most ladies of today are not worth your destiny...be very focused on your goals in life and avoid ..the seductions of these agents of darkness posing as girls ......and when you understand the Redpill...it will be easy to put aside girls till you are ready for marriage.....
And when the time is right God will lead you to a right, perfect and God fearing women...have a nice day
This is upto par.

I like your own application of red piller to christians.
RomanceRe: How I Find Out I Have Been Dating Myself For A Whole Year!! by Dpsychologist: 5:10pm On Nov 22, 2020
Mehn you are in a relationshit not a relationship.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:35pm On Nov 21, 2020
Helios14:
I really appreciate your work @Dpsychologist and everyone who contributed.

I was a major simp before my friend introduced me to this thread and girls knew it. I could be with my friends and a girl could come and ask only me for cash, cos they know I'll give them. my friends would laugh at me. I didn't mind, I thought that was how to get girls.

That stuff you said about greenlight being a trap is so true. The girl I dated last (last year) was a perfect example. She was my course mate and quite pretty, but not someone I would relate to normally. I don't really like light skinned girls, they tend to be egomaniacal. So she started talking to me, even collected my number and all that. Me, mumu, felt it was greenlight, so we started dating. it was hell sha. we only dated for about three months. but all I did in those three months was apologize for no reason. She would get angry for no reason and justify it by saying a girl doesn't need a reason to be angry and her boyfriend should always apologize no matter what. We never had a tender moment, we never kissed, only hugged when I asked for it, was constantly telling me how this and that guy wants to date her and how they're hitting it off. Once, I held her hand in public and she shook it off and asked how many people did I see holding hands. long story short, I lost my dad and grew distant, she broke up with me a month after my dad passed and two weeks after my birthday.
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I turned 20 this year and I've been really big on self improvement. I started working out and I've developed pecs, my abs are popping out and I'll start work on my arms next month. An introvert by nature, I've been trying to socialize, I've also been picking up skills, I currently started a blog, I'm building a WhatsApp TV, learnt Mini importation, but I don't have cash to start that up yet though. And after reading this thread, it might be a while before I start dating again, I have a lot to improve upon.

so once again THANK YOU
You're welcome bro.
Anytime i read something like this. I feel glad to be able to touch lives positively.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:40pm On Nov 18, 2020
Brunosamel:
Brothers in the building, my best friend all his life doesn't know anything about women, he is 26 and still a virgin, have never dated any girl before in his life.. Sometime he seems scared and sometimes he get rejected because he is too nice. He is currently away from home and still not changes...

I got fed up and sent him a TRP link to read, told him I will consult the elder for any questions and comments
You did a good job bro.

I hope he will take this serious.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:38pm On Nov 18, 2020
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The effect

As early as 7 years a boy has started undergoing indoctrination with the feminine imperative. By the time that child is in his teens he has already internalize the social conditioning of the Blue Pill and will start repeating the memes a, behaving and ‘believing’ in accordance with that conditioning.

As an adolescent, when starts to socially interact with the opposite sex, the Blue Pill feminine-conditioning will be evident.

By the time he is in his tweens, the Blue Pill conditioning is so obvious that he sees them as a deductive, and the only way. The Blue Pill internalized ideology will seem natural and logical to them even though they couldn’t tell you how it came to his formative beliefs.

Society will reinforce this conditioning by congratulating him for being more ‘mature’ than his peers.

However he has to face lots of bumps and bruises ahead if he is not guided by a wise older man who knows the merciless mating game, or taken it upon himself to learn about women.

For he is subject to all sorts of manipulation, and indeed many young men become walking wallets and doormats for women. However, society does not see this as manipulation. It is normal.

Only bt following the path less taken and learning the harsh reality about women, he can save himself a lot of hard knocks in the ruthless mating game. The sad thing is that most never got the opportunity and they continue to marriage till they die.
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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:36pm On Nov 18, 2020
[color=maroon] Societal effect (Peers, media, school, etc)
Just as the parent have effect on the child, the society also have a hand. In fact the societal effect is cumbersome. Most children are left to be trained by the society.

Peers
Apart from parents, peers also have a direct effect on the psyche of a child. During puberty a boy find comfort in his peers since no one wants to tell him what is going on. Peers however have strong influence on a child, since most are also blue pill they will share blue pill advice and as such reinforce blue pill conditioning in him.

Media
The media is the most powerful tool used to indoctrinate kids towards the Feminine Imperative. Television is a very strong tool since it affects both our vision and hearing.

As far as a kid can observe what is playing on a TV or in a movie, he starts learning. Remember at this stage children learn by observation.

Cartoons sponsored by Disney, Nickelodeon etc helps in conditioning that came. That is why you will see or hear stories of children even before 10 years simulating marriage, having sex and other vices.

Another medium is through popular music, everyday new songs are released where an artiste declares love to a girl, spending money on her, promising her heaven and earth. Songs from Joe boy, Reekado Banks, Johnny Drill etc will subconsciously affect a child psyche while growing up.

School
In school he is told to be very nice to girls and when he dare disobey he is bitten. As such the child starts simping, his female classmate will ask for money and he will give her.

Girls start seeing the advantage of being feminine and as such continue demanding money from boys to buy sachet water, buns, donut, zobo, plantain chips, popcorn etc. If she is very pretty, boys treat her preferentially. They will give her attention and will want to sit on thesame seat with her.

A story
There was a case of a 12 year old boy who goes home hungry from school everyday because he usually give his money to his classmate to buy something while he stays hungry. It is later that the parent discover he this and went to report to the school. It was then discoved the lad gives the money to a girl.

If you were hardly being beaten in elementary school just know you succeeded in being a simp subconsciously. [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:35pm On Nov 18, 2020
[color=maroon]74.) EARLY YEARS
No one is born a simp. Simping is nurture not nature. We were brought up to support the matrix. —Dpsychologist

The following have effect on a child in his early years:

Parental effect
Just like i highlighted about early years of a man in wine and milk, a boy is mostly left to be a man on his own without a strong male model. This starts becoming evident after puberty.

However, i noticed that men feel shy to tell boys anything during puberty as such the boy is left to discover it himself. Due to the nature of jobs his father is mostly absent, the influence of his mother is more pronounced .

However, most fathers have a microscopic influence on the child. He only talks to him about school, books, hardwork, football etc nothing about women for he himself is oblivious. Even if he gives advice it will be in accord with the feminine imperative.

Feminine-primary parenting even in absence of the parents can come from their friends’ parents, even extended family members or relatives.
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RomanceRe: 20 Life Paradoxes That Are True by Dpsychologist(op): 7:15pm On Nov 17, 2020
Here are some honourable mentions not on the list;


¶ "All animals are equal, but some are more equal than others" :
George Orwell was making a political statement here. Perhaps it's that the government claims everyone is equal when, clearly, that's false. Not everyone is equal before the law.

¶ Death, thou shalt die:
On the surface, this seems absurd Quite the contrary, though, what this means is that, upon death, heaven is imminent. And, in heaven, death shall die, because you are no longer at the mercy of your inevitable demise.


¶ I must be cruel to be kind : On the surface, once again, this statement doesn't seem to make much sense. The fact is that in Life if you allow yourself to be a push over its game over.

Here are others

¶ You Save money by spending it.

¶ If I know one thing, it's that I know nothing.

¶ You education begins after graduation

¶ Deep down, we are really shallow.

¶ "Men work together whether they work together or apart." - Robert Frost

¶ Here are the rules: Ignore all rules.

¶ The second sentence is false. The first sentence is true.

¶ We miss those who do not miss us.

¶ This is the beginning of the end.
RomanceRe: 20 Life Paradoxes That Are True by Dpsychologist(op): 6:59pm On Nov 17, 2020
ubunja:
Looks like you repeated number 2.
Thanks for that observation, I just corrected it.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:05pm On Nov 17, 2020
prodige001:
Gracias Dpsychologist


I have come to understand that women are biologically HYPERGERMOUS

And men are POLYGAMOUS

hence a man can't be a loser (simp) and achieve polygamy...

as far as a man is a success, his polygamy is viewed as power

But for a man to be a success, polygamy MUST NOT be his goal

And a loser's(simp) attempt to polygamy is treated with great disdain and maliciousness

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Women are attracted to men who bewray tendencies of being polygamous( not necessarily practically polygamous)
This is good
CelebritiesRe: Chelsea Eze Celebrates Her 35th Birthday With Sultry Photos by Dpsychologist: 1:58pm On Nov 17, 2020
How does celebrating birthdays relate to uncladness. These Celebrities are something else.
RomanceRe: 20 Life Paradoxes That Are True by Dpsychologist(op): 1:54pm On Nov 17, 2020
softguy1:
this is awesome!!

very soon we will move to:

How to attain power,

How to make people love you

and much more...
I am planning on opening a thread on attaining power, however it is going to be controversial.
RomanceRe: 20 Life Paradoxes That Are True by Dpsychologist(op): 12:25pm On Nov 17, 2020
donbachi:
Thanks.u just made my day.
Uwc
RomanceRe: Lady Breaks Up With Her Boyfriend After Training Her Through Nursing School (Pix by Dpsychologist: 12:03pm On Nov 17, 2020
Those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat them.
Romance20 Life Paradoxes That Are True by Dpsychologist(op):

A paradox is a statement that may seem contradictory but can be true (or at least make sense). This makes them stand out and play an important role in literature and everyday life.

Some of the most important truths in life are contradictory on the surface. They seem like impossibilities, yet experience proves them to be obvious over and over again. It is when you look a bit deeper, beneath the surface contradictions, that the wisdom becomes glaring.
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Below are 20 paradoxes I’ve come across which are, paradoxically, still true:

1. The more you learn, the more you realize how little you know. Every time you gain a greater understanding, it creates even more questions than it answers.

2. The more you try to impress people, the less impressed they’ll be. Nobody likes a desperado.


3. The more afraid you are of death, the less you’ll be able to enjoy life. How well you live your life is about courage.

4. The more you fail, the more likely you are to succeed. Edison tried over 10,000 prototypes before getting the lightbulb right. Michael Jordan got cut from his high school team but now one of the greatest basketballer of all time. Success comes from improvement and improvement comes from failure. There’s no shortcut around it ( i have recently written a book on this)

5. The more you’re afraid to fail, the more likely you are to fail. What you are afraid of can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

6. The more something scares you, the more you should probably do it. With the exception of genuinely life-threatening or physically harmful activities, our fight-or-flight response kicks in when we’re confronted with past traumas or actualizing the self we dream of being. For instance: speaking to an attractive person, going for a job interview, public speaking, starting a business, saying something controversial, being painfully honest with somebody, etc., etc. These are all things that make you scared, and they make you scared because they are things that should be done.

7. The more you hate a trait in someone else, the more likely you are avoiding it in yourself. Carl Jung believed that characteristics in others that bother us are reflections of the parts of ourselves that we deny. For example,the man who’s insecure about his money will criticize others for theirs.

8. The less you care about others, the less you care about yourself. I know this may go against every perception you’ve ever had , but people treat people the way they treat themselves. It may not be apparent on the outside, but people who are cruel to the people around them are cruel to themselves.

9.The more available something is, the less you will want it. Humans have a strong scarcity bias. We unconsciously assume things that are scarce are valuable and things that are abundant are not. This is not the case.

10. The more choices you have, the less satisfied you are with each one. This is the “paradox of choice.” Research shows that when we’re presented with more options, we become less satisfied with any particular one we go with. The theory is that when we have so many options, we have greater opportunity costs to selecting each particular one; therefore, we’re less happy with our decision.

11. The harder you push for something, the harder it will feel to achieve. When we expect something to be difficult, we often unconsciously make it more difficult. For instance, many years ago, I assumed starting a conversation with a stranger was something that was highly abnormal and therefore “difficult.” Little did I realize all I had to do was say “Hi” and then ask a simple question; that would get me 90% of the way there. But because it felt hard, I proceeded to make it hard for myself.

12. Less is more. How can less be more? The concept is that something less complicated is often more appreciated.

13. The best way to meet someone else is to not need to be with someone else. The fact remains that the best way to find a relationship — committed or otherwise — is by not needing a relationship to be happy and investing more in yourself.

14. The more honest you are about your faults, the more people will think you’re perfect. The amazing thing about vulnerability is the more comfortable you are about not being that great, the more people will think you are.

15. The more you try to keep someone close, the further away you’ll push them. If your girlfriend feels obligated to spend her weekends with you, then the time you spend together has become meaningless. Let being with you be a choice not obligations.

16. The more you try to argue with someone, the less likely you are to convince them of your perspective. The reason for this is that most arguments are emotional in nature. They come from someone’s values or self-perceptions being violated. Logic is only used to validate those pre-existing beliefs and values. It’s rarely about the objective or logical truth as much as it is repairing people’s worldviews. For any real debate to truly exist, both parties must be making an honest concession to put their egos aside and only deal with the data. This is rare, as anyone who’s spent any time on an internet forum could tell you.

17. The more convinced someone is that they’re right, the less they probably know. There’s a direct correlation between how open a person is to differing perspectives and how much that person actually knows about any given subject. Or as the philosopher Bertrand Russell once said: “The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.”

18. The more connected we get, the more isolated we feel. Despite being in more constant communication than ever via social media, research finds an increase in loneliness and depression in the world over the past few decades.

19. The only certainty is that nothing is ever certain. This realization almost made my head explode when I entered my tween.

20. The only constant is change. Nothing is permanent it must always change. You are not thesame person you were 10years ago.


Cc
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RomanceRe: Nollywood Actress Slammed For Saying Guys Should Pay Before Talking To Ladies by Dpsychologist: 10:51am On Nov 17, 2020
The Height of ladies entitlement is out of this world.
Jokes EtcRe: Which Wealth Status Do You Belong To? by Dpsychologist(op): 12:57pm On Nov 16, 2020
Tinyemeka:
I don't understand.
Is it monthly income or net worth?
Networth
Foreign AffairsRe: Wonders As Egypt Unveils 100 Coffins From Over 2500 Years Ago Still Intact (Pix) by Dpsychologist: 8:56pm On Nov 15, 2020
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon] Why people are against the red pill
The allegory of taking the red pill is one of an awakening. Feminization was everywhere.
Most men feel offended after noticing this. To see that things weren’t as ‘normal’ as women would like them to think.

A lot of men never get past this programming and never unplug. It’s just too embedded in “who they are”, and the resulting internal conflict will prompt them to deny the realities of their condition and sometimes actively fight others who challenge the normalcy they need in order to exist.
Once you become unplugged you began to notice other patterns and interwoven social agenders that promotes fem-centrism.

From the gender bias in military drafting for war (only men to die in war since they are disposable) and down to the smallest details such as ladies first. [/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon] The matrix

it’s important to see the Matrix for what it really is. The next occasion you encounter even a well-meaning woman’s (or feminized man’s) opinions about life, relationships, marriage, having babies, religion, etc. understand that her perceptions are based in this reality.

She’s correct because her beliefs line up with what the framework of her reality reinforced in her as correct. Any other frame of reference is either utterly alien to her at best, wicked and evil at worst.

A woman’s existential imperative, her happiness, her contentment, her protection, her provisioning, her empowerment, literally anything that benefits the feminine is not only encouraged socially, but in most cases mandated by law.

Ironically, most doctors require a wife’s written consent to perform a vasectomy on a married man; not because of a legal mandate, but rather to avoid legal retaliations and damages from a man’s wife. By hook or by crook, her imperative is the correct one.[/color]
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
[color=maroon] For one gender to realize their sexual imperative the other must sacrifice their own. This is the rootsource of power the feminine imperative uses to establish its own reality as the normative one. From this flows the rules of engagement for dating / mating, operative social conventions used to maintain cognitive dominance, and laws and legalities that bind society to the benefit of the feminine. From this is derived men’s default status as the ‘disposable’ sex, while women are the protected sex. It’s this root that the imperative uses to excuse (not apologize for) the most blatant inconsistencies and atrocities of women. - Rollo tomassi

Gynocentrism , female hypoagency and solipsism , the collective feminine imperative coalesces into public policies that make it easier for women to choose men and be provided for, practically funding their lifesryle(by men directly or indirectly via the state and taxes). Anything that counteracts the collective feminine imperative is seen as evil, and increasingly even criminal.

The collective feminine imperative tends to be at odds with the masculine imperative and vice-versa (sexual conflict ), meaning when women establish cultural practices that improve their sexual success, it tends to diminish the sexual success of at least some men.


Since women's minds are entirely absorbed by their imperative, they keep various beta orbiters around to serve her needs with no inclination for reciprocity.

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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:41pm On Nov 15, 2020
In Rollo Tomassi's Rational Male, he shared a story as follows:

"Recently I listened to an advice radio talk show where a woman called in emotional distress with her husband’s actions. Apparently she’d dated the man for a year or two before marriage and they talked about how neither wanted children from the outset.

Prior to the marriage both agreed, no kids, that is until about a year into their marriage the wife had secretly gone off the pill and made deliberate efforts in her sexual activities with her husband in order to conceive. Trouble was she wasn’t getting pregnant. Only later did the man confess that he’d had a vasectomy so as not to risk having kids with any woman he paired up with.

The ensuing indignation wasn’t directed at the woman’s admitted duplicity and covert efforts to deceive her husband into thinking she’d had an accidental pregnancy, but rather all the fires of hell were concentrated on this man’s alleged deception of her.

This serves as a prime example of how the feminine reality frames the directions of our lives. Publicly and privately, not even an afterthought was spared for the woman’s motivation and desperate measures to achieve her sexual imperative because the feminine imperative is normalized as the correct goal of any conflict."

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