₦airaland Forum

9jvirgin:
90% of the revenue generated in Lagos has been stolen and invested in Lekki, Victoria Island and Banana Island. This is why Lagos can never be prosperous.

Lagos is getting there. The 5th largest economy in Africa is not a mean fit. If other states got the money, they will invest in their girlfriends Dubai trip.

Yeye Bello wants to be president of Nigeria. I laugh in Igbira language ahahah!

Opening a can of worms for Governors who have been embezzling security votes.

The people of the fake religion will not take note of this. Small time they will shout “holy ghost fire”!!!The only religion with your creator is Islam. In it is all power and grace. The rest is deception and scam.

Well, if you were Muslim I would have been able to explain better using Islamic principles.

longetivity:
I blame it on the return of TINUBU

Another IPOB spotted! All haters of Tinubu shall take snippets or hug a live transformer supplying the whole country or get roasted in a furnace or get squashed on railway line. Say amen!

Yehyeh Bello. Yehyeh dey smell. What are his achievements in Kogi. He is climbing the horse that is cockroach.

fourboys:
the actual bombers in US are all Muslims

They bombed Hiroshima? I see!

fourboys:
99pct are Muslims

I didn’t know Americans are Muslims. Lol.

fourboys:
beheading and throwing bombs nko??

Are you still talking this nonsense? Bombing millions with nuclear bomb, is that not worse? Who did it, was it Muslims?

nairavsdollars:
Why is Islamic religion so intolerant and hateful of women so much?

How has Christianity loved the women pastors are raping on daily basis? In which religion is rape of women more common? How many churches do you know that are battling with sexual scandals? You are definitely bigoted and full of hatred. That’s why your jaundiced assessment does not hold water.

fourboys:
I watched the video earlier today, danm they nearly killed those guys.... Islam na cancer to humanity, if they are not killing dey are bombing, now dey don include serious flogging

This is the most stupid statement I have ever heard or read from a someone I could have mistaken for a mentally deranged person. Do we not see and hear of how pastors and father GOs are raping and dehumanising women of their church? Has the Catholic Church not been found guilty of sexual assault of young boys in western countries by their governments? Has the pope not apologised for systematic cover up of sexual abuse? If you admit those facts, then what do you call Christianity?

Omicron007:



This Old sick drug dealer has returned.
Maybe he has come to continue herbal treatment in Nigeria here.

This man would never smell Aso rock no matter how hard he tries.

Another IPOB spotted!!!

Risingblue008:
This expired druged man never still die?
Or he dey find souls wey go follow am go die?
What's is he still doing?

IPOB spotted!!!

dmaze:
Salaam alaykum warahmatullah ta'aala wabarakatu.

Thank you for this beautiful reminder.

I have a question- what happens in a case where both the Imam and the people praying behind him are all travellers, and say they have to read the 2 o' clock prayers; do they shorten the prayer to 2 rakats or must pray the whole complete 4 rakats?reminder.

All travellers can pray in Jamaat and pray Qos’r as jamaat.

Nephrotic Syndrome until proven otherwise.

ImmaculateJOE:
They should post video where Chiwetalu Agu was campaigning for IPOB.
All we saw was a Biafran garment and its never a crime to wear clothes with Biafra logo on it.

The Biafra garment has been replaced with prison garment. What’s wrong in that?

GeneralPula:
That’s good..

Better than people wasting millions on burials..

How can you use Yahoo Plus money for humanitarian projects? You want Satan to fire them?

Maxymilliano:
Why not start the official launch in London hospital to show Tinubu is serious ?

IPOB spotted!

TheSupleemLeada:
Yes, I was referring the Lagos metro line that buhari stopped in the 1980s and cost tax payers billions of dollars and slowed down Lagos development. Your baba buhari didn't do anyone a favor doing the Lagos ibadan railway in fact it's what is due to us and it was even constructed with Chinese loan which means it's tax payers that are going to pay back. You can't decieve anyone.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/37-years-after-lagos-metro-line-aborted-by-buhari-still-hurting/%3famp

We needed to know why Buhari stopped the metro line project. But if he did bad then, he has made some correction now and you must acknowledge that. Taking loans to do good things must also be commended. After all, Obasonjo and Jonathan took loans, what did they do with the loans?

You need engine servicing.

JustNumb:
Hey guys I'll just be brief.

Straight to the point.

My wife is having an emotional affair.

Whats making it worse?

It's with a pastor with wife and children. Her pastor when she was in another state.

Now they're both in different states.

How did I know?

I saw her chat with him about 2+ years ago, and saw all the sweet name calling, the pet names and how they tell each other their activities of the day and even marital problems.

All the red flags and checklist of an emotional affair have been ticked by them.

The only thing remaining is the sexual part.

We've been married for some years now, she was a virgin when I married her though I'm 100% sure they have not met since we got married.

But the issue here is that this is causing serious friction in our marriage.

When I first saw it, I gave some time to be sure and I confronted her and she denied and said he's just her pastor (denial is one of the checklist).

Some months later they didn't stop the communication, I was about to tell her mum cos she visited. She pleaded and I let it slide.

Fast forward to 2021 they are still in communication. This time around the so called pastor is even always reminding her to clear chats so I won't see it.

Now emotional affair is actually worse than sexual affair
This pastor has a wife. I just pity the wife cos I can imagine how she would also be feeling.

I provide for the home, I also had to change from biz to the one that makes me travel to something that makes me work from home so she won't say it's cos I'm not always around.

We struggle with our sex life. What do I mean? She doesn't like sex. She doesn't mind if we stay 1 year without sex.

But me I'm a man with sexual needs.

Now when I see the way she doesn't like sex and I remember this emotional affair, it drives me crazy.


Those who have passed thru this, how did you overcome this challenge?
I don't want a broken home for my children cos sometimes I feel like calling her people and telling them to take their daughter back. Infact I'll dash them the bride price.

Do I go and get a side chick? But that won't solve my problem.

Guys come to my aid.

Cos if we discuss this again, this will be the 3rd time we're talking about same issue and same guy.

Sorry wasn't brief

Have you discussed your sexual issues with her? Have you identified the problem with her? Most times sexual incompatibility is the cause of women looking out for other men. Just like it happens to men too. You already suggested a side chick for yourself. You need to stop the conversation between them by drawing a line in the sand. Your wife is very daring and stubborn because she wanted to eat her cake and have it. If she doesn’t stop the communication, consider a divorce, however hard it may be. Else you will come back to tell us how he has been shining your wife Congo for ages without your knowledge.

obynzo:
Bros please list Jonathan's cabinet and their ethnicity let us analyse it. These lies must stop we are being marginalized even Jonathan tried to redress them and he met stiff opposition from northerners. You say i made false allegations on the bolded. So the lie you gave that Singapore is landlocked is true abi!!!!!!!!! a country that has shipping yards to fabricate oil rigs and ships!!!!!!!!!! so when they produce the ships and oil rigs they tow it by road abi!!!!! Bros easy with your lies abeg.

Does Singapore have oil? Does Singapore depend on oil wealth? How many wealthy countries have oil? Your brain is your endowment to change the world with your hands. Minerals do not help many corrupt countries, Nigeria inclusive. Use your brains and hands to change your states in the east. Elect good leaders based on merits and achievement, not based on primordial considerations. That’s my piece of advice.

You can’t start discussing medical problem of another person on NL. Let them see a proper gynaecologist for medical advice.

obynzo:
To sum these up no one is blaming anyone we know what we are saying that there is no equity at all in governance and development. Oji river power station was deliberately left to rot when Afam1 was refurbished after the war and you tell me it was not deliberate!!!!!!!! There are several other instances that i would not talk about. How many times has FG deliberately blocked Anambra state government from revamping Oji river Power station in Buhari's era. Oga please if you don't know anything just shut up

Can I ask you just one question: who were the majority tribe in power when Jonathan ruled for 5 years? Obviously they were the Igbo politicians. All Yorubas were marginalised. We did not cry blue murder. And what did all your Igbo brothers do to address the problems you stated? Nothing. That’s why Biafra is a mirage. Selfishness is the problem of your people. Nobody is maginalising them. And all your answers in bold are false to everyone who has the knowledge. I rest my case.

Gbedulord:
Sharrap 70years old man behaving like a kid

Sorry o! You are in sifiaa pain for hearing the truth. Yes, truth is bitter. When next you want to destroy things, go back to your state and destroy the infrastructure there. Leave Lagos alone. Carry your bag and movey out of Lagos. We don’t need bad belle people in Lagos. We want business minded and forward looking people.

obynzo:
You just exhibited your daftiness in HD. first of all Lagos got all its fame because it was once a federal capital territory and it benefitted from the blockade of the eastern region during the war when gowon diverted shipping to Lagos. After the war Gowon didn't expand the eastern ports but rather expanded Apapa port and built Tincan Island port. as a result 90% of commercial activities in Nigeria moved to Lagos. That is the marginalization. you want to use narrow guage to build the eastern railway instead of standard guage to encourage commercial activities via large movement of goods to PH that is marginalization. If the eastern ports are expanded and modernized i bet you Lagos will be deserted. if a law is passed that Oil companies site the HQ in areas of operation you will see how Lagos will be deserted or the Law is passed for service companies to site HQ close to seat of power.
80% of all structures in Lagos are federal it is even so appalling that with the high IGR we are still in the same topic of smart city after Fashola left.

You are 100% wrong in your analysis. You lack knowledge and I will teach you. First of all, your colonial mentality is exhibited in woeful proportions here. The idea that Lagos was capital is basically nonsensical because Calabar was capital of Nigeria before Lagos, where is Calabar today? Which structures of the capital are still there today? Show me the federal structures in Lagos that you do not have in other states. Oil companies are the minuscule of those doing business in
Lagos. And they will always situate anywhere there is no security challenges and manpower is available. Lagos is also an oil producing state anyway. When financial headquarters are situated in London, it’s the investment friendliness that attracted them, along with availability of manpower etc. Businesses are not situated based on ethnic origin or sources of production. Offices are located elsewhere while the production areas are located in the areas of resource base. Go back to school and learn why businesses situate their headquarters in certain places. You ask your governors to be investor friendly snd provide necessary infrastructure to attract investors. Stop blaming others for your woes. Lagos had no railway like other states until Buhari came. Even the Lagos /Ibadan rail is still in infancy. That’s not contributing nothing to the growth of Lagos at present. The ports you mention is not belonging to Lagos state and the state does not take revenue from the ports. Onne Port is there, other ports are open in east by Buhari, why do your brothers still prefer to berth their cargos in Lagos? Go back to school and learn basic economics. Many countries are landlocked like Singapore and yet are fast developing due to good leadership. How long will you continue to blame past events on your underdevelopment? This is slavery mentality. Your leaders are your problems, not the ports. Not the federal structures that are not even there anymore in Lagos. Not any federal presence. You can a huge change with visionary leadership which you don’t have at present. Stop blaming others for your woes. Blame yourselves for not having good leaders among your people.

If Lagos secede from Nigeria it will be better. It will even grow better than Singapore. Thank God we have forward looking leaders who have been given a blueprint for development and they are following it to the letter, while IPOB terrorists are busy destroying their own territory like cretins with no brains. The federal government has not held back your leaders from moving your states forward. But all your leaders want is how to steal money from federal purse. That’s why they are shouting marginalisation upandan. How many lagosians are holding positions in Abuja.? Have those lagosians done anything or brought money from the federation account to develop Lagos? The answer is NO. Nobody is maginalising you. It’s your leaders that are complete failures. That’s where your problems are. IPOB are you hearing me? Una nugo?

MyOleSolksjaer:
Dear All,

I need your candid advise on these matters that touch the heart. I got married last year to the mother of my beautiful daughter sometime in August last year during the COVID lock down. The marriage was against my wishes and due to parental pressure. Prior to marrying my wife, I was doing a good job by making sure I take good care of my daughter and the mom. My daughter just turned 2 in July and has already started going to school. My wife and I met online and started dating immediately after our first sexual encounter. Along the line she got pregnant and we started having misunderstandings. We both decided we will keep the baby because I made a vow with God not to abort any child with any woman I impregnate.

However, to cut the story short we both agreed we won't get married and her parents were cool with it as long as I take care of their daughter and my child. Then came COVID and during the events of the lockdown, I entered into a relationship with a Chemical Engineer that earns a 7 figure monthly salary. The relationship lasted for months but my mom never supported the relationship and did everything to make sure I break up with this lovely lady in a bid to marry my baby mama. I was against it knowing fully well that she is very quarrelsome and dramatic. I had inner peace with my lockdown girlfriend. Till now I still miss her and want to be with her despite being married to my wife who is always looking for ways to suspect me for one thing or the other. She has even threatened that if she catch me cheating, she will cheat back.

My marriage for the past 1 year has been full of problems, drama, and even attempted violence. My wife just graduated from Uni and is about to go in for her NYSC. I am even praying she gets posted out of Lagos preferably the North. This marriage has drained me of all my resources and has taken away a lot from me. My wife doesn't appreciate the good I do for her and my daughter. She is always quick to judge me and criticize for every small mistake I make. She nags all the time and always want to pick a fight for bullshit reasons. I don't find my wife attractive anymore and I have lost every desire to have sex with her from the first day we married in August last year.

She gets upset when female colleagues at work call me. I had considered resigning because we had an issue over my boss at work who always calls me for work related stuff. I am not on good terms with my mom because she engineered this marriage against my own wishes. My wife and I don't have a good relationship. It has gotten so bad that we don't sleep in the same room anymore. I had to leave the house for some time to stay in an accommodation provided by my work place so I can have inner peace and regain my sanity.

I am so pained because of my relationship that ended abruptly. I tried getting back with my Ex whom I still love but now she doesn't want to have anything to do with me despite how much I still love her. My question is, should I still try to win my ex over or find another woman? As for my marriage, I consider it dead and over. I don't care what my parents particularly my mom will do. I don't bleeping care anymore. All I want is my love to come back to my life and end this toxic marriage.

Next time you don’t go about fu..king people anyhow when you know you are not marrying them. Wait fir your time to marry the love of your life.