₦airaland Forum

Davash222:
The Malaysia returnee need to work on his taste for women.

walai,,

chiddyok:
No ooo. I’m not a feminist ooo. I like money and care, and I know you will take care of me. I don’t know how to wash but I can cook and keep house, I’ll bring my washing machine when I’m coming. I’m also working. Should I call the wedding planner?

[quote author=chiddyok post=88801369]Are you single? Husband material much. [/quote[center][/center] ] am single ooo,,, come and pay my bride price

Bola146:
Yes , if you get married to your best friend

. This na normal slogan,,it's just like saying "abia state is Gods own state

Expensiverichyb:
Why? Are you fully convinced it's the right advise to follow?

using my parents as case study ,,yes am fully convinced it's not worth it

cricifixo:
I am married and can tell you its not worth it.
If its kids you need, get pregnant & have as much kids as you want, i regret going into it in the first place

ve been following dis advice for long

Biglittlelois:
And they have arrived.....

my sister. Na OP get em prrick ,,he can use it whenever,wherever and however he feels like using it D ,

IdiAminDada:
Blaming her for my actions, no way. I blame her for making me want to divorce. These are two separate things.

What is the title of the thread?

You think I am happy?

Hell, I am strolling out right now, there countless of girls I could call now and sleep with and return home in 30mins.

Am I going to do it, hell no! Since the lockdown, there was a girl that has been asking my friend after me. I heard and voice yesterday at the bar, I took off immediately.

If want to fvck, do you think I will be run when I heard her voice? That life is not me. I slipped once or twice but its not what I want to do like 95% of the posters here suggest. A lot people in Nigeria today take this misunderstanding thing too far. I am battling one at home and its a general problem here on NL. I hate to misunderstood but you can't avoid it on NL.

If you meet my friends, they will tell you I am the different one, the good guy that returns to his wife. A friend of mine easily gets drunk, I thought him how to control his drinking since he notice I am the 1st to stand up and go. They laugh and make jest of me but I still stand up leave them and go home. I open the door, insults. Then I feel like going back to doing what she actually thinks am doing or coming from, but its not me so even if she pushes me, I will not do what I don't want to do.

The only reason I am posting here and not talking to her about it is that her reaction will be totally different from what you will expect if I sit her down to confess and clear things up. Its not as if she will not forgive, but that will become a daily keynote and she will not move on from there.

I wrote a lot of things but the only thing everyone sees is that I cheated. It kind of pushes everything to the background but does it really?

my own problem no be d cheating. "No be only u keee Jesus,we plenty for here" I pray u get something doing, so ur woman no go make d house so uncomfortable for u ,

Ohemababy:
Honestly

yeah him no go get car wey go give am money and friends go dey fuel car for am,,

Uber work sef go keep am very very busy,,

IdiAminDada:
I just created this alternate moniker to hide my identity.

My life is in shambles, I have little joy, broke with 3 kids and a wife who is actually supportive, loves me but is ignorant and incomprehensive. I believe I have develop thick skin to the challenges life has thrown at me. I still remain hopeful for a better life ahead. That's my effort in summarizing my issues.

Before I proceed, I am not a saint or anything near perfect. I am aware that Nairalanders have a penchant for doing more harm than good by dishing insults against reasonable advice or words of encouragement. Nonetheless, I will state my own issues to be fair to her so it will not be a one sided complain. I will expect bashing for my part of the troubles.

What I expect is to read helpful replies that can serve as encouragement since divorce is not an option for me.

I am not good in writing short stories so it will be long.

use that ur car dey uber for a start

ovieigho:
may God forgive you o

[center][/center] . . Ur holier than Jesus christ and d Pope joined together

ovieigho:
when I see people like you talk ills of men of God I tried to trace your profile to see what is actually wrong ? For one to be so bold to touch the propehts of God ? I bet my findings are mostly the same ..

You all live a frustrated and miserable lives .
You can see this one suicide thought has dominated his mind **SMH**

. Prophets of men u mean?

oyejideogunjumo:
I think our leaders will learn their lesson now. Hospitals had been grossly neglected over the years. I am sure they never thought of a time when they wont be able to travell out like this. Let the 6 geopolitical regions get at least one world standard hospital each. Such a case like this will be adequately handled

Our leaders never learn, once coro gets cure now ,everything will go back as usual,.

No new hospitals
No payment of salaries
No maintenance of hospitals
No purchase of new hospital equipment.

ovieigho:
even if Nigerian govt lift the lockdown today
I don't think they have put anything in place to stop the spread...

so person that works in computer village and other big markets will go back to work as usual after lock down...??

Nigerians please enjoy your lockdown while the govt wait on western world for signal either to let you out or not

Y wait for western worldI thought our fake daddy G O them who can turn water to WIne will come to our rescue ??

invest in catapilla business

fargo

. Men dey carry their money buy plenty problems sometimes their deaths

tojahh:
You think danfo drivers are worse?

Truck drivers are in champions league of frustrating the owner.

so uber boys dey learn work coro boys still be apprentice for story telling

lefulefu:
exactly
financial gains and attention
as a single guy u wont be dat desperate to spend all ur salary on a girl but then there are many married men who would even spend their whole pension on a sidechick.i know one man who abandoned his wife and children and bought one big land for one 24 yr old single mom and he is training the lady"s child in school but this same man has no land of his own and he is renting one face me i face u .Tell me which single guy will be as foolish as that .

Abeg the man mumu na natural inborn mumu or jazzed mumu?

Haven't made up my mind on what day to commit d suicide but someday

He no go remember boiz for football section

Samrocker:
I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag . But she made it known to me how Really bad her boyfriend is treating her .
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on his boy despite all my try and effort to win her heart to me!


Fast forward to 100L second semester .. she call me on phone and ask if I was around that she have something to tell me.... She came to me sobbing really bad and crying ... She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and ask for a breakup...


I felt sorry for her because that she narrate how she was dis-virgin by the guy ..


So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......


It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month her ex came with his new car to see her at home ....

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should i do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys.

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. Leave woman and read ur book so u become financially okay like d Ex ,the earlier u understand dat the girl will leave u and go back to the ex,the better for u


Women love money more than jesus

Millenniumlady:
Why do men finds it difficult move on i still don't get it yes you spend on her did she force you ? Dem put gun for your head ? Oga take your L and go away........set awong we die here

. I support u on this one. ,men must get sense

aeion:
You absolutely did the right thing to caution your mom. Her physical, verbal and emotional abuse of the girl will do a number to the girl's self-esteem/mental health if she doesn't stop. Please continue to stand up for the girl!

I don't understand how anyone can hate a child! It takes a cold-hearted, evil person to treat a child like this.

most naija women RE like that,,I don see them taya,,any body wey em mama dey alive should thank God,,,to go live any body wey no be ur mama ehn,,, ur body go hear am

warriboy21:
Hello fam pls which reliable site can I stream for free. We don’t really have time to download here in us .

I need to see homeland and killing eve

Btw I recommend ozark.. suspense and acting is 10/10..
My favorite character was darlene � dat woman razz

. I don dey watch dis ozark episode one and two I dey struggle to grasp d movie,,,is narcos Mexico interesting?

Bigleaf1006:
With the contemporary e hailing business model in Nigeria. You are partially right.However I feel many of us are doing it the wrong way.

There are also car rental companies abroad that people use for e hailing and it works but here the reverse seems to be the case.

. What are many of us doing wrongly?

Liliantalks:
babe u said fact, they pay more attention to ur feelings and emotions, they r Married but know how to make u feel wanted and appreciated, They r good listeners , and yes better givers. Getting men of all those qualities combined is very very hard.

will jesus come if they pay that more attention to their wife's feeling and emotions?..don't u think if they pay more attention to their wife's emotions,there won't be any need to start chasing single girls hup han Dan?

nokatakata:
How about married men staying with their wives and stop running after women. If there is no receiver, there will be no giver.

A lot of married men especially elderly men are ready to phuck any woman they see. Married men will see a young lady who just got married and will continue to disturb her. They never give up especially when they have money. Your old politicians and rich men are destroying plenty marriages of young couples because they have money to throw around. They will frustrate the woman and stalk her everywhere just because they want to phuck...in the process of stalking, they will scatter the marriage. A lot of men pretend a lot, them like phuck pass oxygen. Them not dey for comot eyes ..whether young ,old, married, single, them go must wan phuck. Many of your pastors, well respected CEO, Directors, philanthropist, motivational speakers are on this table. Them pretend pass devil but like towtow die...

Towtow dey sweet sha! Na lack of self control for men dey cause all the wahala.

[center][/center]. The day I hear my pastor escapades with female church members ,,I just weak,,,them Nick name pastor MC HAmmmer

;Di[color=#770077][/color] if married woman giv me totoo,I will vandalise it since am not going to marry then no man will vandalise my wife ttoto

Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?

since he borrowed d first one and Paid back then lend him d money if hunger keeeee him u will miss dat his long chuku chuku

X0012:
The shit is unexplainable

be like na to open another thread so that husbands wey ignore red flags go come tell us y dem ignore am

[quote author=goodoo post=88698648]They failed to understood the old man proverb.[/quote ] the old man will just been Wondering the mumuritized mumu level of the guy