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BAZ001:According to an article I read on nairaland. Mike Adenuga, wakes up early and does not leave his office till 1 a.m. the next day.. And the man is close to 60 years old at least. I wonder how is blood pressure is ..... |
Eizenburg:Have send my email and whatapps number.. The G25 I just got it ,if am going to swap it ,it will be doing the summer time . But on the condition that I see a clean g35 or 37 to replace it with |
BAZ001:The billionaires of yesterday came from humble beginnings.. Before you know it these younger ones u looking might become transport magnet in the future ,or better yet ehailing might lead them into something bigger or better ways to improve the business.. After all the guy that started uber ,started with an idea while he was waiting for taxi to pick him up..certain situations can lead to other things, but you have to start somewhere. Another example, how did you think I got started with importing engine oil. It all started with e-hailing and I notice that my cars were always breaking down , and I found out that wrong engine oil and low quality was the cause of it .. So I decided to import my engine oil for my own personal use and than I realize that I can sell it to other partners and car owners.. And now I can't even meet up with demands.. But it all started from somewhere... The little man you see now , can become a giant 2morrow .. |
Eizenburg:Yes for real bro ..... |
Eizenburg:Well done ..biko send me your account make I credit you 3k naira, make you use am buy airtime for ur phone |
calabardick:And that's how the weak learn.. I was on prey few times ,but you learn as you go... drivers have prey on me few times. But I learn and try not to make same mistake, employer prey on my inexperience by offering me low wages at one point in my career.. But still I take as a learning experience... they are no excuses in life bro |
Gentlelife50:Haha yes I know now ..me too am catching fun now |
Carshopper:Lol ...lol very true bro . That time I was a quiet guy for nairaland unlike now .. Very true bro. We go way back ..this life sha ,you never know ...So true.... |
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Mayor555:My brother if I tell you ....I understand ordinary Nigerians very well too well ,from personal stories to stories from others.. Let me tell you my own story ....story story story story o.... I started investing in Nigerian in the early 2000.. This is when the Lagos government was developing Ajar,lekki and sand filling the area. So I decided to invest in Tipper business and bought about 7 Mack dump truck within a period of 2 years. Mack trucks were cheaper during those times. It cost about 550k naira to clear a 20ft ton dump truck at that time ,now is about close to 1 million . So I called my childhood friend and I explain to him what I wanted to do . So we set up a company and I made him a business partner. I gave him 40% of the company and I kept 60% of it . Long story short that business was a disaster, my friend could not manage the business, he complain that he needed a car to monitor the drivers. I bought him a car tokunbo car ,but stories kept coming, he couldnt account for the money , I went through hell during those period, because I collected loan for those trucks .... It got to a point that I had to get my family involve, for me to collect my leftover trucks. When my family found out I was mocked at and made fun at. I was told that you don't leave a business with Nigerians and expect things to go well. This your friends has never struggle for money before, how do you want expect a person that has never made a million naira before to handle that type of money . And at the time those trucks were delivering about 50k naira a day . Each truck delivering 50k naira a day times 7 ,you do the math.. So my family now got involve, before that I had to pay for a lawyer and he was arrested ..He slept in Jail for three days .. Than is older brother had to bail him out and sign an undertaken to resolve the issues. So when both family sat down to discuss the situation.. They ask him where are the trucks ? He said he sold them all and spend the money etc .. So the family said they will settle for 1million naira to give me .. Which is nothing, that 1million naira took about 1 year plus for them to pay. It got to a point that they stop paying money and I arrange for him to get locked up again. So in order not to give their mother high blood pressure and avoid policemen embarrassing them at their homes again. The two older brothers finally paid their last installment. Now a lot of you guys might say this. That the guy was new into the business and there are Challenges in starting a new business etc. But few things that I found out during those period .. I will not get into details, but I hire an investigator to monitor him .. Stories were getting to me that this guy got a girl pregnant and had two kids etc . Which he didn't tell me , when he was dating his baby mama he bought her things clothes and showered her with gifts etc. He was known around the area has a big boy . He was telling people that he owns the business etc . And I was told he will just enter bar and pay for drinks for everyone.. They said the boy was a big boy o . The one thing that made me to take action before I hired someone to spy on him .. Facebook .... Out of boredom I starting looking at his Facebook page. I saw in posted up chilling in clubs drinking and enjoying himself but mean while, his friends were telling me that this guy spends money anyhow .. He was the talk of town and he was a big boy o .. He was still in his middle to late 20's during this period..... After the whole situation I had to lick my wounds like a wounded lion. I had to figure out how to pay back my loans and deal with the embarrassment. Before it to police matter I beg him to return my trucks. He kept coming with excuses , I spoke to the older brothers that I don't want my family to know about this. But nobody took me seriously, because I was not in Nigeria. I had to use my connects and spy to monitor him and get him arrested. When his family house got raided by five policemen. His older brother now knew that I meant business.. They were surprise how a guy that stays in the USA was able to pull this thing off .. It was a huge embarrassment for the family .. And doing the arrest period ,I had a lawyer standby. And before any of his family could bail him out he had to write a statement about what happen, which he than admitted that he sold all my trucks.. They family couldnt do nothing.. The brothers had to stand for his bail ,before that my lawyer made sure that she knows the addresses of his brother and work place . This whole drama was like a made for tv drama. Now till now the guys still stays with his mommy and he can't hold a job.. I was told by another source that he needs my help since am into the uber business. I told that source that I will think about and get back to him. But as the saying goes ... " Fool me once shame on you , but fool twice shame on me ." Conclusion: Mr. Mayor555 trust me I know how ordinary Nigerian behaves, I have experience and seen all those behaviors myself. And I have watched others go through worse.. @Mayo555 people like you will never understand people like me , but I don't expect you to.. But I clearly understand people like you .. You have never walked a mile in my shoes ... |
sexylassie:That is nothing o .. My good friend is fighting with his mother in law . She comes to the USA ,stays with them rent free ,eat and guess what up ? The old woman works and makes good money for herself ,and she is building a house in Nigeria.. And this same woman complains that my friend is not doing enough for her .. But here is the bomber ,my friend told me can you imagine that this same woman still sends money home to her grown adult children with kids.. He said those grown adult kids with children are now dependent on the woman, cause the woman allows it Mean while the woman is stressing him out and his marriage .. |
Luxurydriverng:Plz drops yours and I will contact you now now |
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sexylassie:I worked at McDonald's when I was about 14years old for the summer.. By law at the time I can only work 4hours to 5 hours a day.. Then doing the summer time my city funded a program that allows kids ages 13years and up to work during the summer time , so in order to keep them out of trouble |
olalekan9320:My brother you are very wrong o.. It has nothing to do with diet .. In sane country ,you don't feed wildlife animals so has not to have the animals over dependent on human beings. If you keep feeding them ,what happens to their animal instincts to hurt their own food , and apart from that giving animal food is makes them not to be afraid of human being .... Which can cause deadly consequences. And her point is not to have animals dependent for survival by human beings . Now if they animals were in a zoo now that is different, but an animal that was raised in a zoo all of its life , will not be able to survive out in the wild ..because the instinct to survive and hunt has been breed out of them .... |
radautoworks:The Lagos government is dumb and corrupt. Uber and other coy are doing what the government is supposed to be doing. Which is to provide employment for the youth, the little that the drivers are making, government wants to take that.. The government has not shown good leadership, roads ,electricity the common basic things that a government should provide, they can't even do that efficiently .. Smh... And most of these taxes the government collects they can't even fully account for it. But at the same time they want to encourage foreign investors.... Banana Republic of Lagos and Nigerian ..And they wonder why the youth are frustrated.... |
Felicity0001:You still not getting the point .. A 20year old is a grown man ,he is grown to make certain decision, if a 20year is old enough to buy alcohol and cigarettes. Than he is old enough make sound decision, than if he fails at those simple things, than you as a parent has fail .... The job of a parent regardless of the economic or social status.. Parents jobs are to teach their kids on how to survive, parents job is to give their kids the right skills to survive, so that when they leave the nest they are equip to handle challenges.. You shielding your child from reality because naija is tough is a great disservice to that child. Your job is to monitor that child at an early stage in life .. You pay attention to what he is doing without him know that you watching him .. So that when he falls you can pick him up. If you can't do all these things, than you have no business been a parent.. Using Nigerian economic standard as an excuse or saying because I dont know what am saying because stayed in abroad or came from privilege background and which of course you base it on assumptions, is a total disservice to yourself...let your child make mistakes and be their to correct.. Encourage your child to be self sufficient.. Have you even started teaching your child how to save money yet ,did you open an account for that child etc . These are some of things my parents thought me. Do you give your child everything he wants, even though you can afford .. You teach your child that not everyone is lucky as he is . Again using Nigeria social status is a total cop out not to teach them responsibility.. Even Bill Gates stated that he will not leave all of his wealth to his child. He feels that if he does that, he is doing a great disservice to them A good friend of mine told me a story about his older brother.. He said while his older brother was in high school he got a girl pregnant . So the father called the older brother to his office .. The father congratulated the son as a new father .. The father told the son since you are a new father now ,he can't be taking care of him and his new baby. He told the son you are man now , the father gave the son some money and told the son that he can't no longer pay for his school fees anymore .. He said you are now a man ,you need to look for a job to take care of your new family.. He said to the son ,you will now know how I feel taking care of you.. The father gave the son some money and told the son to get out of his office.. This is Nigeria that these happened to my friend, he said his father came from a poor background and his father was able to become successful.. He said his father behaves like a military man ... And what is wrong for a child been a waiter or waitress at 16years old ? At the age dont you think you teaching that child the value of money ? And at what age do you want to teach that child how to value money? Smh. What is wrong for a 16 year doing waitress or waiter job for 2 days or more a week. This is how you encourage kids and built self confidence , so by the time they get real jobs they dont feel out of place.. This is how you teach kids social skills and how to interact with people.... |
sexylassie:
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ofime123:Thank you my brother.... So been a driver is not that bad at all.. Truck driving is tough job in the USA ,but if you arrange yourself u can operate your own fleet |
Felicity0001:This is the reason why African is backward.. If this is the way things are done. How do you expect the youth to progress, your actions are the reasons why the youth are dependent on their parents even till when they get married.... If you don't train the youth to be self sufficient to think outside the box at an early age ,how do you expect them to be successful? How do you expect to take over the family business? It is a very cold world out here bro , the earlier you train your child that ,the Better he will be ready to face reality in the real world.. The real world does not give a fucckk about a 20 year old issues o .. He is a grown man and nobody he will give him hands out.. The Nigeria mentality is so backwards and that is why the country is backward.. Look at wizkid for an example he is still a kid Abi. But that didn't hold him from hustling and thinking outside the box to reach his potential.. You think if his parents pamper him will he be this successful ? Wizkid is just an example am sure there are more like him out there.. Some parents are the reason their kids don't do well in life ,you are shielding them from reality of the world.. I came across few kids that came wealthy family in Nigeria to study in the USA. Some of them could not handle Yankee way of life . And some return back home or even got depress and were send to mental hospital.. Because their parents couldn't prepare them to the harsh reality of the world.. And these kids were in their 20's ,my brother 20 year is a grown man, if he is old enough to get girl belly and Fccck ,he is a grown man ..... We leave in a cold world bro ,nothing is given .... |
sirlaw2:Very ok I have two of them ..very ok and the a/c system is one of the best.. Just make sure the Elantra is a Yankee spec.. Yankee spec engine are built better and the engine does not cost an arm and a leg |
radautoworks:Thank you for the link ..when I was saying that they are more like employee, drivers were fighting me with nail and tooth... |
Felicity0001:Yes stress kills and we need to take care of our health etc. But landlord, Bill collector, school fees, hospital bill and things required to be paid ,will not want to hear stress kills when is time to pay o. Your landlord will not want to hear stress kills o, your mechanic will not want to hear stress kills if you can't pay .. I can't go to Radauto and tell them I can't pay them because stress kills .. If stress kills no man should be married or having kids. It is better for that man to be leaving alone.. And if stress kills too much ,it means a person is leaving beyond his means.. Having 1 child is stressful, than have two or more and no funds to cater for them is what will kill person.. We need to take responsibility for our actions..... |
calabardick:Yes those are the issues I face o ..But again I try to be reasonable with them .A few of them in the past think they are doing me a favor ...At the end of the day as a business man I have to weed out the bad ones before I hire them.. I have a tokunbo car sitting down for months now , and am just taking my sweet time before I hire anyone ..... Funny enough I had one driver that wanted a car. We arrange and set up time and date for interview.. The guy didnt show up or call .. So we call him the next day and ask him what happen? He said he had to go and hustle etc and he will come the next day.. The next day no call no show ... about three days later he hit me up on what's up so say he is ready.. I just deleted him from my whatapps and move on .... And pretty soon people like him will say there are no jobs out there. If you can't handle small job and folllow proper protocol, than how can you handle bigger jobs.. Just to give you an example , when I was in college I had that will work his tail off .. The job could be paying $15 dollars an hour ,he will take the job seriously and be the best at it .. He had amazing work ethic and from there he got a job with a big company traveling around the world... Some Nigerian youth are too lazy and feel entitled. This is why am very careful in helping people. And the married ones can be the worse for jobs,some of them can't afford to have one kid, but they will born three kids and they can hold down a job and take responsibility. And now if their wife leaves them and follow a responsible man ,they will say that women are evil etc.. Omo things have seen ,can't be unseen |
dckng16:Thank God for your success.. It is not easy.. Nothing is easy in life.. Sometimes you just have to take it . This also reminds me when I started importing engine oil to sell. Some said ,I can't even sell fast enough and now I can't even meet with the demand on ground.. We thank God for everything sha |
Godfather10:Yes o they are very funny.. Truck drivers in Yankee can make more than nurses, and the smart will save enough money to start their own trucking company |
Godfather10:You are very correct o .. The most popular one is called getaround. Rentals. I think it is $250 weekly ,it cant be more than that.... |
calabardick:Thanks bro.. ..I also mentioned on previous post that some partners are very careless ..it goes both ways.... It's a very tough business, the last driver owes me over 100k naira... he didn't pay 30k naira for his December 2019 payment.. I let it go ,I was told he has three kids and small baby..etc .. So I gave him time and he was taking advantage of my kindness.. Last ,last I collected the car from him. So imagine if I let all the drivers owe me , you think that is fair ? The other drivers are doing ok and this is why I take my time hiring drivers.... |
medd422:
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drmikeadams:I don't know .. But if you want him to manage your cars for you , I can link you up |
shepherdchurch:Thanks I appreciate your thoughtfulness and kindness |
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