₦airaland Forum

fredpaul:
That is not completely true, if i live in America for 20 years and buy a house of $10m, then get married, nobody touches my $10m house. we will only calculate assets i have acquired since we got married, and its a two way calculation. If after we get married and i stopped earning and my wife goes ahead to buy a $10m house, i still get half of her property. That's why you should never marry someone with less earning capacity as yours, cos you will end up shooting your self on the foot once divorce starts.

You dey use American law dey play

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zolajpower:
But with the way his popularity is gaining momentum in diaspora he sure gonna give other aspirants the run for their money . And he's the most popular aspirants international. Don't you think this may translate to victory In the up coming general election ?

Not just talking, you have to participate by voting, if you truly want him to win.

Neoteny:
I think the house goes to her only if the house was acquired when already married.

She doesn't have claims over things you own before.

Lol, it doesn't work that way in America, that is why you have to try as much as possible to be on the safe side when you head to court

ogbonti:
the bolded parts really exposed you as someone who has never been to the US - do you know what a $10m home looks like ? How many Americans - born in America - became very successful live in $10 million homes?

Former President Barack Obama lives in a very expensive home - in a very elitist area (the VGC Lagos comparison to America) called Matha's Vinyard - and the home is about $12 million, and this is a former president of USA ooo, former Senator and celebrity politician and socialite ooo - so do not come here and talk about ordinary Nigerian immigrant buying homes worth $10 million after living in America for 20 years - na so people dey see the money for hear ? IF a Naija immigrant buys a house worth between $500,000 to $1.5m home in America as a professional or even business man - he is considered to be very successful - $10M homes no be mo moi for here ooo - so blow your fabu small small u hia

https://nypost.com/article/inside-obamas-marthas-vineyard-estate/

I believe you went to school and should be able to comprehend the meaning of "assumption"

So sad, those that brought this pains upon the family, will neither know peace nor enjoy what they laboured for.

Ventura1:
This was the argument I was having with someone, does it mean a wife can unilaterally throw his husband out of a house they jointly own without evidence of physical abuse or divorce? I came back from work, enter my room and she'll just walk up to me and ordered me out and will just obey because its USA, which US law support such action?

No US supports it, but the man was trying to play safe.

Interesting...

This is just a strategy by the Northern elites to reduce Peter Obi's chances of securing votes from the South South.

The stupid governor is ruling Imo state from Abuja.

And truly there is fire on the mountain...

MrBrownJay1:
stop talking about what you dont know.... a man CAN/MUST resist and simply have evidence that he didnt do anything wrong. what you wrote is not only foolish, but blasphemy for US men. abeg travel a little!!! you actually believe that a woman can do what she pleases and anyone will listen to her, lol?!?!? you watch too many US series...while in the real world it doesnt work this way... if a woman lays a hand on you and/or attacks you, you have all the rights to defend yourself against her (whether you are a man or a woman).... THATS THE LAW! just make sure you do that in front of witnesses and/or cameras so that you have proof.

the problem here is that African men think they can control women abroad (like they do inAfrica), while THEY CANT! the law abroad will send
them straight to jail!

Am sorry sir, i am truly sorry for informing you, na me do mistake.

But i will advise you, when ever you find yourself outside the shores of Nigeria, endeavour to ask questions pertaining the laws of the land..

A judge or magistrate will tell you that ignorance is not an excuse in the court of law

MrBrownJay1:
explain to me (as if i was a 5yr old) how the above is the justification for (or got anything to do with) him sleeping outside his own home?!?!
as much as this man shouldnt hit his wfe, the solution to this problem certainly ISN'T to sleep outside your own home either.

Guy u fit do gra-gra for naija, but not in America.

In Africa a man is a tiger, but becomes a pussycat when he enters America.

If the man had resisted, then a scuffle would have ensued and once that happens, any mark on her body turns to her evidence and they will use that against you in the court of law, when she files for domestic violence.

Lol...... Myhusband come and see your uncle oooo.

I weep!

Myhusband:
till eternity you will continue to weep, emotional cretin

Don't worry, maybe in your next life, the almighty God might be benevolent upon you, by making you an igbo man.

I weep.

Myhusband:
people will weep for you and your generation, all your bad wishes will happen to you and your family in million folds before this month end except if I ever wish you bad will that not happen



useless ipob Peter obi supporters

I weep!!!

MrBrownJay1:
bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman mske him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world?

You are funny, Google the meaning of prenup.

If she had signed a prenup, then she wouldn't get a dime from their divorce.

And in America, you dare not hit your wife, because the laws of the land protects women and children more.

He acted wisely by recording his evidence and also not hitting his wife.

Lets assume you've lived in America for 20yrs and you were able to buy a house $10M, later you got married and had problems with her and you hit her, my brother you might lose 50% of your money, if not all to her and the house automatically goes to her.

That is the reason why most men don't like taking their wife aboard.

Especially if you enroll her into nursing or to study medicine, by the time she is through studying such course, then the chances of her being your wife is like 20%.

And it is her fellow colleagues that will brainwash her into believing that being single is the best and her husband has no right to question her decision.

Dear men; If you ever plan on relocating your wife aboard, make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.

victooman:
Good day nairalanders,,
l met a beautiful and excellent girl during my Nysc, honestly she is everything l need in a woman,
We finish our service last year and started life in Abuja, she live with her sister and doing her own business while l live alone in the same town,, The problem now is that this girl mother is already pressurizing her for marriage,, she is 27 yrs and the mother is already making her looks like she is too old for marriage,, yesterday she came to my house looking all moody and worried,, when l enquired she told me her mom is asking her when the man she is dating will come home for introduction,, l took my time to explain things to her,we can't go into any marriage without been financially stable,l have a business l am running and l am looking at stability of that business in 3-4yrs time,,l told her l wont give you any specific date on when to come see her people ,,but l assured her if she stick with me God knows l wont think of any other woman during marriage,,, she told me her plan is to get married at 25yrs and l told her things dont always work out the way we plan them,, honestly l dont want to lose this girl and l also dont want to rush anything,, what do l do nairalanders...

If you know you can't marry her now, its best you let her go, rather than put her hopes up for 4yrs.

The chances of you getting married to her is under probability, meaning you might change your mind later and by then she will be 31yrs.

The issue of being financially stable before you get married is just an excuse that holds no water, what if God has destined you to be great in 10yrs times, so it means you will keep waiting till when money comes?

Guy there is nothing special about marriage, provided you can feed yourself, then feeding her is also no problem.

And if truly you want that business to grow, i will advise you marry her, so you can be able to spend money with accountability.

etrange:
When? Which year? You have a record of this or you measured it with your body? Oga, no state in Nigeria gets up to 40°C.

Google is your friend

etrange:
Has Maiduguri ever gone above 40°C?

Yeah, it does more than that.

Godoverevery:
Am sharing this with a sad heart and using this to beg people to please stay away from drugs.

I never liked weed or anything smoke growing up.... the first time I smoked in 2007 (100l) I didn't like the feeling at all so it was never my thing, I loved alcohol and I drank alot then....in my final year first semester I was introduce to something that almost killed me.

We were preparing for exams so night class was the thing....for ladokites in the building y"all know night class is something very common during exams....one day I attended one at (mko lecture theatre)....it was a group reading for a general course (basic in accounting.....imagine we mech engine student were force to do management courses in our finals) ...I was feeling sleepy so I beg a guy to give me some water to rinse my face to clear away sleep...they all laffed and told me to take something instead that wont make me sleep (I was giving tramaldo 50mg) and that was the beginning of my addiction to this drug......I was so addicted that I was even buying packs (it was very cheap then).

The feeling was great at first when I started using but has years roll by I started having health issues.....the major one was difficulty in sleeping.
After my nysc (2013) I was in my parent house.....I took about 300mg a night before, when I woke up, went outside to check why the dogs were barking seriously, I got back in my room and I had serious seizures ......I was unconscious for about 30min.
I saw my mum crying and my dad holding me when i opened my eye....I was already very wet ,urinated on myself with spoon in my mouth.
I could have died that day......but God safe me...I guess my mama prayer brought me back.

I asked my mum what happened she was just rolling on the floor thanking God....my dad pulled me up, I felt pains around my right shoulder, I have dislocated my shoulder during the seizures.(Till today that shoulder stills give me issues).

My parent thought it was a spiritual attack but I knew it was the drugs I took that nite before....I actually OD on.

I vow never to take it or any other drugs again and am still holding on to it.

Am sharing this because I lost a childhood friend on Sunday......he died from drug abuse.

His liver was 3 times the normal size and divided......Crystal meth was the drug that actually nailed him.

He was from a rich home and last child.....I cried when I saw corpse because I remember the first time I saw him smoke a cigarette In 2005....that night I was really shocked and he told me this what big boys take in boarding school.

Please stay away from drugs.......you might not be lucky like my friend.....you have the power to beat the addiction by just making up your mind and cutting off friend that can influence you.

RIP Ayobami.....dead at 32yrs.

Go for thanks giving in the church.

Iffy25:
Good afternoon my brothers and sisters
I am a final year student and I finance my education myself because I lost my parents while I’m in 100l.
I need Nigerians help in paying my tuition fee. I have gathered 100,000 out of 300,000 for the tuition fee. I have tried all possible option to find the remaining but all proved abortive. Pls in anyway you can assist me I will be grateful even if you will give me as a grant. I have been having sleepless night over this even asking for this on a social media was because I’m short of option. Pls God will not make your effort wasted.

Pls sir and ma.

This is my account number
2009043709
Kuda MFB

Nothing wey we no go see for yahoo boys hand, for this forum.

Why are they complaining, what will those living in Maiduguri say then.

It was actually 14 boys, not 7.

Myhusband:
none can measure up with Tinubu political sagacity, imagine Osibanjo without the backing of Tinubu is like beating a dead horse


please I can't waste my time educating a brain dead like you

I weep again!

Myhusband:
what did you even understand in liquidating assets? I no blame you when you don't understand the effect of making profit and they claimed you people are industrious, you don't know those aforementioned assets can give you a huge profits in a month and annually



Local foool want to form sabi, alaye go sleep with your low IQ

I keep weeping for you and your generations.

Myhusband:
long gone perhaps because of your unprecedented gross foolishness


list the good road network Peter obi constructed or no be the same obi was inside erosion taking pictures when he was anambra gov



you're just a decorated fooool

I weep!

Islandlady:
Nawa o!

Ibos should stop this fake victimization abeg

I mean what concerns Ibos and the just concluded Osun election?

Victimisation as how?

It seems you were using free browsing mode and didn't see the properties that were destroyed.

MufasaLion:
Wizkid having kids with a woman like Jada ain't a bad thing. She's worth it. Jada ain't your regular type of woman. A woman instrumental to his current success!

How was she instrumental to his success?

Myhusband:
olodo and who told you I'm selling assets, profit made from those investments will provide the millions



which mobile bank app are you blabbing about, anybody that have 100naira data can open mobile app, send at the comfort of your father's house



chinedu continue chest beating with empty stomach

Don't worry, you will eat Agbado and cassava for the next 8yrs....

Guy you should be ashamed of yourself, of all the people in yoruba land, this is the best you guys could come up with, someone that his brains are no longer working properly.

If it were my tribe, we would have been the first set of people to reject him, we don't do partisan politics on sentimental grounds, or because he is from the east....

Myhusband:
olodo and who told you I'm selling assets, profit made from those investments will provide the millions



which mobile bank app are you blabbing about, anybody that have 100naira data can open mobile app, send at the comfort of your father's house



chinedu continue chest beating with empty stomach

You want to liquidate the assets of your kindred to raise N1m, what a pity.

I still will send mine from the comfort of my home.

I weep.