tgmservice: I recently started dating a cute lady which I really liked.
We started chatting in FB and shared contacts, after a while getting to talk and know each other we went on couple of dates to just see n talk.
Everything was fine and good, one day while browsing on my phone I stumbled upon her tiktok account.
She has lots of all these normal funny and dance tiktok videos, nothing suspicious until I noticed a good number of her videos are taken inside hotel rooms.
I was able to spot like 11 different hotels rooms she took videos. I know its an hotel room due to the arrangement, the telecom line and customized towels.
Though I didn’t see a guy in any of the videos, is this a reason to be worried as she is a fashion designer.
Please advise.
No hotel would open their rooms, for girls to work in and snap, neither would she just pay, just to go and take pictures there.
Except she went for bridal trainers, anything other than that, my brother, na runs carry her go there.
No need to further your investigation, it is what it is ✍️
daylay7: I want to know how i can control this urge. I drink at least two pet bottles in a day. If i don't take it in a day, I won't be myself. How do I curb this behavior? I tried looking away, discipline myself but it is not working.
Before you see me take soft drink, it is once in a blue moon, like 3 times in a year, and you say you drink 2 everyday, hmmmm, the fear of diabetes won't let me, after witnessing first hand the effects of diabetes.
Goodlordwoodliu: I applied for UK visit visa middle of last year but I was rejected.I was indisposed for about four months so I couldn't go to Lagos to collect my passport.
Now this year I want to apply to another country but UK embassy are insisting that my passport have been sent to Abuja immigration office because I failed to come and collect it on time.I have confirmed from an immigration officer in Abuja that no passport of such nature was sent to them.Yet this people are still insisting that's it in Abuja immigration office. I don't know what to do anymore. I would have applied for a new passport but passport are now expensive to process.
Please what should I do?
Why are you stressing yourself, apply for another one, by declaring the previous one missing.
CYBERWEAVER: I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.
After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.
But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?
Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.
At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.
Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.
I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.
To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.
I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.
As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.
So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?
I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.
In all you do, do not marry a woman that is not kind, from what you've explained here, she is self centered.
sonssyo: I made this pot of soup onto Sapa level, make the bashing no plenty abeg,nah naija we dey like this.
The outcome be this...
Come and join me..
I don't know what you look like, or what tribe you came from, i just want to let you know that i just fell in love with you, as soon as i opened the thread, i saw Oha soup, my favourite 😋
Ibtxxo: I gave a woman 500k to start a business for me on agreement she will be paying me weekly. This girl ate the money within one month. Can u imagine she finish 500k under one month. It is hard to see girl who value money
I met this young undergraduate girl earlier this year, in January; she had just turned 20., I am 29. I asked her out and she agreed. She's respectful but can be cosy and stubborn at times. I always try to correct and guide her, but sometimes she doesn't listen. We go out together and even to the gym, and she feels jealous if she sees another lady around me. Fast forward to March, we became intimate; she was a virgin. Recently, she had been misbehaving and giving me the silent treatment, not calling, but she responds if I call or text. A few days ago, she messaged me saying she didn't want to continue with the relationship. I asked her why and what went wrong, and she said, "Everything felt wrong, I lost my true self at some point. I did things that are not my real personality." I felt I might have pushed too hard or applied pressure at some point, so I just replied, 'It’s fine, I'll give you space.' Since last week, she hasn’t texted or called, and I haven’t either. Do you think I should give her the benefit of the doubt by checking in with a text, or just leave it? By the way, she liked my WhatsApp status the second day.
You shouldn't be dating a girl less than 25yrs, worst of it is dating a student.
Any girl that is 24yrs below, barely stays committed to a relationship, and they will feel caged.
A shocking moment unfolds as a young lady who came for a hookup gets caught red-handed trying to steal a Samsung phone! What started as a private meetup quickly turns into intense drama as the man confronts her on camera. Overwhelmed with shame, she breaks down in tears, hiding her face while being called out for her actions.
In today’s world, situations like this are becoming more common — but getting caught like this? That’s a whole new level of embarrassment. From hookup to theft, this is one story you have to see to believe! Is it desperation, greed, or just a bad decision in the moment?
Would YOU forgive her or expose her? Watch till the end and share your thoughts in the comments!
The government is responsible for the increase in hookup and yahoo yahoo.
easytig: Nigerians are masters of overinflating price of common goods ,I know my way round these things,I remember when my sister iPhone screen got damage d,all the technician were all calling crazy prices to replace screen,a simple research and grade A screen was bought and sent from China for a fraction of price those bunch of greedy thieves who call themselves parts dealers were quoting,I Sabi Naija people too well, always want to make a financial kill out of every situation,they will say they are smart
So why haven't you entered importation business since?
easytig: Omo I have placed order for the 4-cylinder CNG kit from China direct ,for just 170k plus free shipping, for the cylinder I am looking for a used cylinder to buy locally for at least 100k,I have spoken with a friend who did his conversion to help me talk with the guy who converted his to get ready for home service when my kits arrive,
If I hear say I pay over 650k Maga money give any yeye person Abi na conversion centre,make I bend,I be proper street boy oo,no bi today I dey order from China direct
No go do smart, go lose your car and your life ooo, CNG is a sensitive deal and should be treated with caution.
You trying to use a cheap route of both kit and installation, might be something you would regret, goodluck to you.
saintopus: Imagine the yeye memo! How much sugar cane can a staff chew? If they are avoiding the dirtiness of the environment from chewing the sugar cane that will be OK.
The company is not worried about the consumption of its sugar cane, but rather, because of the littering it causes.
All those saying Peter Obi lost the 2023 presidential election, can they all come before a deity or gods like Sango and swear with their life, that Peter Obi lost the election?
Because me on the other hand, i can swear before the gods that he won the election.
Devdevdev: I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue
Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.
We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts
Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men
So you think big ass and boobs make a black woman more beautiful?