Bro check well she didn't call ikpeaba werey, she was referring to osimhen, that is his mates, peers vibe.
mozona: Well in my on opinion, i think osihmen should have taken ikpeba msg without replying. Cos he reply, that girl get chance to call her elder werey.
I believe ikpeba as achieve more than osihmen which he needs to respect. He easy to call person prince of monaco.
Hope you heard him clearly when he said others have run and it's not a new thing that the Nigerian soldiers have been running away from the war in the Northeast.
Follow your conscience and next time keep your private issues private, na u see her, liked her, loved her sotey u married her then settle all your differences as a couple.
yinkaOdutuyo: But am having a conscience like am starving my wife or being wicked.
Baba how much can any man pay u to take one bullet in your chest Soldiers don't go in Singleton, they go in pairs to reduce the risk. This one is alone and Tue risk of him being captured,tortured and finally being killed is very high. I pray God answers him and keep him safe.
kingyakos: U don't have sense..... what he done so is against the military rule, he might even face dismissal if he comes out alive. That Man needs our prayers
Wisdom took to Instagram to release a video, accusing Annie of all sorts, including abandoning him, his wife, and children to suffer in penury.
Annie has now responded. She listed the things she has done for Wisdom's family and asked why he would want to drag her down.
[b]"Oh Wizy... why big bro why.... Wisdom ... why all these lies against your ONLY sister ... ur younger sister, all I ever did was protect you n ur kids.... Since we grew up, bro , have u ever paid for house rent in your entire life? You live in a 3bedroom flat fully furnished with everything u need for u n kids ... wisdom u have 3 kids, have u ever paid for their school fees since they were born .? Your oldest 9. For 9 years ... since ur wife start making babies ... have u ever paid for hospital bills for any of your kids? Have u ever paid sch fees? Oh wizy how many cars hav I bought for you ... since God started blessing me ! You say u work for me ... how Where After dad died... the car I had bought for him, told u to service d jeep. You sold d car without telling me ... all I have was love u n your kids! Every Xmas I make sure they all get something new... I even make sure ur wife isn't aware ! How many time have I given u millions wizy, how many times .. but u are way too irresponsible, because I don't have the heart to watch ur kids go hungry! Keep blackmailing me that u will kill ur self! I have receipts on my online banking. N proof ! Why do you wanna deroy this lil career I have worked so hard to make ... this is where I make 80percent of my money ! Same money I used to send ur kids to school. Pay ur rent! All ur hospital bills! Why would want to destroy ur own lil sister.
Just yesterday ur wife called crying they sent your kids home .. for sch bus.. money I already gave u since ! I paid straight to the school. Why wizy ! U want to be manager ... I said "I am sorry I don't think its something I can do... till u get the help you need.... How many cars have I bought for you bro ? How many ? You duped my friend n had to pay ! You took 2 different loans from banks ... I had to pay for you .. just so it doesn't get out in this space ! Wizzy what more can a sister do ! What? I have my family too ... I by all these lies why ! I am at the peak of my career! Pls bro .. why this lies!!!! JUST BECAUSE I SAID U CANT BE MY MANAGER! I have so many voice notes from ur wife ! I won't disgrace u n put it out here ! I am tired ! Do as u like ! The universe Will protect me, my hard work , my kids, my family. Let the world believe anything ! My name is Annie! I am not the lies you are saying! I work damn hard .. not lazy ! Entitlement! Wow bro. I wish u well."[/b]
Well said investment is all about risk but I will advise you please don't go into that business if you are not the one riding it else, you may regret doing it. To get a trusted hand now is difficult, as per your question,go to three-four keke garages and know how much they give out for hire purchase. Often times buyers hand it over to the chairman of the units with some agreements, reason being that with the influence the chairman of the units wields around his subject, it will be a bit difficult for anyone to abscond with the keke or not meet up with the agreement.
Michelle70: investment is all about risk, pls if u have answer to my question, I'd appreciate
Bro aside from personal relationship, there are some MD's that personally design accountability group, they may not be talking to you but they know you are working and giving results, they scheme behind to test ur true potentialities by giving tasks that hitherto u have not done before simply because they have interest which they won't share in you. So if there is an issue, they know how to step in. I can also tell u that op's ex boss has a relationship with the MD to be in such position
chigoziri2403: To be candid, your personal relationship with the MD was what saved you
In a work place , there are processes to report an erring superior
You might not be lucky next time,if your next boss also have a personal relationship with the MD.
I commented on this thread yesterday, see the destiny of a crowd is in the hands of just one man, if not for your actions that necessitated constituting a panel, that your ex boss will keep on bullying and never see anything good in any young chap who within your ex boss knows the chap is good. Always watch your back because your ex boss has loyalists and as such you will always be in their radar but them no go see you. Please watch your back, work on your nerves and enjoy your new position.....Enjoy as always.
Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I. It was a dramatic day for me yesterday. While everyone was enjoying Valentine's day celebration, I was summoned to a panel to explain my reasons for having to yell at my superior at work and not reporting to HR just like everyone has been suggesting on the comment section. So I honoured the panel while a member of the board of directors was invited to hear from both parties. My boss was emphasizing on the fact that I don't do the duties assigned to me, which is a BIG FAT LIE. Basically, he didn't have any cogent reason for his negative actions towards me. It was just pure hatred. I was then asked to talk, then I told the panel that since I was posted to his department, I've been getting negative vibes from him for no reason. I endured the whole hatred for 2 years and 3months under him without any retaliation. Luckily, the MD had been briefed about the whole thing. Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD. So while the panel was ongoing, the MD called on zoom and interfered in the meeting. After hearing from both of us, he gladly ordered that my now EX BOSS be transferred to our portharcourt branch while someone else takes over with immediate effect. Before I decided to yell at him, I had already made up my mind for whatever the outcome would be cos I had been pushed to the wall. Then the promotion even worsened the whole issue to the point that he couldn't hold the hatred other than to show it to me. During pep talk this morning, y'all needed to see the look on his face. It was obvious he wanted me out, but to God be the glory, reverse is the case.
The MD later called me personally to admonish me about taking laws into my hands. I apologized and the whole thing ended.
I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out. Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.
Op without mincing words, you have done very well, I had similar experience too and since then the guy dey give me my way as a boss self he seldom looks into my eyes to speak to me but please don't make this serial, you have made your points, let humility follow.....wish u the best in your new position.
WillyWonda1: I really don't know what I did to my immediate boss since I got promoted earlier this year. Ever since I got my promotion letter, my boss changed to me abruptly. He suddenly finds everything I do useless.
When I noticed the change, I went to him and begged him to tell me what I had done wrong so we could settle everything and get back along. But he said I did nothing wrong and I shouldn't worry about anything. So I locked up and was doing my job to the best of my ability. So he did something that sparked my madness and anger.
I got an email that I was to go on board our vessel to go and load from Lagos cos our mother vessel berthed in Lagos. And cos of my promotion, I'm not supposed to be a crew member anymore. But I was surprised to see the mail and went to his office to address the issue, next thing he said was 'IF YOU DON'T KNOW YOUR DUTY, YOU CAN RESIGN'.
That statement really sent chills down my spine and I sparked and told him really derogatory words. I don't even feel anyhow about my reaction. I'm happy I told him his life history. I'm very excited to have poured my mind out to him. If I get sacked, I won't feel bad, rather I'll be glad I told him what I told him. #Peace
Reporting him to the HR will compound the problem, sometimes men got to do what they have to do, speak your mind to your boss, I love and salute his courage.
MufasaLion: I totally understand your situation but I would have not acted like you did, if I were in your situation. People like that should be ignored and avoided at any given chance. You said, he's your immediate boss which means you're probably gonna be reporting to him directly always.
You could have reported him to HR anonymously. Anyways, I'll leave you with two of the Laws of Power :
"Win through your actions, never through an argument."
"Know who you’re dealing with—do not offend the wrong person."
True words, do u know there are some people that are well equipped morally but because of societal drifts and peer pressure they switched, yes I agree 100% good parental training drops deposits of responsibilities in you but the real truth is the individual that has these parental trainings, is he/her ready to use it Go to the university hostels, co-habitation is a norm, trace the root of these babes doing such, u will see most have good parental upbringing.
derecho: Never underrate the place of good training. Most people would behave well if they received proper training.
Akin to saying one would deliberately want to suffer when you have access to the same thing and the legitimate way is easier and more honorable.
It's partly because the society now encourages nonsense that's why a girl would shamelessly go and co-habit with someone who doesn't value you. Again, many parents are ill-equipped and bad examples to their wards.
Training is deliberate and every parent who knows that the shame would return to them if their wards are misfits, would do ALL it takes.
Do you know, you won't want to disappoint those you love? If very early a wise parent bonds with a child and provides correct leadership, the child won't choose a disgraceful route.
On the other hand, if you have parents who believe it's normal to mess up yourself morally and it's impossible to be sexually pure, ONLY God will help that child o.
Parenting na big responsibility o. Don't be surprised if we later find out that the lady's parents weren't properly married.
Fast forward the wedding date What is the possibility that this will not repeat after fast forwarding Tue wedding date I pray she makes a very good decision that will not mar her future.
gasparpisciotta: Are you prepared to face the consequences of your proposed actions? If yes, go ahead If No, go back and reconcile but fast forward your wedding date.
Not training per say but their decisions. Some receive good trainings but the decisions they make even when it is obvious like a recent thread here that shows a young girl willing to marry a man of about 22 years age difference.
Fashionista01: It is as a result of the training they received from their parents.
Baba u don craze before abi? Y u dey mention Abia state
dacblogger: Quick question... Is he from Abia state? Meanwhile, do you have brothers? If you do, let them gather and give him joint beating that will reset his head.
Like I said I don't throw tantrums, you chose to feel the way you feel and it's no fault of mine,take some time to rest it soothes the nerves. Enjoy your day....
Ladyhippolyta88: I have never been violated and never will be but I have seen women share their stories even men too, I must not be violated to know how terrible and disastrous the victims feel.
You should be the one taking your advice since in your head you could not reason that it isn't about the OP or his remorse but about a woman he claimed to love and protect whom he violated and broke her trust and it is up to her to decide heal and forge ahead
But your selfish self could not see that and you try to trivialise the suffering the wife faced in his hands and you think think that a mere apology can suffice in a psychological and physical issue you should be the one healing because you obviously need help.
Easy madam, I now see that you have been violated before, my sincerest apologies and hope you heal fast and come back strong, in the meantime, I don't throw tantrums, I am more civilised than shutting people up and spitting on faceless people, guess you should step up your courtesy frequency. It will help.
Ladyhippolyta88: will you keep quiet,you think rape is easy to forget and look as a past deed have you ever been violated before?you think it easy She needs help she needs to see a therapist not the husband neither is living with him now the solution, she can forgive him but must not live with him she needs a psychologist and someone that can help her not by staying with her husband it won't help her when she gets the help she needs she would not enter depression, no victim heals by getting close to their perpetrator Common go and sit down and the healing is by getting back to her rapist her parents have done right and should let her mee professionals that can help her not by sending her back to the lions den
His remorse will not take her out of the shock and trauma she is in sex with the two of them can never be the same, be honest with your self because if you were the one violated you won't be saying this. The wife should get out of that marriage what the man did is terrible and no sane woman should condone that because he will do it again.I said you must be joking you are trying to trivalise rape and assault especially when it is done to you by someone dear to you it is painful and disastrous to forget so you must be joking to think that is easy to swallow and go back to normal,nothing will ever be normal between the two of them again.
Hello madam how long do you have to hold on on past deeds, if she continues like that, it leads to depression and u know what that means, forgiveness is a part of healing process, all I am saying is Tue parents are the first friend of the woman, if there is anyone to initiate the process of healing and letting go, it is the parents because the may have a high influence and her and that's y she had to run to them, they shouldn't make the matter worse, from all indications, the guy is remorseful and he is willing to make amends and not to make this repeat itself again. As per the joking part you mentioned, I am not part of that.
Ladyhippolyta88: The woman has denied him his so-called conjugal rights was his right response be to assault and rape her and you think that that is easy to forgive and can easily be cured by an apology.
Listen to yourself and digest what you just put up. What lion's den are you talking about He did the wrong thing on the first thread he shared, he acknowledged his deeds, asked for forgiveness, even went to the in-laws house to do same, what woman denies her husband this conjugal moments for long, the parents should foster peace and not prolong this issue. Third party is never an option in unions.
Ladyhippolyta88: So you believe her parentts are poor? Even if they are which right thinking parent will take their daughter back to the lion's den?
The advice some of you give una nor dey think am before sharing
U just dey disturb yourself, when the parents buy Golden morn, cornflakes, coco balls, moon and star, peak 123, 4,5,6 like 3 times, nobody go tell them make them start to chase the daughter back to her home. My guy don't lose your mind and also if u lose ur job because of this hmmmm that is the beginning of your end. Be a man and be focused
Great people of this forum, honestly things have never been better ever since that incident and I wish our minds are like show glass so that y'all would see how sorry I am inside of me. I messed up and I'm really sorry.
5 days after I created that post above, My wife traveled with my daughter to her parents house to stay without telling me. Since that incident my wife haven't said a word to me, Not a single word. Sometimes I wonder if she's the same woman I married. I'm frustrated, incoherent and I'm losing my mind.
I've been good to her, I provide 85% for my family while she bring just 15% yet I don't complain, I'm romantic and good looking, since we married I don't keep female friends not to talk of cheating. Yet She denied me sex over 2 months without any reasons, that was why I acted that way and I'm so sorry.
On Tuesday here, My friend and I traveled to her parents house, they did not even welcome us well, I don't know what she must have told her parents but I explained myself, knelt down and asked for forgiveness.
She refused to come home with me, her parents were just starring at me like I'm some demon, I requested for my daughter but she refused to release her and I've already paid my daughter's school fees for the term. Her parents said they would register my daughter in a new school, that my wife need some space for now.
Please don't call me a weak man, I'm family oriented, I don't want broken home, if she needed some space that's not a problem, I can give her all the space in the world but let her come home. It's not proper raising a child in a broken home...I'm really losing my mind.
I faced query today at work because I traveled without informing my Boss which I know he won't allow me and I know how much would be deducted from my salary. what I'm going through now I can't wish my enemies and I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I messed up.
Sports › Re: The Controversy Between Victor Ikpeba, Victor Osimhen And Asisat Oshoala by eaglez(m): 10:50am On Apr 07, 2022
Soldiers don't go in Singleton, they go in pairs to reduce the risk. This one is alone and Tue risk of him being captured,tortured and finally being killed is very high. I pray God answers him and keep him safe.
