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Not only the market women, it starts with the farmers, some intentionally harvest, store and create artificial scarcity so they can make more money.

Tinubuadvocate:
Those market women really making life unbearable for masses food isn't scarce in Nigeria.

Your colleague owes u nothing in trying times or not. We have often said this our celebrities should always plan for rainy days so they won't be a burden to their colleagues when the chips are down. Baba fryo made his mark during his days, what happened to his savings

SapphireBlue:
DON'T GET IT TWISTED.

All baba fryo is saying is that while he was in dire need during his mental health episode, he reached out to DAVIDO but Davido never responded and...

NOW, he is SURPRISED that the same DAVIDO is now the same person giving out ₦250M to orphans who he (Davido) does not know personally while ignoring him a colleague in the business.

MIND YOU, Baba Fryo said (in this video) that there is nothing wrong in Davido helping orphans but he should start by helping fellow performers (who are currently without funds) in time of need.

THIS IS NOT A THING OF ENTITLEMENT BUT A COLLEAGUE HELPING ANOTHER IN DESPERATE TIMES.... after all, charity must begin from home.

Please take a video of his act, there is this special against domestic violence units created by the Lagos state government, report him with your video proof but please remain anonymous to avoid stories that touch the heart.

massinola:
I will be as brief as possible.
I recently opened a barbing salon shop. Within the area I opened this shop, there's this couple living there. The man does nothing for a living. He's a drunkard. The woman on the other hand sells black market fuel and oil to make ends meet.

They gave birth to 6 children (yes, you heard right). Since I entered that street, I noticed a serious domestic violence going on in that family. The man after drinking, uses his wife and children as punching bags. This is not occasionally. On a daily. I'm seriously disturbed. A little arguement and the man goes straight to the woman's fuel and oil and pours everything away.

Even when he's the one provoking the woman, he goes to the woman's properties and starts damaging everything.

The worst is that no body in the street says anything. They all say they are used to them.
I'm seriously disturbed because the man always threatens to pour fuel on the woman and set her ablaze always.

On many occasions, he carries huge sticks to kill the woman like a snake.
People around always say he can't do it. On my side, I'm really disturbed, because I have seen where domestic violence caused a disaster. I fear that one day, the man might carry out his threats.

Today a serious fight broke out between the man and the wife. The man was beating the last born of the house that's just a year plus like a mad man. The wife couldn't bear it anymore and faced the man. He was beating all of them like animals. Looking for cutlass and 2by2 to use on them. People were passing and didn't even care. I couldn't bear it anymore. He was trying to smash the woman's phone on the main road. One small girl went to rescue the woman and the phone. The way this man flung the lady eeh, that was when I stepped in, collected the phone and told the man that if he tried touching the woman and the children again, I would bury him alive. I was very mad. I asked the woman what he's still doing with the man. Or is she waiting for people to carry her corpse before she flees for her life? The phone is still with me. I'm confused on what to do.

This man needs to be stopped before a disaster strikes. It's just a matter of time. I fear for the woman's life seriously.
What can I do to help the situation guys. I'm really disturbed.

Keep listening to what people will say at the expense of your happiness, oga it is your house in as.much as u are not abusing madam or she won't complain if u go to her pot.

Barrister026:
Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

Get money first

optimistfeel:
Money can't buy happiness, remember that riches people are crying also...
Money can only solve monetary aspects of life but can't sorts the overflow of joy......If money can giveaway happiness why all the big men all over the world still work everyday..

U go school joor.

omenkaLives:
Not necessarily doctored. Just camera lenses distortion. Some kind of mild "barrel lens distortion".

U self go be papa some day o

COURVOISier:
One dry gin or one crate of beer.

Peoplr with misuse of words,what made u better than ur maid

MrPresent:
This is a true life story.

The lady in question is so confused on what to do.

Please advise her responsibly:

(Matured Minds Only)

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Good morning, I am married into a very wealthy home, my husband is the eldest child, they are four, 3 male and a female.

Last two years I got a nanny, she's 32 years, my husband is in charge of his father company, his father has houses everywhere around the world but he's leaving with us, because of loneliness, he lost his wife 12yrs ago and since then he refused to marry again, he's 65years old but still young, I have a supermarket, so my nanny cook and takes care of the home while I'm away, my nanny has been sleeping with my father in-law but I didn't know, March this year we found out she's pregnant and she said it was papa that was responsible, when I ask her how long she has been sleeping with him she said since last year.

I was shouting at her when my husband shut me up that I shouldn't talk to her like that, that she's not a child, my own house help! When my husband talk to his father about it, he said the girl, that is my nanny has been his companion that he wants to marry her, mogbe I said over my dead body, my own maid, instead of my husband to be on my side he said if marrying the girl will make his father Happy that he has his support, the house we are living is build by my father in-law, it's a duplex, Mummy as am writing you my husband and his brothers followed my father in-law to pay my nanny dowry, they came back yesterday.

I didn't go with the children because I can't Believe my father in-law stoop so low to marry my maid when there are other women out there, last night I was talking to my husband and he told me to stop referring her as my nanny that she's now Married to his father therefore I should be calling her "Aunty mi", and my kids who usually call her Aunty should start calling her "Mummy", and I asked him what will she be calling me, he said anything she likes.

I am just here crying, someone I brought into my home has now turned madam over me, what should I do, and I can't tell my husband to rent another apartment when he has a duplex, papa can't leave either because he want to be close to his son, how long can I take this, please I need advice. Thanks. Married for 10years.

What a Life!

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What Are Your Thoughts?

She would be in the comment section reading.

Akpomudje for my own street kwa Who b dis people sef,

arinze198:
https://pmexpressng.com/2-married-women-fight-publicly-over-alleged-prostitution/

Between two evil bro, choose neither, there is nothing better in this situation.

CharleyBright:
Sad way to die.
But he just escaped being prosecuted for gross negligence and loss of lives.

And truth be told, it is better the fatal incident happened now when the building was still under construction. The death toll would have been in hundreds if the building had been completed and rented out for office use.

Which one be necessary death my brother

Freestainworld:
Oyibo will just be dying uneccessary death.

Saddening indeed, he was an estate agent and most probably they called him because of a fictitious property, they posing as a prospective client and as usual of estate agents excused himself to answer money call. Quite unfortunate, RIP

Puissant:
Saddening

“He was called on phone during the service as he walked out of the church to receive the call. The sound of gun shots rend the air, which drew the attention of the congregation,” Okasanmi said.

What if the assailants were the ones calling him? It appears that he’s probably the target for this horror.

Very well analyzed, I feel pain for that young lady, the thing dey pain me, e dey pain me well after shagging ashi in Germany wasted his time and age, now put all his failures on the future of an innocent girl, same prayers here, God will give the family the wisdom to go about this but as for me the time, strength, energy and resources they will use in solving this, I will advise the op to carry on with his life and also take care of his parent, my principle is it is better we train up a child than correcting an adult, all these things are lesson to the wise. The same issue I have fought in my extended family, brah I just bone to go start mine ooooo. It is harsh but if that is the only way to go, baba I go follow am.

Spherical77:
You are right bro. That evil man brainwashed the girl. Moreso, he took advantage of her knowing she's from a poor home and she's a Yoruba girl. The girl was just his sacrificial lamb when he was deported with nothing, he felt let him just start a family. Trust me bro if that man wasn't deported and he's fully loaded he would never settle for the poor girl

She can't try this nonsense with an igbo girl, rich or poor

God will judge the man, but the family should work on her case. They shouldn't leave her to her fate because that was what the man want

Bro just keep praying for her, if u decided to go with ur dad or any of your relatives to go see her I bet u, they will mess u up, my sister's case was that the useless man she got married to when they were dating told he he had 5 shops at Ladipo, came to.my dad and said as the first in law in the family, he is now the first son of the family, my pop c slap the idiot that day oooo, he started dragging things that belong to the family, my dad died before I could know what was happening this my sister has packed the clothes I personally went shopping for my late father and took it to the husband, it was during the course if the burial I visited their home and I saw clothes of same semblance I bought my sister immediately shouted that is it only my father that has those clothes, I was like what da heck The house I helped my parent to build, the man is asking that they want to leave there as the first in law of the family, my brother things dey happen na be say some just keep quiet.....they have 5 children and are leaving a luge far far below the standard my late father brought us up with....... God will deliver your sister, I just hope and pray that it will not be too.late for her.

NPTJ:
She was massively brainwashed beyond words. Her memory verse then was that the man would take her to Obodo oyinbo .. that was what aggravate my dad to beat her then. My dad was asking her if she's normal for a deportee who had spent half of his productive years in a foreign land and was deported with nothing. She doesn't even know what happened that made him got deported.

She was really brainwashed beyond comprehension. Chai some men will not make heaven o. Marrying with deciet

My dear she is not bitter about anything, I am typing this with all honesty that lady has been brainwashed to see her husband above everyone and whatsoever he says is the final, the truth is the Germany returnee is not a good man and he is enjoying every bit of the dissociation with her family members, he is lording himself over the young innocent girl, I have exactly same thing going on in my extended family and the worse thing is the man will be filler with pride and same has put on his wife, check them well they are poverty stricken, I pray that the lady will be liberated from the shackle of mental and emotional slavery the man has put her into.

koyyes:
Have a family meeting and find out how to contact the husband.

Seems your sister is bitter about something that happened in the past while still with your family.

He is a very good husband and father to our children, madam God forbid if u loose this good husband of yours to death, will ur extended family member be there for you A good man can never ever hurt his wife or children, please listen to him and find out his reasons for giving those suggestions. Please attend to your own family not thinking of extended family, after finding details.of what made oga say those things both of u can discuss it and reach an agreement, I tell u if this brings issue to your family and this good.man turns out to be bad, ur extended family cannot do anything, keep or home intact first, oga have reasons and u finding out can massage his ego to rescind on such decisions.

fearlessmum:
Good evening all, I have been a guest of this forum for some years now, I decided to register after reading a story shared yesterday by NPTJ to also share mine and asked for advice as i am really confused right now.
Although my own case is different as i am legally married.
My husband and I have been married for five years now with two wonderful kids.
Aside the reason for this thread, He's a very good husband and father to our kids.
The issue is , he doesn't want me to go to the village with the children that automatically means I can't go as I'm still breastfeeding our second child , I cannot leave him and travel as he's not even up to one year.

My husband and my parents stays in different states. We went to the village last year July and there's no plan of going this year, whenever I raise discussion concerning the issue he simply replied that we'll go when there's a need for us to go.
I hardly go for any function in the village except it directly involves my parents.
This has brought a lot of issues between my nuclear and my extended families.
It wasn't like this when we married newly, we do visits them then and even go during Christmas holidays but all that changed when we had our first child, he feels we can't take the child to the village so that "village people" will not attack him.
We've quarrelled about this severally yet nothing changes, I am tired of arguing about this .
Please married folks, am I suppose to abandoned my extended family just because I am married? Please I need matured advice before I do something that I will regret.
Is my husband right on this ? has anyone been in my position, please help me.

Oga this will do little or nothing to it, what of if they got there and the sister denied them I have experienced one that even when they got to the station, the lady told the IPO that she doesn't know any of her relatives and the Hus and just took her home up on till now, but the worse parr of Tue story is the woman and her husband ended up in abject poverty and she died in penury, the bottom line is the lady has been hypnotized/brainwashed and bet me that returnee from Germany is an irresponsible fellow.

greenie77:
No matter how dire things are for you guys financially, your father, your elder brother and 2 ot 3 of your uncles should have traced their location and showed up unexpectedly before now.

Sadly, some of such cases have never ended well as most times it is at the death of woman involved that her family gets involved again.

Words can never ever work on her again she has been brainwashed completely by the man, I have exactly same thing happening in my family and the worse is this same sister of mine sees everything good in her husband's foolishness, baba pray that we don't come in contact with devil in human form.

lilvicky68:
You need to trace her and have a word with her to know how she's faring and also know the next step to take..

I missed working/lecturing in Illaro poly

Oga be careful, nobody is saying you shouldn't help anyone but your security should be a priority, admitting a total stranger into your car is not really advisable, the best u can do within that short period you guys have together is go give him your card or even your number where when u missed a call you can easily call back and then ask him to meet u in an open place. Forget good will and Put your family first in any situation, if anything had happened to you what will be the fate of your wife and children

yanabasee1:
I try to be more careful.... But, I also try to give assistance to anyone in need.....


My good will not be in futile.......

Let them just do what they need to do and make apmt carry out their jobs, exporters are groaning, containers are not gating in, after following their directives of NXP and ness payments what is making them disturb export business, I just hope this suspension thing does not have a ripple effect on apmt.

Good morning dear nairalanders, can anyone please help explain what is happening in apmtA apapa port for the more than one week export has not been going in, barges are on the water with containers loaded, terminals for barges are filled, containers are not been offloaded in the terminals, truck owners are charging heavily on demurrages, please help exporters to service their customers as the event of October 2020 should not re occur again, we have agreed on nxps and ness payments, what is happening.......

wale377:
Tyson fury calls out Anthony Joshua about their upcoming match. In the video below,


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVNcjoX5STo

you can hear Tyson fury calling Anthony Joshua names like
“Useless duffer”, “big ugly shit house” etc

He also said he’s gonna smash his face as there is nothing Anthony Joshua would do about it.

Quoting theSUN


https://www.thesun.co.uk/sport/14798802/tyson-fury-quit-corner-anthony-joshua-three-rounds/amp/

To hell with the gypsy king, go AJ.......

Nauttyprof:
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I think Sokoloan's caption would be like this:

He paid the price but you need to pay us back our loans. We no dey play with our money oooo....

Happy Easter from us at Sokoloan

una no go kill person for this nairaland platform.

MejiLoyon:
From sokoloan

You will dance soko to hell if you don't pay us this Easter

From Lapo

You and your guarantor will Lapto station,our money still remain 2500

bros e be like say you dey use them well.

Zamfara once a peaceful state has now become something else, sincerely speaking if not for insecurity I would have advised you complete your service in zamfara, it is a very good place and the people are loving and treat corpers with love and respect, I remembered my stay in Kaura-Namoda that year, I didn't even bother going home all through my service year cos it was fulfilling seeing someone at the point of death come into the hospital and you see him in 3-4 days time on his feet. The joy was just there. Follow your heart bro though I have a young champ there at the moment in same tsafe, the guy self one redeploy after much much......follow your heart bro

Hmmmmmm uturu

I don't agree with you totally, you cannot exhaust everything to be said in marriage,you and your hubby allowed a secondary attention to be a primary one and as such his love for politics took a better part of your attentions, you can't tell me he doesn't love politics even before he met you. For the records if your mind has not been perverted recently I see no reason y your husband's unclothedness will not be exciting you, don't paint marriage to people who want to go into it as if it is a death trap, tell us the truth,you have been eyeing someone else but you are scared to mention it so that you will not be labelled a loose woman. I will be 8 years in marriage this year and I can tell you with all manner of honesty, it is the best decision I have taken, I am not saying we didn't have our differences or ups and downs but in all we still and are still pulling through. Please work it out with your hubby and the next step you are about taking not finding your husband sexually attracting even when he is naked should be buried. Wish u the best.

Rhodaogunpeju:
I decided to write this because I have come to realize that Love can get boring..
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I remember when I met my husband , he was such a Nice and handsome Man. I mean I already decided if he ask me out I will say yes from the first day I met him but I still made him beg and purse me for a whole year before finally accepting to date him ..

6 months after our relationship we got married. and our marriage was bliss , I married a friend , we have our downs and quarell but we always make up before we sleep because of the fact that we made it compulsory that we must have a family prayer Every night , we usually settle most of our fights during these prayers ..

But sometimes marriages can get boring , you have gisted all the entire gist ,talk about everything talkable till there is actually nothing to talk about,. Then the husband starts drifting away .maybe he's got a new friend or found a new love ...sometime this new love might not be a person ,For instance my husband new love is politics..He's always working and when he's home he is either watching the News on Tv and even when he tries to talk to me he will be like "Baby can you believe what kai muhammad said again"..

And I'm just sitting like who and what is my concern with lai muhammad?... Yet he doesn't see my reaction,he just continues to talk untill we fall asleep.i listen to him because I have to he is my husband.

The love flame was slowly wearing our ,I mean he no longer wants me to wait for him before I eat. .. if I call him to inquire when he is coming back home , he replies with "I don't know but eat o.. don't wait for me "...

How about the sex life ... What use to be mind blowing sex is now just average .just because he's had too much if it ..I could also say the same about me..I mean before seeing my husband in boxers turns me on but now even if he's naked it doesn't seem to move me

Hmmm but regardless I still love my husband. .I have sat him down many times and talked about spicing things up but you know Men... Anyways the moral of my story is that when you marry ..marry someone that even when he/she changes you would still love them because trust me they will....
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Hmmm

This same news was reported sometime after lockdown last year that the woman lied to her husband that she will be travelling abroad without letting him know she was going for a liposuction..... Men should appreciate their wives, talk them out of body shamming after child birth, make them look as sexy as though they just met even after big stomach as a result of child birth, it will go a long way to prevent such.... You can imagine with her £ 5,000, it is now RIP.....chai my condolence to the family and especially the child with special need.

evans4luv:
the God of adeboye will defend you this year and beyond, you are blessed

This is scriptural (psalm 20:1-5) and I say a very big Amen to that and May the God of Adeboye defend you all through this 2021 and beyond. Amen!

Asadujames202:
Thunder fire youuuuuuuuuu



Aphonja fake pastor

I pity you, for this new year with such attitude, you sounded tribalistic, exposed your upbringing of being disrespectful, hatred written all over your 5 seconds post..... Bro is too early, you can always make amends.....wish u well