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On the part of d**k sucking, I won't be a party to that, but the gf shot herself in the keg by saying she didn't take his calls because she was upset and Patrick was brought in smelling alcohol. Most possibly he needed to talk to someone closest to him before the incidence but the being upset part of her may fuel his emotions leading to such. At this juncture she should have kept quiet and mourn the bereaved. Whether u like it or not, this her statement will surely be used against her.

ukaface:
this one suppose receive national award for foolishness and stupidity.

Wish you well bro!

Utanisco:
Lols bro
MArriage isn't a must
VEry optional

If u have flair for marriage
Good to you

PEople are ending up their marriages
So what's the point

LAst last everything na vanity

Allow me enjoy ma singlehood

I want to live more than 96

God bless thee

Sometimes I wonder how people think to achieve a peaceful home is not possible, the creation of a woman was and is never will be a problem, if you and your family will serve the same God that created a woman who you termed a problem that means something is wrong somewhere.

Utanisco:
The problem of this world started in genesis 2 vs 18
When God said let me make help meat for a man that it is not good for a man to be alone

That was a really deep problem to mankind

That is where it all started

To you people that wish to marry in future
Goodluck

As for me n my family
We will serve the lord


Thankyou n God bless you

There are but crazy fares these guys are calling it's so crazy. I don't know why some Nigerians are so heartless, even the keke guys have the mouth to be saying make una no go blame government wey make them increase keke price to 1.3m, if you no one enter abeg commot. I was very peeved felt like hitting the useless man. But I really commend one agbero manning isolo to iyana isolo keke. He was giving his fellow keke riders strict warnings that nobody should increase the fare.

ShaqFu:
Aren't there Keke Napep or Korope buses plying those roads?

Chinedu Ekeke would have been a better option

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Yes Minjin first of, I salute your courage of sharing your story here it is indeed an eye opener and also a means of making amends, my take on your submission is this, you are privileged to be in charge of pop c account, have it at the back of your mind that it is only temporal. Use the opportunity to invest with his money so long your investing with his money does not hurt him or make him feel cheated and make sure you Carey him along, sincerely speaking he may show interest but deep inside of him he will feel proud that he has a son that can manage his resources, try within your limit to curtail madam's expenses, this might make you be at loggerheads with pop c, reason being that if the man see say his bar just dey drop like naira value, he go just go behind you block his atm card, you no go fit access that account again, madam expenses after giving birth I tell you she go continue. Have a timeline of achieving something. Wish u all the best and safe delivery to your lovely wife.

Minjim:
I knew some kid will definitely talk trash.
I remember I said my father, not yours?

I hope I'm correct.
This is not a singles thread. You can't understand family issues if you've never started any

My line of thoughts though not this area of op you dey try ooooo, peeps are really getting it hard in this economy but I know one or two persons here can be of help. 95k per month My guy buys sma gold 2 every week for 4,100 pampers like once in 2weeks for 2,800 in a month he spends 16,400 on baby milk and 5,600 on Pampers. Baby alone na 22k, come join baby's two other siblings, school is about to resume for new session, baby will start creche. Bobs Nigerians are trying. it is well.

OscarJaden:
Nairaland family wuna to good
If you able to help OP with a better paying Job i will be very happy because the way things are going
Things will be very difficult for him once his wife put to bed....
Buying baby foods for a month is no child's play
God bless you

God bless you and replenish you the more, I have been reading comments and all I see is op you dey try, I know some of those that commented really want to help but don't have the capacity. Please if there is a better job offer for op from your end please help. This I know will make him an ambassador of men who deny themselves of so many things just to meet up with family need.

gunther6:
Oya if you don’t mind dropping your account number, take 50k. Satisfy your wife’s cravings. I salute you and your wife.

I have no words for that girl, 80% of Nigerians have less than 500k in their accounts. 40% of Americans have none at all and half of retirement age people cannot afford to retire.

Life transcends money, so long one’s life is lived with dignity. God bless you man.


I haven’t heard from the poster, @ tomtomastom4 pls reach out. Peace.

Even tinubu go dey laugh where him dey......he go dey say shetti bobo o ti lule

Massiveglory:
Vawulence dress sense

How long will u keep eating at chicken republic You were the one that provided the money she used in cooking the meal right Double expenses. Gather yourself together have some words with her and tell her what you saw, someone advised her to use the intimacy gadget, that same person can still tell her to try the raw one outside, please be a man, confront her and up your bedmatics. Happy rebonding with your wife.

Adetayo41:
I will try it, but since morning, I haven't talked to her and also did not eat her food since morning, because i am pained, she has been asking me question, about what happened to me,, I just say nothing, I m about to go eat @ chicken rep

Please don't waste your intelligence on unintelligent people.

NaijaRoyalty:
And you wonder why Nigeria is currently in a sorry state

My guy this no be gender issue, pray say you no meet these evil men that use hypnosis on people to run their evil act. That lady wasn't her self in all the doings

Adeling:
Rubbish! 5 worthless men to one dumb lady!

She obviously enjoyed the sex that's why she went back to see them the next day.

Sometimes I wonder how this gender reason.. couldn't she have reported them to the police before going back to them

You have not said anything!

Abudu2000:
why are u guys blowing lies from your ass like this, are u ppl this wicked that you don't want your fellow Africans to come see real life and make better life for themselves? I'm in naija but all my cousins over there are stankily rich. If u see the house my age mate built at ikoyi it's not your regular 100m Houses o, everything fully digital down to the gate. He now brings cars from that way into Nigeria. Last year b4 he came he shipped in a range Rover 2018 model, he refused to sell that it was his personal ride all through the 4weeks he spent and it's still packed in his compound.
Let me not even talk about his elder brother and sisters, the house they built for their mom alone and I know when these guys went there via land with absolutely nothing. Nigerians are too wicked

Lol see that babe dey cover her fave with book.

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I love this, please explain to him more, I was surprised when I saw his submissions, please I will advise your ministry organise a sensitization tour in all local government area of the state and let them know what they need to know about the water board in the state else you guys will have people of the below mentions to spread false rumours.

mrvitalis:
Oga the water board in Enugu is functioning but not everywhere go ask questions

Up till Feb. When the crime was committed.

TOPCRUISE:
The hotel should be held responsible for her death. Cctv was faulty since January up till this July. Does it cost millions to repair cctv. They did not repair anything.

He is a merciful God, mercy expires upon death. Don't judge the book by its cover.

MITCHELL96:
Nawa oo


So they want Angels to come down from heaven to that club and grant Their request ?

Don't be a cheap product. In the face of unemployment, maintain your self worth. Do you know that if he picked this job, it will prevent him from seeing better opportunities,if people see value in you, they will be willing to pay and chase after you and that was y the principle kept calling him. Op please ignore that man.

dangoteinlaw:
Better go back and take the offer oh unless u want to become a pos agent haha
I tot I read that pos now requires ican, naija na cruise lol.

I love your assertion but be informed that any word,sentence or statement that comes after "with due respect" is an insult.

Hayzed0601:
With all due respect, Toks2008 is one of the most matured person I've ever come across in Nairaland.Man has experience in multiple facets of life.I always learn one or two things from his post.Respect

PHOOL, do you know how many lives that have been lost during this period if sit at home, do you know how many families have been rendered fatherless, motherless and childless, is it because non of your family member has been affected and u see the corpse of people like ordinary log.

minasi4841:
No sacrifice is too much for Nnamdi Kanu. Our people should understand

Op, I feel your pains and my registered condolence for your loss, that being said the truth is the truth, you were living with another man's daughter for more than 3 years because I sure know the relationship is more than that, you should have done the needful at least doing something no matter how small on her. At this juncture please see with the elder brother of the deceased in a calm way, ask the best way to go about this, I believe you may have a soft landing from the family members.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
Back then when my mom was warning me not to go that far when our relationship started She kept on insisting I should go for the girls in my tribe, I thought she was just been a tribalist bigot. If only I had listened

She bore me a son, he's 3years now... though her people knows me well from normal visitation..but I haven't been able to pay her bride price yet due to the hardship this regime has on us. life happened, unfortunately she got sick since February, ever since then from one hospital to another..I took several loans from people for hospital bills to the point of me looking sick myself.so sad for us we lost her last night.

I informed her elder brother who knows about all thats happening, he called me back this morning to tell me that his people told me to be prepared to marry her corpse. He went further and said if I don't pay her bride price, my boy will be taken from me and I should be ready to withstand the consequences.
I was surprised, I called for the burial arrangements not for a marriage ceremony

I blantly told him, I won't, why would I get married to her corpse. He was angry and cut the call on me.

Am more concerned about my son, please lawyer's in the house do they have any right to take my son away from me?
Even if they do am ready to give it to them, but spending money to Marry her corpse I will not.

I only brought this here, if had chance for my son whose still in my custody.

See how confused you and your signature are like yul edochie, Nigeria is dead, free Biafra and say no to sharia. SMH

PDJT:
-Go kill him then, and marry all his wives. Only losers kill when their lives are not at risk.

Thinking same way, what level of irresponsibility

cochtrane:
And this guy wanted to be Nigeria's president?

Exactly bro. Best wishes.

rickpat:
yes,I think that part has not too good too come from him

He should have kept quiet, victors are like that means he admit the fact that during his own days he did same.

rickpat:
matured response...


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MadamVanessa:




Sleeping with the corpse for 4days? this type of weird behavior I often heard it in western countries.

Justice for Precious Okeke.

The idiotic boyfriend should be kill immediately.

Since I discovered the joy in dildos, I have never wish or consider having a boyfriend again.

Nice observation but the truth is look not on the messenger but the message, op gave a brilliant analysis of how the economy of the south east is bleeding, same thing I told a guy on this platform that Monday sit at home is not justifiable at all,.what of an emergency situation a doctor is needed, make ur research and you will be shocked that these cases are grossly under reported, I just pray this madness stops. Suggesting sit at home only when MNK appears in court could but not totally be seen as the solidarity of the south east to one of their sons and not crippling the economy of a whole region every week that's really absurd.

Rugaria:
Go through the post history of the restless op.
You will notice that lately, all he does here is to ceaselessly unload all sorts of uncouth vituperations on the people of the South East. It has become some sort of mission for him. He has become shameless doing this.

Now, all of a sudden, he's worried about the well being of The South East! Not like we're complaining to him! He's all over the place, preaching against dit at home and all that... Whenever your arch enemies start to advice you against a course of action, follow that course through. There lies your success..

He is not suggesting what to do to release MNK all he is saying is that this Monday sit at home has crippled the economy of the east, children don't go to school, market women with daily income don't get it, what of health care when there is emergency, let us wear a human face in all our doings. Another point he raised was if they did it only when he is appearing in court it will be much better than this new abnormal they have introduced in the south east.

Whiteangel1234:
Okay what will you suggest they do to enable the release of Mazi Nnamdi Kanu ?

Take up arms like Boko Haram ?

Oga the woman is cheating (like you alleged) was it that she cheated once that made him sum up the whole anger in him that he beats her to dead or the cheating was serial, can you confirm this , na who dem catch be thief, can the man vouch that he himself has not cheated on her?? If a woman cheats once and the man finds out I bet you after beating the woman, he goes on a cheating spree just that he owes no one no explanation. For records bro I am happily married with 7 years of love, respect, tolerance and sanity in my marriage. Let's tell ourselves the truth men!! Women get their own no doubts but then we too got to check ours too.

wowmenow:
But you have verified that the husband beat her to death you believe that part of the story?

I am sure you are not married to understand what men is going through in hand of this modern women.

Nobody is justifying a man beating a woman but their is always two side to a coin.

The woman is cheating with another man that lead to the serious beating from the man alot of fact will come out soon

We should not shut that part of the story

Boss please don't spread information yet to be verified, the dead cannot speak for itself, the gospel singer is late and u expect the suspect to not to say anything to justify his actions Toxic relationships should never ever be endured at all, I have a man beating the wife for no just cause after which he will force his way on the woman, the next thing na pregnancy, the woman just dey born anyhow. It is so annoying seeing my fellow mab behave like this.

wowmenow:
You just write everything in my mind when we here abusive relationship we only look at the men part of it.

The gospel singer that died more information is coming out on how the husband caught her cheating with another gospel artist frank Edward.

Kai nobody prays for a toxic relationship but red flags are not to be ignored, good u came out clean that u had your faults too, nobody should endure in the name of saying I don't know what people will say, speak up and move on.

MadamVanessa:





God gave me the wisdom to quit mine since. Though blessed with two lovely kids, but I have no regret that I made that decision of leaving such a worthless idiotic marriage. Poor him, he's walking around with just one ball in his scrotum. I destroyed one with my fury kick he nearly died that day.

That action of mine towards him till date I am not regretting at all. I have lost so much in the hand of my ex husband which time won't permit me to say it all. I wouldn't say I was a perfect wife, no, I wasn't, I have my flaws too, but despite my flaws I tried all I could to make my marriage work. I am not happy because I am a divorcee, it's not something I am proud of. But sometimes something doesn't worth the stress,the abused and the insults so one had to let it go.

I won't say much regarding this, but the bold step I took to quit the marriage save my life till this moment. The second wife he took will probably not give birth again in this life because he hit the poor lady and damaged everything in her tommy, it was a miracle that she survived it and she too kissed the marriage goodbye after she survived. That was wisdom on her own part.