I am interested in being a moderator on this platform seun.

Gentlelox:
I don't please people by copying and pasting contents and link trying to win validation. I am self validated.

Have you had ur drugs ?

You go explain tire. No evidence

UcheKingsley1:
She is too hideous, maybe she is scared of appearing old and ugly.

Mumu make we see your picture na ode

Mhistasaints:
I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.

We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life.
I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died.
She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.

I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.

Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.

I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.

I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.

Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.

I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.

I got so angry. I wanted her out.
I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay.
After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?

Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.

I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me?
And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.

What should I do?

I'm shocked at why you'd call your own son a liability

Bigredmachine:
Hmmmm I comment my reserve

*reserve my comment

Styluss:
I can only read gore. I cant stand to watch gore documentaries, if she is like that, God knows OP is in for a long thing. A woman watching gore is insane

Gore and documentaries about true crime aren't the same

How is this good? Economy dey in shambles this one say hin wan bring palliative... and some Nigerians don dey convulse because of this scam waiting to happen

TinubuShet:

The thing be say I do not want to give her the phone sef cos this girl never post me once and she Dey post other Guys and her argument be say , good boyfriend scarce make her friend no come snatch me that’s y she Dey hide me , imagine

She don see mugu now

KingOfTheDamned:


How much for short time? It's Thursday and the weekend is coming and we both know you Re hungry and need money for the weekend so how much to have sex with you for a short time ?

Hope you don't cost more than 2K o? because your looks are average at best 😒

Use the money to feed your starving family

Either she's got a burner account or something

wahala no dey finish.

Na this one con be the problem wey you get for your life ni?

I guess men get married because they want a woman they can call theirs, a woman they want to settle down with and wants to be the mother of his children. A companion. Someone they want to build a home with.

The men here complaining are low IQ retards. Please if you know you don't want to get married then don't.

mushroomFarm:

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I might have made a few mistakes in the past (not sex related) but ever since I met my first and only girlfriend (we are together for two years now) all I want is to keep loving her and being a good guy to her. It's not exactly hard...when you love someone, you respect them and respect gives you so much self control because you only see the best of the world in the eyes of the woman you love.
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Yes many men as promiscuous by nature. As someone in the medical field I can argue on and on about the biology and anatomy and physiology and psychology behind this... At the same time we can chose what we want to be, we can chose to be responsible and good expecially when the right, loving woman comes along.
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I will always always be loyal to my GF. She is my world.

Men like you are rare. Your girl is lucky

Crucialgem:
Women are being so biase with their comments on this topic, op said he will never cheat on her and why should a woman ever think of retaliating her husband if he cheats that mentality is so wrong and unafrican

Ohh So the man cheating on the wife to begin with is African and the mentality is rainbow

Valoromega:
Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat)
She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.

I told her that would be the end of our marriage

This married man dey on colos o

So if your wifey starts to dey flirt with other men once in a while you go like am

Brainmytool:


She has her friends believing that am her future. Which I know am not.
She works so hard to see I treat girls less harshly. She thinks am the devil and am rude to girls. Hanty some times stays naked cooking, reading, watching movies all naked. Na her house she dey.

She cant own me.

Since you don't see her in your future why the actual fudge are you still with her abeg do the needful and part ways with her biko.

So sorry about that dear. Lemme guess na affiliate marketing the guy dey teach?

Shalommy:
He's not a fool. A lots of our ladies are something else down there.

That one no concern me. It's it fact that he said he has a girlfriend who's currently in school naim dey vex me.

bukiah:
as in, very worthless.
He thought he was making sense, not knowing sounded just like a fool

The man na big fool. I wonder how the babe dey cope with this kin narcissist.

Rexymania:
You're having sex with cheap girls bcus you're cheap

A very cheap and worthless man the op is

Sisora:
So, I met this girl yesterday. Not very pretty but konji was killing man pikin.

So I say make I run her matter na.

I invited her over, and flirted with her and then got touchy because I could see she was responding to my vibes.

Anyways, we off clothes and wanted to do the do.

Naim, I start to dey perceive one kind of smell o.

Omo, Wetin be dis?

But as the smell no strong well well and man pikin dey really really Hot, I say make I still proceed na.

Na just to cum. E no go kee me.

Mumu me. Mumu me. Chai!

As I start to the f*ck this girl, na so the smell start to the increase o.

Walai. The smell come dey strong like say na gutter.

Jeez!
Is like the wetter she becomes, the stronger the smell

I no wan embarrass am, so I just continue but Omo I no fit breathe.

Come be like I dey choke myself.

I say OK, make I turn her around na for doggy..

Worst mistake.

Naso shit smell come miss with the thing.

Girls abeg make una dey take care of una self abeg.

Shit smell everywhere. Naso vomit just dey come my throat.

Luckily, one call just enter her phone. Naim I pull my prick come Stand up o. If no be that call eh, I swear I for vomit ontop her back yesterday.

Say make we continue. Me no gree o. I just wear my cloth comot with condom still wrapped on my penis.

Na for road I go comot condom throwaway

Make my girlfriend do come back to school abeg 😩😩. If she dey around this kain nonsense no for ever happen.

You're not even worth it. I'm mean for your girlfriend. The quicker she dumps you the better for her. Why do men lack commitment wtf. You're a worthless man

Fisiryorh:
How does this news affect the price of garri?....

Or the price of fuel

Beebah321:
Why be say na religious people bad pass?
Na wa ooo

They're the most evil.

makeherscream:
Good afternoon my fellow nairalanders I greet you all ,

my girlfriend who is still an apprentice bought a new phone yesterday , I was surprised when she came to my house yesterday holding the new phone on her hand ,

When I ask her how and where she get money to buy the phone , she said she have been saving money since January to buy the phone, am wondering where she get all the money she has been saving ever since from ,🤔

because she's just an apprentice she's not earning salary or is it the little 5k ,10k 15k that I'm giving her she was saving or is it what am thinking?🤔 I just hope is not what I am thinking 🙁 hmmmmm Nigerian girls will not kill me ,

She lost her phone last year November I promise her I will get her a new phone that she should be patient,

and have been planning to surprise her with a new phone on her birthday , her birthday is just few weeks from now June 20 ,

Nairalanders how una see this matter

Then ask how how she take get the phone now why you come here dey disturb us

God. I pray she is found safely

Nawa o. This is unnecessary but na hin money sha

So basically what you're trying to say is relationships are all about knacking omo... Dating in this generation get as e be

Sportybet

iTroll:
Nigerians are big hypocrites
Someone is shouting 21 years old there
Shey 21 years old person na small pikin? And he's even in his 3rd year in uni
Another one day shout first class. Did he tell you he was looking for first class?

I tire for this countrymen way I get here.

OP, you're on the right and wrong forum (at the same time)

Right, considering the fact that there are fellow Nigerians here who can give you advice as it related to the naija culture and climate

Wrong, considering the fact that majority of the folks here are huge hypocrites
Please go to Quora or reddit, you'll find honest and constructive people there

Asin so many immature people full this seun forum. You dey seek for advice 90 percent go insult you while the few would actually try to help

Rayban25:




So were you planning on not swallowing your pride before to save your dog

Asin.. I no understand this seun o. I no know wetin pride dey find inside trying to save his dog

Rostikol:
The magnificent Benin Bronzes. The British looted the palace of thousands of these bronze treasures which are now scattered in museums across Europe and America, commanding prices that range in the millions of dollars.

Why are they still having it Making money on stolen artifacts!! I really think they deserve everything these yahoo guys are doing to them because wtff

These colonial people really destroy a lot of our histories... Sometimes if you think the kin things them do us you go dey vex