₦airaland Forum

Ebonyeyes:
Yes he is a Hot rat just because she talks about it doesent mean she wants him to hit

C'mon,u know its not true.If she talks bout it often den ain't she bein' suggestive?

krisafics:
@ebila,i feel u!

Fenks jare!

Ebonyeyes:
Yes he is a Hot rat just because she talks about it doesent mean she wants him to hit

C'mon,u know its not true.If she talks bout it often den ain't she bein' suggestive?

daylae:
Any bed warmer in the house?

Of course there r.Walestar n co.Wait till they c d advert.

@post,
U already answered ur question.He's principled n does not bend.If dat's his only fault n u fink u can handle it,den u can get back 2geda wif him.Else,just let it slide n look 4 somfin beta.Or don't u fink u deserv beta?

@post,
At least twice daily & money ain't eva put into consideration!!!

@Post,
In terms of physical beauty,i would've just luvd to mould her myself,but i can have b physical beauty n hav d oda fins dat i want now can i?
Oda fins includes;
Must like to read(cos only den will she speak well,gain intelligence n brilliance)
Must like music
Must be confident
Must hav a good sense of humour
Must be open-minded

I no mention too much!

Ebonyeyes:
Its just conversation. Sheesh. We have so many Hot rats loose on NL

krisafics:
Plz pple,Each time am with dis gal,she keep asking me wen last did i do it(as in sex).Though anoda gal av also asked me this same question b4.What do d tink about?What Do they c me as?

@Ebonyeyes,
Do u still fink d guys is Hot?

@Post,
If it happens as often as u make it sound,den i fink she wants it but doesn't wanna com out plain,in order not to feel too cheap.So,if u wanna hit it,den be a bad guy d next time she asks d question.

spoilt:
FYI I know a lot of men who have lost their shapes and they did not bear children.

Agreed.But hav u heard this b4 "Men r moved by tins they see,while women r moved by tins they hear"?For most men,d size of d woman(b4 n afta child bearin') is an important issue.Just like d way u women complain dat d man stops bein' romantic afta marriage.

sweetpie23:
its human nature you can't do anything, neither can I, though some women have a fantastic figure

It is human nature to be fat,it is human nature to work out in order not to be fat.Childbirth is not excuse enough to me sha.I know women who after bearing children go to d gym to take out d fat,every woman can actually do dat.

[quote author=sista-jay link=topic=386089.msg5375339#msg5375339 date=1264303807]You shu said the RIGHT thing here MRbrown!![/quote]Seconded!!!

MRbrownJAY:
typical 9ja mentality that thinks that as long as a person has money, is good looking and "not arrogant" then the marriage will work.
try to raise your standards because if that is what you require in a marriage mate then i can safely call you emotionally cheap.

No mind d thief o jare!

Abekeade08:
@Ebila, Ebonyeyes and I are workout-aholics. Unfortunately this is uncommon among naija girls. If I move home anytime soon, I plan on starting a classy gym chain in Lagos.

I beg o,i be man o(wif a good stick to show 4 it )

MRbrownJAY:
@post
as much as some men would hate to hear it. . . . . . . the same reason why women put on weight after child bearing is the same reason why men get pot belly after a few yrs. its called being comfortable with who they are!

the only difference is that women can blame it all on the baby they carried while men would blame it on excessive beer and amala.

U're on track my borda.But don't u fink it is easier 4 men dan women?Cos a man wit pot-belly can still get 'em lil gurls outside,but a woman wit big belly who is shapeless

[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=386089.msg5370209#msg5370209 date=1264206450]the man in question is silly! si she not his wife and is the baby not his? He should either encourage the woman to tone up or shut the 'eck up disgust kor disgust ni! If she is tobby he's the reason why,[/quote]Bros,no vex i beg Problem is,he's asked her to work out to lose d bulge,but she gets too lazy/reluctant.

Myne White:
Lack of exercise and it is normal to put on weight when pregnant you know?

Yes it is normal,but it can be normal to shed d weight after child birth u know!

olusolami:
wel, i might consent to it, on three conditions, if he is rich, if he is cute, and if he is not arrogant, any other thing, i will build up my love for him, well, by the timewe are two years in the marriage he will fall head over heels in love with me, then i get to be the boss,

Typical gold-digger!

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=384978.msg5370112#msg5370112 date=1264204006]Arranged marriage comes up with so many bad things and
it's very upsetting especially to the woman
I think people should be able to choose their own spouses.[/quote]So true!

Myne White:
Can I sue someone here for breaking my heart? How would the case mend it?

Yes madam.But i tell u,only me can actually win a case like dat. I am a SAN plus i've won a case against som1 a few years back n he had to mend d woman's heart.

190:
lawyers liars neeeded here in the court

criteria would be uploaded later

@190,
Sorry o jare.Had to go to d USA to c how i can bring AbdulMuttalad home(so we go fit flog d yeye boy yansh well well) n realized he didn't even know how to use d bomb d useless pple gave him(yet we don make terrorists list). Anyhow,nyone ho has problem wif ma client shud come tru me first.

Ebonyeyes:
You have to understand that a womans body changes after childbirth and also exercise is not part of Nigeria's culture (Im sure we all see married men rocking the pot-bellied look). Also the woman concentrates on the kids, her husband, the house that she forgets about herself. Men should be supportive instead because Marriage is for better for worse. Me I intend to exercise until the grave

Maybe u r d one i shud get married to. But seriously,if alot of u Nigerian women want muscular men,den u shud also try to keep in shape even after childbearing.I like push ups n sit ups n i'm always gonna do 'em.

Abekeade08:
@op, are you experiencing the same thing.

I am not married and I don't have children yet, however losing weight is hard as it takes a lot of determination and dedication. I am sure it is doubly hard after giving birth, as the woman's attention is mostly on their children at this time. If you are the one going through this, you can't be brash or harsh about her weight gain because women in general are really sensitive about weight issues.

Start a routine of taking walks/jogs together, going to the gym together, compliment her on her efforts and I am sure she will start to get the hint and want to get back into shape ASAP.

Nah,it ain't me at all,i am so single! But ur advice would be useful to d married guys wif d problem who bump in here mistakenly or knowingly! Thanks!!!

I often wonder why women really lose shapes after childbearing.Most of the time they get excessively shapeless leaving the men wondering where their shapely wives are.Why do women fail to work on their shapes after childbearing?I know of a man who,somewhere deep down,gets disgusted when he sees his wife bulgy tummy.Women,is it that difficult keeping in shape after bearing children?

elecktra:
but where are the nice guys wen you need 'em ?? av been with them "un-nice" ones for too long, i need a change its just dat guys can be so

crazy they are sooooo nice while asking you out but wen you guys start going out its a different ball game entirely

Problem is wen he comes along,u take him for a ride.U gurls always like 'em bad.

@post,
I was a good guy once,but had different gurls playin wif my emotions.Right now,i'm just a 'guy',i ain't 'good' n i ain't 'bad'.

spikedcylinder:
Lol but it's the truth. I don't know how to suffer and smile. I will poison him, if he doesn't get me first.

Wot if u end up fallin' for him,u go still kill am?

[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=384978.msg5363801#msg5363801 date=1264117546]you never know, while its not ideal to have someone imposed on you one should never rule out the possibility of the 2 parties actually really liking each other on the long run. Like everything about love, always keep an open mind,[/quote]Totally true! But den again,if u already hav som1,u wouldn't even giv d opportunity of like d person.

cheeryangy:
So do you tink i should just break up wit him. His parents n mine has been actin 'nice nice' to each other

D question is "Do u wanna break up wif him?". 4get arents bein' nice n all,it's not bout dem,but bout u.If u fink he's true(which u can find out by bein wif him n takin fins very slow),den it is ok to stick wif him.But if u already feel ur mind ain't in it,just quite it.

@post,
Ur first mistake was datin' someone u weren't attracted to(at least not wen u were in d uni).Weda ur Mum encouraged u or not,u shud've asked urself wot u wanted,wot u deserved.Feelin' guilty bout ur nupe boyfriend ain't gonna change a fin.My advice for u is that u stop finkin' bout other people.Weda they hate u or not doesn't matter,wot matters is ur own happiness.Beliv me,it is beta 4 people to hate u dan 4 u to hate urself.Fink bout 'U' 1st den let odas com after.

Uche2nna:
Chineke mee

spikedcylinder:
I am very picky about humans beings so the chances of finding an arranged mate will be slim pickings. If I am forced into an arranged marriage, one person will be dead in six months, max.

platinumnk:
spiky it cant be that bad naa of course they will try to find the best match for you, not just random x's and o's

Just cos u got lucky doesn't mean he will.

@post,
It ain't bad to go back to an ex.But u really have to analyze fins n ask urself whether d reason u broke up will not materialize again(n u shud hav a very specific answer).If u r not sure,den u shud try n take it very slow(fins will reveals demselves dis way).But if u can 4get bout him n move on(if e go easy 4 u),den i'd advice u do just dat.Goodluck!!!

koolchicco:
Arranged marriage is a NO NO.

However, We can't deny it happens tho!

Woah! U sound very, did ur folks try it on u?

platinumnk:
2 things:


If one of the persons is in love with someone else, IT WILL NOT WORK.


Arranged Marriages at times Work, I'm a product of a Strong One


But honestly men are NOT like they were 30 years ago, so I would definitely leave Arranged marriages alone.

I totally agree wif u.

platinumnk:
^ My parents had an arranged marriage - their 25th anniversary is coming up, anything else? 

Ur parents didn't get married wen internet was discovered.My point is,it was in d very old days!

[quote author=echo- bee link=topic=384978.msg5357523#msg5357523 date=1264023336]na wa o.i am speechless[/quote]No be ur fault!!!

elecktra:


really they still do that ?? that is so 70's na wa o, well my parents will not try that one with me sha,they know the kind of daughter they  have,what if the

arranged husband is a nit-wit i ll now be stuck with him for the rest of my life ?? God forbid. we are in the "hip" century now, things dont work that way nymore

pple should just get over themselves and grow up arghhh !!!  

No vex na!

ebila:
@post,
The reason is that virginity is now considered old-fashioned.Sex which was like a taboo(talkin' bout it or indulging in it) is now widely accepted.It ain't wrong or right to be a virgin,it's just personal and dat shud be respected.I'm in my late twenties n i ain't a virgin n nope,i don't regret it.This virginity thing i way overrated if u ask me

jmoore:
@ebila, u confuse yourself. imagining giving same advice to your kids'it is not right or wrong to be a virgin'  on being old fashioned, then u have to accept suicide bombers because they are new fashioned. a good value remains a good value, be it in ancient days or modern era

Nah,it is u who is confusing wot i said.I neva said i consider,i only said it is considered(generalized).There's a stage a child will get to n he/she will know wot's good for him'her.I definately will talk to my children on stayin' away from sex,but dat's be when they are young.But when they get old enough,i will talk to them about sex in general(protected n unprotected and also the consequencies/results of both).

jmoore:
And if you do not regret losing your virginity b4 marriage, thats because you still have not come to your right senses. that nigerian terrorist is pleading not guilty and does not regret his actions because he is still not in his right senses

Ur stand on this virginity mantter is quite funny.Listen man,i most definately am in my right senses.U r a virgin right?It's nice,keep it dat way.But can u just tell me why being a virgin is all so important to u?Apart from religious point of view doh!

Pweety4me:
@OP They can't stand wait no more. . . temptations everywhere arghhh!. . .

Obviously she's lost hers

@post,
The reason is that virginity is now considered old-fashioned.Sex which was like a taboo(talkin' bout it or indulging in it) is now widely accepted.It ain't wrong or right to be a virgin,it's just personal and dat shud be respected.I'm in my late twenties n i ain't a virgin n nope,i don't regret it.This virginity thing i way overrated if u ask me