₦airaland Forum

Pwaves:
Iv seen arangd marriags fail cos parters luv dfrnt pple. They nver luv or undstnd each othr n culd nt tolerate themslvs

My point exactly!

Ebonyeyes:
Not as all as long as the person is ok, I guess im ok with it.

And if u're already in a relationship?

Ebonyeyes:
Its not as bad most people from back in the day were married this way and they going on strong 30-40yrs later.

In that case,u won't mind if ur parents were to do that to u huh?

angel4ever:
there is nothing wrong with arranged marriage it is just to get the right person but sha i dont support it
every dat is old enough shld go out and find their life partners

Then y don't u support it?

I've got a very good friend of mine who's supposed to get married soon to someone her parents selected .She doesn't really love the guy in question but feels she'd get by.Will you agree to an arranged marriage?

@mama-gee,
"Why are most Nigerian men unattractive?","Why do most Nigerian men have ugly head shapes?". I sincerely hope u don't hav a Nigerian boyfriend n hope neva to be married to one cos u'll only be makin' mockery of urself.

@post,
Perfect is boring.Imperfection(only like 20%-30% sha) brings wif it adventure.That's wen u quarrel and then there's make-up sex,gifts,sorry(s), and even tears ;DE dey sweet pass make everyfin just dey perfect.

@post,
Of course we are.The only challenge we have right now is d Nigerian factor "everybody is a potential criminal/fraudster/suspect(call it wot u choose)".Hence,we tend to lie or conceal alot.

Kalela:
What do you do, if people don't treat you right in life?

If i know i ain't doin' wrong,i simply cut 'em off cos then i know they ain't worth gettin' worked up about.But then,if i know i ain't doin' right,i just try changin'.

@Post,
Trust me gurl,u wanna get d hell outa there b4 it's too late!!! And u really shud learn to study b4 loving,'Love' is a very strong word!!!

@post,
Actually it is compulsory.It simply is part of her duties as a wife.D husband could be such dat is nice n all n would wanna help at times,but it isn't a compulsion for him to.It is like asking if it is compulsory for a man to bring home money for upkeep of d house.It is his duty as a husand n thus is compulsory.

@post,
It is ok for a gurl to play hard-to-get,it makes us guys appreciate her beta.But den,taking it to d extreme will mean her losing out as d guy might decide to 'step' or if he's patient,she becomes a challenge.And beliv me,being a challenge means being dumped after he 'enters d zanga'.

Ebonyeyes:
Your name sums you up

Rightly said dear.How u dey?

MRbrownJAY:
@post
yes people owe their partner but they owe to RESPECT them and to be Honest with them. thats about it!
the fact that someone spends money on a partner means jack unless they respect and are truthful to each other.

Everybody owes everybody they meet respect.But apart from dat in respect,do u fink ur gurl or ex owes u?

FL Gators:
[color=dodgerblue]No, you're like a loser. A lovable loser tho. But still not enough [/color]

Talkin' bout personality!

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Nah, no one owes me and i owe no one. I make that perfectly clear from day one [/color]

Now dat's wot i'm talkin' bout!

chelseabmw:
@poster
what are u writing?

r231:
English please

ancel:
*splitting headache @OP*

D guy needs help n really not criticisms.

@post,
Try n explain to her who d gurl is n if possible invite d girl over wen she is around n while they r both wif u,try n make her feel like ur queen!

stillwater:
Simplicity at it's best. I love it.

Simplicity huh?I can almost imagine d husband n wife drinkin' garri afterwards .But i'd luv me lady to hav dat doh or somfin dat is in her 'fairy tale'.

ibkaye:
Oyinda, shouldn't you ask permission first before posting my wedding pics?

No mind her jare.And fanks for d champagne,i bin neva drink dat type b4.

@post,
I easilly choke on perfs,but i like Polo Black and Clinique Happy!

@post,
Dark guys shud go for light tops mostly,like Azure,White(striped or plain) etc.

chika98:
Only a REAL man can rock a pair of skinnys well.

Do u even know wot a REAL man is?

I fink if it suits u,u're good to go.But 4 me,i fink i'm gonna need a gun on my head as an incentive to wear 'em!

Has anyone got d freedom software settings?I've got d software but don't hav d settingd.Pls if u can be of help,kindly send to [email]ebilawitluv@yahoo.com[/email].Thanks in anticipation.

@post,
Find out do reason 4 dat (my best bet is she doesn't have any constructive one) and if u don't get a good reason,stay without ur feelins in it,else,i'd advice u back out sharp sharp!!!

yorke:
Some guys stil dey drop dre numba.na wa o.

Dem wan shine congo nah!

Wey dem walestar,190 n dem oda pussy-crazy dude nah?

Lady 234:
I blame romanti books for making women fall fast for players. It just makes women dumb. It starts at the teenage years in which time girls pick up any fantasy novel they can place their hands on and this FANTASY novels feeds them with NEGATIVE MISINFORMATION about relationships while guys in their teenage years get coached by older boys on sexuality and on how to have intimacy with girls, they even pressure the boys into having sex with young girls. Most women seriously need reorganisation, its high time women realise how low they keep themselves like when they do MouthAction.

U had to blame dat on a mere novel didn't u?We were given d sense of judgement to ascertain wot's right from wot's wrong so blamin' it on novel is actually a cheap shot.

@post,
Fact is,almost (cos i don't wanna sound as doh i know every guy's mind or som'tn) every guy does it.But d difference is som tell every Tom,D.ick n Harry who's ready to listen,while d matured ones tell only their close pal/pals who r mostly matured enof not to look down on d gurl.But if a guy sees u as a 'job' or 'challenge' rather dan a lover,he most definately will tell d 'boys',i fink they call it 'male ego' .Com to fink of it,gurls equally do it.If a guy is awful in bed,their friends get to know bout it.Conclusion is,different strokes for different folks,we all hav different approaches/understandin' to/of fins.

Gabry:
^^^ Sugar son? Lai Lai ooo. . . Tufiakwa!

Secretz:
I think it's more to do with feeling unnappreciated and lack of acknowledging the things people did/do in a relationship. When people start 'expecting' and it doesn't happen, people feel dissapointed, so it's often best not to expect anything at all and when it does happen, kinda feels like a bonus.

Dat's so true.

@ladies,
Do u guys hav an ex that u feel owes u?Or any u feel u owe?

michelin89:
We don't have nice guys here. Only cyber broke arses like Sauron, david, Eldee, Ogidi, 4play, etc. . .

Oooooooouuuuuuuccccccccccccccchhhhhhhh!!!!

Alot of people are of the opinion that if they are in a relationship where they gave alot (finacially and emotionally) that their partner owes them.I've heard people use such statements as these; "after all the things i did for him/her","after all the money i spent on him/her" etc.It actually baffles me cos i'm of the opinion that if i'm in a relationship and i do stuff,i do so cos of the happiness i derive and thus the gurl doesn't owe me shit,regardless of the things i do/did or the money i spend/spent.So,what's your view?

So Gabry has gotten a sugar son? ^{*takes to his heels b4 somefin happens*}

Where r all my Hot NL guys?walestar,190 & co.Free kitty don come o!