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Where are the NL ladies?

smooooooth:
you never get over an EX u rily love. u just get used to the heart break and b4 u know u can live with it.

I used to think so too,but u can actually get over them.Check out dis link lavitacounsel..com and click on d comments.Guys have actually gone tru wif it.

Konjour:
Then let nature take its course, ,

badboym:
3 girls have claimed to be pregnant for me in the past.I tell them to go and have the baby but am not in support of it.That doesn't mean am denying it though.They end up aborting it of course.

Bad strategy!

A nice guy is wot all guys r scared of being!!!

[quote author=Beautful.B link=topic=338672.msg4746702#msg4746702 date=1255709166]Have u ever dated a guy/girl knowing he/she has a serious date, u eat and gist with the person and u don't give a Dem if the person might harm you?

Please i want to know, and your experience.
thanks [/quote]Yup! I had a gurl once who told me bout her serious relationship but went ahead to date her cos i was so crazy bout her,and she ended up goin' back to him(she told me from d start dat it could happen).I think bout her a whole lot even up till now. It's really a bad idea,trust me!!!

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=333635.msg4766352#msg4766352 date=1256017375]why not[/quote]Dis na pregnancy department! Singles pregnancy department.

bluespice:
how do you get over an ex?
the same way u get over an annoying pet
move on, duh!

Movin' on has steps!!!

sweetpie23:
you don't think of him

Now dat's a step!

@poster,
How r we supposed to know he was an ass?U didn't even tell us wot he did!

MrWaters:
Its better not be joke. Being a Father isn't no my calender this year

Na so?

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=333635.msg4759093#msg4759093 date=1255910503]why nau? we dey discuss serious family matter [/quote]For here na im una wan do dat one?

LadyT:
Delete their number to stop yourself calling. Keep yourself busy either by working overtime or picking up a new hobbie you might feel like being alone but sometimes being around people takes your mind off things

Diz look like tips that came out from d article on lavitacounsel..com.But i tot they were only/mostly applicable to guys,dat was why i wanted d ladies side!

deji2009:
@Pc Busayo
So, busayo. what about mine ? lol. you see later love.

Jealousy jealousy!!!

Ladies,pls give us ur personal experience on how u got over ur ex! Plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=333635.msg4751973#msg4751973 date=1255789795]My darling missing ribs, told you I was the one for you all along So are you just gonna let her sweep the pregnancy issue under the carpet knowing you are not the father Do you need me to help kick her to the curb by dragging her by the scruff of the neck, knowing you and your Church mind abhors violance of any sorts [/quote]Oh my God! Which people be dis?Na2day,come carry all dis ur concubines commot 4 here o!

PC busayo:
@ebila first n foremost nice picture on your profile. anyway, I have never been heart breaker so I cant answer your question.

Thanx! It's iight.I'm sure we'd have ladies who have been heartbroken.Then again,u're so lucky not to have beeen there u know.It really ain't a good place to be.

@PC busayo & Godmother,
U ladies have neva been tru heartbreaks?If u have,how did u do it?

aomom:
lemmie brk that rule

they are just as fine as they were before the dude cameby!

were they nat ok before he wooed them?

Ladies,ur experiences pls!

I'm a guy,i've been through heartbreaks and i know how i got over each one.Even the one that hurt the most.So,i want to know the ladies' side of the story.Is it like that of us guys or it is totally different.Please,post your personal experiences as experience,indeed, is the best teacher.

@190,
Don't mind den haters man.Me on ur side anytime. She must understand u're sorry.

@Plat,
The dude is so sorry! Understand now!

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=333635.msg4747738#msg4747738 date=1255718767]**&^%#~&%*$#~! i reply in japanese [/quote]If i catch u!

[quote author=~Borat~ link=topic=333635.msg4749575#msg4749575 date=1255740499]"wtf!. . .but that was not in the plan. . .i mean i used a rubber everytime or didnt i?
Honest[/quote]I wonder o!

Dr winthy:
It is no big deal
For more dating tips visit www.perfectsdate..com

Bros,at least u 4 try give ur own comment b4 u begin advertise!

@poster,
Do we?Didn't realise.I only know we don't like women dat r pig headed just cos they're educated.

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=333635.msg4740117#msg4740117 date=1255625450]ehen! na who make dat kin mistake? [/quote]Wetin u mean?

Ebonyeyes:
It just is, no disrespect

_{P.S. We get guys who agree to meet girls from here they then comeback and air out their dirty laundry.}

Inasmuch as there r guys who do trash,there still r reasonable ones.Serious ones.That's wot i want u to understand.I ain't sayin' im one,i ain't sayin' i'm not.But there r serious n reasonable guys(matured i might add).

sweetcoint:
There is a great different between telling your man you love him, and show him your action and body language tell him far more than your words ever can. So if you want him to know for sure how you really feel about him.
Then follow those five tips for woman n how to show your man you love him.

1 –LISTEN TO HIM: More than any other complains men give when asked to name something their girl would do more of, is listen to him. Whether hr’s a big talker or a quiet guy, men nee to have their woman listen to them. And by listening, I mean hearing what they have to say and acknowledge as such. And of course, it also means empathizing, limiting judgment and allowing them to finish.

2 – TOUCH HIM: So many seem to think that all men want physically is sex, this is far from the case. Men want and need touching just as much if not more than woman so, touch his hands, arms and shoulders. Just to be close. Touch his face and look into his eyes. This will bring closer to you.

3 – LET HIM HAVE HIS WAY MORE THAN OCCASIONALLY. Men like to feel they have control over their lives so sometimes the little things they request might be something big to them. Don’t make him feel like he has to ask if he wants do things, especially in his own home. Allow him as much freedom to make decisions as you expect from him.

4 – MAKE SURE HE HAS WHAT HE NEEDS: A lot of times men have trouble coming to their woman for the thing they need. This causes them together figure out how to get what they need themselves or go without. It would be so much better for him if you would simply ask him what he needs, then he could tell you, and you could do it you were so inclined. This tip should not be taken lightly what they need from their woman.

5 – BE THERE WHEN HE’S FEELING LOW: something it’s hard to be there for someone when they are feeling low, especially if they articulate what exactly is wrong, or if they get cranky when down. Don’t let this stop you. If when he’s feeling good, try to comfort him and give him some nurturing.

Good luck

Wow! This is so true!

Ebonyeyes:
For some reason, your post is laughable (not being disrespectful).

Y is dat?

Ebonyeyes:
Im sorry to say it but yes I doubt most guys in here are serious in that way.

Dearie,just like we have d unserious guys,so also do we have d serious ones,funny but true!

Ebonyeyes:
Hunny, I dont think this is the best place to meet "serious" guys but good luck.

Wetin u mean na?So all of us fine fine guys wey dey here dey find babe no serious?

sweetpie23:
I would like to know because i would do anything to keep my boyfriend

A perfect relationship is like a mirage.It's nonexistent! A relationship that is perfect is fake.The imperfection is where the fun lies! To keep your man though,there are a few tips from a man's perspective.

Avaid too much jealousy
Avoid comparing him with someone else
Avoid nagging
Avoid choking him with your presense.

If you want more,you can visit this link lavitacounsel..com

@poster,
Distant relationship is pure bad news.In most cases it doesn't work.Even if two people were so much in love n somehow one had to go away,d distance breaks them up eventually but for a few that endures.
My experience was actually not a very bad one or pleasant.Distance made me feel we were compatible until we had d time to spend together.When we spent time together,it occured to me that i would've made d greatest mistake of my life had i decided to marry her like i planned.Like IICE mentioned in her post,distant relationship is only fresh each time u meet,but it's not real.Closeness is what's real!