₦airaland Forum

No one gives a sh1t about what you want mehn

candlewax:
Actually, nobody replaces the moniker of members that contravenes Nairaland rule and gets a ban, it's not necessarily a deactivation

We're kind of saying the same thing. That the person is no longer active

Nofavorss:
I’ve always wanted to meet that moniker called ‘Nobody’. But the person never responds to mentions. It’s a shame

Lolz. Actually, when a nairalander deactivates his/her account, their moniker starts displaying "nobody". There are actually hundreds of deactivated users, that's why when you open really old threads, you tend to see a lot of "nobodies" who never reply mentions.

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Don't know why people feel the need to showcase their private lives

bynomzy:
I hope it does. Lol good luck gurl.

Im waiting for the next phase. NYSC maybe i'll change.

Good luck to you too

bynomzy:
Guess you hardly ever go out or talk to people. Lol

Sad, but true


Wanna try and join a club or something next semester though. Maybe that will help

bynomzy:
Has it?
Like a lot of people wana meet there soul mates but for some reason it's online. Has Introversion got a thing to do with this?

Yes...yes it does

Atleast she found out what he's truly like...good riddance to bad rubbish

If you deem yourself an interesting conversationist, whether male or female, here's a chance to get aquainted with peeps around you.

Apeshy101:
Your problem is poor comprehension ability
Op is worried that the Bae developed bad attitude after the abortions

Sadly he doesn't want to lose this Bae who has been through a lot because of him.

And in view of this, op indulge your candid advice.

No insult intended

I didn't insult him. I simply said the truth. He is not a good man. He claims he has noticed a bad character from her. What stops him from talking to her about it. For all we know, she developed said character as a result of fraustration from having to put her body through two abortions. Do you have any idea how that shi.t messes up one's body and mind? She's obviously feeling used and is manifesting those feelings in the form of the so-called attitude. What stops two adults of marriageable age from practicing birth control when going into long term sexual relationship? Especially when you know your ass is too broke to have kids? If she didnt go through those abortions, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be the way he claims she is now

Fabulousman11:
Hey guys. I seriously need ur sincere take on this.my gf have done two abortion for me and since d second one,she said no more sex which I agreed to after much pleading that the sex should continue. But I don't feel d fire again in the relationship not because of d sex part but because her characters are so bad.to cut d story short,we had a fight and I said a lot of nasty stuff to her like: even if I'm chance to get married to u know, I will go out and marry another girl cause u have a very bad character and lots of other stuffs. After I realize my mistakes,I apologize to her but d feeling is gone here.what should I do plz cause I feel like I own her a lot after putting her life on d line twice for my sake.

You're not a good man. After going through with an abortion twice, you have the nerve to make her feel like shi.t. do you have any idea what abortion does to your body and your mind? Poor lady

mhisbliss:
Atleast i know my father, where's yours?

Savage reply

stuffs4me:
What a dumb way of thinking. What's the point of being in a relationship if you can't show it to the one you love. What manner of pride or ego is that? The guy did the right thing by dumping her sorry azz. You on the other hand should work on yourself.because you expect a man to show you love while you pretend not to love him. Does that even makes sense to you?

Its not about pretense or ego oga .
Some people have been hurt in the past after opening up their hearts to others. They sometimes feel reluctant to do so again and need a while to get used to the feeling and see if the new person is genuine

Hey!!! What the f*** am I looking at?

Rextizz:
She has nothing left jare, if she pull off her cloth you will be disgusted.

Hater. She's wearing a bikini. Everything is practically visible and standing. What's there to be disgusted about?

nuelsam:
well i guess some of u girls are quite complicated..y is it always compulsory for the guy to make the fess move? Always texting,calln,chattn her fess.. There aint no big deal if she does this buh she never did.. I see this as an ego if u ask me.

Actually, when I said some people find it hard to show emotions, I meant expressing one's love for someone else verbally. Nothing wrong with chatting up your guy or calling him first if you care about him.

nuelsam:
for the fact that she was my ex's friend? She gave me wat my ex couldnt.. And i went for her.. Lifes all bouh choices i think

You said you knew your ex loved you though. Did she treat you badly or what? Some people just arent comfortable with showing emotions and vulnerability...myself included

What kinda dude dates his ex's friends? ...not cool mehn

IdreamOfUnicorn:
As a student I make a better stew for less

You can make a better pot of stew than hers with less than #400...well done o

She obviously has a poultry house in her backyard

BIGVAJINA:
This guy is pestering me with marriage
Though he is OK,. My problem is, this guy spends most of his time shitting
It's like he is constantly on a running stomach

I have warned him about it but no improvement. What should I do?

Lolz...how do you warn someone against having bowel movements? ...tell him to go and see a doctor. Abnormal bowel movements could be a sign of an underlying illness

ChiefAzubuike:
This is why it's always good to stay in your house and avoid unnecessary waka waka wey no get head. Or better still , buy moto. If say she get moto this nonsense for no happen but no , some people to come this life till dem die they no go build house or buy moto. Which kind mumu life u con come in the first place.

What's wrong with you??...seriously are you crazy?? She freaking died you crazy bitch. Do you think everyone can afford to buy cars? As if you have never been caught in a heavy downpour before. Cant even express sympathy...just spewing crap.