lexy2014:


Are u aware that d reason y non-muslim outside Africa particularly in d US& Europe don't practice is because it is outlawed& not because d men there are saints are u think?

I never said the men are saints. I simply said they do not claim they have a RIGHT to cheat even though they do it

lexy2014:


So non-muslims outside Africa don't cheat on their wives& d non compatibility responsible 4 high divorce rates isn't due to infidelity?

Lmao. This nigga, open your mind. You are refusing to understand the meaning of "polygamous mentality". Not cheating not polygamous marriage. The mentality that it is your RIGHT, what did I say, your RIGHT to cheat when you are already married. Cheating without remorse. Cheating and expecting your wife to shut the fvck up about it and just perform her wifely duties because "you are taking care of your responsibilities as a man afterall"

lexy2014:


Then y d high rate of divorce among non-muslim men outside Africa?

When a couple realises they aren't compatible, they go their separate ways. The only reason the divorce rate in nigeria is less than theirs is because of the stigmatization attached to being a divorced women

lexy2014:



Men of which nationality don't have polygamous mentality?

non-muslims outside Africa who still respect the sanctity of marriage

excessmon:
Sorry to quote you......ur view is factless.....u are from ile ife in osun state and u have this myopic mindset about Nigerian men.
Most of you who judge always judge books by the titles....
I can categorically tell you that marriages of blacks is more lasting than whites cos blacks have a culture oriented mindset...sentiments aside who wants to do a marriage that falls apart in weeks or months



Try do a survey on how many foreigners actually have a long blissful marriage time......5 marriages in 2years

Anyways it’s ur choice madam but avoid watching too much of what you see on internet and tv about the whites.....it’s the best medium to cover their shits

To learn more ask verbally from people that have travelled genuinely.......
My piece though...

I'm not from Ile-Ife, Osun state Oga its just my current location. my opinion that nigerian men have polygamous mentality is factless? you do know the meaning of polygamy right? most men here, whether muslim or not, believe it's their right to marry and still have as many women on the side as they want. And even when their wives find out, they are expected to turn a blind eye to it "afterall he is taking care of his family's needs, isn't he?" All I am saying is that this is wrong. I have seen it happen around me, so stop assuming I read it on the internet. Other men of other nationalities cheat, I know...but at least they do not take it as their God given right

Oh and that nonsense about black marriages lasting longer than white marriages is simply because of the stigma that is attached to being a divorced woman in our country. If Nigerians didn't attach so much importance to marriages, our mothers wouldn't have endured all the crap dished to them from their men

eniolaamos7:


your fact is not proven.

It's my opinion. Never said it was a fact

Sluacoast:

Yeah but don't typically level yourself a minor

I never said I was a minor. Simply said I haven't reached the stage of getting married

Sluacoast:

You still call yourself a baby. You are above 20 right?.
When that man has come to propose. Pls do not hesitate to give your approval. Hian. (I never reach to marry ��)

Not everyone is desperate for marriage mehn

bluefilm:


You don't know her as well as I do.

She's only referring to her mother who unfortunately got married to her father.

It has been hell for the poor woman since then.

So please forgive her when she makes any of her senseless posts.

She's only referring to her ineffectual dad.

Any opinion that doesn't align with yours is senseless?
Okay o. its a public forum...anyone can share their views. Stop trying so hard to look smart, you're doing a really bad job

mastermaestro:


You never reach? It will only make sense if you are not 18. Girls physically age quickly these days, and as a result most men are going for younger women. Times are changing. Marital opportunities dry up as you grow older. 'Older' these days can mean 25 years upwards.

Lolz. Okay

IfeanyiOpara5698:


I believe you are not a Nigerian or you fall into the category of frustrated old hags who wasted their feminine juice on the wrong set of men and now thinks all men are like the choices you made.

Decent men still exist

Lmao. Oga I never reach to marry o. And even when I'm ready, I'd rather be alone than tie myself to a typical nigerian man

bluefilm:


You again?

So you haven't learn to be making sensible comments only on nairaland after the schooling I gave you this afternoon?

Well sha, what else can I say?

You must be speaking from the bad experience your mother must have had in marrying a naija man, so believe me when I say I perfectly understand your situation and where you're coming from.

Sorry.

Learn to mind your own business. Not everyone has to reason the way you do. Amebo. Were you able to find some leftovers for your family to eat tonight?

Sonnobax15:
Hahaha...lwkm...na once u surrender....dah quy no wor just tire to dey bombard u with insults...

only bitter poor men would develop headache because of an ordinary comment on a faceless forum. Pls don't quote me again

Abouwaza:

Bitter feminist spotted

OK

bluefilm:


Alright, I'll _fuck off but you, please try and _fuck Papa Okey well tonite so that he will be magnanimous enough to drop something so that your whole family can feed tonite, you hear?

Until our paths cross again, please stay safe.

Always insist on using condoms because your life is precious.

It was good meeting you, by the way.

Have a nice day.

I love you.

No matter how many times you say it, it doesn't make it true or hurt me . Go and clean the engines your oga tell you say make you clean. I'm sure you wouldn't want your ashawo mum to sleep with the landlord again because of rent...its the end of the month afterall . Goodluck ...I hope that the good Lord blesses you so that one day, you'll be able to lift your family from the abject poverty y'all are currently wallowing in

bluefilm:


If your hopeless father, after watching your mama and all his daughters go the ashawo way for years, couldn't, wouldn't and didn't drink sniper, nne biko tell me, why should I?

Ewu.

Lmao. Mumu. Whatever mehn. Fvck off

bluefilm:


Idiot.

It's your entire family and lineage that sucks.

Ewu awusa.

Sha don't drink sniper. las las everything go dey alright with una

bluefilm:


OK what?

OK, you'll stop doing your ashawo business?

Or OK, you'll stop looking for financially buoyant guys and starts working for your own money?

Nonsense.

Okay I'll stop trading words with someone that has been so ravaged by poverty, the only thing that keep's him going is calling females on the internet prostitutes. women all over the world will always be attracted to men who can take care of them and no I do not depend on anyone other than my dad for money. So pls carry your stupidity and face someone else.
Its not my fault your life sucks

bluefilm:


Ashawo ten kobo.

Yes, the guys said it but you went ahead and justified it by generalizing abi?

Why?

Because of your own inborn and incurable ashawo mentality, which if the truth must be told, you must have inherited from no one else but your mama.

I just pity your dad.

I can picture the old man watching helplessly, completely unable to do or say a thing, as his wife hawked her pussy just to survive.

And now his wife is out of business, he is watching his daughters do the same shameful thing.

What a shame!

Lmao. Ok

four4:
so to call the long story short, you too are looking for rich guys

Make una leave me na lolz na ordinary comment I nake o. I'm simply saying Nigerian men should stop bashing our women because they feel we like money too much. I'm saying women all over the world generally prefer guys that have money to guys who don't

bluefilm:


You mean your current sugar dad?

I don't doubt you at all.

Because I know that years of whoring must have paid off for you in terms of years of experience.

Which means that by now, you should be so good in picking out those rich mugus.

Point of correction, please. I dont insult girl on the internet

I only attack useless and hopeless girls on the internet.

An idiot like you saw a picture of a fine lady with a rugged brother.

The first thought that goes thru your senseless ashawo brain is that she is with him because of his money.

Why?

Because that's exactly what you will do.

Now you tell me, what does that Speak of you?

Ashawo ten Kobo.

Lolz...whatever makes yiu sleep at night mehn.I don't have to prove anything to anyone on this forum. I'm just glad I don't have to rely on a useless waste of oxygen like you. I ain't a hoe. Simply made a comment cos its everyone's right here. na im you carry my matter put for your head. go and hustle so that your ashawo mum will stop sleeping with your landlord as payment for rent . Mumu

Almost all the guys that commented said the guy looks ugly and the girl is only with him either for his dick or his money. A stupid idiot like you didn't go to attack them...me that is saying the same thing, na me you dey attack. Fvck off mehn

bluefilm:


You're bettering yourself by looking for a financially bouyant nigga to suck dry abi?

Why didn't your popsie do his job of becoming a dependable financially bouyant nigga well, so that none of his female bitches will turn out to be local ashawo ten ten kobo?

Ewu.

How many of your blood brothers are financially bouyant themselves, if I may ask?

Lmfaoo. no offense but my dad can buy you and your poverty stricken family okay
Keep wallowing in poverty in your shithole house and insulting girls on the internet cos I see that that's the only way you can feel less pathetic about your life. Pls don't drink sniper sha. It will get better

bluefilm:


Idiot.

E get any other thing you know aprt from broke ass?

If your father was not such a fücked up broke ass, will you be going about the whole town hawking your borehole pussy to the highest bidders.

Financially bouyant man gbukwee gi dia.

Onye ara.

Lmfaooo...highest bidder kee you dere.
I'm busy bettering myself not depending on a std infested mutt like yourself.

bluefilm:


In other words, you are justifying your own stupidity abi?

Nonsense.

Dey dia dey wait for rich man

Until menopause finish you completely.

Ewu.

Lmao. Look at this poverty striken idiot
They don reject im broke ass tire. I simply stated a fact...that all women like a financially buoyant man and its paining you...no go find work o...pained mofo

greenprince:


Not really, some of these African guys that make it through football are just dumb. Eboue and Henry comes to mind. Some of those girls are keminal... they date these guys, even marry them and then torture them for divorce to eventuarry take their money for vanishing.

Some of them like the easy life too, but it's still easier to find a white girl love a guy that has nothing from the depth of her heart. Maybe because there are less societal pressures for them and they can easily eke out a living for themselves.

Yea...they can easily make a living for themselves cos they have a favourable economy. People need to stop comparing African women to foreign women...we come from two very different worlds

tosinosam:

Haters No haterz anywhere besides its true 90% gals like money I don't know if u r among..d remaining 10%...

Yes its true. ALL of us like money...both men and women

CosmicPhoenix:

foreign girls are not lazy unlike 95% of nigerian ladies

Lmao...those same foreign girls are in first world countries and are provided with numerous job opportunities, unlike 95% of nigerian ladies

BruncleZuma:


This hasn't helped the cause you're fighting for ma.

Lolz...not fighting for any cause o. Its simply a fact...whether a woman is working or not, she will always like a financially buoyant man

At least now all these haters of nigerian women will see that foreign women like rich guys too

Modified: y'all should stop attacking me na. Shuo. Its a known fact that no woman is comfortable dating a broke guy even if she has her own money, go and argue with yasef

awwfar:
lol..let's take it off Nairaland before he see you then... (expecting your text)

Lolz...let's just end it here dear.

awwfar:
well, then your Magic mirror is fake.. you can break it already...so which uni are u and from which course u wanna change to English?

This is getting weird...my boo is on nairaland.
Don't want him to see me frolicking with u here

awwfar:
lol..what makes u think I was referring to a thread u Opened and not that I know u in person? huh!

Cos I looked in my magic mirror and didn't recognise your face as someone I know (@_@)