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Romance / Re: Rape, Types Of Rape And How To Prevent It by ebonyggurl(f): 8:22pm On Jun 26, 2019
awwfar:
lol ...chill na Linus , what level are you? 100 ..I guess

Nope. And for your information, that thread I opened that's making you think I haven't written Jamb was opened cos I was thinking of changing departments. Peace out.piss off
Romance / Re: Rape, Types Of Rape And How To Prevent It by ebonyggurl(f): 8:11pm On Jun 26, 2019
awwfar:
lol..we both know you're a liar... but u sef like trouble sha

Like I said...keep telling yourself whatever makes you feel good. People who know me personally on this forum know that I'm already in Uni. Take it or leave it
Goodnight
Romance / Re: Rape, Types Of Rape And How To Prevent It by ebonyggurl(f): 8:03pm On Jun 26, 2019
awwfar:
goan pass your jamb first my friend

Already in Uni my friend
Romance / Re: Rape, Types Of Rape And How To Prevent It by ebonyggurl(f): 7:44pm On Jun 26, 2019
awwfar:
it means you're most likely one of those hungry girls that make fake rape-claims about

Lmao. I'm not hungry mehn. But by all means keep telling yourself whatever makes you feel good smiley
Romance / Re: Rape, Types Of Rape And How To Prevent It by ebonyggurl(f): 7:00pm On Jun 26, 2019
awwfar:
stop trying to twist his words.. I bet you're one of those loose cunt,hypocrite girls he was talking about

Lolz. The fact that I'm against rape makes me a "loose cunt hypocrite girl?" what the fvck does that even mean? undecided

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Romance / Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by ebonyggurl(f): 6:06pm On Jun 26, 2019
Altern8:


grin Ordinary cheating, but when the woman does it to the man, his family would come out and devour her and chase her out of the home.

I understand our society’s bias against women in this regard. Your concerns are 100% valid. Interestingly, men are hardly the only ones seeking to downplay the gravity of the situation. We have come across videos of women boldly advocating for “understanding” from wives when their husbands cheat on them, saying it rains everywhere. They are the ones calling it a masculine “privilege” of sorts. Agreed, it is sad that some people want to normalise it.

However, it rains everywhere and I don’t want to believe it’s a patriarchal construct. Cheating is a human thing so don’t put the load on Nigerian men alone. Carry your own share too. tongue


Lolz. Like I said, I know it happens everywhere...I just want someone who doesn't see it as a normal way of life.
Besides, una nor know say women dey catch Konji too. Everyone simply needs to learn self control.

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Romance / Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by ebonyggurl(f): 5:41pm On Jun 26, 2019
Altern8:


What if I told you we generally do not have that mentality? I don’t fancy being the husband of two or more women at once! What!! That’s original wahala, regardless of my wealth. I believe a great number of Nigerian men (Muslims also) share my opinion on this.

But again, I doubt if you’d believe me.

Anyway, would I be correct if I assumed you meant polygamy as in marriage (legal/traditional) and not just extramarital affairs? You mean Nigerian men aren’t just looking to play a little game on the side once in a while, but seek to to marry multiple women?

If you meant affairs, then we are certainly not alone in this boat. The propensity for multiple partners is a human thing.

I understand what you mean. Thing is, most nigerian men don't take their marriages seriously. We seem to be in the era of 'using what we have to get what we want'. Its understandable, we're in a third world country afterall. People get married here simply for the sake of having a woman to take care of their 'homes' while they go around doing all sorts of nonsense and society is forcing women to accept this as normal. I know people cheat all over the world, but atleast they don't take it as a normal way of life. The typical nigerian man would say "ehen, ordinary cheating?" undecided

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Romance / Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by ebonyggurl(f): 5:04pm On Jun 26, 2019
Altern8:


Well, I never said you didn’t. Hope the humour was not lost on you though.

Why are you hoping for a spouse who’s not Nigerian?

Different reasons. The main one being that I don't like their polygamous mentality

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Romance / Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by ebonyggurl(f): 4:54pm On Jun 26, 2019
Altern8:


Wetin do Nigerian man? Oya come let us be dating. Let me disabuse you. Sha don’t finish me with argument because I can’t argue at work and still come home to argue with babygirl. How will someone last long in this life? grin

Come let me finish you with enjoyment. (Enjoying my company o. Not my money or possessions, cos I know women today don’t need men to enjoy life) grin

Thanks...but I already enjoy my life

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Family / Re: Please help save my mom's life (graphic photos) by ebonyggurl(f): 4:49pm On Jun 26, 2019
maynation:



You are down mentally to tell me USSD transfer can be a NIP transfer.


Bloody cheap scammer.

You have such a foul mouth undecided
Insulting innocent people upandan

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Romance / Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by ebonyggurl(f): 4:40pm On Jun 26, 2019
Altern8:



^^^
They just want to disagree for the sake of argument. And someone will end up with these as wives o. Everyday, junior debate. Smh.

Hopefully not a Nigerian man tongue

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Romance / Re: Top 10 Signs A Nigerian Man Wants To Marry You by ebonyggurl(f): 4:23pm On Jun 26, 2019
Marry a nigerian man at your own peril lipsrsealed

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Romance / Re: Rape, Types Of Rape And How To Prevent It by ebonyggurl(f): 4:16pm On Jun 26, 2019
Officialgarri:
As for we guys, we collectively add to your list

Blackmailing Rape

This type of rape is levelled against the man when he is/ becomes successful or when the girls needs to extort a man.

How it happens:
The mood is set for both parties but when it's time to insert, she would start forming hard-to-get. If the guy lets her go, she would call him a weakling but if he rams into her (possibly with a very light struggle) , she'd enjoy the sex but would later accuse him of rape.

No means no. If She says No amd she keeps repeating no, but you go ahead anyway thinking she will enjoy it, that makes You a Rapist.. I won't be suprised if you have done this before undecided

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Romance / Re: She Loves Me Pushed Her Away With My Attitudes Now Another One Has Come. by ebonyggurl(f): 4:08pm On Jun 26, 2019
AwkaetitiBabe:
Sadist. U need psychological evaluation

What? undecided
Romance / Re: It Happens Too Me Not A Friend by ebonyggurl(f): 3:48pm On Jun 26, 2019
Wafritalkblogg:
I asked a girl out and she said yes, She stopped replying my text after four days, she just read and over look , please this is the second girl that do this same thing too me, and why is it after four days, the first one stop talking the Fourth day too, What's the meaning of this.What is this break up style called?

Your chats are probably boring undecided
Do some research on google and find ways of improving your conversational skills smiley
Romance / Re: Over 10,000 Women Protest Naked For Sex by ebonyggurl(f): 3:28pm On Jun 26, 2019
Dumb Op...stop reporting fake news. That naked protest had nothing to do with men undecided
They only got naked to gain more attention for their cause.

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Romance / Re: Girlfriend Are Hard To Kip because by ebonyggurl(f): 7:52am On Jun 26, 2019
tripleking64:
this suppose to be in joke forum but I mistakenly post it here.. that's a joke you know

Why do you take years to reply your mentions?
Romance / Re: Man Proposes To His Girlfriend Of 5 Years On A Plane (Photos) by ebonyggurl(f): 11:00pm On Jun 25, 2019
missimelda01:
A plane?

What happened to a rooftop restaurant with jazz music playing in the background kiss

Lolz...is like you just finished watching a romantic hollywood movie cheesy

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Romance / Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by ebonyggurl(f): 4:12pm On Jun 25, 2019
tinny898:


I won't mind if you prove me wrong sad

Nah...let's wait a couple more years and see some of those beautiful ones yet to be born
Romance / Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by ebonyggurl(f): 3:59pm On Jun 25, 2019
tinny898:


There's no need for that.
the beautiful ones are not yet born undecided

Lolz...okay
Romance / Re: “i’m Just So Proud Of You" Little Boy Tells Baby Sister On Her Graduation Day by ebonyggurl(f): 1:37pm On Jun 25, 2019
Awwn...why is the baby girl crying?
Romance / Re: Why Would A Woman Expose Her Breast And Laps Inside Church ? by ebonyggurl(f): 9:48am On Jun 25, 2019
To receive fresh air cheesy

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Romance / Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by ebonyggurl(f): 5:59am On Jun 25, 2019
tinny898:



aunt you yourself are you attractive?
Come n find out cheesy cheesy
Romance / Re: Ladies: The Guy That Loves You Or The Guy You Love by ebonyggurl(f): 10:00pm On Jun 24, 2019
MariaLavina:
Kuku kill me nah

Lolz...no be truth I talk? cheesy
Romance / Re: A Nairalander Proposed To His Girlfriend by ebonyggurl(f): 1:43pm On Jun 24, 2019
Elder0001:



You lack wisdom. Any African who kneels to propose to a woman is a disgrace


Women like you want to be treated like western women but you don’t want to behave like western women

If you want to adopt a culture ,adopt it in full not the part that pleases your erroneous self

Haha. You want us to be feminists? cheesy
Romance / Re: Ladies! What Do You Think About A Guy That Kiss And Tell? by ebonyggurl(f): 6:24pm On Jun 20, 2019
Even the ones that don't kiss, go around telling people how they did undecided kids everywhere
Family / Re: I Am Too Ashamed by ebonyggurl(f): 1:50pm On Jun 19, 2019
luxy44:
Are you feeling bad because you are pregnant or because you cheated? What made you think what happened is between you and the guy? You goofed! You were a project that was discussed among his goons, he would have done an updated report of the project. Office romance? You don cast
Family / Re: Court Dissolves ‘lazy’ Man’s Four-year Marriage by ebonyggurl(f): 1:22pm On Jun 19, 2019
lilmax:
women

you don't know what your husband is going through, you just concluded he's lazy

maybe he's depressed and feel like like isn't worth it, maybe environment is not his thing that's why he talked about leaving the country, but no, his words doesn't matter, you only think about yourself

you just raised a change of how much again? and your ego is up

I urge the government should check on that man, he really needs to stay away from toxic people labelling him lazy

The dude is so lazy, he couldn't even get his asss to court once in order to defend himself undecided

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Romance / Re: Need Your Advice; I Saw Her Fetched 2 Pants From The Wire Now by ebonyggurl(f): 12:48pm On Jun 19, 2019
VicYo:

yea... i ll be weird about this... like i ve mention in the story above...
if i can go about
1. warnin her
2. blackmail her
3. report her to her mom...

You are one of the things that is wrong with society today undecided

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Romance / Re: Need Your Advice; I Saw Her Fetched 2 Pants From The Wire Now by ebonyggurl(f): 12:30pm On Jun 19, 2019
So basically, you're asking if you should report her, so she can get rebuked for the act and thereby desist from it in future OR if you should blackmail her into having sex with you? undecided

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