Bahddo:
for the 3rd time, marriage is not the reason a woman's body changes.

It's a case of nature vs nurture. Women have the ability to enjoy sex much more than a man can. If you ladies weren't so pretentious about your sexuality, even the clueless partners would learn to satisfy you.

Bahddo:
don't bother trying a Strawman argument with me. Saying "your body does not change because you are married" is not the same as saying "your body does not change because you are pregnant." Stop this female habit of twisting stuff because you cannot refute the original assertion.

Pregnancy is not a direct consequence of marriage and so I'm not sure why you are blaming marriage for your body changes (which can be inspired as much by gluttony as they can by hormones). Also, your pregnancy does not benefit your man any more than it benefits you.

Same applies to sex (you get more pleasure from the act) and cooking (you eat of it even if you may not know where the money came from).

Argue all you wish, you ladies are the main beneficiaries of the social contraption called marriage.

Bahddo:
stop trying to twist reality. He never said guys should not give their girls anything. He was saying guys should learn to detect when they are being manipulated and listed ways to counter the manipulation. He also replied someone on the thread saying that there should be a balance as being stingy would drive your girl off.

Aunty, pregnancy is natural and is not exclusive to marriage. Your body changes because your body changes (and gluttony) not because you are married. What's more, your pregnancy does not benefit your husband more than it does you.

It's also a myth that wives are slaves to their husbands. It's the picture you ladies try to promote so it would be easier to manipulate the unsuspecting husbands. If anything, majority of their men slave for their families all their lives, never getting any sort of appreciation because "it's their duty."

Imagine having to pay through the nose to marry a lady so you can continue paying through the nose to provide for her and future kids while your kids prefer her to you because she's the one that gets to feed them the food you struggle to provide.

Marriage is far more beneficial to women. Doubt me? Go to churches and see how many of you are praying hard for a chance to become a "lifelong" slave. Ask people in long term relationships and find out which gender is more desperate to tie the knot. Also find out which gender is more likely to be broke and jobless and still get married.

Bahddo:
actually ALL women are manipulative. They do not all succeed, but they all try one way or the other. The attempt is what makes you a manipulator, not exactly success.

About gold-digging, we both know that women rarely ever marry/date below what they perceive to be their own class. There's a reason terms like 'hypergamy' exists, and your attempt at denying it does not change it.

Quit the crap about motivation for marriage. Just like sex, marriage benefits women more than it does men. You ladies basically have someone who thinks it's his duty to carry all your baggage for the rest of his life.

tohyorsih:


Oh! good

RatDead:


Who told you I'm not over 40 ?

Truthsbitter:

e be like say these girls plan open this thread.
see the way they are so serious insulting and replying ...

The only time I have seen fierce mouth fight like this in real life is when ashawos' quarrel.

carter009:
Are you not tired, since morning till now, I don't know what you stand to gain in all this, causing problem everywhere, from Alpha male, broke boys, etc is always bashing, cursing, stop judging people you don't know by saying every guy is broke, cos you don't know shit about anyone.

farady:


All join my sister. She should be praying for the man she will get married to from that age bracket. Sort of filling her 'prayer bank' with her request, asking God for a leading. Not when she is approaching 30 and beyond.

eni4real:
My advice for you is to stay away from Grandpas. Don't play too much with them. Don't sit on their laps to form "childness". .. They are still potent
70 years old man is still firing from their testes... Muscle may be Weaker but he knows how to get strength through herbal Medicine... Their Testes are ever firing don't deceive yourself...
Go and read about "testes removal in old men for prostate disease" Na too much sex hormone dey cause am... They can still fire you or any Regina at any time....

70 year old woman, if healthy, is already retired from active service after dealing with menopause for more than 20 years!!! You think only Vaginal dryness is the problem?? You are talking about lube... All stamina she used to get from sex Hormones are no longer there... Don't kill Grandma oooo

No more gra gra after Menopause. Be warned...
Manage your feminine career very well while it last....
Don't waste it, hating on men who will continue to keep firing until a Regina generation

eni4real:
Male Menopause or Andropause is just a campaign.. .
Menopause means dry Menses!!! No more menses... That is the real deal!!!
A man can marry a new wife at 70 and still perform with the help of right herbs or Vigrx plus supplements.. Stop misinforming the public about masculinity...
It is high time Masculinist rose to cut Anti-Men agenda of Feminists. It's becoming excessive and reeks of lies...

eni4real:
Virgx plus 2 per day in a Month!!!
It is a natural supplement!!!
The man will marry another another Regina at 50years sef

Martinez39:
^^^^^
As if she never followed to argue that old women get men and hence have sexual value. After debunking this, she now wants to stick to her topic. For the umpteenth time, did any male ever deny the message of your topic?

This thread don tire me, I sign out.

Martinez39:
Don't mind them. Even the op could not argue her message straight. Strawmanning and goal shifting everywhere.

As a man, your sexual value is based on money and looks COMBINED. Every young and old men get rejected if the cash component is missing. All things being equal, even finances, girls will go for the better looking guys. LEST I FORGET DICK ACTION AND BEDMATICS PLAY A ROLE TOO but money and looks are supreme.

For women her sexual value is based on her looks and is independent of her financial worth. To make matters, worse they stop reproducing as they get older and hence become undesirable.

Op lied that we claimed men remain THE SAME even till 100 years of age and after we call her our on that and pointed out that men retained their sexual value much more longer than women, she started living in denial. A woman will look at a man and say "na money be fine bobo" but you will never see a man claim "na money be sexy lady". Yet op will tell me that a lady can't be made wet by a sixty year old man? Ah!

This girls are something else.

Martinez39:
This is where you are at fault? You deviated from your topic about biological deterioration of men. Even after being debunked, is this what you can come up with?

A man's attractiveness/sexual value is based on his looks and financial status while a woman's attractiveness/sexual value is based on her looks alone. As for attractiveness, women lose their attractiveness way faster than men. You can see a guy in his mid-sixties still making women wet but how often can you see a woman in her mid-sixties still making a guy wet? Besides, as women's attractiveness deteriorates, so do you ability to reproduce hence you guys become useless in old age.

A aged man with money makes a woman wet but an aged woman with money cannot make a man wet. How can you claim you have sexual value when you can't make any of the opposite sex wet?

NB: this is my last response to any foolish lady on this thread, I can't come and kill myself.

Cc. Safiaa.

Safiaa:
And you think women are rushing 80 year old men or you think women would be willing to sleep with an 80 year old man without issue? lool you are delusional

Martinez39:
And who wants to have sex with a woman in her 80s? Men don't rush women in their eighties. They are like old newspapers that have been read and are no longer needed.

Martinez39:
Sexually, women deteriorate way faster than men. That's something everyone that passed Biology in SSCE should know. In your arguments, you couldn't even stick to your topic. Men still perform and reproduce even in their 80s. As I have said, I don't expect much from a woman. If ignorance is what you have chosen, fine.

Martinez39:
Another childish taunt. I understand. When one has no facts, childish taunts, shaming and insults become the order of the day. Keep at it, I am feeling you.

Goldensword:

Just accept what nature gift to you women, and forget this unnecessary argument, a man in good health produce healthy
Sperm till very advanced age.

ednut1:
alafin of oyo and FFk at 80 and 60 firing on. Show us 80 year old mama wey born without ivf. Some things are designed that way by nature and yes women are at d losing end. No matter how u try to pretend. U cannot see a 40 year old man at shiloh praying for wife.

tensazangetsu20:

Yes it does.

tensazangetsu20:

A man's sexual marketplace value only peaks at 35 to 45 if you have built enough wealth for yourself. If you are still poor and broke you rank low on the sexual marketplace.

KevinDein:
Dread it, run from it, the truth is still the truth.

Women sexual market value (SMV) is attached to their youth and beauty, for the most part, and these fade with time. Men's SMV on the other hand is attached to their finances which, more often than not, improves as men get older.

These aren't my opinions, they are facts, well researched and documented. Careful observation around you would confirm this stance.

The graph below shows the peak SMV for women is around mid twenties. Peak SMV for men is between 35-45.

FROGMAN101:


Women evolved through manipulation. From the ancient times. So I understand threads like this.

NIgerian men, face your hustle and grind hard. You are already at disadvantage being a NIgerian so you have to work triple hard. Find something you love doing.

Wasting your resources on women is the most stupid thing you would ever do.

Soon I will start helping men on Nairaland in the best way I can.

joeeee240:


You are stupîd

logik29:
When you are 50 try to give birth.Then you will know who are the deluded ones here.

Martinez39:
Did I say menopause isn't real? Did anyone say men remain the same till they die? You just proved my point that you are not worth the conversation. You are full of crap. Keep deluding yourself.

logik29:
Keep deceiving yourself.

logik29:
I flex until 50 and still have sperm to impregnate a woman.Can a woman flex until 50 and still give birth?