Bossjakande:
dear I have plenty sisters and I will born a daughter too. I dont want her to die cos of marriage but if a man abuse u is beta to leave but dont divorce u just seprate.ave heard of pple getting back togethd after 10years.we men are not fools or wicked beast.I have a good woman who love me if act as a fool and she seprate u think I wont feel it.u think I wont feel bad especially wen children are involved. most of dose useless women who shout divorce see it as an opportunity to sleep around.if my woman seprate from me I will do small gragra.she is still praying for me and improving herself getting better in her carrier u think I wont go back like a dog and beg her? wen u shout divorce wat if ur next man is d same or worst. 3 children for 2 diffrent men.my dear I belive so much in prayer too.

Most women who get divorced because their husbands were abusive hardly remarry though. the ones I know anyway

Bossjakande:
dear u divorce ur hubby wat next. ur boss in office is harsh u quit wat next? see am not saying u shd die in marriage but cant u fight for it. cant u seprate first den pray and try to work it out?is divorce d first solution. ask old pple how many challenge dey face.DAT why marriage is for adult. if u keep running away den since life is a challenge one can committed sucide. dont let Diego and paloma decieve u DAT dere is no challenge is marriage.see wen u overcome challenge society ur family and ur own children will respect u even u will be happy wit urself. go ask pple who are successful in life wat dey go through.

I know there are challenges in marriage. I also know that there is a certain level you reach when you know praying won't do anything. When your health is at stake, the best thing to do is leave

Bossjakande:
my bros u know I joke a lot but av Neva been so angry in my life.money for sex and d way dose women shout divorce divorce.haba.go through DAT place if u will see anything positive. dey dont want u to pray or be patient.dey enjoy divorce. it even hurt dem if a woman is happy.

It's easy for you to advice someone to "pray and be patient" when you are not in an abusive marriage

nepapole:
Mcheeeew.... Must the whole world know you are proposing? U cannot do it in ur room abi. Rubbish!

Lolz...why do you sound pained?

They are small na ...I was expecting to see something gross

ogunsj:
why are women so pained when their husbands decide to Play with other women? after the away match won't he return home for his home matches. why killing yourself over what is yours.

Why are men so pained when their wives decide to play with other men? After the away match won't she return home for her home matches? Why killing yourself over what is yours?

bigpriik:


go and refund your school fees .smh

Go and pay your school fees...smh

bigpriik:



And you stop making stewpid assumptions about people you don't know I am not pissed one bit by her behaviour its not a new thing I have met many matured girls and am not a newbie in dating ,you will intuitively know when a woman is into you and when she is not [b]woman are very straight.they let you know straight up when they are not into you[/b]it takes them nothing there are women who will like you but will just unnecessarily want to test you by playing hard to get by acting uninterested by ignoring your calls and chats the same women will nearly hug the life out of you when they meet you in real life they just wanna play mind games and las las they will still fall for the player.

Lolz at bolded
Only you claimed in your initial posts that women are confused and don't know what they want. Now they are straight??
you sound like the confused one bro

bigpriik:


lol who is crying ...

I got a pretty babe women are never my problem i got many crushing on me plus right now am fvcking two friends because of their normal stupidity am not a needy guy because pussy is not food or money .I decided to bring up this topic because I want guys to learn especially the newbies in the dating world that women do not want to be loved because that is the mentality of a newbie in the dating game they show women all the love and get disappointed later after I want to build a generation of strong men because our mothers made us weaklings emotionally.

You sound so re.tarded
You have a 'pretty babe' as you claimed. Yet you tried making advances to another one. In your little mind, it was a nice convo and she was all smiles...never occured to you that the babe was being nice and couldn't wait till you'd leave her alone. She was unresponsive to you later...like the little boy that you are, you came to nairaland to cry about it, claiming women are confused creatures and WANT to be treated badly. That's something a potential rapist would say. You need to get mature emotionally and stop making useless and dumb assuptions about things you don't know or understand

tydi:


She didn't like him why not just grow some balls and tell the guy to face than allowing him invest his emotions first on her..

Oh my bad I forgot women GATS no ball

Didn't you read the part where I wrote 'she didn't want to be rude and hurt his feelings?' Besides who "invests emotions" on another person after only one encounter?

Fimly:


hi

please pardon my late reply. I was embroiled in one or two things that left me with no time to come online.

Actually, I'm pained by the dismal news about interracial relationship, as it relates to Nigeria. specifically, bcs I'm predisposed to it with a religious penchant.
not for anything, but for the fact that foreign women orientation and proclivity is different from the crop of females we've over here(I mean both white or colored foreigner)
so, reading your story was disconcerting (mainly bcs ur husband is of my tribe and we're not known for that), and reading her's is...I just can't fathom motives behind such action when the relationship is not predicated on pecuniary gain and selfish interest like what I deduced from your story.
To be unequivocal, the main reason i
wanted to get to her, is to start something serious with her and to negate her misconceptions about us. I'm not making a case that I'm perfect, but if anything is to bring problem between me and a woman, it will never border on cheating, disloyalty or nonchalance. these have precluded me from having any relationship for good 25yrs(believe it or not, it's the fact and ascertainable) because I couldn't guarantee the aforementioned with the crop of females we've got over here. Dont get me wrong, I have nothing against our females here, but I'm not predisposed to them

that said, I'd appreciate if get me across to her, that's if she's available and OK with me. thanks

All these your grammar wey you pack put for here, didn't they tell you their english isn't very good?

tydi:


Read the old testament in the Bible you would see its the nature of the man to sleep or take more than a woman but am ain't among the bandwagon of men are polygamous in nature. Its that the woman took it the wrong way, what happened to dialogue with her husband, what happened to her talking a walk if she felt her feelings has been betrayed, what if she came to found out lastly that he didn't actually cheat, what happened to the future of their kids.. Well since I was little I grew up to know that women acts before they think.

Until you've been in someone else's shoes, don't come and tell us that they over-reacted. You try falling in love...get married...have kids...then learn that your other half who is supposed to respect the sanctity of your union violated it. Maybe you'll sit and calmly ask "baby what drove you to it?"

tydi:
Wife directly from hell

The man who cheated nko? He fell from heaven abi?

bigpriik:


Do you mean women are aliens are they not humans like men am starting to believe women are illogical as harddon always say no wonder the prefer men who treat them badly.

Oga no woman wants a man who treats her badly. The babe simply doesn't like you, but didn't want to be rude and hurt your feelings. That's why she's not responsive to you.

mostyg:


Hmm, you are not alone on this. Many parents force their children to study courses they don't have passion for. Sometimes our parents think more of themselves than the children. Some insisted their children study medicine and pharmacy because they want to be proud father / mother of doctors and pharmacists.


Sometimes our parents guide us on course of study because they know better than we do. They seem to understand the labour market because they are already there. Their years of experience should not be underated.

Isnt it possible you talk to your dad so that the two of you can reach a compromise? Let him see where your passion lies and hear him out on why he wanted you study the course.

when I told him what I wanted, he almost hurt me physically.

I'm studying a course I have no passion for. Currentlly in 2nd year. Test starts next week and I can't work up the enthusiasm to study. I just don't see the point in wasting my time doing something I hate.(Was dad's idea to study it) . I feel stranded

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She just looks swollen to me

I get really sad when I see news like this such a pretty lady...just beginning the rest of her life only to have it snatched from her by the cold hands of death r.i.p. lady

luminouz:

OP fvcked up by being emotional and U went further by making it personal,tagging his mum and sisters!!! I prefer u both stick to the topic at hand.

If you are really in ile-ife like u said,then stop the abuses...

He mentioned my sister first though

Timekeeper:


Like I said, not all women are a cheat. But for you, I can vouch that u r a cheat and hoelosho.

Ebonyggurl my girl is a hoe, u r a hoe. Maybe I Wil learn how to keep ur sis... Sissy shaid


Don't mention me again

I'm not a cheat or a hoe slowpoke...can't say the same about your mama and sisters though...hoe family

Timekeeper:
Hoelosho Ebonyggurl even reduced her self to propose to a man.. She don over ripe for marriage ;DHoelosho Ebonyggurl even reduced her self to propose to a man.. She don over ripe for marriage

Foolish fool...for your information I'm no where near as old as you so marriage to a Nigerian imp such as yourself is the farthest thing on my mind. Instead of you to go and look for who will marry your old yet immature ass you dey here dey quote me. Bitter old fool.

Timekeeper:


So finding sumone interesting means u shud open ur leg for him.. There are billions of interesting men out there, Oya open ur borehole for them na. Since interest is a gateway to open ur Toto.

Not all women cheat, I didn't say all

So whose fault that u cheat, our fault Abi??

Who says I'm bittered??

If I call you hoelosho now, u will be angry but u open ur borehole to every dick

Lolz. Like I said, you know nothing about me, so stop displaying ignorance. Its not our fault your woman is a hoe ....learn ways to keep the next hoe who will be pathetic enough to date your sorry ass and stop calling every woman you come across a cheat. Mumu man boy

Timekeeper:


Must you open leg for every man that comes ur way.... Why open leg for another man when u have ur man... Must u tango with another man when u have ur man...

Ur mumu will kill u.. When a guy left his wedding coz his wife cheated, even you ladies supported the lady that cheated.. If it was a lady that left a man, u wud have supported the lady action but yet u criticize men

Oga please shut up. why must you always make the assumption that all women cheat? Is it our fault that ur woman couldn't keep her legs closed when she found someone more interesting than you? you know nothing about me so don't come here and be displaying ignorance. Your bitterness kill you there

Timekeeper:
Honestly to marry dey fear me... As in ladies are just Cheating anyhow these days. Been a while u hear a news that a guy cheated but ladies are the order of the day now.. Cheat this cheat that... Are ladies gradually over coming men when it come to cheating?

What is the cause of excessive cheating by ladies?

I think very soon, cheating will be traded as a security on the Nigerian stock exchange very soon.

Guys be ready to invest, Mark my words, cheating by ladies will be traded on the Nigerian stock exchange market soon


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Guy better be quiet there. Who or what are they cheating with? Monkeys? As if no be men dey knack them. it takes two to tango ok...na so them open thread for 'married but bored' people...come see how men dey drop their numbers anyhow....later one useless fellow will come and be bashing women only

Oluromantic:

Yeah. It's not important for getting a new passport though but who knows the lost one could be in d hand of fraudsters or impersonators. So to avoid being caught and tagged a criminal simce ur name is on d document, d police report done earlier would automatically bail you out. But then it's been long, it may not be necessary again

Alright...thanks

badadvice:


it will.
But what if he already made copies stacked up somewhere.
She'd just sign her death warrant by breaking his phone.
I say to hell with the dude.
Slow painless death.

Lolz...can death be slow and painless at the same time?