depumpin:

hmmmmm sha i like ur advice but if de place is bad i know he will not contact me

I also heard that "agents" get paid a certain amount for every individual or worker they bring. That "friend" of yours might only be interested in the money he will make on your head trust me. Dubai is a no no for menial workers

depumpin:
Good day nlanders i know this is not the right section to seek for this kind of advice but i love romance section,let me make it short
my name is Dan am 23yrs i have a frd who works in Dubai so he just call me two days ago telling me that where he works that they need cleaners two and de salary its 150,000 and 110,000 per month he said they will do visa and everything but u are de one to pay for ur flight ticket which is abt 180k pls advice me am just a shoe seller in naija and i dnt earn quarter of de salary he is saying a month And he said de work is like 8 to 9 hours daily

I once heard that foreign cleaners are treated like crap in dubai and that no matter how they beat or maltreat you, you wouldn't be able to leave until the contract is over. I wouldn't go if I were you

someone should pls define "slay queen" I don't like that word.

those hypocrites above me calling her names, y'all probably do the same thing so stfu

iCauseTrouble:

But look at the DP of someone calling some guys unattractive. Tell me what she looks like

Beauty, to a very large extent, is subjective. Just cos you don't think she's pretty doesn't make her ugly. Plus there's freedom of expression for the people on this forum. If you don't like someone's comment, just ignore...instead of shaming them the way you did. She didn't call your name and say so and so is unattractive

iCauseTrouble:

Did you read what she wrote about guy's look?

Yea I did. She made a simple comment. That some of the guys who send women dms are not that attractive...which is true sometimes. Doesn't give you the right to call her a starved dog
Not cool mehn

iCauseTrouble:

See your own picture like that of starving local dog

Dude that's just harsh

*The Point-Blank!*

*Intervene Now, Clouds Of War Gathering Over Nigeria ...'Bashir Tofa' to Nigerian BIG-MEN.*

The last time Nigeria heard him was *1993* when
he sought to be *President.* Now, he is being heard again with a dire warning of what he sees on the horizon, what another compatriot, *Gen. T Y Danjuma* has called the *‘war without fronts’.* It is thus not whether he is making sense or not, *but a case of a senior citizen putting his* *thoughts together on an issue which he is absolutely*
*qualified to speak on as a citizen.*

*Read on:*

*Alhaji Bashir Tofa:* The Clouds of War are gathering with blood sucking *gods* that follow the perching of vultures.
*Vultures from Europe, vultures from England, vultures from Asia, yes, vultures from America, that deal on Arms.*
With *eyes* constantly fixed on any trouble spot in the world. They’re are
hopefully praying to extend their business from
*Tripoli to Abuja.* This is because, *Nigeria* is fast
ascending to the very path that *Freetown* took.
The path that ruined *Congo and Libya.* The
expressway to *Rwanda,* that is the path *Nigeria is fast speeding into.*
Yet, this path is not a new path to us. It’s a *familiar terrain* that we have taken before. In *1966,* long before even the
Rwandan path was paved, *We wasted over 3million people as hundreds of innocent souls were slaughtered before even the war started.*
Long before the Rwandan path was paved, religious differences and ethnic intolerance as being repeated today, led to a *Civil War* that took *our best,* took *our Leaders,* took *innocent Souls*
and *took Us backward.* The backwardness is still *hunting and hurting us till day.*

And, it’s the *wounds of the war that was not treated in a round table talk; talk, that is leading to another war.*

Yet, the *Leader of the nation insists that he’s comfortable exactly the way things are.*

So, it’s either *history is unfair to us or our Leaders are blind to it.*
Indeed, *the death meant to kill a dog does not allow her to smell faeces.*
And, like the saying goes, those who do not
understand history are bound to repeat it.
Even if we hadn’t experienced a civil war before, what happened in *Freetown, Monrovia, Abidjan*
in recent history ought to have *taught us a lesson.*
The way *Tripoli was turned from a fast developing city into a slave town where war Lords reign should serve as a lesson.*
But no, *we learnt nothing.* Just 50years after,
when those that played major role to the last civil war are still alive, here the *snowball of war goes rolling down from the snow mountain of stupid arrogance,* gathering with it all the *ethnic intolerance and religious divide* that paved the
path of *Rwandan.*

*Special responsibility to be a force for peace: Where are you, Gen. Gowon? Your silence is strongly becoming cowardice.* *Where art thou*
*Gen. Abudsalem Abubakar?* *Your silence is strongly becoming a* *tactical approval to the atrocities* *going on in the nation.*
*Where are you Chief Emeka Anyaoku for there is an error in your silence.*
*Speak out Gen. IBB, or else history will record it that you said nothing when your voice was needed most.*
*Ochiagha Ndi-Igbo, Comr. Ebitu Ukiwe your Children are being slaughtered in their farms, and you said nothing.*

*You all said nothing* as the *young-man* who
watched his pregnant *Mother gang raped and her stomach ripped open bites his tongue and moan in revenge.*

You *Big-men in power and in office,* you felt
secured and less concerned because you thought the evil is far of. When this Rwanda that is fast speeding to Nigeria will arrive, the *Distinguished Senator will be extinguished; the Honorable House members will be dishonored; some of you in Executive Offices will be executed.*

All by *War Lords,* who will take-over and parade the
streets of Osun, Ondo, Edo, Sokoto, Abuja,
Calabar, Enugu, etc (all States in Nigeria). The
*War Lords* that took-over the streets of Rwanda
did the same. So, let each and everyone of
you wake up while it’s day. Let us collectively
pursue the black sheep, or else, *when Rwanda will arrive, lizards will replace cows as major source of protein in our cooking.*

Ask *Samuel Doe,* when Rwanda arrived at
Monrovia, he hit the streets from the Presidential
Palace in search of food after slaughtering his
lions for meal. That was how he was captured
and slaughtered.

*Rwanda does not respect Big-men and big Office Holders.* As there are no big-men Libya today, but War Lords that are selling the Children of even the Rich into slavery. When Rwanda arrives, *there will be no strong-man, no Community Leader, Big-men or Small-men.*

In Rwanda, there was not even *religious Leaders.* Everyone will be to himself, and *God* to all us. For the *Big-men aides* will desert them, and run to take their families into the bush, for
safety. Then, the high fences of the *local almighties* will be climbed, their strong pad-locks,broken; their properties stolen, *their wives and daughters violated before them.*

The *Late Muammar Gaddafi of Libya, for they’re always the first target of the Rwanda mobs.*
Ask the *Former almighty of Congo, Zaire politics, when Rwanda visited, their Palaces were the first target of attack.*

So, *no one should feel less concerned about this Rwanda breeze that is blowing towards Nigeria.*
*Do whatever you can today to stop it by speaking out; or else, we all will live to regret our inactions.*

*If the truth must be said, the path way to Rwanda is being paved due to our Executive arms of Government lackadaisical attitude in respect to the insecurity ravaging the Country.*
Under this very *Regime* that came for *Change,*
*(Nigeria)* our beloved Country has unfortunately,
*become a lawless Country; a Country with no Rules and Regulation; a Country where laws are not adhered to; a Country where there is no consequence for killing of innocent Citizens. Yet, we have a Government in place that refuses to take responsibility; and Security Agents that seems not to know what their work is. Yet, every year we budget and spend Billions on Security Agencies, and the Citizens are taxed for this:*

*That’s how the path to Rwandan is being paved.*

On the expressway to Rwandan, Citizens got killed, innocent Girls are violated, Mothers raped, Farmers throat slit, People going about their
businesses are killed at gun-points, and nothing
was done about it. From Enugu, Kaduna South,
Bornu, Bauchi, Zamfara, Adamawa, Nasarawa,
Taraba, Plateau down to Benue, the Rwandan
experience is going on.

You might feel secure today because you move around with Escorts, but when Rwanda will arrive,
it will only be *War Lords* that will be escorted. There will be no Senator, Federal or State House
Member, because each zone will be manned by
War Lords that legislate the rule of law.

When Rwanda will arrive, there will be no Governor, no
Minister, no Government Officials, because there was none in Rwanda: each area will have a War Lord that will be lord of the law.
In Rwanda, there will be no middle class, industrialist, banks etc. So, there will be no ATM. The War Lords controlling the areas you fall into might decide to print a new Currency with his
head as the logo. So, stop counting on what you
have acquired now, for all be lost. *Haunting memories of Rwanda* in media
headlines.

On the path to Rwanda, Men of *God* that speak
out and speak the truth to the Government of the day were arrested and detained. Just as it is happening now!
On the path to Rwanda the
Government of the day favoured one Ethnic group
against the other, and those that felt neglected took to self-defense. That was what paved the way to Rwanda.
The Rwandan highway is being paved in Kaduna
South, Jos, Taraba, Zamfara, Nasarawa and
Benue. Communities that felt neglected by the Federal Government are going into self-defense.
In Rwanda, babies were born with no future. As soon as they grow up, they pick up an AK 47 and start killing fellow human beings. That Rwandan path is being paved in the Boko Haram controlled areas in Northern Nigeria.
In Rwanda, bodies of dead people littered everywhere and the Government of the day felt
less concerned, just as dead bodies means
nothing anymore in Nigeria. *Nigeria* is just as if we are in *Liberia or Afghanistan.*

*Nigeria has become a barbaric nation with no respect for human life.*

*Like Rwanda, Nigeria has become a place where we wake up every day and hear that people are being slaughtered and we feel like it’s normal.*

In fact, like Rwanda, *Nigeria has become a place where we hear 6 killed, 24 injured and we are like it’s small.*

*Like Rwanda, Schools have closed in so many Villages, due to the attack of War Lords struggling for territories and the Government of the day are helpless about it. Nigeria is seriously drifting towards Rwanda, but some people instead of speaking out and saying the truth, are clapping and urging the President to go on as if nothing is happening. But, when Rwanda will arrive, there would be no Oil money to share, no nation to govern, and all the major Oil fields will be controlled by Niger Delta War Lords. So keep on
clapping and praising the Government while pregnant women are being slaughtered.

Keep on talking about 2019 while innocent Children are being murdered. Keep on pretending
that all is well with Nigeria when a foreign army of occupation has taken over most villages in Nigeria, and our Military are doing nothing about it.

Keep on feeling less concerned when our National territory has been invaded by foreign
Mercenaries and we keep on pretending like all is at peace. The truth is, we cannot continue like this and expect *Nigeria not to hit the Rwandan path.*

*Nigerians are being slaughtered like cattle, and their cries are hitting the ground.*

*Hearts are hurting, souls are ravaging for Revenge and they’re gathering storms of war.*

*Nigeria will not survive a second Civil war and the next war will be so shapeless, because people will be hit from all angles.*

In Rwanda, *everywhere and everyone was affected. When Rwanda visited Sudan, the former Senate President lined up to beg for food from the relief Agencies.*

The earlier our *Leaders* drop their ethnic and religious differences and come together to
demand an end to the killings moving from one
village to another to slaughter our people.

*Speak out now for no matter how small your voice may sound, our collective voices will sound like a big mega phone to help stop the looming danger”*

#refusetopullback.

Onyi22:
Congratulations, money is really good, I must end up with a rich guy by all means...
Poverty is a curse

Lmao. This your comment is paining so many guys o

DarlingEmojist:


But wait!...... .
You go fit Lawyer oh
I cant remember the Last time I was speechless,everyone knows am a talkative that argues and later succeed,but this your own version of arguement is European modern

DarlingEmojist:


Ahh!! I quit
Non of us should have side-chick..
I want to be the father of my son

Alright dear. That's cool

DarlingEmojist:


Arh!!
Matter don scatter oh
See am speechless
You don hang my mouth!i

Its fair na, isn't it?
Since he wan crase, make we crase together

DarlingEmojist:


Why will do so?
I left her athome to make a good meal for me when am back from The nearest and comfortable Hotel

Any man who wants to have a side chick when he is married should not complain when his wife gets a side boo too

lilfreezy:
You people sha, don't want aboki to eat

Igbo people are building cow ranches in different parts of the east.

Now the sw are digitalizing Okada business.

Very soon someone will come up with ONION HUB or IRON CONDEMN Tech lmaoooooo

Lolz...atleast we are making some progress na

So....uber, but with bikes

DarlingEmojist:
This is the kind of woman that we are talking about...
I pray my wife do well

I hope you won't have a problem with her side boo? The young sexy nigga who will hit her spot well when she is unsatisfied with you?

lilwetdick:


with the point you made, if a man is a so called alpha at least the society he lives should also benefit from his alphanes/survival insticts in terms of leadership,civility and good society etc, but then again a man looks at his society and his environment then see that nothing is going on, people are living in povety, even the so called alpha cant find his way, so what then should we call that "alpha"that cant build a society and doesnt even have a future in his own country but then again his only alphaness is ontop of women, is that not a loser.

I'm telling you. Alphas only when it comes to women matters. Losers, all of them

Stephendeals:


To avoid story that touches...

His car door

ladiesreject:


Sorry dear, no chance!

I wanna know too o. You brought it up so you must tell us

Nche95:
because you looked like a clown.. everyone likes to take a picture of clowns

You're obviously not a naruto fan. All fans of naruto would admire the cloak.

diehard1:
After reading your post, I got so mad and angry at how the younger generation reason and behave. It also made me to have a better understanding why there are so much suicidal cases. You are quitting school because of poor grades? That makes you a looser, big one for that matter. I feel like giving you a hot slap to reset your brain. God knows my children will not try such. Are you the only poor person in the school? Do you consider all the investment made on your behalf from nursery to the current state and you want to throw all that away just because of a course. My friend go back to school and do what you have to do. Unfortunately, in this part of the world, the lecturer is god and you have to stick it into your head. Only the tough ones survive in the wild. Be among the though ones and not the lily livered.

Consider yourself a coward if you quit. Do you know when I was in the university, there were guys that had to repeat for years due to one issue or the other. They never left, they continued till the end. Your don't enter a race for running sake, you do so to win, you run till the end. There are intelligent people that were very poor or sick when at school and due to such came out with poor grades. They finished because your grades don't determine who or what you'll be.

If you quit, what do you intend doing, drink sniper?, do yahoo or keep on complaining

I had to be harsh because, education is the best thing that you can acquire in life. Just go back to school and make yourself proud at the end of the day.

This is good advise. What if one starts the race but then realises one has no true passion for it and wants to do something else? But one's parents are against the idea? Must one continue and feel miserable ?

ArticleBeast:

Start making plans towards being independent. I was born into a family like yours. My dad was so strict that Hitler will hail him strict. Early I started hustling, pushing, and making more money. Money comes with respect. One day, I packed out of the house to my new place.

You are not ungrateful that one thing you have to tell yourself.

Thank you

NiRfreak:
The earlier the better for you.. cos you are going to be the one to face the consequence in future...Its better to try at your dream and fail than not trying at all. When we make decision and fail, at least we can own up to responsibility and forge ahead.
Most of those fear we had about our parent then are unfounded..fear that we will be neglected..But its a big lie..even if we rebel against their decision, they will still try their best to support us unless they are not our parent.....At least the prodigal son in the Bible did worst, yet he still got some support. And again.. I've come realise that religious parent are usually the worst when it comes to parenting.. They feel they know it all, and can be too authoritarian without considering the feelings of their children. Thats why I I'm presently irreligious...

Right now, I'm starting life afresh again...its painful seeing wasted years, and reality is hitting hard....I know with another dose of patience for a couple of years I will chart another path for my life. This time...I will never listen to any advice coming from my parents again.. cos its only bad and traumatising and memories of bully I have about my childhood and growing up.

Thank you. And goodluck getting your life to be what you truly desire. All will be well in the end

NiRfreak:
That was the fear I Had then...but there are children without Mother or Father who still made it in Life. When I look back I regret never following my own wish, and dream for my life..I regret allowing my parents to influence my future decision even when it was against my will. I regret I was too scared cos I was raised to tremble in fear of my parents, to have no say. no opinion. I wish I had told my father that I will disown and disfather him when he used to threaten me that he would disown me if I disobeyed his authority and decision.

I know exactly how you feel. Take heart bro. Right now I'm thinking of standing up to them. Instead of wasting years pursuing something that I hate and will regret in future.

NiRfreak:
I wished I had been more stubborn....I wish I had been rebellious.. I just wish. Parents sometimes make decision without looking at the children's feeling

If I rebel though, I could be tagged as ungrateful. I just wish I could do things that make me happy. not looking forward to next school holiday at all

NiRfreak:
My greatest regret is being scared of my father, following his career advice and allowing him to be too authoritarian on me.

This is my life right now

The things we prioritize as a nation is astonishing.

BuikemWillz:



Because you ladies give them that power with your stereotypical opinions about men. When a lady says 'all men cheat,' she's giving the man in her life an alibi to philander. Some even say 'so long as he returns to me I'm ok,' amongst many other things you ladies say about men. Trust your men to be as faithful as they expect faithfulness from you, but hold them accountable for their infidelity when they 'slip' [not making it an 'all men' thing] and stop following married men [after all they can't cheat with themselves if every lady responsibly says 'go back to your wife' the moment they find out he's married]. Cheating on someone you claim to love is inexcusable and stereotypes [like 'men will always cheat', 'African men are naturally polygamous,' 'people cheat all over the world but don't make it a normal way of life', and some other annoying things people say to soften the severity of unfaithfulness] only serve to propound it. Stop excusing infidelity!

Who is excusing infidelity
Can't you see that I'm against it?

From all you said, it means men give women an alibi to be golddiggers and hoes then cos they keep claiming that's what women are.
You men should stop giving them money in exchange for sex. When they realise they can't sell their bodies anymore, infidelity will be reduced. It's a two way thing

lexy2014:

its now u no u have things 2do. U wan run. if I now quote u, what will happen? I thought u said it is a public forum?


So if they cheat& they divorce based on infidelity, then how come u said its only Nigerian men that have polygamous mentality?

You obviously don't understand what the term "polygamous mentality" means even after it has been explained to you a number of times by more than one person. Ain't your fault. Some people find it hard to assimilate certain concepts that do not conform with their way of thinking

lexy2014:


Is claiming right to cheat d definition of polygamy? Ur comment still brings us back 2d initial question I asked u:

This is my last reply. Polygamy is the legal right to more than one wife. Multiple mating that is legally allowed. the mentality part is the mindset. The belief that you should have multiple "mates" . As you know non-muslims in Nigeria are not legally allowed or supported to have more than one wife...so the men keep them as side chicks and yes it happens abroad too. But the difference is our men take it as their right. And that no one can tell them otherwise. I'm off. Not replying anymore

lexy2014:


Pls define polygamy for me& tell me if polygamy has anything to do with what u just wrote up there except u are using a different dictionary. Meanwhile, u still didn't answer d question I asked:



Do non-muslims cheat on their wives? Yes or No? Do they seek divorce based on infidelity on d part of their men? Yes or no?

Yes non-muslims cheat and yes they divorce due to infidelity. Better a divorce than having to endure your husband parading his side chick around you though, isn't it?

Look I've got things to do...stop quoting me. it's a public forum and it's my opinion. If you don't like it, ignore it. Bye