Aboguede:


Are u the op? Cox I know say them spoil ur market

What do you mean?

virago:



Even if it was done through exercise which I highly doubt where did all the excess skin go to , no amount of dieting or exercising will get rid of the skin unless she goes under the knife. Educate yourself before you open your mouth to spew trash

People like this one need everything to be written diwn before they understand. ofcourse you have to do cosmetic procedures to get rid of the excess skin
I simply said it's possible to lose the weight in a period of two years through diet, exercise and tummy tuck....when the weight is gone, then we can talk of removing skin. Where's the trash I'm spewing there?

essenceplus:



Better go and take malt to cool down. Whoever you saw I. Supportive of abusive relations here. If I tear you hawt slap

Pls shut up. Didn't you read the so-called boss' comments?

essenceplus:




It seems you want to be unfortunate sha. I park for inside your toto? Beta carry your stibky thrash off my lane. Perhaps you need help with English. If not show me where I support any kind of abuse physical, psychological or emotional.

First of all, my pvssy is cleaner than your mouth .
Secondly, you're one of those advocating against divorce
With the way society is presently, every woman ought to have an alternative in mind in case their marriage goes south. Even my dad said so. So all this nonsense about how planning for divorce even b4 marriage is sick is exactly that...Nonsense

Bossjakande:
I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I I
Did u know why I put DAT I think u are so selfish.u neva consider if uve born a children.dey shld be ur no1.f he cheat before u jump as a parrot ask for divorce ask urself if u are at fault.I watch a film d woman who should be with her hubby was moving from party to party.her hubby was lonely and later cheat.who get fault. A man marry wife yet always travel for work d wife cheat.who get fault. Abuse as how.nobody is perfect if as a human being u cant forgive den u are evil.nobody is perfect dear

Reading all your comments on this thread is just making me angry I swear. Are you this deluded? .
Think of the children? Yes let's take the kids into consideration right here and now. when you were a child, was your dad abusive to your mom? If your answer is no, then pls stop all this NONSENSE you're saying. My dad was and still is abusive to my mom. Both physically and emotionally. Why is she still in the marriage? Cos of her kids. Do you have any idea how that shiit messes with a child's phyche? .
The thing I want most right now is to get my degree, start earning money and get her the fvck out of that toxic marriage.
Who marriage epp?

Bossjakande:
if u say a man cheat more Dan once before u gjvr up u should be talking of forgiveness and stronger marriage not divorce.u are a Christain.if hubby cheat on u find out why if d fault is with u.go for cancelling. If not den u still go for cancelling. And if he keep cheating den u know he is stupid.u can seprate for a while. A man is a cheater today dosnt mean he cant change tomorrow.

Lmao. Anytime anyone mentions a man that abuses them physically or emotionally, you go quiet. Nothing to say?

essenceplus:



My father was amazing o. Leave thrash for lawma. Ladies can't manage success. Small thing na divorce. Cause of small change. Electricians and all what nits would now be greasing the engine. Chai. Men have suffer

Oga better park well o @bolded. Who is talking about small misunderstandings here? We are referring to when a man inflicts emotional and physical abuse on his wife. A man that flogs his wife in front of his children. A man who gets his side chick pregnant, parades her in front of his wife and beats her when she quarrels about it. What kind of prayers and counselling will rectify such things. When you have a daughter who finds herself in an abusive marriage, what exactly will you tell her?

UnclePrincipal:


How did you arrive at these fallacious conclusion?

I don't even think you're a female with this comment

When I made that comment, I was referring to women who want a real relationship...not gold diggers looking for 'mugus'

Bossjakande:
if u can face challenge in life u can face in marriage.u no be Christain so get lost. dats were prayer and cancelling comes in.

when you eventually marry and have kids....then your daughter marries and finds out that her husband has a hidden abusive nature, you'll tell her to remain in the marriage abi...even when he beats her to the point that she faints, you go tell her say every marriage get challenges abi? Sometimes divorce is the ONLY option left, okay. Stop all this nonsense you're saying about counselling

NaijaTushboy:
I need help and advise o.
I was just goofing around 7
months ago on Facebook there I
saw one pretty sister that was
how the Casanova spirit inside
me pushed me to send her friend
request which she accepted after
two days.
Some days after I sent her that
hand wave on Facebook
messenger and she
responded.that was how it all
started.. something in me was
saying take it easy but this spirit
of Casanova was really prepared
to deal with me.
Fast forward three months later
after pressure she accepted and
she even told me she does not
want any not serious fellow but I
keep assuring her I am different
that my love is here to stay..but
deep inside me I came for the
tithe and offering..last weekend
she visited me and we spent the
weekend together. On Sunday
morning she asked me to go
drop her which I obliged..we
drove to Onikan close to Bunny
camp, she pointed to the Army
gate and ask me to drive in..I
thought she was joking but she
was not. We got to the gate my
brothers and sisters the soldiers
at the gate were saluting her..at
that point I don't know if my car
engine went off or I was the one
that off it..I began to sweat but
she did not noticed.i dropped
her and she pecked me as I
managed to drive off the gate.
Later in the day while I was still
counting my dilemma and what
to do she chatted me to ask if
she surprised me..I said not really
that I am proud of
her..meanwhile I have pee like
200 times already..
Just this morning she fully
introduced herself as Major
Esther, her only two brothers are
Lt Col in the Army and she is the
only girl of her father who is a
retired Captain..
I know I am dead but I don't
know how dead I am..my wife
and kids are due to return to
Lagos next week..
Please I need advise my people.

Lalasticlala,mynd44,
pls help me push it to the front page.

Karma is truly a bitch
You deserve whatever you get. Married but fooling around. I hope the soldier lady treats your fvck up

abdeiz:



Lmfao I will do whatever I want regardless of what one anonymous profile on a popular forum thinks. As if we haven't been dealt a terrible hand in the past by your folks

Okay o. Keep leading them on then. You never encounter psychotic babe yet. Na im cause am

KingTom:

But that's the thing, see when I ask for your number and you give it to me, you don't like me you think I'm ugly bla bla bla but you give me the number. You go ahead and say "no be number, he go call tire I no go pick" when I call tire, I'll shrug it off coz it's Normal almost every day stuff for guys. Now to the guys, most are in uncharted territory, they don't know what to do, and at the risk of committing the fallacy of hasty generalisation, many naija girls are not used to and cannot handle rejection. Thus the choice of entering the relationship and seeing where it leads sets in, una go tire for una selves las las or you never know it might just work

See, forget that crap about people not being able to handle rejection. it will hurt for a moment, yes...but las las the person go dey alright. Many naija guys would already be in relationships when these gals approach them. Instead of saying straight up that they are already taken, they go start to dey chop the girl dey laff with their friends like say nor be person emotions dem dey play with. When the girl becomes psychotic and damages ur stuff, you go come dey bash the whole womankind

KingTom:
Correct me if I'm wrong, but won't turning her down flat, lead to a gross reduction of her self esteem?

Lolz...so what's the solution? Date her out of pity? You still won't like her and you'd still have to tell her eventually....and by then, she would have invested even more feelings, making it hurt a whole lot more. Before approaching a member of the opposite sex, one has to put it in mind that the feelings might not be mutual and must therefore prepare oneself for possible rejection. The best thing you can do is let her down easy.

mrNEMZY:


I have no problem with the hip or thigh muscles, or the abbs. That was clearly done by working out.
The area of loosing that much fat in such a short time is where I have a problem with. No amount of working out can do that!
You are really the ignorant one here, U've been deceived into thinking that work out burns a lot of fat.


Nonsense

Lmao. Oga do you do exercise? Be honest. Short time you say? We talking about two years dedicated to strict diet and exercise regime. Granted she probably did a 'tummy tuck', losing the weight she did in that time space is very possible. Its called determination. Look it up

Mypeople2:
yeah you are correct .But do you know that is what you people do to us ?

Lolz. The average naija girl doesn't lead a guy on. If she isn't feeling you, she either tells you or becomes passive towards you

abdeiz:



Hey don't take it the wrong way, she's obviously catching fun with me probably because she's bored.when I notice she gets too serious with feelings and I still don't have any for her, I tell her and let her go

lmfao.
Did she tell you that or are you just assuming? If someone starts coming onto you and you ain't feeling no vibes, fvcking tell them ....it sucks to lead people on

mrNEMZY:
How do these people expect us to believe this shit?

Going to the gym builds up muscles, but doesn't burn fat that much. The normal body metabolism in say 6hrs, would even burn more fat than you will do exercising in 12hrs. To loose fat is mostly either though dieting or surgery.
In this woman's case, dieting alone couldn't have done this in the time she gave, they would go to hospital do abdominoplasty, come out and go and snap pictures in the gym.




Nonsense

Ignorant mofo...look at her hips and thighs...you can't get them toned like that from dieting and surgery alone. Plus 'gyming' involves more than just lifting weights...try doing aerobics. That stiit burns fat like crazy. Fvcking hater

abdeiz:
I have had three experiences.

The first was through a mutual friend who saw our picture together, she was immediately smitten. Decided to get my number and shoot her shot. I've never met a lady so direct, smart and knows what she want, no forming, no playing around. Tried to love her like she did but I couldn't. Had a mini emotional breakdown when I told her I couldn't give her what she wanted. Las las we still dey alright.

The second, I had her number for years but never made any move till one day we just clicked. I was wary of asking her out because of long distance and she's older though it doesn't show on her. She professed her love and I told her i felt same but I cannot marry her... another different story..... anyway she agreed and we've been cool ever since...no sex yet tho.

Third I was just on my own...gbam... friend request and she starts calling me her husband well I'm just playing her game for now... nothing to lose right?

This is one of the major reasons I don't support girls who 'shoot their shot'...if the guy doesn't like her, he won't tell her straight up that he doesn't like her...he'll keep leading her on...nothing to lose you say? For her to have built up the courage to ask you out, she obviously likes you and you can't even be honest with her...you wanna hurt the poor girl instead...yall should kwantinue

EmekaBlue:
I would love to hear what ladies have to offer.

We would love to hear what you have to offer too

why isn't food included?

FannySwindler1:
Ebonyggurl. Is my intention not a good way of spending money. How else should money be spent?.

Was just an observation. It's cool

Mine is when she made me eat white rice without stew cos I didn't want to eat eba that night.

FannySwindler1:
Ifyalways. You identify as someone who is above the age criteria and as one who is not in any form of hardship.

You are hereby disqualified from making an application. But as a good will gesture, I will arrange for a lunch date with you and your three toddlers.

You seem like someone with a lot of money, and not many ways to spend it

Fyi0:

Mumu why did you get pregnant

She was raped you slowpoke

Joshrob:
Do women ever feel they’re too broke to be in a relationship? �

Nope

Very good thread. Everyone acting like being single and refusing to marry is a horrible terrible thing. Some people just want peace of mind

blackpanthar:
they can NOT be on this forum... sorry

A christian lady cannot be on this forum?

You obviously give them a reason to keep complaining about the same thing...

BraidedChannel:


I'm good. You?

I'm great. Live in Ife?

Maken1005:

Hello

How's it going?

BraidedChannel:


Hi

What's up

Bossjakande:
am back dear see some of dem sleep around and i dont blame dem.see its not gud for a woman to be alone like DAT body no be firewood abeg.and still sleeping around too is not good. my dear divorce is not a good thing abeg.we Neva consider how it will affect d children.

Sorry for replying this late. It's this kind of thinking that makes women remain in abusive marriages. I know of a lady who was praying and exercising patience on her husband until he tried to set their house on fire...no one advised her to run before she did. Thankfully the children were all grown. If a man is constantly making you feel like sh.it and even has the nerve to advertise his other woman and harm you because of her, there is no reason to remain with such a fellow. Don't come and tell me to keep praying for such an idiot. the women I know about from my town that left their husbands are all celibate...cos they feel they have to remain so in order to go to heaven.