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CelebritiesRe: Funke Adesiyan's APC Ticket Taken Away From Her by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 1:28pm On Oct 08, 2018
she must have been compensated
CelebritiesRe: Mr Shaa Buys A Car For Tontoh, His Sex Doll (Photos) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 4:32pm On Jun 18, 2018
noisemaker
RomanceRe: Man's Head Smashed While Fighting For His Girlfriend. She Takes Selfie With Him by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 11:41am On May 12, 2018
�� This one weak me o
Foreign AffairsRe: Jacob Zuma Resigns As South African President! by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 6:26am On Feb 15, 2018
first time a leader will resign in Africa, make sai baba follow suit
PoliticsRe: FG Grants Fuel Marketers Special FX To Resume Fuel Importation by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 12:34pm On Jan 04, 2018
but government should be on the look out so they won't use it for their other businesses
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Do You Need A Better Job In 2018? by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 9:32am On Jan 01, 2018
jaiyeolaibrahim@yahoo.co.uk
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Bitter Experience Today As A Marketer by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 10:40am On Dec 20, 2017
sorry all will be well
IslamRe: Youths Reading Quran Dressed Red & White Attires. Photos Spark Online Debate by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 7:38am On Nov 02, 2017
I wonder why people think the other way they are definitely Islamic school students dressed in their uniforms
PoliticsRe: Politicians At Wedding Reception Of Saraki's Daughter (Photos) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 5:12pm On Oct 29, 2017
democracy is a set up plan, politicians are always friends.
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Cars & Helicopters Designed By Nigerian Man Using Wooden Materials (Photos) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 1:53pm On Aug 19, 2017
so many talent so little encouragement
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu ‘Shuts Down’ Abakaliki - Premium Times by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 11:31am On Jul 25, 2017
what a lawless country, a man released on bail condition pulling so much crowd forgetting it's a war he can't win

continue!!!

watching in 7D
EducationRe: Professor Oloyede Remits N5Billion JAMB Fund To FG As Nigerians Hail Him by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 12:11pm On Jul 24, 2017
This man is disciplined. More grease to your elbow
CelebritiesRe: Bisi Alimi Shows Off His Son (Photo) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 5:34pm On Jul 15, 2017
the boy's mum should claim the boy before he undergo brain reset
LiteratureRe: Roy Lan Uzoma, "My Nigerian Dream" Book Author (Photos) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 11:03am On Jul 10, 2017
kudos
IslamRe: Sheikh Mustapha Sanusi Zuglool's Burial: Massive Crowd Shutdown Isolo (Photos) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 10:32am On Jul 07, 2017
inna lillahi wa inna ilehi rajiun
PoliticsRe: Dino Melaye’s Father Prays On His Book, "Antidotes For Corruption" (Photos) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 11:45am On May 20, 2017
impressive
BusinessRe: Aliko Dangote Celebrates His 60th Birthday Today (throwback Vs Now Photos) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 8:25am On Apr 10, 2017
Happy birthday Sir
BusinessRe: Man Punishes GTB For Deducting N275 From His Account by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 8:54am On Apr 06, 2017
I fear u dude, if given the chance you can even burn dem down, na mtn I want mk u punish nxt those guys can be something else.
FamilyRe: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 2:42pm On Feb 18, 2017
Double dab for you, experienced ones on to you
PoliticsRe: Soldier Writes Love Note With His Bullets (Photos) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 9:10am On Feb 17, 2017
May God protect you for your loved ones
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Do I Continue Schooling Or Accept This Job Offer - So Confused by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 10:22am On Jan 29, 2017
Accept the job offer, cos having MSc doesn't guarantee you will land a better job later. Good luck
PoliticsRe: Expect Improved Power Supply In 2017 – Fashola by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 9:11am On Jan 22, 2017
Promises since 1986 chio
Foreign AffairsRe: 2.5million: Crowd Marching Against Trump In The U.S. (photos). by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 9:07am On Jan 22, 2017
Wait o but this man was elected ni abi, there protest is meaningless.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gambians Leaving Their Country Over Imminent War As Jammeh Refuses To Step Down by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 11:29am On Jan 16, 2017
Wish he doesn't end up like Gbagbo of ivory- coast
PoliticsRe: Camp Zero, Converge Point Of Boko Haram Which Soldiers Destroyed On 24th (Pics) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 9:09am On Dec 26, 2016
Kudos
BusinessRe: A Medium Sized Supermarket Or A Standard Men's Salon? My Budget Is 1M by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 11:04am On Aug 10, 2016
seek advice from those who are already in the business also consider the location.
Foreign AffairsRe: David Cameron Personally Carrying His Property Out Of 10 Downing Street by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 8:30pm On Jul 13, 2016
All I see is just a clown attitude, the game is still politics.
Nairaland GeneralFirst Bank And Their New Admin Fee by EBRAHIMJAY(op): 8:11am On Apr 09, 2016
First bank users, I don't think if you have noticed their new charge trend which is either admin fee or monthly fee.
Last month I received an alert of #100 and VAT of #5 as monthly fee, now for this month it is admin fee at the same debit. It unbearable and I hope it is resolved ASAP
..... Only God knows when face to face corruption will stop in this country.
FTP please
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Seducing Men, Help by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 7:44am On Apr 09, 2016
This is a big deal... well you've got to refine her, maybe it's one of the things you don't know about her.
IslamRe: The Patience Of Ummu Sulaym (rodiyallaahu Anhaa) by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 12:34pm On Apr 08, 2016
jazakumullahu kaheiran
RomanceRe: When Does A joystick Really Stop Growing by EBRAHIMJAY(m): 8:50am On Mar 21, 2016
deltaboiy01:
l was just wondering is it possible for a penis to grow after puberty.I mean im 19 now ,and going to be 20 in a few months, i have seen this mentioned somehwere before, but not sure is it possible for me to add at least a little but more length or girth maybe. or maybe you guys heard of cases when guys joysticks were still growing in their early 20'? maybe there is some thing i can take, or some kind of excersises that i can do to maybe help this process, not like penis enlargement pills cuz i know those really dont work. let me just say im about 3" hard right now, and let me tell you its killing me. sometimes when i think about this, i think maybe i should kill myself and end this now, im not really suicidal or mentally ill, im perfectly sane i just feel like i dont really have anything to live for, i mean no matter how successfull i might be in life or how much i will achieve, i will always have a small penis, and will never be able to really satisfy a girl, crap is just fu..ck up and i dont know what to do. if there is really nothing i can do about my penis maybe i will just shoot myself, am in my final year now and i dont know if all these years of study really worth it. right now im hoping to find something that will help me with my size. anyway i think i wrote too much, really looking forward to see what you people think.
Dude it is not about the size of the earthworm, but it's about how it wriggle itself.
Nairaland GeneralSaying 'NO' by EBRAHIMJAY(op): 7:55pm On Mar 10, 2016
You need to learn when to say no -- and how to say it -- to ensure you don’t burn any bridges in your career. Here are 10 entrepreneurs sharing how they say no and keep themselves sane:
1. Explain Why
I find people are always impressed with honesty. Time is finite, especially as an entrepreneur. When I have to say no, I do my best to explain what my focus is and why I can't say yes. I usually find people respect the honesty and wish me the best.
- Adam Lieb, Duxter
2. Exude Grace and Gratitude
People get it. You're busy, it's not a good fit and the timing isn't right. But what makes a big difference is how you treat people. If you can be gracious and show your gratitude for the opportunities or potential client/hire's time, people will respect your "no" so much more.
- Nathalie Lussier, Nathalie Lussier Media Inc.
3. Never Apologize
"No" should never be accompanied by "I'm so sorry, but I can't because..." When it's necessary to say "no" to a request (whether it's from a client, an employee, etc.), simply explain your reasoning and leave things open for a potential "yes" down the line. Never use apology language -- it assigns blame.
- Brittany Hodak, ZinePak
4. Do It Constructively
Having heard my fair share of "no" before, I believe that even though it can sometimes sting, eventually the most beneficial ones are given in an honest and constructive manner. Let me know how I went wrong and how I can improve. Only by learning can you hope to get a "yes" the next time.
- Nicolas Gremion, Free-eBooks.net
5. Be Direct and Concise
A no-response should be short, direct and to the point. It is not meant to open up a dialogue. Let the person know you are declining the opportunity, and wish him or her good luck with the project. The more details you provide in your response, the more ammunition the individual will have to forge a rebuttal argument as to why you should say yes. - Anthony Saladino, Kitchen Cabinet Kings
6. Say No Quickly
Requests from clients, pitches or potential hires that are not right for you will thwart your ambition.
Say no quickly and politely and move on.
- Kuty Shalev, Clevertech
7. Say It Carefully
Besides being polite in saying no, try to communicate what you mean by "no." Do you mean "not now" or "never"? This will often help those you're saying no to have a better grasp on why you're saying it in the first place. You will both move on quicker that way.
- Sarah Schupp, UniversityParent
8. Tell Them It's Not a Good Fit
Business is built on win-win relationships. Relationships that are built on people who don't have the same expectations, values or intent will result in everyone losing. It's incredibly important that, much like a marriage, there is a good fit between the two parties. If there's not, then you'll do more damage by working with them than by just walking away. It's just not a good fit, and that's OK. - Adam Callinan, BottleKeeper
9. Accompany It With a 'But'
As my business grows so do the number of requests hitting my inbox every day. One of my 2014 promises to myself is to say no more often. When I do have to say it, there's usually a "but." "No, but I know another company I can refer you to that might want to take this on." "No, but I'm happy to recommend another speaker." "No, I can't meet for coffee, but I have a blog post on that topic." - Natalie MacNeil, She Takes on the World
10. Make It So You Don't Have to Say 'No'
Saying no requires you to pay attention in the first place, and this requires time and resources that could be better spent saying yes. This is why we have a very specific understanding of not just who our ideal customers/employees are, but more importantly, who they aren't. By knowing what we don't want, we can better filter out those people before we even have to say "no." - Liam Martin, Staff.com

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