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FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why is this taking so long tho..
Just do something about this boy's issue tho cos he's a menace to the society..

He should be in prison by now tho..he committed a crime and he must pay for it..

thunder scatter that ur mouth

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram



DIS kind love matterz SELF...



LOVE don CAST TEY TEY...




I was in a Time machine LAST week...



I decided to take my self BACK to d 90s...



I could SEE everyone but de can't SEE me...



I Saw real LOVE and happiness..


Even without phone or Internet, TINs wer easy and SWEET...



LOVE was real... Every was CALM and nice..



people telling good stories... older men telling KIDS stories dat teaches something good...



women dressed in a decent way...



Am still trying on fixing d Time machine SO I can be able to communicate with DEM...



WTF MAN

bro, that loud no good for u try AZ

WoundedLamb:
This can be very painful, but to be honest, there are few things in your story that make me believe you wanted to eat your cake and still have it. I made a few assumptions in this feedback, please forgive and point out any wrong one.

First, you stopped communicating with her. I'm not sure I'd advise any woman to wait for a man abroad who doesn't frequently communicate with her. Nothing is more reassuring that those calls. That things were tough for you isn't an excuse. You don't forget your partner cause things aren't working out. In fact, that's when you need them the most. It's as if you went to Ghana with the mindset of "if I meet her when I come back, cool; but I'm not going to let her slow down my life in Ghana". Or would you have remembered her if you'd met a fine Nigerian lady in Ghana that had more of what you desire as a man?

Secondly, there was no serious commitment from your side before you left. You clearly weren't committed and I think you delibrately didn't want to so that nobody would drag you if you eventually decide to move on. She knew she was just an option and not the final answer cause the lack of certainty on your side was loud enough. She had nothing to hold on to. You made sure you she left your house and you weren't communicating. You put a structure in place that'd make it easy for you to move on if you need to, but you expected her to stay locked up in place for you till you make up your mind. You jokingly told her you'd marry her and you wanted her to make life decisions based on jokes? I hope you never got involved with other ladies yourself.

My bro, I could be totally wrong, but I think you kept her as a plan B; something to fall back to in case nothing better comes. And she did exactly the same. If she had met a better man in your absence, chances are, you'd have come back to see a ring on her finger. She didn't meet anyone better and that's why she's falling back to you now. I'm infuriated by dishonesty myself but then, we are not in a position to decide for you. It doesn't even make much sense asking us this cause you alone know the level of connection you had with her. It's easy for us to say, "ditch her and find another woman", but at the end, you alone will live with the aftermath of your decisions. So do what makes you happy. If you don't believe her, you might want to consider letting her go. Marriage is nothing without trust. And if she confesses that she had some NSA's in your absence, you alone can decide if you can live with that or not. Your peace of mind is more important than our judgment.

who be this guy? I was just going through comments so when I'm done I'd equally have my own opinion to give.. and guess what? I just saw my own opinion in this comment, bro you're wise, and I like intelligent people

Ocholu:
Thanks boss. You've said it all. Although I wasn't expecting many to agree with me.

I can relate cuz I have a gf, and I know how hard it is to resist some certain temptation. I just avoid scenerios that'll lead to cheating like having a girl come over my place, going to a girls place, flirting with a girl that I Know likes me etc. I just avoid them cuz I know what will happen if I play along

Ocholu:
We were both attracted to each other. It's more like lust or something. There's no how séx will not happen if I had collected her number.

op, don't mind all those mofos talking trash, I can really relate and although u kissed her because u were vulnerable at that point, u Bleep*d up, but u did the right thing by not collecting her number because definitely you'll be collecting temptation that you'll not want to let go. So it takes courage to resist it and u should be proud of yourself. All these mofos that can't keep their juniors in one place Even when they have gfs will be here spilling shit. *Hope they didn't soil your white*

Make una leave the girl alone na, must u know the research, is it ur research? Aunty, abeg no forget to use that condom for that research

Minjim:
Did you hear Ed's line?

If Peru was good b4, Ed's made it better Internationally.
The International acceptance came with the remix

Ed Sheeran literally murdered that song...the vocals he brought to the party with thr accent just made it looked perfect for him. Top draw singing from Sheeran if u ask me.

It's just too sad that we have to settle for all these girls in the name of marriage. Naturally, guys are emotional, even more emotional than ladies but women and their society has taught us to hide our emotions and summon our playboy character just so we'll be on their page. Women wants good bad boys, so we've adjusted to fit their fantasies and they jump around with other guys because other guys too have this trait.

Anigreat:



We know the currency she's using to do all these, and the currency seems to be the most powerful currency now in the world. clitoris currency

laff don kill me

Myzubby:
bury your ego swallow the pride and tell your parents . You will never know how they might treat you. Yes they will not be happy with you but you are still their child it is a priviledge. I pray your wife delivers safely. MAY GOD ALMIGHTY HELP YOU . AMEN

bros, you don already marry two of them... father pope

Twaci:
Okay I’ve got N200 airtime for 10 persons. Quote with your number

08073343534 thanks

Portableteewhy:
lol bros you no get sense I swear lotfl

aynerodcirus:
Too low, right?..., I just wan dispose am. I’m tired of the phone, as I no dey use am work again.

yes e too low... phone where people de dash people..6s

aynerodcirus:
Serious, reasonable and sensible buyers only should email me please.

u get mind o..43k have bros.. iphone 6s

Beebah2000:
Hahahaha

you laughing? You that's a guy with hairy balls

njelrapheal:
mehn. Why did she not tell him what the uncle said earlier. Some ladies sef.

honestly! They really could have sorted things out from there... everyone hates regrets though but no one can actually avoid it.

Guyman02:
Yes, we dated for 4 years as students, proposed to her after my NYSC when I secured a job, met her family and they felt we are not on the same level, they even claimed that they went to investigate my family in our village and they were told that mental illness runs in our lineage.
They convinced her to abandon our marriage plans which she did instead of fighting for us, I asked her to refund part of the bulk money I gave to her for the marriage preparation which she later did because I wanted a proper closure to the relationship, felt really humiliated, locked myself inside and cried, washed my face and told myself it was time to move on.

Deleted her contact from my phone, never scooped around her social media handles, put aside all our pictures together under a locker and didn't worry myself about her anymore.

Started another relationship with a lady I was close to as friends who was very passionate about me but I didn't look at her because I was faithful to my ex.

Suddenly from the blues, my ex elder sister called me after some months that she has been erratic, cursing everyone for making her to abandon the love of her life and that the family has agreed to our plans for marriage.

Later she called me asking for forgiveness and that it was an Uncle of mine who told her family that mental illness runs in our family because he felt I was marrying into a prominent family and to a girl who works in a big establishment while his own children are scattered.

I simply told her I have moved on and wasn't gonna look back and had already started marriage plans with the lady I mentioned earlier and I even invited her to the superlative wedding we were planning in an exquisite location then.
I used the opportunity to tell her that I am wiser now as I go for only ladies who stand by their men because I am afraid if I show any signs of madness (as my uncle told her family) instead of taking me to a psychiatrist hospital, she will rather take me to a market square so that the madness will become permanent.

Today we are both married to different people and talk freely on general topics anytime she calls me, but I totally avoid making any reference to our 4 years failed relationship to avoid Okafors Law.

that's really sad and at the same time sweet. I'm really happy you got your shit together and moved on. I don't think she completely did love you cuz she would have fought for you no matter what. That's true love and it's covers e every of our weakness. But I'm glad you got married to someone who fancied you.

paulos8:
And u tink u are compensating her with money and gifts for the bleeping. Y'all are so dull. Infact Nigerian girls are duller cos they ought to feel offended by it. That's synonymous to prostitution already. Sex exchanging money. Well that's the definition of a relationship for an average Nigerian. They have nothing else to offer each other.
The sex is between both of you since no one is giving or receiving. Both of you enjoy it. So it's mutual. As a guy u don't owe your gf anything same applies to the girl whether sex, gifts or money.
But the average Nigerian is too dull to understand this

you don't owe her anything, yes...and you not giving her money immediately after sex, that's bad na, you sef how u feel say she go feel... what I'm saying is that u can help her with little tokens as long as she's not carrying entitlement mentality. Well, for me if I'll always give when I have, so that when I don't and I'm Hot, you'll come

uthlaw:
Sabi u self de Bleep...nothing bad in giving back..

true o, if she's giving u lash, at least spend on her small..not too much but at least fund her once in a while

Interested

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!


What is all these rubbish again? Abeg comot me from your news o. If you want to post her happy birthday just post her and go don't create unnecessary trouble for someone mscheew

dah, this man eh...them suppose make you president of clout chasing..you good!!

ogaontop:
It's also a scamming strategy atimes, they will tell you rubbish numbers and ask you to find them money!-- finally na loss loss

my broda, everybody don de wise reach mad man join

Joysticks:
E say I go give am 5h first.How mad man take know lotto?

lol...how mad mad take sabi watin be money? That one na scam

Joysticks:
Na so one mad man stop me for road say him get sure lottto number wey him go give me to take play baba ijebu.I resemble danfo driver or conductor for your eyes?I just ignore am dey go my own.

hmmmm, make I no lie..I for stand listen to the numbers first I, those people de see things pass this world

Magnoliaa:
I don'tttttt just get. Them no dey tire. I think the kala and abobi boogey nonsense guy has been banned, now this one.

Every single day, coming up with nonsense different slangs, contributing zilch to threads.

If you wanna be signing off posts or using catchphrases, be putting something sensible (opinions) along with it.

swears. They just go about acting like kids on a forum that's already filled with kids. Such irony!!

Orgasmgiver123:
One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot



Damn.. Nasty.. I'm out of here

all these wanna bee nairaland yeyebrities, the boot never spoil from all the kicking?

BigBashiru:
Many men on this forum threaten females with "biological clock" and sometimes this is unfair.... so the purpose of this thread is to describe/ explain men's biological clock too. The last age for a man to get married on time is 40-42... anything later than that, you will be too old when your children are growing up.

Say you get married at 40 and first child comes at 42, when you are 60 is when your first child is 18! Not ideal.... so there you have it....men have biological clock too not just women....

that tin you're smoking have covered your brain OP

WlNNERLY:
chibudollar lured me

una two de ment

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unbitchable:
Ronaldo na very stupid guy na. wetin concern am with this year BallonD'or?.. wetin?... Lewandoski wey come 2nd no dey disrespect Messi, Jorginho sef wey be 3rd never disrespect Messi. Na one stupid old fraud wey no even reach top 4 dey talk anyhow. What did he do in the year under review?.. Pendu is stupid- facto.

if Ronaldo stupid, watin u be? Wereh! U don play 5 aside score 4 goals before? Person where go feed ur generation and ancestors join...go find work efulefu

Loveknitting:
surprised that some men doesn't know that squirting is pee

not sure it's pee